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BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
bethathealinggirl
97 episodes
3 days ago
Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.
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Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.
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BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
Why You Keep Mistaking Anxiety for Intuition in Your Relationship
In this episode we’re unpacking one of the most confusing (and exhausting) dynamics in anxious relationships ➡️ Anxiety vs. Intuition. And why your nervous system can't tell the difference.... yet.  We’ll dive into: ✨ The #1 way to know it’s anxiety (not intuition) ✨ How urgency, reactivity & spiraling feel like instinct - but aren’t ✨ Why you're addicted to checking the “emotional alarm system” ✨ What happens when your gut is actually trauma memory ✨ How to disable the internal alarm so you stop mistaking fear for truth ✨ What it actually feels like when your intuition is speaking PLUS: 🥲 A healing win from a client who went from toxic love + cancer treatment → to remission, emotional regulation, and finally letting love in 💅 🛏 My unhinged side quest to find the world’s best sheets (self-regulation starts in the bedroom, babes) 📲 Real talk Q&A from inside The Healing Girl Gang: “Is it weird he only calls at night?” 🦋 Ready for the deeper work?  🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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1 day ago
19 minutes

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
The Reason You Spiral Even When Nothing’s Wrong in Your Relationship
You’re Not Overreacting - You’re Dysregulated (Here’s Why It Feels Like Everything’s Falling Apart When It’s Actually Fine) You’re not crazy. You’re not being dramatic. You’re just dysregulated AF and your body hasn’t caught up to how safe your life actually is. This episode is for the high-functioning, hyper-self-aware girlies who are checking all the boxes on paper... but still secretly spiraling in silence. 🙃 If you've ever caught yourself mid-anxiety spiral like: “Wait… nothing bad is happening. So why does this feel so familiar?” then this episode is the nervous system deep-dive you didn’t know you needed! 🧠 Inside this episode, we're unpacking: ✨ Why your brain panics when life finally feels calm ✨ How “being self-aware” can actually mask emotional control ✨ The difference between spiraling and actually self-regulating ✨ Why your nervous system doesn’t trust safety (yet) ✨ The powerful shift from “What’s wrong with me?” to “Of course I feel this way” ✨ How to stop rejecting the good stuff (including your partner’s love) ✨ Real wins from Healing Girl Gang members: showers, breathwork, daily habits that shift your state 💕 If you're tired of managing your emotions like a full-time job and you just want to feel safe being happy... this episode is for you! 🫶 Whether you’re newly dating, navigating relationship anxiety, or trying to trust your GOOD partner, this episode will give you the real talk, mindset shifts, and embodiment work you didn’t know you needed. 👉 Join here: healinggirlgang.com 🦋 Ready for the deeper work?  🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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1 week ago
22 minutes

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
You're self aware but still in the overthinking spiral?
You’ve read the books, saved the Instagram carousels, diagnosed your attachment style (hi anxious girlies 👋), and can spot a spiral from a mile away… but you’re still spiraling?! 🌀 In this episode, we break down: 💭 Why high self-awareness doesn't stop the overthinking 🧠 The "anxious observer" trap (aka when you know you’re spiraling and still can’t stop) 🪞 How spiraling damages self-trust and your relationship ❤️‍🔥 The secret sauce to actually feeling safe (spoiler: it’s not just positive affirmations) 👩‍⚖️ A juicy client win (shoutout to M, our unbothered queen) 🌲 And what solo camping trips taught Clare about healing from abandonment wounds ✨ If you’re a high-achieving, emotionally intelligent woman who crushes it at work but crumbles inside a text bubble… this one’s for you. 🫶 Whether you’re newly dating, navigating relationship anxiety, or trying to trust your GOOD partner, this episode will give you the real talk, mindset shifts, and embodiment work you didn’t know you needed. 👉 Join here: healinggirlgang.com 🦋 Ready for the deeper work?  🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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2 weeks ago
23 minutes

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
When Overthinking Is Your Relationship Coping Mechanism (and why it’s not a Solution)
Do you go to overthinking the second the vibes are off? Scroll TikTok for answers before the text even delivers? Google “anxious attachment + texting” like it’s your part-time job? Yeah. Me too. This episode is for the girlies who know they’re spiraling and feel like they can’t stop—especially when they’re dating someone good. If overthinking has become your coping mechanism in relationships, this episode will land. We’re talking: • Why your brain loves overthinking (hint: dopamine) • Why it feels productive, but actually disconnects you from real connection • How you're using mental work to avoid emotional work • The real reason you can explain your triggers but still don’t feel better I also share a story from my own spiral (yes, the lost RV keys) and shout out a few of my amazing clients who are breaking this cycle in real time—especially Seth and Autumn (you’re killin’ it 👏). If you’ve ever felt like: 🌀 “I can’t relax until I figure it out” 🧠 “I keep overthinking even though I know I’m safe” 💔 “I keep creating problems when there aren’t any” …this episode is for you. 💌 Inside the Healing Girl Gang, we’re taking this even deeper all month long masterclasses, implementation days, tools, coaching… the works. If this episode hits, wait ‘til you see what we do inside the gang.   🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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3 weeks ago
22 minutes

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
Why You Keep Spiraling Even When You Know Better
✨ You’ve read the books. Listened to the podcasts. You could give a TED Talk on attachment styles. So why are you still spiraling?! In this episode I'm talking to YOU, the high-achieving, emotionally intelligent girlie who knows her patterns but still finds herself overthinking texts, replaying convos, and getting caught in the same loop with the same person... again. If you’ve ever thought: 🧠 “I know better, but I can’t stop overthinking.” 😬 “Why do I keep doing this when I’m so aware of what’s happening?” 💔 “I feel like two different people—confident in my career, anxious in my relationship.” Then hit play because this episode is for YOU! We’re breaking down: • Why knowing your attachment style isn’t enough • How your brain is prioritizing familiar over safe • What it really means to “feel ready” for love • Why you’re addicted to overthinking and calling it “clarity” • And how to finally shift from spiraling to self-trust 👯‍♀️ Bonus: I shout out a few of my 1:1 clients (hey, Mrs. N 👀) and show you what real healing looks like...not just awareness, but actual transformation. 🎧 And if you’re loving this, this is just the surface. Inside the Healing Girl Gang, we go deeper with tools, practice, and coaching to help you stop overthinking for real, not just for the afternoon. 👉 Join here: healinggirlgang.com 🦋 Ready for the deeper work?  🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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4 weeks ago
29 minutes

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
Is THIS The Most Toxic Habit of Anxious Attachment?
✨ Ever feel like your brain just won’t shut off... even when everything’s actually fine in your relationship? You’re spiraling, checking for signs, running worst-case scenarios, and overanalyzing their every move... but you know deep down, it’s you, not them. 🤯 On this week's episode we're diving into what might be the most toxic, but totally normalized, habit anxious attached girlies keep doing… and why it’s actually keeping you stuck in the spiral. 😵‍💫 If you're a high-achieving, big-hearted babe who feels like she knows better but just can’t stop overthinking, this is your sign to tune in. We’re breaking down: - The real reason your brain loves to overthink (hint: dopamine hit 😬) - Why spiraling feels productive, even though it’s sabotaging connection - How overthinking is actually keeping you from intimacy—and what to do instead - What makes this pattern so hard to quit, even when your partner is amazing 💡 Plus, I'm giving you tools, truth bombs, and a loving kick in the butt to help you finally break the habit FOR GOOD! 🎧 LISTEN NOW and drop a comment if you’re deep in the spiral lately (no shame, you’re not alone). 👯‍♀️ Want more support? Join our private membership, the Healing Girl Gang, where we’re doing a 5-day Overthinking Detox all month long! You get the trainings, the tools, and the coaching to actually heal… not just cope.   🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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1 month ago
22 minutes 54 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
3 Things I Learned to Finally Stop Overthinking (after nearly 💩ing in a tent!)
After six weeks of serious inner work (including a spiritual cleanse and a solo wilderness retreat where I literally faced my fear of abandonment head-on), I’m sharing the three biggest things that helped me stop overthinking once and for all. If you’re the kind of girly who spirals over a short text... rereads convos wondering what you did wrong... or catastrophizes when nothing is actually wrong... this episode is going to hit deep. Inside, we'll talk about: ✨ What it really means to listen to your body (and why it matters for your anxious brain) ✨ How productivity pressure secretly fuels relationship anxiety ✨ The difference between your gut and your fear brain ✨ And how I finally felt safe doing... nothing. Just being. Truly. PLUS: tomorrow (Wednesday!) is Implementation Day inside The Healing Girl Gang and this month’s focus is on Overthinking. If you’re ready for the how, this is where we get specific and walk through the process together. 🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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1 month ago
29 minutes 33 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
How to Get Out of the Overthinking Loop for Good
If you spiral when your partner seems distant… If your brain won’t stop running “what did I do wrong?” loops… If you’re smart, successful, high-achieving, and still struggling with anxious thoughts in love… You are so not alone. And this episode is for you. 🧠💔 We’re unpacking 3 hard truths about overthinking that every anxious-attached woman needs to hear (especially if you’ve tried everything and still find yourself mentally replaying texts, second-guessing convos, or feeling like your thoughts are running you). We're breaking down: ⭐️ The truth about why you can’t “outthink” fear ⭐️ What your spiral is actually protecting you from ⭐️ Why control isn’t the answer and what is ⭐️ How to retrain your nervous system instead of judging it Plus, a real-time coaching moment with a Healing Girl Gang member struggling to let go of someone who doesn’t see a future even though she still feels love for him. You’re going to want to hear this. 👀 🌿 Ready to heal the root of your relationship anxiety and stop the mental spiraling once and for all? Inside Healing Girl Gang, we do just that with masterclasses, implementation days, live coaching, and our Overthinking Detox every month. 🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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1 month ago
21 minutes 48 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
What I’m Still Healing (Even as a Relationship Coach)
Ever feel like you're doing all the inner work, listening to every podcast, journaling your heart out and still fall back into the same anxious spirals or overthinking loops? SAME. In this raw and real episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing what I’m still healing… even as a relationship coach. This episode is for the high-achieving, high-performing girlies who feel confident in their careers but are still spiraling in their relationships. 🎧 We’ll talk about: ✨The real reason your healing “isn’t sticking” ✨Why you might still spiral (even after tons of growth) ✨The sneaky trap of thinking healing means “no more conflict” ✨Why anxious attachment is less about perfection and more like tending a garden I also share a little life update from my pre-retreat cleanse, what’s been going on with my body lately (ladies, let’s talk hormones + 90s low-rise trauma 🙃), and a deeply personal coaching answer to a listener’s question about giving a partner space without losing your mind. ❤️ If you’ve ever thought “I should be over this by now”… this one’s for you. 🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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1 month ago
19 minutes 36 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
The Hidden Damage Overthinking Does to Your Relationship
If You Overthink Every Text Message… This Episode Is For You! You’re crushing it at work, you're a boss in life, but when it comes to your relationship? You're suddenly spiraling over why he took 6-hours to text you back or asking "are we okay" over and over again... Then this episode is your soft place to land. In this episode we’re unpacking the hidden damage overthinking does to your relationships (even when things seem fine on the surface). I’ll walk you through: 💭 Why overthinking feels productive but keeps you disconnected 🧠 How your brain uses spiraling as a safety strategy 💗 What it actually takes to shift into emotional peace and connection 🏕 Plus: a lil’ story about Blair Witch-level camping chaos (you’ll get it)   👯‍♀️ Also, shoutout to my Healing Girl Gang - we answer a listener Q about anxious attachment + space in relationships that SO many of you will relate to. 🔔 Subscribe for weekly episodes on healing, relationships, anxious attachment & self-trust ⭐️ Leave a review, it keeps this podcast free and lets me know you’re out there 🛠 Join the Healing Girl Gang for masterclasses, live Q&As, overthinking detoxes + more   🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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2 months ago
18 minutes 24 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
From Anxious to Secure: Client Transformation with Karuna!
In this powerful episode, I sit down with my client Karuna - science writer, high achiever, and living proof that secure attachment is possible! We’re talking full transformation: from spiraling over missed texts to feeling calm, confident, and deeply self-trusting in relationships (and beyond). Karuna shares the real, raw moments (crying in the shower, questioning everything, and wondering if the anxiety would ever go away). But through coaching, truth-telling, and data-driven reflection (yes, we get nerdy), she experienced a 75%+ increase in her confidence, mindset, and self-trust AND a 133% decrease in her overthinking. 👀 Plus: → What it really feels like to date while anxious → Why traditional therapy didn’t quite cut it → The sneaky ways we micromanage our partners → What shifted when she stopped trying to be "less anxious" and started trusting herself This one is so honest, so hope-giving, and such a beautiful reminder that you’re not broken - you just haven’t been given the right tools yet.   🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session
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2 months ago
38 minutes 32 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
The Truth About Feeling Like You’re “Too Much” in Your Relationship
Ever feel like you're just too much in your relationship? 😵‍💫 Like your emotions are too messy, too needy, or too intense so you try to keep them bottled up just to keep the peace? Yeah… been there. In this week’s episode we're getting into the real reason you feel like you're too much (and why it’s actually a sign you're ready to heal your anxious attachment for good!) This is for the high-achieving girlies who are secretly spiraling in their relationships. You know, refreshing your texts 12x an hour, over-apologizing for crying, or feeling like vulnerability makes you "bad at love." In this episode we're talking: ✨ Why your “too muchness” isn’t actually too much ✨ The role of emotional safety in healing anxious attachment ✨ How over-functioning at work translates to under-functioning in your relationships ✨ What your internal rulebook says about love...and how to rewrite it ✨ How to stop self-sabotaging when a secure partner shows up 💭 Plus, I share a personal story from a 1:1 client who broke the cycle (and what made her healing finally click). This one’s juicy, raw, and real and I can’t wait for you to hear it! 🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session  
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2 months ago
23 minutes 27 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
3 Reasons Why Your Post-vacation Relationship Anxiety is Happening (again and again)
You had an amazing weekend... the vibes were vibing, the cuddles were elite, and the connection felt so good. Then you got home, sat on the couch, and suddenly you’re spiraling. Sound familiar? This episode is all about why post-vacation (or post-holiday) anxiety hits so hard (especially if you’re anxiously attached and dating someone amazing). I’m breaking down the threebig reasons why you keep freaking out after it all went so well. 💥 We’re talking:    •    The honeymoon bubble (and why it messes with your nervous system)    •    The closeness crash (aka what happens when reality returns)    •    The expectation + confirmation bias gap (aka why a great weekend sets you up to doubt it all) Even if your partner is wonderful, even if everything is fine, your brain can still be screaming “danger.” You’re not broken. You just need tools, structure, and support and I’ve got you. 🫶 Plus: I’m sharing a Q from a Healing Girl Gang member struggling with anxiety after her partner reassures her (if that’s not real, I don’t know what is). ✨ If this resonates:    •    Leave a 5⭐️ review (it helps more than you know)    •    Join the Healing Girl Gang (Overthinking Detox kicks off this week!)    •    DM me your favorite takeaway from the episode Let’s normalize the weird grief of a great trip ending, and finally stop blowing up what’s actually going really well. WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
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2 months ago
29 minutes 21 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
What a Secure Relationship Actually Looks Like (even if it feels weird)
If slow feels boring, if calm feels confusing, and if your nervous system is low-key addicted to chaos.... this one’s for you. This week, we’re diving into what a secure relationship actually looks and feels like (even if your anxious attachment says, “Wait, is this it?”). Whether you’re dating, in a long-term partnership, or healing from relationship patterns that feel more like rollercoasters than real connection, I’m breaking down the 6 big shifts that define secure love. ✨ Spoiler alert: It’s not fast, intense, or dramatic. It’s steady. Consistent. Intentional. And deeply healing (even if your brain wants to sprint toward a vibe check). We’re talking: • Why moving fast ≠ connection • How to tell if you’re chasing intensity instead of sincerity • What “repair” looks like vs. reaction • And why secure love might feel… weird (at first) Plus, I’m sharing an honest question from one of my Healing Girl Gang members going through a painful breakup, and offering the truth we all need when we want to hold on instead of letting go. Let’s unlearn the chaos and relearn calm love, together. 🖐 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and rate 5 stars—it helps keep this podcast free and gives me a virtual high five from your earbuds 💕 WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
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3 months ago
20 minutes 2 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
Anxious attached with an Avoidant - Becoming Secure Together (Special Anniversary Episode!)
It’s our 6-year wedding anniversary (!!) and today I brought my husband Craig on the podcast for the realest conversation about love, growth, and the journey from spiraling to secure. We’re answering your juiciest Qs: ✨ What it’s really like when anxious meets avoidant ✨ Our proposal story (yes, there was a backup plan involving a dog) ✨ How we almost didn’t make it—and what shifted ✨ Craig’s honest take on what helped him finally “grow up” emotionally ✨ Plus: our chaotic traits, icks, inside jokes, and a BIG announcement (no, not a baby) Whether you’re deep in your healing era or just curious about what it looks like to actually do this work with a partner, this episode is for you. It’s honest. It’s sweet. It’s full of growth and some light roasting (Just the way we like it!) WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
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3 months ago
43 minutes 55 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
Why You Think Its Your Fault in the Relationship (even when its not)
Still Needing Constant Reassurance in Your Relationship? Here’s Why 👀 . This episode is for the anxious girlies who look like they have it all together … but on the inside, you’re checking the vibes like it’s your full-time job. We’re talking: ✨ Why your brain craves constant reassurance—and how to stop needing it ✨ The connection between high achievement & emotional hypervigilance ✨ How to build real self-trust (the kind that doesn’t care if he texts back in 5 min or 5 hours) PLUS: I’m sharing a few of the funniest icks from my DMs (and you will scream at one of them) 😂 If you're secretly struggling in a relationship that "should" feel safe, you're not crazy and you're definitely not alone. This episode will help you shift from spiraling to self-secure. 💌 JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG This month inside the Girl Gang, we’re doing a full detox of overthinking + learning exactly how to soothe yourself without needing 24/7 validation from your partner. Want in? DM me “GIRLGANG” on IG or click the link below. 🖐 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and rate 5 stars—it helps keep this podcast free and gives me a virtual high five from your earbuds 💕 WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
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3 months ago
18 minutes 1 second

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
How To Stop Needing Constant Reassurance
This episode is for the anxious girlies who look like they have it all together (you’ve got degrees, deadlines, and the job)… but on the inside, you’re checking the relationship vibes like it’s your full-time job. We’re talking: ✨ Why your brain craves constant reassurance and how to stop needing it ✨ The connection between high achievement & emotional hyper-vigilance ✨ How to build real self-trust (the kind that doesn’t care if he texts back in 5 min or 5 hours) PLUS: I’m sharing a few of the funniest icks from the TickerTocker (and you will scream at one of them) 😂 If you're secretly struggling in a relationship that "should" feel safe, you're not crazy and you're definitely not alone. This episode will help you shift from spiraling to self-secure. 💌 JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG This month inside the Girl Gang, we’re doing a full detox of overthinking + learning exactly how to soothe yourself without needing 24/7 validation from your partner. Want in? DM me “GIRLGANG” on IG!  WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
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3 months ago
21 minutes 18 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
3 Reasons Why Your Anxious Attachment Isn't Healing
We’re unpacking the 3 big reasons your anxious attachment isn’t healing, even if you’re doing everything “right.” Spoiler: it’s not about trying harder… it’s about trying differently. If you’re a high-achieving, self-aware, anxious girlie who still feels like a walking red flag in relationships, this one’s for you. We’re talking: ✨ Why performing yur healing is keeping you stuck ✨ The myth of linear progress (and why healing is actually a spiral staircase ✨ How to stop overwatering the plant and just let it grow 🪴 Plus, I’m sharing a wild story from the internet girlie streets (hi, Wizard Liz 👀) that proves you can be a literal goddess and still get ghosted, cheated on, or confused AF in love. 💌 JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG If you’re ready to actually break the anxious cycle and learn to feel safe in your body (not just in theory), come hang with us inside the Girl Gang. Monthly deep dives, nervous system rituals, and a no-perfection zone. WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube    
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4 months ago
24 minutes 13 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
How She Went From Overthinking Everything to Feeling Secure in Love
Ever wonder what it actually looks like to go from anxious, overthinking, “I’m probably the problem” energy… to grounded, confident, and finally feeling secure in your relationship? In this raw and heart-hitting episode, I’m sitting down with one of my 1:1 coaching client, a high-achieving, military-working, nurse-extraordinaire, who decided to stop spiraling overseas (literally!) and finally heal for real. We’re talking:💭 Overthinking and the "doom scroll" inside your own brain💌 How your childhood wounds sneak into adult relationships📲 Why waiting on a text back used to ruin her day — and what’s changed💥 The difference between self-help and actual transformation🌊 And how she learned to communicate without blowing things up Plus: what made her go from “I can fix this on my own” to “I need deeper support”… and how that shift changed everything. If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” like you’re self-sabotaging something good, or like your brain just won’t stop spinning…this episode is for you. WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session 💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
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4 months ago
25 minutes 45 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
5-Minute Pep Talk: For When Your Relationship Overthinking Kicks In
Welcome back to the Be That Healing Girl podcast! If your mind is spiraling, your stomach’s in knots, and you’ve refreshed your texts 18 times in the last 3 minutes… this episode is your emergency toolkit! In this quick but powerful 5-minute pep talk, I’m giving you grounding reminders to come back home to yourself when your anxious attachment gets triggered. This is the episode to save, download, share with your bestie, and play on repeat when you're about to spiral. You’ll learn: ✨ Why your anxiety makes sense (and why you’re not broken) ✨ How to regulate your nervous system in the moment ✨ A powerful breathing practice to calm your body ✨ How to shift your energy back to YOU instead of chasing ✨ Loving prompts to re-center and choose yourself first If you’re new here, I’m Clare, a relationship coach for high-achieving girlies who crush it at work but feel lost, anxious, or overthink-y in love. You're not alone, and you are SO not broken. 🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥  💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖 🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕 FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session    
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4 months ago
7 minutes 25 seconds

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.