Today, Harinder explores the concept of "unbecoming," a transformative process that often arises during times of personal tragedy or significant life changes. Harinder reflects on her own experiences of grappling with feelings of unworthiness, anxiety, and the struggle to navigate the unknown. Through the metaphor of spiritual sloughing, she discusses the shedding of old identities and beliefs, ultimately leading to a more authentic self. KEY TAKEAWAYS Unbecoming is a process that occurs during significant life changes or tragedies, offering an opportunity for deep personal transformation rather than something to fix. The journey through loss often involves a change curve, including stages like denial, anger, sadness, and eventually curiosity, with no set timeline for progression. During periods of uncertainty, the ego can create internal conflict, as it struggles to navigate the unknown and clings to familiar identities, leading to feelings of disorientation. Staying present in the moment can provide balance and clarity, allowing individuals to observe their thoughts and feelings without getting lost in anxiety about the future or sadness about the past. The process of unbecoming involves shedding accumulated beliefs and identities, leading to a return to one's core values and a more authentic self, despite the discomfort it may bring. BEST MOMENTS "It's an opportunity for us to transform. To come out of the other side very different from how we went in." "I felt I was free floating with nothing to hold on to, no handles, no hooks, nothing to push against." "It's really a question of returning to who we actually are at our core, our values being tested and refined." "When something like this happens... to just be with that process is to ride it out, not to fight it." "There's nothing to fix; we're just being shown things that have been hidden from view." VALUABLE RESOURCES Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harinderkv LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/harinder-virdee-73a54630 HOST BIO I am Harinder. Having worked closely with people from all over the world professionally in a corporate setting and since, carving out my own path in the past few years. I am an illustrator, artist and designer. I use intuitive creativity and my leadership skills for transformational coaching. I also create tools for personal and team development. Not new to podcasting, I have previously co-created a mini podcast series called How to Land Your Ideal Job. With this podcast series, I wanted to share my life learnings particularly during the fallow period of life when my life’s direction has not been clear and I’ve had to dig deep below the various identities I had collected and assumed to reconnect with who I really am. Digging through the proverbial lead to share golden nuggets of insight. I hope to take people on mellow belly button contemplations that lead to questions for self inquiry and open up new imagined possibilities to new realities. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

Today, Harinder explores the profound benefits of spending time in nature and its impact on our well-being. Drawing on insights from an old mentor, she reflects on how modern life has distanced us from our natural roots, leading to feelings of anxiety and disconnection. Through vivid descriptions of engaging with plants, trees, and the elements, Harinder invites us to slow down, breathe, and appreciate the beauty of the natural world. KEY TAKEAWAYS Spending time in nature helps individuals reconnect with their roots, alleviating feelings of sickness, anxiety, and depression that can arise from urban living. Nature allows us to access our intuition and connect with the quantum field, encouraging a state of presence that can lead to insights and clarity. Engaging with nature, such as tree hugging or walking barefoot on grass, grounds us and promotes relaxation, helping to release burdens and negative energy. Observing the details of nature -like the colours and textures of plants - can inspire stillness and a sense of connection to everything around us, enhancing our emotional well-being. Interacting with nature creates an energy exchange, where we can discharge negative energy and recharge ourselves, leading to a greater sense of self and well-being. BEST MOMENTS "We're like leopards originally from the jungle, and we've moved to cities. The longer we are away from nature, we become sick, withdrawn, depressed, anxious." "Spending time in nature allows us to connect back with the infinite, the divine." "When we connect with something beyond ourselves, we leave an imprint of us, and it leaves an imprint of itself on us." "The world is always rushing and we forget what it's like just to be, to just exist, to take it all in." "Just remember what it was like as a child to look up and imagine the possibilities and allow yourselves those moments." VALUABLE RESOURCES Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harinderkv LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/harinder-virdee-73a54630 HOST BIO I am Harinder. Having worked closely with people from all over the world professionally in a corporate setting and since, carving out my own path in the past few years. I am an illustrator, artist and designer. I use intuitive creativity and my leadership skills for transformational coaching. I also create tools for personal and team development. Not new to podcasting, I have previously co-created a mini podcast series called How to Land Your Ideal Job. With this podcast series, I wanted to share my life learnings particularly during the fallow period of life when my life’s direction has not been clear and I’ve had to dig deep below the various identities I had collected and assumed to reconnect with who I really am. Digging through the proverbial lead to share golden nuggets of insight. I hope to take people on mellow belly button contemplations that lead to questions for self inquiry and open up new imagined possibilities to new realities. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

In this episode, Harinder and Alicia look at how limiting beliefs, often rooted in childhood experiences, shape our perceptions and behaviours throughout life. Through personal anecdotes, including Alicia's experience with an authoritative teacher and Harinder's journey in the workplace, they discuss the importance of self-inquiry and observation in recognising these narratives. KEY TAKEAWAYS The stories we tell ourselves often stem from deep-seated limiting beliefs, such as feelings of inadequacy or not belonging. Recognising these narratives is the first step toward reframing them. Personal experiences, especially from childhood, shape our current beliefs and behaviours. Reflecting on these moments can help us understand the origins of our limiting stories and how they continue to influence our lives. Engaging with trusted individuals can provide valuable insights into our patterns and behaviours. Their feedback can help us identify blind spots and challenge the narratives we hold about ourselves. We have the ability to change our stories and narratives at any point in our lives. By recognising that our past does not define us, we can choose to create new, empowering stories that align with our true potential. Acknowledging and accepting our past experiences, including the stories we tell ourselves, is crucial for personal growth. Practicing self-compassion allows us to let go of negative narratives and embrace a more positive and hopeful outlook on life. BEST MOMENTS "I had been living in a lie, thinking I wasn't capable. When I really was, I knew that I had done this." "When we dig into the stories that we believe that are on repeat play, there's a deeper message underneath." "It can take years to be in a position where, to even ask ourselves the question, why does the same thing keep happening?" "We are so connected to the circumstance that we are one with it. If I'm not enough, then I identify, well, I'm personally not enough." "Our stories can change. We can see our stories and we can choose to define ourselves differently." VALUABLE RESOURCES Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harinderkv LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/harinder-virdee-73a54630 HOST BIO I am Harinder. Having worked closely with people from all over the world professionally in a corporate setting and since, carving out my own path in the past few years. I am an illustrator, artist and designer. I use intuitive creativity and my leadership skills for transformational coaching. I also create tools for personal and team development. Not new to podcasting, I have previously co-created a mini podcast series called How to Land Your Ideal Job. With this podcast series, I wanted to share my life learnings particularly during the fallow period of life when my life’s direction has not been clear and I’ve had to dig deep below the various identities I had collected and assumed to reconnect with who I really am. Digging through the proverbial lead to share golden nuggets of insight. I hope to take people on mellow belly button contemplations that lead to questions for self inquiry and open up new imagined possibilities to new realities. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

In this episode, Harinder is joined once again by her friend Alicia Karabinos to explore the concept of "a little life versus a big life." They discuss the importance of living consciously and the impact of societal expectations on our personal journeys. They emphasise the significance of focusing on small, meaningful actions and the ripple effects these can have on others. KEY TAKEAWAYS Life challenges, such as the COVID-19 pandemic, can serve as catalysts for reflection and personal growth, prompting individuals to reassess their values and priorities. Small acts of kindness and connection can have a profound impact on others, highlighting that even seemingly insignificant moments can create ripples of joy and meaning in people's lives. The concept of Kintsugi, where broken pottery is repaired with gold, serves as a metaphor for embracing our brokenness and imperfections, allowing us to create something beautiful and stronger from our experiences. Finding joy in personal pursuits and nurturing oneself is essential. By focusing on what brings happiness, individuals can inspire others and create a positive ripple effect in their communities. BEST MOMENTS "Are we doing it consciously? Are we consciously choosing life to happen to us or life to happen for us?" "COVID gave us the opportunity to kind of stop, to focus on what is it that I'm really looking to accomplish in my life." "Just know that you being a mom, that's monumental. That is a drop that has ripple effects, not only throughout your life, their life, but throughout the world." "Sometimes it's necessary because it's just a regrouping. It's the way we define that process that we're going through." "Fill your own cup first. You're worth it. You deserve it. The world needs it." VALUABLE RESOURCES Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harinderkv LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/harinder-virdee-73a54630 HOST BIO I am Harinder. Having worked closely with people from all over the world professionally in a corporate setting and since, carving out my own path in the past few years. I am an illustrator, artist and designer. I use intuitive creativity and my leadership skills for transformational coaching. I also create tools for personal and team development. Not new to podcasting, I have previously co-created a mini podcast series called How to Land Your Ideal Job. With this podcast series, I wanted to share my life learnings particularly during the fallow period of life when my life’s direction has not been clear and I’ve had to dig deep below the various identities I had collected and assumed to reconnect with who I really am. Digging through the proverbial lead to share golden nuggets of insight. I hope to take people on mellow belly button contemplations that lead to questions for self inquiry and open up new imagined possibilities to new realities. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

In today's episode, Harinder holds her very first interview with fellow podcast host and friend, Alicia Karabinos. They focus on the concept of 'appreciation' and explore the differences between appreciation and gratitude. They also highlight the importance of slowing down to notice the beauty around us, drawing on personal anecdotes and philosophical insights, including the ancient Greek concepts of Kronos and Kairos time. KEY TAKEAWAYS Appreciation is about being present and noticing the richness of life in the moment, while gratitude is reflective, often focused on past experiences. Appreciation serves as a grounding process that can enhance our overall well-being. In a fast-paced world, taking the time to appreciate our surroundings and experiences can lead to a deeper connection with life. This practice can lower stress and improve mental and physical health. Recognising and acknowledging our current challenges can serve as a precursor to appreciation. This awareness can help us find value even in difficult situations, fostering resilience. When one person embodies appreciation, it can positively influence those around them. This shared energy can create a collective atmosphere of positivity and connection. Simple practices, such as taking a moment to breathe and notice our surroundings, can cultivate appreciation in daily life. Engaging fully in experiences, like savouring food or drink, can enhance our ability to appreciate the present moment. BEST MOMENTS "Appreciation is essentially about making our lives richer in all ways, both good and bad. It can protect us against regrets." "Living in appreciation is a lot easier when things are going well, but they are harder to experience when we are going through challenges in life." "Acknowledging where you're at in a challenge is almost like hitting a pause button, and that's where the beginning of awareness comes in." "Appreciation becomes even more important as we get older, especially with everything that's happening in the world." "When we appreciate, it feels like we're bringing all parts of ourselves back together and we're whole again in that second." VALUABLE RESOURCES https://www.howtolandyouridealjob.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harinderkv LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/harinder-virdee-73a54630 HOST BIO I am Harinder. Having worked closely with people from all over the world professionally in a corporate setting and since, carving out my own path in the past few years. I am an illustrator, artist and designer. I use intuitive creativity and my leadership skills for transformational coaching. I also create tools for personal and team development. Not new to podcasting, I have previously co-created a mini podcast series called How to Land Your Ideal Job. With this podcast series, I wanted to share my life learnings particularly during the fallow period of life when my life’s direction has not been clear and I’ve had to dig deep below the various identities I had collected and assumed to reconnect with who I really am. Digging through the proverbial lead to share golden nuggets of insight. I hope to take people on mellow belly button contemplations that lead to questions for self inquiry and open up new imagined possibilities to new realities. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

In this first episode, Harinder opens up about her own journey from the fast-paced corporate world to a slower, more creative life as a coach and podcaster. She shares what it really feels like to step away from certainty, reconnect with your creative self, and embrace the unknown as a space for growth. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering who you are beyond the roles you play, or craving a moment of calm reflection in a noisy world — this episode is for you. Join Harinder as she explores life’s quiet wisdom, found right at the centre of it all — the belly button. KEY TAKEAWAYS A Personal Journey – Harinder shares her own story of transformation, moving from a structured corporate life to rediscovering creativity, authenticity, and purpose through coaching and reflection. The Heart of the Podcast – Belly Button Musings is a space for gentle exploration — drawing wisdom from real stories, experiences, and moments of intuition to uncover the beauty in everyday life. The Meaning Behind the Belly Button – More than just a name, the belly button represents our connection to the universe, to others, and to the source of our own power and stability. Finding Peace in Uncertainty – Harinder reflects on the challenges of navigating the unknown and how time, patience, and trust can become powerful allies in personal growth. An Invitation to Reflect – Each episode invites you to pause, listen inwardly, and notice what resonates — a reminder that we all share more common ground than we might think. BEST MOMENTS "What I was being shown was I'm in the unknown, and the curve ball that I had assumed was an apparent mistake wasn't." "I was given the gift of time and space to evolve, shedding those parts of me that were now superfluous so that I can reconnect with who I really am." "Belly Button Musings is a podcast for anyone who wants to experience whimsical wisdom pulled from the navel." "The belly button is seen as spiritual and symbolic in many traditions, representing a connection to the cosmic, the universe, and ancestral wisdom." "My hope is that you'll be curious, you'll have a listen and the messages might resound with you or make you reflect or light a little spark." VALUABLE RESOURCES Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harinderkv LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/harinder-virdee-73a54630 HOST BIO I am Harinder. Having worked closely with people from all over the world professionally in a corporate setting and since, carving out my own path in the past few years. I am an illustrator, artist and designer. I use intuitive creativity and my leadership skills for transformational coaching. I also create tools for personal and team development. Not new to podcasting, I have previously co-created a mini podcast series called How to Land Your Ideal Job.  With this podcast series, I wanted to share my life learnings particularly during the fallow period of life when my life’s direction has not been clear and I’ve had to dig deep below the various identities I had collected and assumed to reconnect with who I really am. Digging through the proverbial lead to share golden nuggets of insight. I hope to take people on mellow belly button contemplations that lead to questions for self inquiry and open up new imagined possibilities to new realities. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

"Belly Button Musings" is a podcast for anyone who wants to experience whimsical wisdom pulled from the navel. Each episode looks at an aspect of life chosen through intuition and experienced through life. The belly button is seen as spiritual and symbolic in many traditions representing a connection to the cosmic, the universe and ancestral wisdom. In yoga and Eastern philosophies, the navel is associated with the vital energy centre known as Manipurakra.    We share stories and gently explore life themes to improve our relationship to our lives, appreciating we are not alone in our experiences. We contemplate through the navel, with the energy of a light shower of rain, reflections and learnings to provide a new awareness and insight into how a life could be lived.