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Authentic Masculinity
Seth Troutt
27 episodes
4 days ago
What if the key to becoming a better listener starts with admitting you're terrible at it? Most people assume they're good listeners, then proceed to miss what's actually being said, connect dots that don't exist, and hear words that were never spoken. The gap between physical hearing and genuine understanding creates distance in every relationship you value. When you passively let sounds hit your eardrums without working to comprehend, you miss the tension behind words, fail to ask clarifyin...
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What if the key to becoming a better listener starts with admitting you're terrible at it? Most people assume they're good listeners, then proceed to miss what's actually being said, connect dots that don't exist, and hear words that were never spoken. The gap between physical hearing and genuine understanding creates distance in every relationship you value. When you passively let sounds hit your eardrums without working to comprehend, you miss the tension behind words, fail to ask clarifyin...
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Society & Culture
Episodes (20/27)
Authentic Masculinity
Shut Up and Listen: The One Assumption That Saves Your Marriage
What if the key to becoming a better listener starts with admitting you're terrible at it? Most people assume they're good listeners, then proceed to miss what's actually being said, connect dots that don't exist, and hear words that were never spoken. The gap between physical hearing and genuine understanding creates distance in every relationship you value. When you passively let sounds hit your eardrums without working to comprehend, you miss the tension behind words, fail to ask clarifyin...
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4 days ago
3 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
Beyond Lions and Sheep: You Are A Sheep. Who Is Your Shepherd?
You've seen the shirt everywhere—"Lions not sheep"—and something about it resonates. Being an independent thinker, resistant to manipulation, not following the herd. But what if this framework completely misses the point? When you swap CNN for Fox News or trade your governor's advice for that podcaster's wisdom, you haven't become a lion. You've just changed shepherds. The chest-pounding about independence is still herd mentality—you've simply picked a different pen. Here's the uncomfortable ...
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1 week ago
5 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
Beneath the Rage: Processing Male Anger Without Sinning
When you explode at the driver who cuts you off or sulk when your boss ignores your input, you think anger is the problem. What if your anger is actually protecting you from something more uncomfortable? Most men cycle between hostile outbursts and withdrawn pouting without understanding what's beneath the surface. You feel the rage, either unleash it or stuff it down, then wonder why relationships suffer. The biblical command seems impossible—be angry and do not sin—until you grasp what ange...
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2 weeks ago
9 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Therapy Epidemic: When Paid Support Replaces Real Connection
"Should I go to therapy?" sounds simple until you realize you might be asking the wrong question entirely. What if the normalized path to mental health support has become an escape from something more fundamental you're meant to face? Paying someone for emotional support has become easier than looking a friend in the eye and admitting struggle. This paid vulnerability feels safer than real connection, yet perpetuates the isolation it claims to solve—emotional outsourcing that replaces what fr...
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3 weeks ago
6 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Conflict Paradox: Why Peace-Seeking Men Often Create More Problems
"If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all." But what happens when pursuing true peace requires initiating conflict? This episode exposes the hidden cost of conflict avoidance that plagues many relationships. From Adam's blame-shifting in the garden to our own defensive reactions, the pattern of dodging necessary confrontation creates a false peace that ultimately satisfies no one. Discover why even Jesus—the Prince of Peace—regularly initiated conflict rather than set...
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1 month ago
8 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
Breaking Generational Patterns: Why You Keep Becoming Your Father Despite Your Best Intentions
You swore you'd never repeat those patterns, yet here you are—responding to your children exactly as your father did to you. This episode explores the powerful force of generational patterns that pull us into behaviors we've explicitly rejected. Through the biblical story of Isaac unwittingly repeating Abraham's exact sin, we discover why awareness alone isn't enough to break the cycle. These inherited patterns aren't your fault, but they are unmistakably your responsibility—especially as you...
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1 month ago
9 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Idiot Dilemma: Finding Christ's Balance Between Judgment and Compassion
When you spot someone doing something objectively foolish—the teenager without a helmet doing wheelies near toddlers, the man demanding fairy pronouns—what's your instinctive response? This episode explores the challenging tension between labeling folly accurately and falling into smug self-righteousness. Christ modeled a clear approach: He named sin without hesitation while maintaining genuine compassion for the sinner. Both modern extremes fail—refusing to call anything foolish abandons tru...
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1 month ago
6 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Minimum Viable Dose: Physical Disciplines for Men Who Hate Exercise
What's the least amount of exercise you can get away with while still honoring your body? This episode cuts through fitness industry maximalism to reveal the true minimum requirements for long-term health in a world of time scarcity and caloric abundance. One grandfather's experience growing up in the depression upends everything you thought about food preferences and frames the discussion for why your physical discipline needs look nothing like your ancestors'. As you navigate time scarcity ...
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1 month ago
8 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Want-to-Want Principle: A Revolutionary Approach to Desire
What if the key to transformation isn't willpower but a simple shift in how you approach your desires? This episode introduces a life-changing principle hidden in plain sight: Do not do what you want—do what you want to want. The competing desires within you aren't a design flaw but evidence of being made in God's image. When Jesus first speaks in John's Gospel, he asks a striking question: "What do you want?" This reveals his interest not just in changing your behavior but rewiring your want...
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2 months ago
3 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Bottom-Up Solution: Why Your Mental Health Starts With Your Body
When you're stuck in a funk, conventional wisdom says "fix your thinking first." But what if that approach has it exactly backward? This episode challenges the soul-body hierarchy most men have accepted without question. The biblical narrative presents humans not as souls trapped in bodies, but as "in-souled bodies"—a distinction that transforms how we should approach depression, anxiety, and spiritual disconnection. Discover how God's treatment of Elijah's suicidal thoughts began with sleep ...
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2 months ago
6 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
How to Pray: Simple Framework for Powerful Connection
"Am I praying or just talking to myself?" If you've ever wondered this question, you're not alone. This episode cuts through the confusion about prayer to reveal a straightforward approach that transforms scattered thoughts into meaningful conversation with God. Between Christians who struggle with prayer and non-believers who surprisingly claim answered prayers, the conversation around spiritual connection has become increasingly muddled. Discover how a simple four-part framework—built direc...
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2 months ago
9 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Lost Art of Confession: Why Men Who Hide Never Heal
The moment someone asks "How was your day?" and you respond with "Fine" - you've missed an opportunity that's more powerful than you realize. This episode exposes the hidden cost of living unconfessed in a culture that encourages men to maintain a façade. Beyond the religious connotation of admitting sins, true confession is about something far more fundamental—the courage to translate your inner world into language others can understand. The inability to name what's happening inside you crea...
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2 months ago
7 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
When Life Sucks: The Masculine Guide to Disappointment
The rejected job application. The wife who sends you to the couch. The contract that falls through. This episode confronts those moments when disappointment crashes into your life with crushing weight—and why your initial instincts might be exactly wrong. Men typically respond to disappointment in two ways: checking out through medication and distraction, or lashing out with anger and aggression. Both reactions seem hardwired into our nervous systems, yet both lead away from growth rather tha...
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2 months ago
7 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Imposter's Guide to Spiritual Leadership: Leading When You Don't Feel Qualified
"How can I lead my family spiritually when I'm still struggling with my own faith?" This question haunts countless men who feel the weight of biblical responsibility but carry a deep sense of personal inadequacy. This episode tackles the apparent contradiction head-on. The tension between spiritual insecurity and spiritual leadership creates a paralysis that keeps many men from ever starting. Discover why this very insecurity might actually be your greatest qualification rather than a disqual...
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3 months ago
7 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
Masculinity Pyramid, Part 2: Five Roles Every Man Is Called to Master
What does it mean to be a man? Beyond character traits, this episode reveals the five specific roles that form the complete masculine journey—a pyramid that builds from the foundation all men share to the pinnacle many overlook. The conversation begins with the role we all inherit yet rarely examine: being a son. Discover why understanding your place in a generational story isn't just psychological theory but the foundation for every other masculine responsibility. This often-neglected starti...
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3 months ago
7 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
Masculinity Pyramid, Part 1: Four Virtues That Define Authentic Manhood
"Be a man"—words often first heard while being pressured toward hypersexuality or physical dominance. This episode exposes how most men build their understanding of masculinity from flawed examples, creating lifelong confusion about what being a man truly means. Rather than starting with gender differences, this conversation begins with a more fundamental truth: what separates men from God. This counterintuitive starting point reveals why humility forms the foundation of all masculine virtue,...
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3 months ago
8 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
Beyond Physical Protection: The Daily Death That Transforms Families
While many men proudly declare they would die for their families, this episode reveals a more challenging and necessary sacrifice—dying to yourself. This radical shift in perspective exposes the uncomfortable truth that physical protection, while important, rarely becomes necessary, while self-denial is required daily. The journey of putting to death your old self—the reactive, trauma-driven, selfish parts that make you a liability rather than an asset—represents the true battlefield of mascu...
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4 months ago
4 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The RAILS Framework: Building Male Friendships That Last a Lifetime
In a culture where men increasingly find themselves isolated, this episode reveals the critical difference between seasons of opportunity and seasons of scarcity—and how to navigate both for meaningful connection. Discover why the friendships you cultivate today become invaluable treasures decades from now. For men pressed for time, this conversation introduces a revolutionary framework that transforms haphazard socializing into strategic relationship-building. The RAILS approach provides a p...
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4 months ago
5 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
From The Sauna: Why Men Seek Multiple Wives and What It Reveals About Identity
What does a man with multiple wives really signal to the world? This episode starts with a provocative sauna conversation that exposes the circular reasoning of validation-seeking behavior and launches into a deeper exploration of masculine identity in a culture obsessed with external validation. The conversation navigates the tension every man faces: are we fundamentally valuable image-bearers or broken liabilities? Rather than settling for either extreme, this balanced perspective reveals w...
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4 months ago
6 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
The Power Paradox: Beyond Abuse and Abandonment
What if the cultural conversation around male power has missed the mark entirely? In a post-#MeToo world, we've correctly identified the evils of exploitation but failed to recognize an equally destructive alternative hiding in plain sight. I challenge the simplistic equation that power equals abuse. The real problem isn't male strength—it's how that strength is deployed. Abuse isn't just meanness; it's a calculated pattern that erodes another's sense of self. Yet there's another sin lurking ...
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5 months ago
5 minutes

Authentic Masculinity
What if the key to becoming a better listener starts with admitting you're terrible at it? Most people assume they're good listeners, then proceed to miss what's actually being said, connect dots that don't exist, and hear words that were never spoken. The gap between physical hearing and genuine understanding creates distance in every relationship you value. When you passively let sounds hit your eardrums without working to comprehend, you miss the tension behind words, fail to ask clarifyin...