what happens when a cis gay guy and nonbinary female-presenting sexologist sit down to reimagine Freud through the lens of queer embodiment, kink, and radical art? gotta view the video on Spotify or you miss all the visual art and gorgeous faces and fashion...we talk a lot about bodies and own our own visual beauty so show up for that!
in this episode of Daddy Dialogues, i welcome Georgie Blewett—artist, researcher, and clinician—for a conversation that cuts through shame and theory to arrive at something wilder, warmer, and deeply alive. this episode opens with a live rendition of “Personal Jesus” and moves through art, trauma, and erotic intelligence with intimacy and audacity.
i talk about the evolution of my intimate relationship with my boyfriend and Georgie shares how her time in a 24/7 daddy/little dynamic offered not only pleasure but transformation. through scenes crafted around trust, co-regulation, and attunement, she was able to reclaim the narrative of earlier sexual trauma—giving her body a chance to complete its emotional arc and, in her words, “feel celebrated.” the conversation opens into a larger meditation on erotic caregiving, the power of ABDL dynamics, and why adult desire is often where our healing begins.
our dialogue doesn’t stop at personal healing—it zooms out to include cultural and artistic politics. Georgie describes painting her own nude body at life scale, reclaiming her gaze as an artist rather than a subject of voyeurism. i draw parallels between her work and historic paintings like Madame X and Dr. Pozzi at Home, noting how the erotic has always been censored, edited, and repackaged—especially when women or queer people dare to own it. together, we ask: why is the strap on Madame X’s shoulder still being painted back on?
from there, we push further—into religious symbolism, bodily shame, and what it means to truly be witnessed. we examine the eroticism of Jesus on the cross, the scandal of Mary giving birth, and how every institutional frame, from museums to therapy rooms, has struggles to contain the sacred mess of the human body. through it all, we have a ton of fun and call for full disinhibition: to feel deeply, shit freely, relax our assholes, and get honest about what our bodies are really saying.
whether you’ve ever been shamed for your body, your kink, or your joy, this episode is an invitation to show up fully and be seen. it’s a manifesto for radical visibility, erotic spirituality, and the healing potential of play. close your mouth, unclench, and tune in. “the only tide that lifts all boats is love.”
In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, style and visual art, kink, and eroticism, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz is joined by the stunning Tay Atkins, a Compton-based model who’s redefining eroticism through visual storytelling.
"Dr. Daddy" talks diapers and Tay shares his own undergarment fetish, where the visible penis line, or V-P-L, through men's briefs, becomes a form of mystery and mystique—something more alluring than just a naked body. It’s the anticipation, the question mark, and the tension that creates the magic.
We also dive into the iconic imagery of Tom of Finland and the racial dynamics that have shaped gay visual culture. Through analyzing these pieces, we explore the empowerment and complexity within erotic art, especially as it pertains to Black men.
Plus, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz in a case study about a gay man who refuses to wear a diaper at a leather bar, questioning how visual identity and kink intersect in public spaces.
In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and Zack Easton explore Ahava Rabah—the great love—and how it shapes relationships of all kinds, from monogamous to poly, kinky to vanilla. They delve into what makes love last: play, care, and adaptability. Through candid reflections on their own dynamic, they reveal how love is an active process—something we do, not just feel.
The conversation heats up as Zack opens up about his kink of massaging straight men, turning childhood taunts into erotic power. They discuss how kink allows for reclaiming identity, turning past traumas into moments of empowerment and intimacy. Zack also shares his experience with straight men who, despite identifying as heterosexual, find themselves engaging in desires that defy labels—proving that sexuality is more fluid than we’re taught.
Ending on a more serious note, Ethan explores how great love involves deep emotional connection, vulnerability, and mutual support, especially in non-traditional dynamics. Through a case study of a trans couple in therapy, they demonstrate how love can heal, liberate, and facilitate self-discovery, showing that true love is not just a feeling, but a practice rooted in care and respect.
Dr. Ethan Haymovitz is a sexologist and psychotherapist. He is host and producer of Daddy Dialogues, a video podcast about ABDL. Diaper in left pocket is hanky code.
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Dr. Ethan Haymovitz talks with Manuel Betancourt, author of three books on gay erotic identity and cinema (and reviewer of all submissions to Tribeca Film Festival), discusses cartoons and ABDL identity. What do Rugrats and Tom and Jerry tell us ABDLs about our own erotic identities and what we seek in others? How does bullying and fear play a role in informing our own psychological and sexual development? How do cartoons tell us the stories of our souls?
Sexologist Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and sex therapist Tamara Pincus discuss why young people need to understand what ABDL is just like any other human being, and help one another understand the best way to educate younger generations.
On this episode of Daddy Dialogues, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz speaks with special guest Daddy Barclay, an expert on novel trends in voluntary chastity among gay men, and weighs in on the benefits of chastity for ABDL gay dudes.
In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz talks attachment, regression, love, and diapers, of course, with sexologist Tzippi Folinsky, LCSW. Also notable is that his favorite color is black glitter, like Fosse, and his favorite musical is Wicked. Tzippi's favorite color is purple and her favorite song is Arnold Palmer, just in case you want to buy her a purple Arnold Palmer for Christmas.
Daddy Andy joins Dr. Ethan Haymovitz in a conversation about what it means to be an authoritative ABDL daddy with integrity, humor, and courage, as they share misadventures and make magic happen.
Join sexologist Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and his ex-husband who is a BFF and best advocate and ABDL ally, as well as, notably, a die-hard Daddy Dialogues fan from the beginning, in a conversation about the meaning of love among friends, couples, and ABDLs.
What does LGBT pride mean, historically, and what does this mean for ABDL pride?
In this episode, we introduce the ABDL Pride Flag and read the wildly popular children's book, "Harvey Milk and the Rainbow Pride Flag", by Rob Sanders, with cohost Alexa Alvarado and very special guest Galen!
We encourage you to get in touch with any love, comments, or questions with Dr. Ethan Haymovitz. Contact information can be found on his website: drethanhaymovitz.com.
Daryl Bem coined the term "Exotic Becomes Erotic" (EBE) to describe his historic social developmental theory of sexual orientation in 1997, which, controversial at the time, is not without its challenges today.
Still, EBE theory holds promise for explaining the processes by which diapers and ABDL-related ageplay may become eroticized in early infancy, late childhood, and early adolecence.
Together, developmental psychologist Dr. Richard Sprott of TASHRA, social psychologist Dr. Jennifer Bosson of USF, and your host, ABDL sexologist, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz reimagine how EBE may explain what we have come to understand as Adult Baby and Diaper Lover behaviors, identities, and eroticism and romantic relationships in adulthood.
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Real talk: ABDL community premised upon discretion is both understandable and healthy, but anonymity is neither understandable nor healthy. In fact, identity concealment is deeply unhealthy, as we explore today with Ben Kudler, LCSW.
We agree that the time is now to celebrate - IRL - our shared experiences, meet other ABDLs, and have the time of our lives at events like *Diaperactive* and *NYC ABDL*, where community leaders don't paper over the windows to restrict the collective joy that is ABDL.
Acclaimed mainstream pornstar Draven Navarro, whom we all know and love as ABDL "Little Donny", and I discuss "The Best Little Boy in the World" Hypothesis.
Research indicates that gay and bisexual men work tirelessly to overcompensate for a lifetime of internalized shame and stigma at a steep emotional cost, and probably to the detriment of our phsyical health, too.
We may be able to sit on the tenure track at Harvard or Yale, or be ripped muscle men with high-power jobs in the porn industry, or even run for President these days, but in the end of the day, we faggots always have a lot to prove. Our sexuality alone renders us as subversive: a public threat.
Think about this, ABDL gay brothers: we are on double duty. Just ask me and little donny. We both love diapers. And we have a lot to prove.
Dr. Ethan Haymovitz has nothing more to say about this episode...just watch and learn, babies. xoxo.
In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and guest host Alexa Alvarado explore the emergence of ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) identity and community from the ever-changing and historic emergence of paraphilic infantilism.
Dr. Haymovitz discuss the historical context, definitions, and evolving perceptions of infantilism, including the influence of Freudian theories and the impact of the DSM on understanding these behaviors.
Dr. Ethan Haymovitz also shares his personal reflections on identity within the ABDL community and the implications for individuals today. Keywords: ABDL, paraphilic infantilism, sexology, adult baby, history, Freud, DSM, sexuality, mental health, community.