Have you ever wondered why you or someone you know stayed so long in an abusive or toxic relationship? Well, there is actually a deeper, psychological reason for this rather than just 'putting up with it'. In this week's AMM Minutes, I sit down with Frankie from Frankie's Therapy to dive deep into the complex psychology of abusive relationships. We explore why people stay in harmful relationships, touching on the significant roles that childhood experiences and our nervous system play. We discuss trauma bonds, the gut-brain connection, and the physical reactions, such as IBS, that often accompany these relationships. Together, we underscore the importance of education and awareness as the first steps to breaking free from toxic relationships. We also talk about the need for a safe environment for healing, the crucial role of therapy in building self-worth, and the process of addressing childhood wounds. Join us as we unpack these intricate dynamics and offer valuable insights for those looking to reclaim their lives. What we will cover: 00:00 Understanding the Psychology of Abusive Relationships 00:10 The Role of Childhood and Nervous System in Trauma Bonds 00:44 The Illogical Nature of Staying in Abusive Relationships 02:39 Physical Reactions and the Brain-Body Connection 04:25 Creating a Safe Environment for Healing 05:29 Breaking the Cycle: Steps to Change Relationship Patterns 06:02 The Importance of Therapy and Secure Relationships 08:14 Addressing Triggers and Communication in Relationships 12:38 Steps to Rebuild Self-Worth After Trauma Bonds 13:19 Integrating the Shadow Self for Healing Key takeaways: 🌀 Chaos can feel like “home” because of childhood wiring 🎰 Trauma bonds are addictive, like a slot machine 💔 Abuse impacts both the mind and the body 🚪 Awareness + safety are the first steps to healing 🌱 Therapy rebuilds self-worth and healthy connections Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/X7_J7WuNCm4 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Trauma bonding might not be what you thought it was... In this eye-opening episode of 'A Millennial Mind', I sit down with Frankie, a registered psychotherapist and trauma specialist, to delve deep into the complex world of trauma and healing. We discuss how various attachment styles impact our relationships, why we might be drawn to toxic partners, and the importance of a secure environment for true recovery. Frankie shares her unique approach, combining neuroscience with body-based therapies such as EMDR, CBT, and somatic healing. We also explore the concepts of trauma bonds, the impact of generational trauma, and practical steps for breaking unhealthy patterns. This episode is a must-watch for anyone looking to understand and heal from their traumatic experiences. What we'll cover: 00:00 Understanding Toxic Relationships and Attachment Styles 00:52 Introduction to Trauma and Healing 01:08 Meet Frankie: The Trauma Specialist 03:46 Exploring Childhood Trauma and Rewiring the Brain 08:19 Generational Trauma and Its Impact 15:54 Defining Trauma Bonds and Attachment Styles 21:35 Navigating Toxic Relationships and Seeking Help 40:32 Understanding Trauma Bonds 41:41 Recognising Unhealthy Relationships 42:39 The Role of the Amygdala and Gut Health 45:05 Steps to Break Trauma Bonds 45:30 Therapy and Building Secure Relationships 52:14 Addressing Anger and the Shadow Self 01:00:47 Healing and Self-Love 01:06:13 Final Thoughts on Trauma and Healing ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

77% of marriages END because of In-Laws... Will yours be next? This week on Millennial Mind, I chat with therapist Harriet Shearsmith about toxic parenting, recognising if you experienced childhood trauma and how to break the cycle and become the parent you WANT to be, not what you HAD. This week's AMM Minutes highlight, Harriet and I discuss the complexities of in-law relationships. We explore how family dynamics can cause tension, the impact of childhood experiences, and the importance of maintaining authenticity and boundaries. Harriet shares valuable insights on recognising toxic versus healthy family environments and emphasises the role of emotional maturity in resolving conflicts. Catch the full episode for a deeper dive into these essential relationship dynamics. A breakdown of what we cover: 00:00 Introduction: The In-Law Relationship Dilemma 00:13 The Impact of In-Laws on Relationships 00:30 Navigating Family Dynamics and Childhood Trauma 02:14 Changing the Narrative with In-Laws 02:49 Family Enmeshment and Boundaries 09:11 Authenticity and Expectations in In-Law Relationships 12:09 Identifying Toxic vs. Healthy Family Dynamics 13:27 Conclusion: Handling Conflicts and Emotional Maturity Have you ever experienced a relationship breakdown due to toxic or bad relationships with your parents-in-law? Watch the full episode with Harriet here: https://youtu.be/wRBxZS-M0p4 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Credits: Filmed & Edited by HAMLIN STUDIOS: https://www.instagram.com/hamlinstudios/?hl=en-gb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"You aren't just an 'old soul', you had a toxic parent" Have you ever thought to yourself, 'This is just the way I am'? That could be a result of childhood trauma. In this revealing episode of 'A Millennial Mind,' I sit down with Harriet Shearsmith, an award-winning content creator and parenting advocate, to discuss the often hidden conversations surrounding family toxicity and breaking generational cycles. Harriet shares her insights on addressing difficult family dynamics, establishing healthy boundaries, and improving relationships with in-laws. We delve into the realities of family dysfunction, the impacts of parentification, and provide practical advice on overcoming guilt and obligation in familial relationships. This week's episode includes a paid advertisement for Better Help. You can get your exclusive discount as a Millennial Mind listener using the link www.betterhelp.com/millennialmind to start your therapy journey and become your best self. In this episode, we will cover: 00:00 Introduction: The Unspoken Conversation 00:14 The Impact of In-Laws on Relationships 00:33 Personal Growth Through Family Dynamics 00:52 Sponsor Message: Lovable AI Platform 01:47 Introducing Today's Guest: Harriet Shearsmith 02:20 Breaking Generational Cycles 04:10 Understanding Cycle Breaking 04:44 Common Patterns in Family Dynamics 05:56 The Role of Early Childhood in Shaping Behaviour 06:35 Navigating Family Dysfunction 13:27 The Challenge of Confronting Parents 23:31 The Concept of Parentification 35:21 Estrangement and Reconciliation 38:01 Avoiding Confrontation: The Pain of Acceptance 38:58 Healing from Family Estrangement 40:31 The Power of Community Healing 41:19 Practical Tools for Emotional Release 43:41 Navigating In-Law Relationships 52:46 Setting Boundaries with In-Laws 55:57 Understanding Toxic vs. Healthy Family Dynamics 57:57 Choosing Between Partner and Parents 01:01:21 The Importance of Boundaries and Cycle Breaking 01:08:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts **AD**This episode is sponsored by Lovable, an AI tool that lets you create beautiful, functional websites in minutes just by typing a few prompts. So if you’re planning a wedding, launching a brand, or just want a sleek site without the tech stress, Lovable makes it so simple.No tech skills needed. Just your ideas. Give it a go and start your free trial at https://lovable.dev#ad #LovablePartner 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this small section of this week's bigger episode of 'A Millennial Mind,' I sit down with the insightful Heather Elkington to explore why people, especially Gen Z, frequently change jobs due to career growth and feeling undervalued. Heather shares compelling statistics from LinkedIn and discusses the inherent need for people-pleasing and its impact on professional life. We delve into the challenges of difficult conversations, the importance of being transparent about our needs, and how to identify and prioritise tasks that truly energise us. Watch the full episode here! 💖 https://youtu.be/jDmZmTIWkto 00:00 Understanding People Pleasing and Job Hopping 01:13 The Evolutionary Roots of People Pleasing 01:50 The Modern Dilemma of Saying Yes 03:26 The Cost of Avoiding Difficult Conversations 04:50 Evaluating Your Commitments 06:45 Defining and Leveraging Your Strengths 08:20 The Importance of Preparation and Caring 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this small section of this week's bigger episode of 'A Millennial Mind,' I sit down with the insightful Heather Elkington to explore why people, especially Gen Z, frequently change jobs due to career growth and feeling undervalued. Heather shares compelling statistics from LinkedIn and discusses the inherent need for people-pleasing and its impact on professional life. We delve into the challenges of difficult conversations, the importance of being transparent about our needs, and how to identify and prioritise tasks that truly energise us. Watch the full episode here! 💖 https://youtu.be/jDmZmTIWkto 00:00 Understanding People Pleasing and Job Hopping 01:13 The Evolutionary Roots of People Pleasing 01:50 The Modern Dilemma of Saying Yes 03:26 The Cost of Avoiding Difficult Conversations 04:50 Evaluating Your Commitments 06:45 Defining and Leveraging Your Strengths 08:20 The Importance of Preparation and Caring 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of 'A Millennial Mind', I'm joined by Heather Elkington, a leadership expert and first-time author of 'Your Boss Era'. Heather shares her journey from studying outdated leadership models to redefining management in a small startup, growing it significantly, and finally navigating through the corporate world. We discuss the apparent differences in work ethics between millennials and Gen Z, the importance of transparency in the workplace, and why embracing hard conversations is crucial for effective leadership. Heather also sheds light on the importance of intentionality in work, the pitfalls of toxic meetings, and the significant shifts in workplace dynamics post-COVID. Tune in for a deep dive into managing Gen Z, fostering a high-performance culture, and the essential elements of being a great leader. 00:00 Introduction: Millennials vs. Gen Z Work Ethic 00:50 Meet Heather Elkington: Leadership Expert 03:04 Heather's Career Journey and Insights 06:05 The Impact of COVID on the Workplace 12:40 Transparency and Trust in Leadership 25:12 Balancing Work Hours and Burnout 37:19 The Challenge of People Pleasing and Career Growth 41:30 The Importance of Confrontation 41:57 Evaluating Your Social and Work Calendar 42:38 Balancing Wedding Planning and Work 43:46 Understanding and Leveraging Your Strengths 47:21 Emotional Intelligence and Energy Awareness 49:55 The Art of Confrontation: A Four-Step Framework 55:13 Transparency in the Workplace 01:00:29 The Reality of Entrepreneurship 01:04:10 The Challenges of Balancing Roles and Responsibilities 01:05:24 Advice for Managers and Employees 01:10:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this small section from this week's episode, I sit down with Dr. Tara to explore the fascinating world of swingers, especially within the Indian community. We break down the key differences between swingers and sex parties, the unique symbols used within the swinger community, and the vital importance of communication and consent in non-monogamous relationships. Dr. Tara also sheds light on overcoming societal stigma and the benefits of hiring a non-monogamy coach. Tune in for an insightful and candid discussion that challenges traditional relationship norms. 00:00 Introduction to Swinging in the Indian Community 01:17 Exploring Swingers and Their Signs 02:26 Rules and Communication in Swinging 04:30 Sex Parties: What to Expect 06:25 Navigating Non-Monogamous Relationships 10:04 Overcoming Stigma and Building Supportive Relationships 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on A Millennial Mind, I'm joined by Dr. Tara, a leading expert in sex and relationships, to dive deep into the realities and misconceptions surrounding monogamy. We explore whether monogamy actually works, discuss the rise of ethical non-monogamy, and highlight the importance of communication and consent in all relationships. Dr. Tara also shares her personal journey from a conservative background to becoming a sex-positive influencer. What we'll cover: 00:00 Introduction: Does Monogamy Actually Work? 00:51 Sponsor Message: Lovable AI Platform 01:46 Exploring Modern Love and Relationships 03:04 Guest Introduction: Dr. Tara's Expertise 05:13 Defining Monogamy in Today's Society 07:21 The Challenges of Sexual Monogamy 09:03 Evolutionary Perspectives on Monogamy 14:24 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Self-Worth 22:03 Understanding Different Types of Non-Monogamy 30:48 Communicating Non-Monogamy in Relationships 32:29 The Goal of Parenting and Emotional Infidelity 35:25 Cultural Misconceptions and Upbringing 37:52 Journey to Sexual Liberation 40:55 Swingers and Sex Parties 45:37 Navigating Non-Monogamous Relationships 53:13 Respect and Value in Relationships 56:53 Concluding Thoughts on Monogamy and Non-Monogamy Whether you're curious, open-minded, or questioning traditional views on love and commitment, this episode promises to challenge your perspectives and encourage meaningful conversations. Join us as we uncover what it really means to build a relationship that reflects your values. 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this clip from this week's full episode, I sit down with Dr. Judith Joseph to explore the nuances of high functioning depression, a condition still not widely recognised by the medical community. We discuss the critical role of identifying early signs and symptoms, such as anhedonia and psychomotor agitation, before they escalate into a crisis. Dr. Joseph highlights the disparity between advancements in physical and mental health approaches and stresses the importance of incorporating daily moments of joy to achieve a balanced and fulfilling life. Tune in for practical advice on how to manage success without sacrificing happiness. 00:00 Understanding Anhedonia and High Functioning Depression 00:47 The Renaissance in Physical Health vs. Mental Health 01:31 Identifying Signs of High Functioning Depression 02:43 The Impact of Restlessness on Joy 06:16 Balancing Success and Joy 08:49 The Role of Gratitude and Other Emotions in Happiness 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful episode, I sit down with Dr. Judith Joseph, a leading psychiatrist and author of 'High Functioning: Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Start to Reclaim Your Joy.' We delve deep into the often misunderstood realm of high-functioning depression—where individuals maintain external success while silently struggling with inner turmoil. Dr. Joseph explains the differences between happiness and joy, the symptoms of high-functioning depression, and the crucial concept of anhedonia (a lack of joy and interest). She also shares practical advice on how to detect and address hidden depression before it leads to a crisis. This episode is for anyone who has ever been told, 'but you don't look depressed' and is seeking to understand the science of joy and happiness. Tune in to gain a fresh perspective and practical tools for reclaiming your mental well-being. 00:00 Understanding Clinical Depression Beyond Sadness 00:13 The Divide Between Happiness and Joy 01:46 Introducing Dr. Judith Joseph and Her New Book 02:12 Exploring High Functioning Depression 05:26 The Science of Happiness and Joy 10:05 Identifying and Addressing Anhedonia 14:16 The Importance of Preventative Mental Health 20:24 Balancing Success and Joy 27:34 The Impact of Social Circles on Joy 27:50 The Struggle of Sharing Difficulties 29:00 Invalidation and Toxic Friendships 29:57 Cultural and Religious Invalidation 31:26 Understanding High-Functioning Depression 32:41 The Importance of Validation 38:48 Mental Health Across Cultures 41:19 Supporting a Partner with Depression 48:16 Lifestyle Changes for High-Functioning Depression 50:55 Final Thoughts on High-Functioning Depression 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/snm5MB0oMjA This week's guest is Ayurvedic health consultant, Dr Sam Watts. In this small section of our full weekly episode, we dive deep into the fundamental importance of circadian alignment for not only cancer prevention but overall health and longevity. Sam breaks down the science behind circadian medicine, including its Nobel Prize-winning recognition in 2018, and explains how even our ancient Palaeolithic genome influences our need for natural light exposure. We discuss the detrimental effects of circadian misalignment, now classified as a type 1A carcinogen, and provide practical tips for achieving optimal circadian rhythms by aligning sleep and wake cycles with natural light patterns. Join us for a comprehensive guide on how to live a healthier, happier life through circadian alignment. So tell me... Did we change your mind? 🤔 00:00 The Importance of Circadian Alignment 01:30 Circadian Misalignment: A Modern Carcinogen 01:58 The Evolutionary Perspective on Circadian Rhythms 03:26 Personal Struggles with Circadian Rhythms 06:25 The Science Behind Circadian Rhythms 11:06 Consequences of Circadian Misalignment 13:29 The Role of Light in Regulating Circadian Rhythms 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this comprehensive episode, I sit down with Dr. Sam Watts, integrative healthcare consultant and author of 'The Ayurvedic Approach to Cancer,' to build an understanding of how Ayurveda can play a critical role in supporting conventional cancer care. We examine the time-tested principles and individualised approach of Ayurveda, its origins, and the unique benefits it offers. Dr. Watts shares compelling research on how lifestyle adjustments, diet, herbal remedies, and circadian rhythm alignment can offer significant support to those diagnosed with cancer. We delve into real-life examples of those who have beaten the odds, addressing misconceptions and the powerful role of mindset and purpose in healing. Practical steps are shared for cancer patients to empower themselves and foster hope. This impactful conversation aims to merge ancient wisdom with modern medicine for a holistic approach to cancer treatment. This week's episode includes a paid advertisement for Better Help. You can get your exclusive discount as a Millennial Mind listener using the link www.betterhelp.com/millennialmind to start your therapy journey and become your best self. 00:00 Introduction to Ayurveda and Cancer 00:36 Daily Routines for Cancer Patients 01:06 Personal Stories and Testimonials 01:27 Sponsor Message: Lovable AI Platform 02:23 Exploring Integrative Cancer Care 05:20 Understanding Ayurveda and Doshas 07:56 Challenges and Misconceptions of Ayurveda 23:24 Public Perception and Acceptance of Ayurveda 25:17 Integrative Cancer Care and ECAPs 36:22 A Remarkable Cancer Survivor's Story 37:37 The Power of Purpose and Belief 38:17 Skepticism and the Reality of Cancer 39:16 The Complexity of Cancer Prognosis 41:13 The Role of Personality in Cancer Survival 46:46 Steps to Take After a Cancer Diagnosis 47:50 The Importance of Structured Cancer Care 57:21 The Science Behind Herbal Medicines 01:02:00 Circadian Alignment and Cancer 01:07:16 Struggling with Circadian Rhythm 01:07:48 Understanding the SCN and Circadian Alignment 01:08:41 The Importance of Morning Light Exposure 01:13:09 Consequences of Circadian Misalignment 01:17:41 Ayurveda and Circadian Health 01:22:28 Optimizing Your Daily Routine 01:26:14 Ashwagandha: Benefits and Misconceptions 01:28:38 Ayurveda and Cancer Treatment 01:34:52 Finding Hope and Purpose 01:37:16 Final Thoughts and Gratitude 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

💖 Watch The Full Episode Here: https://youtu.be/g9SJ8e8YRHs 💖 Join me and the incredible Nicola Adams in this segment from this week's full episode in partnership with Dove's Self-Esteem project, where we discuss how we can move beyond complimenting each other solely based on appearances. In this insightful conversation, we talk about the significance of valuing inner qualities and shared experiences over looks, societal conditioning, and the power of authentic connections. Nicola opens up about her journey of unlearning traditional beauty standards and embracing her true self. We also introduce practical exercises, like the Dove Body Confidence Journal, to help you reflect on self-talk and build meaningful relationships. Tune in to learn how to celebrate strength, bravery, and individuality in yourself and others. Don't miss this enlightening discussion! 00:00 Introduction: Moving Beyond Looks 00:15 Shifting the Conversation 00:50 Breaking Stereotypes 01:43 Focusing on Inner Qualities 02:51 Self-Reflection and Growth 06:37 Redefining Confidence 10:44 Embracing Authenticity 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

AD | In this powerful episode of Millennial Mind, we sit down with boxing icon Nicola Adams to explore the impact of toxic beauty ideals, body talk and the journey to self-confidence. From breaking barriers in a male-dominated sport to pushing back against the narrow standards of the Y2K era, Nicola shares how she embraced authenticity over appearance.We also cover the concept of "Body Talk" the everyday comments, whether well-meaning or critical, that reinforce narrow beauty standards and shape how we see ourselves. Nicola opens up about how these messages have affected her and how we can all work to change the conversation. Together, we explore how shifting our focus from appearance to effort, energy, and personal strength can alter the way we perceive ourselves and others.This episode is presented in partnership with Dove and their Self-Esteem Project, which offers science-backed tools to help improve body image and build lasting confidence.Join us in this inspiring discussion about confidence, self-worth, and the small shifts that can lead to big changes.If you want more support, Dove has created a journal full of body confidence exercises. You can find it at dove.com/why2k 00:00 Introduction to the Competitive World of Sports 00:27 Media Influence on Beauty Standards 01:08 Partnering with Dove for Change 02:47 Exploring the Y2K Era 03:34 Challenges of Conforming to Beauty Ideals 05:05 Breaking Stereotypes in Sports 09:11 Navigating Female Friendships and Cliques 14:53 Impact of Body Talk and Social Media 21:52 Shifting the Narrative on Appearance 23:13 Interactive Exercise for Listeners 23:22 Reflecting on Appearance-Based Comments 25:28 Impact of Positive Non-Appearance Compliments 29:43 Shifting Conversations to Values 37:32 Redefining Confidence and Body Image 45:22 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

WATCH THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://youtu.be/uZQrbb0i4Bc Join us in this insightful segment from a larger conversation featuring nutrition expert Rhiannon Lambert. In this section, we delve into the alarming truths about processed meats and their severe impact on health, especially focusing on their classification as class one carcinogens. We discuss the rise in bowel cancer rates and the life expectancy concerns due to food choices. Rhiannon also sheds light on the misleading health claims of ultra-processed foods, the impact of alcohol on cancer risk, and the criticality of fiber in our diets. Tune in for a comprehensive look at how our everyday food choices can have significant long-term health impacts. 00:00 The Fear of Processed Foods and Cancer 00:14 The Dangers of Red and Processed Meats 01:37 Celebratory Foods and Their Health Impacts 02:01 Choosing Healthier Alternatives 04:13 Alcohol and Its Carcinogenic Effects 05:06 The Confusion Around Health Studies 06:25 The Role of Sun Exposure and Vitamin D 08:47 The Consequences of Cutting Out Ultra Processed Foods 11:55 The Importance of Fiber in Our Diet 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join me on 'A Millennial Mind' Podcast in this fascinating episode featuring Rhiannon Lambert, a renowned registered nutritionist and bestselling author. We unravel the complexities and hidden truths of ultra-processed foods, challenging many common beliefs about diet and health. If you think avoiding every packet on the supermarket shelf makes you healthier, think again. Rhiannon brings to l the nuanced reality of UPFs, revealing that not all processed foods are inherently bad and how they fit into a balanced diet. Discover why obsessing over perfect eating can do more harm than good and how small, informed changes can improve your overall well-being. This episode will make you rethink everything you thought you knew about food. So tell me, did we change your mind? ✨ Let me know in the comments! 00:00 Introduction to the Processed Foods Debate 00:39 Welcome to Millennial Mind 02:40 Defining Processed Foods 05:39 The Impact of Ultra-Processed Foods 07:00 Daily Diets and Ultra-Processed Foods 10:47 Health Anxiety and Food Choices 11:37 The Role of the Food Industry 19:59 Nutrition Education and Personal Responsibility 22:36 Raw Milk and Other Controversial Foods 30:18 Processed Meats and Health Risks 34:18 Balancing Personal and Family Nutrition 34:33 Alcohol and Cancer Risks 35:25 Debunking Health Myths 36:45 Sun Exposure and Vitamin D 39:06 Ultra-Processed Foods and Health 46:04 Fertility and Nutrition 50:09 Food Shaming and Psychological Impact 57:02 Practical Dietary Changes 01:02:00 Concluding Thoughts on Nutrition 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by conflicting food advice, this episode is for you! Join me as I dive into the world of nutrition with Dr. Sarah Berry, a Zoe nutritionist and leading expert in personalised metabolism and nutrition science. In this episode, we debunk common food myths - from the controversies surrounding seed oils and carbs to the new wellness trends taking the internet by storm. Dr. Berry explains why nutrition is not a one-size-fits-all approach and offers practical tips to improve your health through small dietary shifts. Plus, we discuss how misconceptions about food can lead to stress and anxiety. Tune in to get clarity on healthy eating and walk away with actionable advice to transform your diet and well-being. Don't forget to like, follow, and subscribe for more insightful episodes! So tell me in the comments, did we change your mind? 🧠 00:00 Introduction and Controversy Around Seed Oils 00:53 Debunking Food Myths with Dr. Sarah Barry 05:03 The Role of Seed Oils in Our Diet 06:10 Understanding the Impact of Food Processing 09:58 The Debate on Plant-Based Milks 24:56 The Keto Diet and Carbohydrates 43:15 Sourdough and Gut Health 43:30 Choosing the Right Bread 44:45 Freezing Bread for Health Benefits 48:30 Raw Milk Debate 49:44 Wellness Trends and Influencers 51:51 Bloating and Diet Solutions 53:37 The Role of Dieticians 57:30 Menopause and Supplements 01:03:02 Seed Oils: Myths and Facts 01:16:47 Wellness Fads: Take or Pass? 01:23:32 Simple Dietary Tips for Better Health 01:25:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Shift from Anxious to Secure Attachment | Annie Zimmerman In this insightful segment from our latest podcast episode, I chat with Annie Zimmerman about the challenges of anxious attachment and the journey to developing a secure attachment style. We dive deep into personal growth, the impact of nurturing relationships, and practical steps for overcoming anxiety in dating. Annie shares both therapeutic insights and personal experiences, emphasising the transformative power of relational therapy and self-reflection. Join us for a conversation that explores love, self-worth, and the path to emotional security using my own personal experience with shifting attachment types from anxious, to avoidant and now to secure. If I can do it, so can you. 💗 00:00 Understanding Anxiety and Fixed Narratives 00:53 Challenging Negative Self-Talk 02:40 The Power of Unconditional Love 03:33 Secure Attachment and Feeling Safe 04:21 Traveling Alone and Secure Attachment 06:07 Changing Attachment Styles Through Therapy 07:21 Practical Steps to Overcome Dating Anxiety 09:18 Recognizing Safe Relationships 11:08 Building Self-Worth and Attracting Secure Partners 11:49 Facing the Fear of Abandonment 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Millennial Mind, I sit down with Dr. Annie Zimmerman, a renowned psychoanalytic psychotherapist and author of 'Your Pocket Therapist.' We dive deep into the world of attachment styles, discussing whether we're born with them or if they can be changed. Dr. Zimmerman explains the different types of attachment styles - secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganised, and how each one forms based on early childhood experiences. We explore practical steps for changing your attachment style, the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships, and even the complexities of attachment in friendships and with parents. This episode is a must-watch for anyone looking to break free from negative patterns and gain a deeper understanding of their relationship dynamics. 00:00 Introduction to Attachment Styles 00:42 Welcome to Millennial Mind 02:30 Understanding Secure Attachment 03:05 Exploring Anxious Attachment 05:32 The Avoidant Attachment Explained 08:38 Disorganised Attachment: A Complex Mix 12:20 Impact of Parenting on Attachment 16:02 Personal Reflections on Attachment Styles 18:16 Navigating Relationships with Different Attachment Styles 28:56 The Role of Secure Base in Relationships 31:02 Overcoming Anxious Attachment in Dating 31:28 The Role of Therapy in Secure Attachment 32:39 Exposure Therapy for Dating Anxiety 33:25 Understanding and Addressing Childhood Triggers 34:00 Trusting Your Intuition in Relationships 37:05 The Fear of Being Alone and Toxic Relationships 39:04 Repetition Compulsion and Childhood Wounds 40:35 The Pressure to Marry and Relationship Timelines 41:35 Attachment Styles in Friendships 44:23 Communicating in Friendships 47:53 Changing Attachment Styles with Parents 51:20 Grieving Unmet Needs and Building Resilience 53:09 The Journey to Secure Attachment 58:06 Embracing Growth After Breakups59:48 Final Thoughts on Attachment Styles 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast ✨ Connect with Millennial Mind ✨ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amillennialmind Shivani Pau Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shivani.pau Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/shivanipaupodcast Performance Planner: https://my-performance-planner.myshopify.com/ Let Me Change Your Mind 🧠 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices