Welcome to the Breaking Through Therapy charity podcast, where we raise money for NHS Charities Together. This pod is sponsored by Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice and Rooms for Therapists.
This is the only podcast that supports you to come on the show with your therapist, at least one year later, to talk about the breakthroughs you made along your journey, and its impact on your life ever since. So this is the mental wellness podcast for people interested in having talking therapy, professionals who deliver talking therapy - and everyone in between!
What better way to celebrate the first birthday of Breaking Through Therapy, than with some of the best breakthrough tools of season one? We showcase 12 incredible therapy techniques - one from each of the 12 episodes over the last year.
Join me in this deeply reflective episode, as I delve into the some of the key techniques and highlights you can use to promote your own self-healing and growth, or bring to your own therapy.
These tools created immense breakthroughs for clients in their lives - and you witness them here.
This series represents a combination of so many different therapy approaches: from CBT to inner child work, from groups to one-to-one and online therapy. Which techniques did you find the most helpful, and which ones will you be recommending to your friends, colleagues and family?
Listen in, and call to memory your favourite episodes for overcoming of trauma, sexual assault, health conditions, anxiety, stress, birth trauma, eating disorders, depression, addictions and more.
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, and follow Dr Esther Cole and Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice® on social media, for more impactful conversations on mental health, resilience and the client-therapist relationship. Help us spread the word by sharing this episode and fundraising through our page for NHS Charities Together!
Resources:
Donate to NHS Charities Together
Lifespan Psychology:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Lifespan Business Owner Support Squad (BOSS) Coaching
Dr Esther Cole - Linkedin Profile
Lifespan Psychology Facebook Page
Omega 6:3 Ratio Testing Publication
Crisis Numbers:
NSPCC - https://www.nspcc.org.uk
Samaritans - 116 123 - https://www.samaritans.org
Childline - 0800 1111 - https://www.childline.org.uk
CALM - 0800 585858 - https://www.thecalmzone.net
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department.
If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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In this unique episode on overcoming racial inequality, suicidal thoughts and borderline personality disorder (BPD), we discover how “Bart”, an Irish Traveller, endured a three-year wait for NHS mental health services, to eventually find a transformative connection with Dr. Claire Tobin, Clinical Psychologist.
With the gaps widening in NHS mental health care, and the lack of tailored and culturally sensitive therapies, we gain a window into the power of mentalization-based group and individual therapy in reshaping lives.
Through Bart's story, we shed a light on the impact of relational work, and the journey toward trust in a mental health system that often falls short.
After 18 months of interventions, Bart's revelations about his cultural identity as an Irish Traveller, survivor of trauma and protector, became a turning point in his therapy. This shows us the crucial role of authenticity in healing.
Find out how his instincts shaped his interactions and how moments of conflict and misunderstanding with his therapists became crucial steps in evolving past his diagnosis of BPD.
We discuss the importance of mentalization work and embracing relational uncertainties, to enhance the quality of human connections. Bart's resilience, determination, his emotional and academic intelligence shine through, offering hope, insight and mentorship for others going through life's toughest mental battles.
Resources:
NHS Charities Together: Link to donate
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice® - https://www.lifespanpsychology.co.uk/
Lifespan BOSS Coaching - https://bosstoday.co.uk
Dr Esther Cole - Linkedin Profile
Lifespan Psychology Instagram
Contact Dr Claire Tobin at The Lighthouse Clinic
Research into Social Inequalities in the Irish Traveller Community:
Suicide rates amongst the Irish Traveller community is 6-7 times higher than in settled Irish people
Crisis Numbers:
NSPCC - https://www.nspcc.org.uk/
Samaritans - 116 123 - https://www.samaritans.org/
Childline - 0800 1111 - https://www.childline.org.uk/
CALM - 0800 585858 - https://www.thecalmzone.net/
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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Best wishes,
Dr. Esther Cole
Founder | Clinical Director | Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice ®
“Private therapy for all walks of life: all ages, all stages, all backgrounds”.
Landline: 0800 285 1565
Mobile: 07500 565 182
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https://www.lifespan-psychology.com/
Listen to self-help tips from people with their therapists on the Breaking Through Therapy podcast and raise money for NHS Charities Together
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Instagram: @lifespan_psychology
Amazon Book: Psychological Therapy for Paediatric Acquired Brain Injury
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Psychological-Therapy-Paediatric-Acquired-Injury/dp/0367276208/
Blog featuring podcasts and articles on parenting, child mental health and burnout:
https://www.lifespanpsychology.co.uk/blog
Please be aware that we do not provide a crisis service. If you are in need of urgent assistance, please contact your GP, or out of hours number on 111, the Samaritans on 116 123, or attend the nearest Accident and Emergency Department.
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In this unique episode of Breaking Through Therapy, we explore the rarely seen courage of a retired man’s experience of overcoming an eating disorder.
“Eric” joins us on the show as we welcome back Joanna Oates, his former Nutritional Psychotherapist. Living well with a diagnosis of bipolar depression, Eric shares his inspiring journey through perfectionism, self-sabotage and alcoholism; as well as incredible weight loss and 14 years of sobriety.
Together, they uncover how their collaboration not only addressed Eric’s immediate concerns about addictive eating patterns, but also guided him through a sustainable weight loss journey several years after gastric band surgery.
An effective technique was “stepping stones” by Robert Diltz. Eric learned to visualize his goals amidst life's pressures, particularly during the challenges of directing a show. This compassionate approach, enriched by faith and community support, offered Eric a framework to enhance his mental resilience and manage stress and emotional eating more effectively.
Balanced nutrition and its role in emotional well-being take center stage, as Eric shares how refining his eating patterns under Joanna's guidance improved his mood and energy. The power of food diaries, and experimenting with food choices, were important in fostering long-term positive changes and prolonging Eric's life and quality of life.
This conversation highlights the significance of open dialogues in therapy, the empowering dynamics of therapeutic relationships, and the invaluable support of finding a therapist who embraces both similarities and differences. This is a relationship developed over several years and life-chapters, which would be irreplaceable with artificial intelligence.
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health, resilience and the client-therapist relationship. Help us spread the word by sharing this episode and fundraising through our page for NHS Charities Together!
Resources:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Joanna Oates:
Email: hello@joannaoates.com
Website: https://joannaoates.com
Crisis Numbers:
Samaritans - 116 123
Childline - 0800 1111
CALM - 0800 585858
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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In this unique and compelling episode of Breaking Through Therapy, Autism and ADHD coach “Alfi”, and insightful Clinical Psychologist, Dr. Katie Adolphus, join us to unravel the complexities of autism diagnosis.
As we trace the evolution of our understanding of neurodiversity, with particular reference to women, Alfi shares her personal narrative of navigating societal norms. She describes the often misunderstood world of social communication and interactions with other people, both in her personal life and in the workplace.
Her story sheds a poignant light on the challenges and triumphs faced by autistic people. It underlies the power of telling compassionate stories about ourselves and our histories.
Their exploration with Dr Cole continues with a deep dive into the autism assessment process in later life, and the concept of masking. Dr. Katie provides a thorough breakdown of the assessment steps she undertook with Alfi, revealing the nuanced experiences of autistic individuals, who often feel compelled to conceal their true selves.
Alfi enriches this discussion by distinguishing the everyday social adjustments most of us make, from the profound act of masking, which is a painful and exhausting suppression of self and identity. She also challenges the traditional medicalised language used to describe the mental health impacts on autistic individuals.
In their later discussions with Dr Cole, the transformative impact of an autism diagnosis takes centre stage. From previous suicidal thoughts, Alfi's relief and newfound understanding post-diagnosis, articulate the emotional and physical toll of living in a neurotypical world.
We uncover the concept of autistic burnout, using relatable analogies to paint a vivid picture of the continuous effort required to navigate life. By discussing misinterpretation of others’ and rejection sensitivity, they highlight the importance of mutual adaptations between neurodivergent and neurotypical individuals. This episode calls for collective voices towards a more inclusive environment, where finding self-acceptance may be as important as finding one's tribe.
This episode is a must listen for parents of children who may be autistic, autistic people interested in the pros and cons of self-diagnosis versus a formal diagnosis; as well as health professionals and educators with an interest in neurodiversity.
This podcast supports NHS Charities Together, funding projects to improve healthcare for all. Donate the cost of a therapy session, or whatever you can, to help us reach our goal of £10,000 this year.
Resources:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Contact Dr Katie Adolphus at the Adolphus Practice
Study by University of Exeter on 787% increase in autism diagnosis
Dr Rosie Gilderthorp’s article: Are we over diagnosing autism?”
Chris Packham series: Inside Our Minds
Crisis Numbers:
Samaritans - 116 123
Childline - 0800 1111
CALM - 0800 585858
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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In this heartfelt episode on improving toddler, and parental mental health, in the face of developmental delays, we are joined once again by “Kaly”. Kaly’s birth experience with pre eclampsia had left her and her baby grappling with profound physical and psychological traumas. Kaly knew they as parents, and their infant Georgia, needed support with the milestones of crawling, walking, talking, and social communication.
Joined by her passionate Psychodynamic Psychotherapist, Helen Viana, we explore Kaly’s journey through early child-parent interventions, and the importance of nurturing a supportive family environment and professional network.
Throughout their conversation, the story of a child facing delayed development unfolds, illustrating the resilience and adaptability of families during challenging times, and in raising a neurodiverse child in the COVID-19 pandemic with limited professional resources.
Online therapy sessions were a lifeline, as parents and therapist worked together to enhance the child's motor skills, speech and social interactions. Discover how this approach empowered the family to navigate daily challenges and foster a more supportive and understanding environment for Georgia.
From breakthroughs in pre-potty training communication, to the empowerment that comes from open dialogue, we uncover strategies that parents can use to connect with their children, and in meaningful ways with school settings.
In a world where there are long waiting times for help which still carries stigma, the stories shared in this episode highlight the power of community, professional support, and breaking free from shame.
We delve into the experiences of parents who have turned their unique challenges into sources of strength and empowerment, advocating for their child who learns to advocate for herself. Join us in this reflective exploration of resilience, post-traumatic growth and a celebration of neurodiversity.
This podcast supports NHS Charities Together, funding projects to improve healthcare for all. Donate the cost of a therapy session, or whatever you can, to help us reach our goal of £10,000 this year.
Resources:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Helen Viana email
Winnicott - Winnicott, D. W. (1960). The Theory of the Parent-Infant Relationship. International Journal of Psycho-Analysis, 41, 585-595.
Anna Freud - Freud, A. (1946). The psycho-analytic treatment of children. London: Imago Publishing.
Schum, T. R., Kolb, T. M., McAuliffe, T. L., Simms, M. D., Underhill, R. L., & Lewis, M. (2002).
Narrative Therapy ideas i.e. “Sneaky Poo”.
Crisis Numbers:
Samaritans - 116 123
Childline - 0800 1111
CALM - 0800 585858
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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Join us as we explore the complex journey of Long COVID recovery in this fascinating episode using Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT). Dr Cole brings a fellow member of the Long COVID fatigue management group she attended on the show - “Mabel”. Together with Dr. Georgia Parratt, a Specialist Clinical Psychologist who facilitated the group, they discuss the emotional and physical hurdles Mabel faced, and how the group provided crucial coping strategies and support.
Mabel, who experienced the virus during the pandemic's first wave, shares her story of resilience and adaptation. They explore how she navigated the challenges of Long COVID, and repeated bouts of COVID, all while facing a lack of awareness and support until 2023.
By letting go of a tug of war with the Long COVID fatigue monster, we learn to prioritise time for self-care and recovery. These practices can lead to greater long-term productivity and well-being.
Dr. Georgia Parratt guides us through effective strategies for managing symptoms such as brain fog and fatigue using ACT. Mabel shares her personal experience of balancing identity with health struggles, and the importance of planning, pacing, and prioritising daily activities.
Through personal stories, the trio uncover the common struggles of feeling misunderstood and unsupported, and the power of community in offering validation and reducing isolation. This is a must listen for anyone experiencing respiratory illnesses and those caring for, or offering treatment to, others living with chronic conditions.
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health and resilience.
This podcast supports NHS Charities Together, funding projects to improve healthcare for all. Donate the cost of a therapy session, or whatever you can, to help us reach our goal of £10,000 this year.
Resources:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Lifespan BOSS Coaching - https://bosstoday.co.uk
Dr Georgia Parratt: Private psychological therapy - Drgeorgiaparratt@gmail.com
Long COVID Resources:
Your local Long COVID clinic can offer services such as counselling and psychotherapy, physiotherapy for lung rehabilitation, mindfulness groups and fatigue groups. Contact you GP for further information.
Crisis Numbers:
Samaritans - 116 123
Childline - 0800 1111
CALM - 0800 585858
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please findout the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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In this fascinating episode, we explore the profound relationship between nutritional therapy, mental and physical well-being. Health Entrepreneur, Dave Ives, joins us to discuss the root causes and solutions for chronic inflammation. “Rachel”, a resilient heart attack survivor, shares her transformative journey of healing; one that challenged conventional medicine and highlighted the power of personalised nutrition for all of us.
Despite being active, fit, and health-conscious, in 2017 Rachel underwent emergency heart surgery and was fitted with three stents. It was a wake-up call that led her to deeply investigate what had gone wrong beneath the surface, when she’d invested over £20k on supplements in her lifetime.
Together, we delve into everything from the underestimated dangers of inflammation in the body, to the nuanced balance between omega-6 and -3 (hint: they’re like the accelerator and brake of your body’s inflammatory responses!).
Learn why your diet, genetics and absorption rates matter more than you might think, and how omega 6:3 ratio testing can guide your wellness choices and personalised nutrition.
Whether you're curious about preventative medicine, seeking alternatives to pharmaceutical treatments, or exploring how nutrition intersects with mental health, this episode is packed with tools for resilience, renewal, and real change. Ending with an exploration of childhood nutrition and the increased diagnosis of emotional and neurodevelopment disorders in childhood, this episode is a masterclass in preventative healthcare.
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health and resilience.
This podcast supports NHS Charities Together, funding projects to improve healthcare for all. Donate the cost of a therapy session, or whatever you can, to help us reach our goal of £10,000 this year.
Resources:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Recommended omega 6:3 test kit and supplements in our Zinzino shop
Dr Tracy Marks on inflammation from omega 6 rich foods
Medical health benefits of Omega 3
Lifespan BOSS Coaching - https://bosstoday.co.uk
Lifespan Psychology Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifespan_psychology/?hl=en
Contact Dave Ives, Healthpreneur - LinkedIn
Crisis Numbers:
Samaritans - 116 123
Childline - 0800 1111
CALM - 0800 585858
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please findout the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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Join us for a heartfelt exploration of a profound and challenging journey through birth trauma and post-natal depression. In this powerful episode of Breaking Through Therapy, Dr. Esther Cole is joined by Integrative Psychotherapist, Cris Prade, and special guest “Kaly". Kaly courageously shares how she navigates birth trauma, post-natal depression, and deep healing through connecting with a lost inner child in 2018.
Kaly explores the pain of surviving life-threatening pre-eclampsia, the emotional and physical toll it took on her, and the breakthroughs she made with Cris’s therapeutic guidance.
In a truly inspiring way, Kaly’s story of overcoming birth trauma and pre-eclampsia is testament to resilience and hope, as she resources herself for the complexities of two successful births, despite the fear and uncertainty that surrounded them. The second successful birth in 2024, Kaly believes would not have been possible without Cris’ guidance, in the post-natal period, several years before.
Through raw honesty and professional insights, this episode sheds light on the mental health challenges new mothers can face, the trauma and stigma surrounding post-natal depression, and the importance of compassionate therapy and self-reflection in finding a way forward beyond suicidal thoughts.
The conversation highlights the critical role of a robust support system, involving family and healthcare providers, in helping new mothers through such overwhelming experiences. By sharing these stories, we aim to inspire and empower other parents who might be facing similar challenges.
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health and resilience.
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, share this episode and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health and resilience. This podcast supports NHS Charities Together, funding projects to improve healthcare for all. Donate the cost of a therapy session or whatever you can -
Lifespan Psychology's fundraiser for NHS Charities Together
Resources:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice® - https://www.lifespanpsychology.co.uk
BOSS Coaching - https://bosstoday.co.uk
Dr Esther Cole - Linkedin Profile - http://linkedin.com/in/dr-esther-cole-multi-award-winning-consultant-psychologist-3b8b0061
Lifespan Psychology Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifespan_psychology/?hl=en
Lifespan Psychology LinkedIn - https://uk.linkedin.com/company/lifespan-psychology-the-diverse-practice%C2%AE?trk=similar-pages
Lifespan Psychology Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/people/Lifespan-Psychology/100089486434005
Cris Prade Contact Details:
https://www.instagram.com/vitalkompass
Post-Natal Depression Resources:
https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/post-natal-depression/treatment/
Crisis Numbers:
NSPCC - https://www.nspcc.org.uk
Samaritans - 116 123 - https://www.samaritans.org
Childline - 0800 1111 - https://www.childline.org.uk
CALM - 0800 585858 - https://www.thecalmzone.net
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP, or GP Out of Hours number on 111, the Samaritans on 116 123. You can call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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How do you stay sober for years after tsunami and war-related PTSD? In this powerful episode of Breaking Through Therapy, host Dr. Esther Cole sits down with Beth Ashley-Smith, a psychotherapist specialising in trauma, addiction, and ADHD; and her former client, “Rob”, a journalist and war correspondent who battled PTSD, alcohol addiction, anger and suicidal intent.
Rob shares his deeply personal journey from witnessing mass casualties as a journalist in Thailand in the tsunami of 2004, to losing himself in addiction and anger; and ultimately finding hope through therapy, 12-step fellowship groups, and spirituality.
Beth and Dr. Cole explore the complexities of PTSD, the stigma surrounding male mental health, and the challenges of embracing faith in recovery, whilst being a parent of small children. Rob reflects on his resistance to therapy, his biggest breakthroughs, and how his perspective on spirituality shifted over time.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with addiction, faith or anger following traumatic events, as well as for mental health professionals looking to better understand the lived experiences of their clients.
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, share this episode and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health and resilience. This podcast supports NHS Charities Together, funding projects to improve healthcare for all. Donate the cost of a therapy session or whatever you can to help us reach our goal of £10,000 this year. Visit the link in the show notes to contribute!
Lifespan Psychology's fundraiser for NHS Charities Together
Resources:
Bessel van der Kolk (2014) - The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma.
Contact Beth Ashley-Smith:
https://www.bethanyashleysmith.co.uk
Beth Ashley-Smith Instagram
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Dr. Esther Cole - Linkedin
Lifespan Psychology Instagram
Lifespan Psychology LinkedIn
Lifespan Psychology Facebook
Crisis Numbers:
Samaritans - 116 123
Childline - 0800 1111
CALM - 0800 585858
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department.
If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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In this truly inspiring episode, Dr. Esther Cole interviews Anna and Dr. Claire Plumbly, Clinical Psychologist. Dr Claire, specialist in trauma, sexual assault and burnout, helps Anna process experiences of childhood sexual abuse (CSA), following the birth of her fourth child, and a stressful return to work. Dissociation, flashbacks and anxiety from trauma initially left Anna mute, unable to find words or to understand the triggers.
Journey on a conversation built on the neuroscience of trauma, how our brains and minds work; and creative approaches Dr Claire and Anna use together to help her recover from trauma. Techniques include EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing), narrative writing, sensory therapies, and a spectacular spin on the TV series “Dr Who”.
Anna shares how her own therapy helped her to empower other survivors, of all ages, to thrive in her creative workshops. As her first therapist in 2017, Dr. Claire started Anna on a path of self-discovery, meaning making and one of embracing undiagnosed autism. Are we ever “cured”, or are we in a TARDIS of life-long learning?
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the Breaking Through Therapy podcast, leave a review, and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health, therapy breakthroughs and resilience. Help us spread the word by sharing this episode and supporting NHS Charities Together!
Lifespan Psychology's fundraiser for NHS Charities Together
Sex Abuse Resources:
NSPCC - Legal guidance for everyone, for how to report child sexual abuse
National Rape Crisis Conference
Therapy book for survivors: “Flying Child” by Sophie Olson & Patricia Walsh.
Dr Claire Plumbly: A Comprehensive Guide to Coping After a Sexual Assault
NHS Rape and Sexual Assault Services
Rape Crisis: charity for a range of sexual assault, as well as historic CSA and child sexual exploitation.
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/reporting-abuse/what-to-do-child-reveals-abuse/
Training:
Justin Havens Therapy Training: Flash Technique
Lifespan Psychology:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Dr Esther Cole - Linkedin
Lifespan Psychology Instagram
Lifespan Psychology LinkedIn
Lifespan Psychology Facebook
Dr Claire Plumbly -
Crisis Numbers:
Samaritans - 116 123
Childline - 0800 1111
CALM - 0800 585858
For urgent assistance for your mental health, contact your GP or Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are overseas, please contact your local charities and mental health services in your country.
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In this compelling episode of Breaking Through Therapy, Dr. Esther Cole interviews James and his therapist, Beth Ashley-Smith, to discuss the profound impact of men’s inpatient groups in recovering from addictions, and healing from childhood sexual assault.
James shares his brave journey of confronting this traumatic event from his childhood, which shaped his relationships, and fuelled his struggles with depression and substance misuse. With the support of therapy and a dedicated men’s group, he found the courage to face his past, embrace vulnerability, and rediscover joy and authenticity, in a supportive Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) community.
Beth Ashley-Smith offers valuable insights into therapeutic approaches which include Spirituality; and models like Internal Family Systems (IFS), which guide clients in understanding and balancing their inner emotional dynamics and competing needs.
James shares how he learned to relinquish the need for control, a coping mechanism born from trauma; and how he found a path to healing, personal growth, and self-discovery, including embracing his neurodiversity.
Episode Themes -
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the Breaking Through Therapy podcast, leave a review, and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health, therapy breakthroughs and resilience. Help us spread the word by sharing this episode and supporting NHS Charities Together!
Resources -
NSPCC - Legal guidance for everyone, for how to report child sexual abuse https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/reporting-abuse/what-to-do-child-reveals-abuse/
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice® - https:/www.lifespanpsychology.co.uk/referral
Lifespan BOSS Coaching - https://bosstoday.co.uk
Dr Esther Cole - Linkedin Profile - http://linkedin.com/in/dr-esther-cole-multi-award-winning-consultant-psychologist-3b8b0061
Lifespan Psychology Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifespan_psychology/?hl=en
Lifespan Psychology LinkedIn - https://uk.linkedin.com/company/lifespan-psychology-the-diverse-practice%C2%AE?trk=similar-pages
Lifespan Psychology Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/people/Lifespan-Psychology/100089486434005/
Crisis Numbers:
NSPCC - https://www.nspcc.org.uk/
Samaritans - 116 123 - https://www.samaritans.org/
Childline - 0800 1111 - https://www.childline.org.uk/
CALM - 0800 585858 - https://www.thecalmzone.net/
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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In this transformative episode of Breaking Through Therapy, we explore Claire’s journey of resilience and post-traumatic growth following life-threatening bariatric surgery. UKCP Registered Psychotherapist and nutrition and lifestyle therapist, Joanna Oates, was able to help Claire understand that binge eating was connected to a number of very traumatic events since childhood, including sexual assault.
Claire shares her powerful story, navigating the emotional landscape, delving into past traumas and finding healthier coping mechanisms. Joanna Oates helps Claire confront her relationship with food, and emotional triggers, highlighting the profound insights and breakthroughs she achieved during therapy.
Through innovative therapeutic exercises, including a “food and mood diary” and a cathartic lifeline exercise, which charts weights and dates, Claire discovers the roots of her emotional eating and reclaims control over her life.
From a profound journey of self-discovery during the COVID-19 lockdown, to pursuing a newfound culinary passion, Claire's story captures the resilience and brilliance of the human spirit, and power of the client-therapist relationship.
This episode is an inspiring exploration of the intersection of trauma, eating disorders, mental well-being, and the joy of cooking. Tune in as we uncover the healing power of self-compassion, personal boundaries, and culinary empowerment, particularly for those with neurodiverse feeding requirements.
Memorable Quotes
"Therapy isn't just about healing; it's about discovering the strength to reshape your life." Joanna Oates
"Our relationship with food can be our greatest teacher when we learn to listen with compassion." Claire
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Breaking Through Therapy, leave a review, and follow us on social media for more impactful conversations on mental health, resilience and the client-therapist relationship.
Please give generously to NHS Charities Together via our Just Giving page: Lifespan Psychology's fundraiser for NHS Charities Together
Resources:
British Association for Nutrition and Lifestyle Medicine - https://bant.org.uk
Minnesota Starvation Study (1944) by Ancel Keys demonstrates how starvation and food restriction in prison settings can lead to a lasting preoccupation with food.
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice® - https://www.lifespanpsychology.co.uk
Lifespan Business Owner Support Squad (BOSS) Coaching - https://bosstoday.co.uk
Dr Esther Cole - Linkedin Profile - http://linkedin.com/in/dr-esther-cole-multi-award-winning-consultant-psychologist-3b8b0061
Lifespan Psychology Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifespan_psychology/?hl=en
Lifespan Psychology LinkedIn - https://uk.linkedin.com/company/lifespan-psychology-the-diverse-practice%C2%AE?trk=similar-pages
Lifespan Psychology Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/people/Lifespan-Psychology/100089486434005/
Crisis Numbers:
NSPCC - https://www.nspcc.org.uk/
Samaritans - 116 123 - https://www.samaritans.org/
Childline - 0800 1111 - https://www.childline.org.uk/
CALM - 0800 585858 - https://www.thecalmzone.net/
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department.
If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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In this episode of Breaking Through Therapy, for NHS Charities Together, we are joined by the world-class, internationally trained Health Psychologist, Dr. Joy Wong, and her client, Kate. They discuss the power of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to overcome various life challenges.
Discover how Dr. Joy’s application of CBT techniques, including mindfulness imagery & visualisation, reframing thoughts, breathing and behavioural exercises helped Kate manage work stress, grief, sleep issues, and social anxiety.
About Dr. Joy Wong
Dr. Joy is a highly experienced Health Psychologist specializing in CBT. She received her education and training in the UK, USA, and in Hong Kong. Her passion for understanding human behaviour led her to further her studies in suicidal and self-harm behaviours in young people.
With over two decades of experience, Dr. Joy has helped numerous clients improve their mental health and overall well-being. She enjoys working with people, from all walks of life, who are motivated to get better and achieve their therapeutic goals. You can book sessions with Dr. Wong at Lifespan Psychology by visiting https://www.lifespanpsychology.co.uk/team/dr-joy-wong. She looks forward to connecting with new clients and embarking on a journey towards positive change together.
Please give generously to NHS Charities Together via our Just Giving page: Lifespan Psychology's fundraiser for NHS Charities Together
Here are the other links and resources in this episode:
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice® - https://www.lifespanpsychology.co.uk/work-with-us
Lifespan – BOSS Coaching - https://bosstoday.co.uk
Dr Esther Cole - Linkedin Profile - http://linkedin.com/in/dr-esther-cole-multi-award-winning-consultant-psychologist-3b8b0061
Lifespan Psychology Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifespan_psychology/?hl=en
Lifespan Psychology LinkedIn - https://uk.linkedin.com/company/lifespan-psychology-the-diverse-practice%C2%AE?trk=similar-pages
Lifespan Psychology Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/people/Lifespan-Psychology/100089486434005/
Rooms For Therapists - https://www.roomsfortherapists.co.uk
Philosopher’s Quote Epictetus: “Men are disturbed not by things but the view they take of them”.
Crisis Numbers:
NSPCC - https://www.nspcc.org.uk/
Samaritans - 116 123 - https://www.samaritans.org/
Childline - 0800 1111 - https://www.childline.org.uk/
CALM - 0800 585858 - https://www.thecalmzone.net/
If you are in need of urgent assistance for your mental health, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, call 999 or attend your nearest accident & emergency (A&E) department. If you are listening from overseas, please find out the local equivalent charities and government mental health services in your country.
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Welcome to the Breaking Through Therapy charity podcast, where we raise money for NHS Charities Together. This pod is sponsored by Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice and Rooms for Therapists.
This is the only podcast that supports you to come on the show with your therapist, at least one year later, to talk about the breakthroughs you made along your journey, and its impact on your life ever since. So this is the mental wellness podcast for people interested in having talking therapy, professionals who deliver talking therapy - and everyone in between!
Lifespan Psychology - The Diverse Practice®
Lifespan – work with us
Jobs | Wimbledon | Lifespan Psychology
Lifespan – BOSS Coaching
Coaching | Lifespan Psychology
Room For Therapists
Therapist Rooms to Rent in West London for Counselling
Lifespan Psychology's fundraiser for NHS Charities Together
Psychological Therapy for Paediatric Acquired Brain Injury Innovations for Children, Young People and Families
Under 12 Online Therapy: Techniques for Disengagement during Sessions
Under 12 Online Therapy: Techniques for Disengagement during Sessions
NSPCC
NSPCC | The UK children's charity
NHS Charities Together
Lifespan Psychology Facebook Page:
Lifespan Psychology - Breaking Through Therapy Podcast
Lifespan Psychology Instagram:
Instagram (@lifespan_psychology)
Lifespan Psychology LinkedIn:
https://uk.linkedin.com/company/lifespan-psychology-the-diverse-practice%C2%AE?trk=similar-pages
Samaritans:
116 123
Childline
0800 1111
CALM
0800 585858
If you are in need of urgent assistance, please contact your GP or GP Out of Hours number on 111, or attend the nearest A&E department
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