In this episode of Daddy Dialogues, Dr. Ethan Haymovitz and Zack Easton explore Ahava Rabah—the great love—and how it shapes relationships of all kinds, from monogamous to poly, kinky to vanilla. They delve into what makes love last: play, care, and adaptability. Through candid reflections on their own dynamic, they reveal how love is an active process—something we do, not just feel.

The conversation heats up as Zack opens up about his kink of massaging straight men, turning childhood taunts into erotic power. They discuss how kink allows for reclaiming identity, turning past traumas into moments of empowerment and intimacy. Zack also shares his experience with straight men who, despite identifying as heterosexual, find themselves engaging in desires that defy labels—proving that sexuality is more fluid than we’re taught.

Ending on a more serious note, Ethan explores how great love involves deep emotional connection, vulnerability, and mutual support, especially in non-traditional dynamics. Through a case study of a trans couple in therapy, they demonstrate how love can heal, liberate, and facilitate self-discovery, showing that true love is not just a feeling, but a practice rooted in care and respect.