What happens when two women—one married with kids, the other single and thriving—sit down to talk about life, love, and the expectations placed on women? You get A Girl’s Perspective—a podcast that’s raw, hilarious, and unfiltered. Whether you’re navigating marriage, dating, career struggles, or just trying to survive adulthood, this podcast is your go-to for real talk, personal stories, and opinions that might get you in trouble at brunch. Because life isn’t one-size-fits-all—and neither is womanhood.
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What happens when two women—one married with kids, the other single and thriving—sit down to talk about life, love, and the expectations placed on women? You get A Girl’s Perspective—a podcast that’s raw, hilarious, and unfiltered. Whether you’re navigating marriage, dating, career struggles, or just trying to survive adulthood, this podcast is your go-to for real talk, personal stories, and opinions that might get you in trouble at brunch. Because life isn’t one-size-fits-all—and neither is womanhood.
Brought to you by Sweetheart Creations LLC
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Navigating Friendships and Workplace Dynamics
In this episode, hosts Jocelyn and Jade discuss the dynamics of friendships, focusing on how people can outgrow each other and the feelings that arise from being excluded from significant events. Jocelyn shares her personal experiences of dealing with workplace bullying, mismanagement, and the importance of advocating for oneself. They also tackle the issue of employees being penalized for frequently calling in sick, especially when it involves family matters, and the problematic nature of restrictive PTO policies. The discussion underscores the importance of knowing one's worth and exploring better opportunities if current conditions are detrimental.
In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade delve into the complexities of outgrowing friends, navigating workplace dynamics, and confronting leadership issues. They recount personal stories and discuss audience-submitted questions regarding strange behaviors, friend inclusivity, and the toxic work environment. Through candid conversation, they offer insights into valuing oneself and finding better opportunities both socially and professionally.
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Friendships and Personal Growth
01:22 Question of the Week: Strangest Things Caught Doing
03:21 Embarrassing Moments and Family Traditions
04:16 More Strange and Funny Stories
13:59 Friendship Dynamics and Expiration Dates
33:08 Discussing the Show 'All of Us Are Dead'
34:00 Horror Movie Logic and Frustrations
35:50 Kelly Rowland in Horror Movies
36:46 Am I Wrong? Engagement Dinner Dilemma
39:29 Friendship and Exclusion
52:09 Graduation and Friendship Expectations
57:10 Healthy Eating and Office Etiquette
01:06:21 The Office Food Dilemma
01:09:12 Workplace Bullying: It's Not Just for Kids
01:29:06 The PTO Battle: Prepare the Others
01:38:09 Navigating Toxic Work Environments
01:46:55 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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Jocelyn and Jade discuss the intricacies of friendship, focusing on the importance of communication and loyalty in relationships. They touch on personal experiences with being cut off without explanation, the need for honest conversation to avoid misunderstandings, and the fine line between asserting boundaries and simply avoiding difficult talks. Additionally, the discussion includes reflections on professional experiences in customer service and healthcare, highlighting common issues faced in the workplace. The episode is filled with honest insights, humorous anecdotes, and practical advice on maintaining meaningful connections and navigating everyday challenges.
Chapters:
00:00 The Illusion of Cutting People Off
01:25 Introducing New Segments
01:59 My Thing Is: Venting Session
03:50 Celebrating Wins Without Guilt
05:57 Workplace Recognition and Credit
12:00 The Value of Fair Compensation
14:11 Friendship Files: Emotional Drain
29:19 Are We Wrong? Evaluating Friendships
35:58 Chopped Liver and Irony
36:11 The Importance of Communication in Friendships
38:36 Unspoken Expectations and Misunderstandings
43:01 Dining Alone and Social Norms
44:14 Dine and Dash Confessions
50:01 Wedding Day Clam Knuckle Incident
54:03 Cutting People Off: A Debate
01:10:01 The Shoe on the Other Foot
01:10:23 Ranting About Friendships
01:11:04 Chaotic Conversations
01:13:42 Proper English and Internet Critics
01:17:36 The Betrayal List Idea
01:18:01 Negative Comments and Opinions
01:25:10 British Black History Month
01:27:59 Fast Food Interview Etiquette
01:35:26 Pharmacy Stories and Customer Frustrations
01:43:23 Closing Remarks and Call to Action
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Women Don’t Cheat More—They Just Don’t Get Caught | Ep 48
This episode starts with a missed taco night and ends with cheating theories, side-piece confusion, and a lot of emotional games. We’re talking about people ghosting friendships then getting mad you don’t reach out, the difference between closure and control, and the petty levels of cheating that women are allegedly mastering in silence.
From emotional manipulation to situationships that never got a title—but somehow still ended—we’re calling out the messy double standards in dating, the blurred lines in adult friendships, and the unspoken rules that nobody taught us about growing up.
Whether you’re stuck in the group chat that doesn’t group anymore, tired of people doing relationship things but saying you’re “just vibing,” or trying to heal from someone who never gave you real closure, this episode of A Girls Perspective is for you.
We’re two lives, two perspectives, and one unfiltered conversation—still figuring it out, one chaotic story at a time.
Chapters:
00:00 The Taco Incident
00:50 Introducing the Guests
01:27 Kevin's Podcast Journey
01:59 Podcast Controversies and Apologies
02:56 Earthy Women and Podcast Topics
03:58 Recording Challenges and Censorship
08:05 Asian Content and BL Dramas
13:24 Subtitles vs. Dubbing
19:20 Prison Scenarios and Survival
24:44 New Segment: Unsent Text Messages
35:09 Dog Ownership Responsibilities
37:13 Neighbor's Dog Incident
37:47 Have You Ever Been Stood Up?
39:58 Toxic Relationships and Stories
41:49 Cheating and Manipulation
57:21 Platonic Friendships Debate
01:10:07 Hygiene and Cultural Differences
01:14:53 Celebrity Hygiene Habits
01:15:16 Debating Daily Showers
01:16:06 Skincare Products and Chemicals
01:16:56 Bill Burr's Comedy on Lotion
01:18:02 Racial Discussions and Misunderstandings
01:19:39 Parental Double Standards
01:21:24 The Concept of Closure
01:23:51 Friendship Dynamics
01:32:30 Halloween Costumes and Horror Stories
01:42:47 Favorite Halloween Candies
01:44:10 School Field Trips and Kangaroos
01:47:29 Closing Remarks and Social Media Plugs
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Are you always the strong one? The “go-to” person for your friends, your family, your job… but lowkey, you’re running on fumes? You’re not alone.
This episode unpacks the silent burnout that comes with always holding it together for everyone else. Jocelyn and Jade get real about the weight of being the strong friend—why it’s so hard to ask for help, why we downplay our own needs, and why sometimes being strong just means being tired.
We talk about:
• The pressure to overachieve at work even when you’re burnt out
• Feeling emotionally alone—even in a room full of people
• How “thank you” could’ve saved a woman’s life in Texas
• The weird stigma around crying or showing emotion
• Why the “you don’t check on me anymore” guilt trip needs to stop
This one’s for the people who are tired of being the default emotional support. For the ones who hold it all in because they feel like they have to.
Chapters
00:00 – Why he only got 36 months?! Our thoughts on justice
01:00 – K-pop fans unite: Bring back the old Stray Kids sound
02:30 – Idol group dynamics, nostalgia, and fan favorites
05:00 – Stray Kids stories, Woojin’s exit, and group dynamics
08:00 – Idol visuals, hairline rumors, and stage glow-ups
11:00 – Wig slip at the club and sweat-proof styles
13:30 – Is giving 110% at work still worth it?
15:30 – Doing your job vs. being team MVP
17:30 – Why effort isn’t always rewarded with promotions
19:00 – “Meets expectations” doesn’t mean underperforming
21:00 – Feeling alone vs. feeling lonely — what’s the difference?
23:30 – When you're in the room but still feel invisible
25:00 – Late-night noises and being home alone
27:00 – Zephyr the cat’s reaction to mystery sounds
29:00 – Our generation’s biggest shared delusion
31:00 – Do opinions really carry this much weight?
33:00 – When someone runs… we all run (and why)
35:00 – Why being the “strong friend” wears you down
37:00 – The strong friend never really has a strong friend
38:30 – Crying isn’t the only way to be vulnerable
40:00 – When comfort from others feels overwhelming
43:00 – Jocelyn’s emotional story about her cat
47:00 – When a pet gets more tears than a breakup
50:00 – Childhood pranks, falling stories, and payback
52:00 – Winter slips and laughing too hard
54:00 – That same sentence again? Let’s talk justice
56:30 – Why some get more time for less serious stuff
58:00 – The “thank you” moment that turned serious
01:00:00 – Are we raising thoughtful people or not?
01:03:00 – Parenting humans vs. dealing with chaos
01:06:00 – When basic manners feel rare
01:08:00 – Jail scenarios: Who’s thriving? Who’s not?
01:10:00 – Respect, survival, and hilarious hypotheticals
01:13:00 – Pop culture meets comedy meets chaos
01:16:00 – The AI horror story: “The Group Chat” twist
01:18:00 – Plot twist: Who’s the one behind it all?
01:20:00 – Let’s start a band — but who’s the lead?
01:22:00 – Zero instruments, 100% vocals
01:24:00 – Music regrets, school memories, and flutes
01:27:00 – Trying (and failing) to love jazz
01:29:00 – The difference in raising your own vs. the world’s
01:34:00 – Final shoutouts to the real ones in the Vibe Tribe
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When it comes to relationships, honesty might not always be the best policy—especially with your friends. In this week’s episode of A Girls Perspective (AGP), Jocelyn and Jade unpack why telling your friends every detail of your relationship drama can backfire, and how it ties into the deeper friendship struggles and blurred boundaries that come with adulthood. This Adulting Podcast – Funny episode is packed with Hot Takes, chaotic logic, and the kind of brutally honest humor that makes the Vibe Tribe feel seen.
The girls start off with Jocelyn hilariously losing her “Black card” after confusing Lionel Richie for George Michael, setting the tone for a full hour of confidently wrong opinions and real-life debates. From a viral Reddit story about someone using AI to trick their boss into giving them a raise, to whether cooking for a male friend crosses the line, every topic turns into a conversation about self-awareness, boundaries, and moral gray areas.
By the end, they’re laughing about who they’d save first in an emergency (spoiler: themselves) and what it would really feel like to get “left behind” after the Rapture. Between the laughs, Fighting With Your Boyfriend? Don’t Tell Your Friends! | Ep 46 digs into the messy truths of friendship, selfishness, and surviving adulthood without losing your sanity.
If you love Educated Black Women humor, Toxic Friends Podcast energy, or the kind of Personal growth podcast that doesn’t pretend to be perfect, this episode of A Girls Perspective will feel like catching up with your loud, honest best friends who get it. Tune in, grab your drink, and get ready to Find your people and Build a community that’s as unfiltered as it is relatable.
Chapters:
00:00 A Hilarious Mix-Up: Lionel Richie or George Michael?
01:17 Weekly Reddit Story: Using AI to Get a Raise
03:58 The Ethics of Using AI to Manipulate Your Boss
09:11 Relationship Dynamics: Cooking for Friends
21:11 The Great Water Debate: Dasani vs. Other Brands
27:54 Friendship Boundaries: What Should You Share?
43:50 Airplane Etiquette: Emergency Exit Row Dilemma
46:24 Refusing to Give Up Leg Room
46:32 Active Shooter Training at Work
47:55 Hiding Strategies and Office Dynamics
51:35 Fire Drill Responsibilities
01:10:31 Rapture and Religious Beliefs
01:31:46 Podcast Growth and Gratitude
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This week on A Girls Perspective, things start messy and stay that way. Jocelyn tells a story about two girls who went to someone’s house looking for a fight (first mistake), and when the punches started flying, one got folded while her “friend” just stood there watching. That sparks a whole debate about loyalty and friendship struggles — because if your friend is getting beat that bad, you either jump in, break it up, or go get help. What you don’t do is sit there like it’s a show.
From there, Jade takes over Weekly Reddit and reads a confession from someone who sits in their car for an hour after work, lying about “traffic” so they can get some peace before going home. Jocelyn admits she does a lighter version of this in her driveway, while Jade says her family sees her anyway. The bigger point? Lying about needing time chips away at trust. Boundaries don’t mean you don’t love your family — they just mean you’re human. This hits right at the heart of adulting podcast struggles: balancing exhaustion, family life, and setting boundaries without guilt.
That rolls into a parenting conversation full of hot takes. Jocelyn shares childhood whooping stories — spilling red nail polish on the carpet, hiding it, and catching a beating; falling asleep instead of cleaning her room and waking up to her mom shaking her. Jade points out how kids today act wild at school but know better at home. Together they argue: whoopings may not be for every kid, but discipline can’t be taken off the table. Some kids respond to timeouts, others only listen when there’s a real consequence. It’s one of those parenting wins and parenting losses that makes every family different.
The fight theme keeps looping back. Jocelyn says if someone gives you a clean one-two combo, fine — sit down and let it go. But if they humiliate you, drag you across the ground, or beat you out of your clothes? Pride kicks in, and you’ll want round two no matter how long it takes. Jade’s rule is even wilder: first fight fair, second fight is a dogfight — biting, chairs, low blows, whatever it takes. They joke about being “folded like laundry with you still in it,” but underneath is a real conversation about respect, pride, and when to walk away.
The deeper thread in this episode is how adults navigate honesty and boundaries. The “traffic lie” becomes a bigger discussion about depression, burnout, and communication in relationships. The parenting talk becomes about tailoring discipline instead of blindly repeating toxic traditions. And the fight stories become about loyalty, trust, and how much pride matters when you’re trying to hold on to self-respect.
Then they go philosophical with more hot takes:
Is there even such a thing as a selfless good deed, or do we always get something back from it?
This is why AGP connects so strongly with the Vibe Tribe. It’s not polished influencer energy — it’s real life. It’s friendship problems, boundaries in relationships, single life after 30, parenting hot takes, and the messy, funny side of adulthood. If you’ve ever wondered if your friends would actually ride for you, lied about traffic just to get a break, or felt guilty for needing space from the people you love, this episode is for you.
Chapters:
00:00 The First Mistake: Picking Fights
01:14 Weekly Reddit Read: Confessions and Boundaries
08:21 Parenting and Discipline: A Heated Debate
19:44 Schoolyard Lies and Childhood Fights
27:58 Revenge and Respect: The Art of Fighting Back
41:17 The Struggles of Aging
42:38 Family Dynamics and Avoidance
44:18 The Fear of Confrontation
45:03 Depression and Seeking Help
47:53 True Crime Discussion: Unknown Number
54:24 Bullying and Toughness
01:10:11 Selfless Good Deeds: Myth or Reality?
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Episode 44 of A Girls Perspective (AGP) takes on one of the loudest debates in dating and adulting today: what makes someone “high value”? Jocelyn and Jade, joined by Brittany from Makeup Glam with B, unpack the double standards that shape how men and women are judged in relationships, friendships, and life.
The conversation starts playful — makeup, lashes, birthday gifts, and why Jocelyn hates the pressure of receiving presents. But it quickly shifts into deeper territory: why men are told their value depends on income and status, while women are judged by looks, age, and how “aesthetically pleasing” they are. The crew reacts to viral high value man vs high value woman clips, calling out how men feel they can’t define their worth without money, while women are constantly reduced to their appearance.
They go even further, tackling stereotypes about women with “masculine energy” and whether submission is supposed to be one-sided. Jocelyn and Jade argue that real partnership means both people submit and lead at different times. Brittany adds that independence can make dating harder, because so many men tie their ego and masculinity to being needed financially.
The group also dives into aging and worth, challenging the idea that women lose value over time while men gain it. They highlight the wisdom, independence, and confidence women build in their 30s and 40s — even if society refuses to see it as valuable. Mixed in are laughs about mediocre nails, men hiding baldness under hats, and the contradictions of wanting women with “low body counts” who are also magically experienced.
Beyond dating, the episode circles back to bigger adulthood struggles: friendships that only show up for fun but not real support, gift-giving that feels more like obligation, and the pressure to glam yourself up just to be respected. Whether you’re dealing with friendship struggles, navigating single life after 30, or rethinking what really makes a partner valuable, this conversation feels like wine night with friends who aren’t afraid to drop hot takes.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Relationship Dynamics and Gift Giving
01:16 Call to Action: Subscribe and Join the Community
03:25 Special Guest: Makeup Glam with Brittany
08:44 Discussion: High Value Men and Women
14:32 Personal Experiences and Social Expectations
16:39 The Psychology of Gender Roles
25:48 Negotiation and Career Advancement
33:24 Overstimulation and Social Interactions
35:47 Reacting to Controversial Opinions
36:50 Debating Preferences and Double Standards
38:38 The Double Standard of Body Counts
40:57 The Reality of Dating Expectations
43:18 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Relationships
47:20 Navigating Relationship Dynamics
50:47 The Impact of Aging on Relationship Value
53:04 The Role of Aesthetics and Success in Relationships
01:14:37 The Thrill of Cheating and Relationship Games
01:17:37 Exploring Self-Esteem and Gender Differences
01:18:08 Parenting and Building Confidence in Children
01:20:38 Personal Experiences with Makeup and Self-Image
01:24:38 The Role of Makeup in Society
01:39:50 Friendships and Relationship Dynamics
01:53:14 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
High value clips
Clip 1: Myron: https://youtube.com/shorts/THf71Cg_mgE?si=n7uEsRcCckJnsfWS
Clip 2: Kevin Samuels: https://youtube.com/shorts/vmuszbZtUDI?si=lCif0RMlbFiqipSm
Clip 3: What is a high value man: https://youtube.com/shorts/CkWBGz9qYYc?si=I2LcilpG-gCRI75t
Clip 4: High Value Woman: https://youtube.com/shorts/Pj_K2U2Emsg?si=P_-osd-WB6NdO79Q
Clip 5: https://youtube.com/shorts/WAXDm6rc7kQ?si=64RytOt0c3doZXEw
Clip 6: https://youtube.com/shorts/zz-bO6KZ3R8?si=3Qc8oEhK_4dUnmCx
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This episode has everything—friendship drama, marriage struggles, dating app fails, and the messy reality of adulthood. We start with the big question: can you fight with a friend and still stay friends, or is that relationship officially over? Jade says once the hands fly the friendship is done, while Jocelyn admits she could throw down and laugh about it later. That opens up a bigger conversation on toxic friends, losing friendships as an adult, and why so many people avoid the tough talks that could save years of wasted time.
From there, we dive into a viral Reddit thread about marriage and body autonomy. What do you do when a controlling spouse thinks they should decide if you get on birth control, cut your hair, or get a tattoo? We break down how avoiding these conversations before marriage leads to resentment, and why setting boundaries matters if you want a healthy partnership. It’s blunt, it’s real, and it’s the kind of talk most couples are too scared to have.
Then come the laughs with Jocelyn’s Bumble horror stories—the ultimate collection of online dating fails. There’s the guy who complimented her and immediately got unmatched, the date who showed up in sweatpants and spent the whole time ranting about his ex-wife, the man who had no car but still asked for a ride home, and the 45-year-old with multiple roommates who somehow thought he was a catch. Each story proves how exhausting dating apps can be, but also why noticing red flags early saves you from even bigger disasters.
Along the way, we talk about brutal honesty versus people-pleasing, how to walk away when someone just isn’t for you, and why adulting feels like a mix of hilarious chaos and constant lessons. Whether it’s friendship problems, toxic relationships, or the weirdest Bumble dates you’ve ever heard, this episode is packed with hot takes, messy stories, and the kind of real talk that makes you feel less alone in the struggle.
Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.
Chapters:
00:00 Can Friends Fight and Stay Friends?
00:42 Weekly Reddit: Am I the Asshole?
01:24 Birth Control Debate
03:36 Communication in Relationships
06:44 Dating and Deal Breakers
14:49 Online Dating Stories
37:25 The Anthony Mix-Up
37:51 Nicknames and Their Boundaries
39:36 Confusing Nicknames
42:43 Childhood TV Shows and Characters
47:20 TikTok Shop Addiction
49:06 Playing 'Put a Finger Down'
59:58 Awkward Moments and Confessions
01:04:17 Workplace Hookups and Hygiene Horrors
01:06:25 Embarrassing Moments and Workplace Mishaps
01:10:42 Fights and Friendships
01:26:46 Provoking and Confrontations
01:37:44 Closing Remarks and Announcements
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So many of us grew up with parents who made rules that sound ridiculous now. No car lights in the backseat because it was “illegal.” No sleeping with a fan because it could make you sick. No wearing red nail polish because it was “too grown.” Some of us even got guilted into cooking for the entire family just for making ourselves a snack. These strange rules weren’t about keeping us safe—they were about control, image, and fear. And now as adults, we’re still trying to set boundaries, let go of guilt, and unlearn the habits those rules left behind.
That question of trust and control shows up again when we break down Netflix’s The Truth About Jussie Smollett. The documentary digs into contradictions in the brothers’ testimony, missing video footage, and the Chicago Police Department’s long history of corruption. It also shows how quickly the media shaped public opinion before the facts were clear. We talk about what the documentary reveals, what still doesn’t add up, and the bigger problem of how victims often lose credibility while institutions protect their own image.
Then we unpack Netflix’s Unknown Number: The High School Catfish, the shocking story of a Michigan teenager who was harassed for almost two years with anonymous texts—only to find out her own mother was behind it. The betrayal, the manipulation, and the light consequences compared to the long-term damage raise hard questions: how do you rebuild trust after something like that? And what does it say about family dynamics when the person you’re supposed to rely on most is the one causing the harm?
On top of all that, adulting still finds new ways to frustrate us. From “luxury” hotels with no spas, to restaurants cutting corners on desserts, to favorite snacks like Doritos 3D, Bugles flavors, and cheesecake bites disappearing off shelves—it feels like adulthood is one long list of letdowns. And sometimes, the only relief is having lighthearted debates with your friends, like whether chocolate counts as candy or just a sweet.
This episode is about more than just weird parenting rules. It’s about boundaries, betrayal, broken trust, adulting struggles, nostalgia, and the kind of conversations that remind you you’re not alone in the chaos of figuring it all out.
Chapter:
00:00 Mysterious Text Messages
00:55 Weirdest Rules from Parents
02:00 Car Conversations and Tinted Windows
03:35 Laughing and Living Life
04:24 More Bizarre Parental Rules
24:29 Cooking for the Whole Family
29:25 Jussie Smollett Documentary Discussion
32:15 Questioning the Lawyer's Role
32:39 Doubts About the Confession
33:06 The Interrogation and Confession
33:29 The Fame and Money Motive
33:39 Physical Appearance and Perception
34:44 Skepticism About the Incident
35:18 Police Department's Shady History
40:14 The Noose and the Sandwich
42:42 The Documentary's Impact
53:17 Netflix's New Documentary
01:10:47 The Case of the Unfit Mother
01:11:43 The FBI's Involvement
01:13:50 The Daughter's Realization
01:15:04 Netflix and K-Dramas
01:15:25 The Hilarious Mr. Queen
01:16:12 Diving into BL Dramas
01:22:28 The Allure of BL Love Stories
01:43:52 The Chocolate Debate
01:44:56 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts
Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.
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This episode dives into the wild, nasty, and downright disturbing things people have discovered about their friends. Jocelyn and Jade kick it off with their own experiences—from finding out a friend never actually used soap when washing her hands, to another who embarrassed them by being a terrible tipper. From there, they read and react to shocking stories from Reddit: a coworker who turned out to have murdered his girlfriend in Costa Rica, someone with a drawer full of used chewing gum, a guy spitting on his carpet until it molded, piles of discarded contact lenses, and friends who betrayed each other by sleeping with partners and family members.
The conversation spirals hilariously (and sometimes grossly) into bigger topics:
As always, the episode keeps the vibe messy, funny, and real—jumping between disturbing confessions, random food hot takes, parenting chaos, and millennial nostalgia. It ends with a reminder to join their new Discord community, “The After Party”, where listeners can hang out and keep the conversation going.
Timeline:
00:00 Shocking Discoveries About Friends
01:11 Hand Washing Horror Stories
02:59 Tipping Etiquette and Pet Peeves
04:05 Disturbing Confessions from the Internet
04:34 Creepy True Crime Conversations
18:46 Gospel Music and Emotional Songs
25:55 Childhood Snacks and Fundraisers
35:09 Baking Memories and Recipes
39:19 Funny Kid Stories and TV Shows
43:18 Streaming Woes and Amazon Purchases
43:59 Nostalgic TV Shows and Movies
46:01 Sons of Anarchy and Memorable TV Deaths
48:45 Actors and Their Iconic Roles
56:15 Food Talk: Butter on Pop-Tarts and Fast Food Deals
01:08:04 Home Renovations and DIY Projects
01:24:08 Reflections on Childhood and Popularity
01:26:37 Wrapping Up and Community Engagement
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In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade dive into a messy moral dilemma: should you cut off a friend if you find out they’re cheating on their spouse? The conversation sparks from a Reddit thread, where many people admitted to ending friendships over cheating. The hosts explore why people see cheating as a bigger deal than other wrongdoings—like stealing or lying—even when those might impact friends directly.
They debate whether cheating automatically makes someone untrustworthy in all areas of life, or if it’s more complicated depending on context. Both admit they wouldn’t instantly drop a friend but would first want a conversation: why did it happen, what’s going on, and is the friend trying to drag them into the situation? They draw a hard line at being asked to cover up lies—once they’re involved, they’re out.
The discussion widens into gray areas: Is cheating different if it’s a boyfriend versus a husband? Would you tell the spouse? Does the situation change if the relationship was abusive? And what about being friends with someone who cheats with other people’s partners? The hosts also share their own experiences—admitting they’ve been in messy situations before and learned the hard way about karma.
As always, the episode balances humor and honesty. Listeners get Jade and Jocelyn’s trademark unfiltered takes, from joking about “lie to me too so I can stay out of it” to reminiscing about MySpace and BlackPlanet, to laughing over wild neighborhood drama like witnessing car vandalism. The core message: cheating is wrong, but whether it’s friendship-ending isn’t always black and white—it depends on the situation, the history of the friendship, and whether your friend tries to drag you into their mess.
Timeline:
00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts on Cheating
00:56 Weekly Reddit Question of the Week
02:55 Moral Dilemmas and Cheating
04:05 Podcast Discussion on Deception
07:39 Friendship and Cheating: A Moral Debate
13:45 Personal Reflections and Hypotheticals
17:42 Cheating in Relationships: A Broader Perspective
20:24 The Complexity of Ending Friendships
39:47 Marriage, Rings, and Personal Preferences
44:01 Subscription Annoyances and Nostalgia
44:22 AOL and Old Email Addresses
45:09 Black Planet and MySpace Memories
48:27 The Evolution of Social Media
59:48 Witnessing a Crime
01:08:14 Personal Updates and Challenges
01:23:19 Closing Remarks and Call to Action
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This episode dives deep into the messy realities of adult friendships—why they fail, how boundaries shift as life changes, and the kinds of people Jocelyn and Jade are done entertaining in their circles.
The conversation kicks off with a side story about boundaries and communication—how marriage, kids, and busy schedules force people to be stricter with their time, and how flakiness or poor communication can strain even solid friendships. From there, Jocelyn introduces her list of five types of friends to cut off:
They also throw in a bonus category:
Throughout the episode, Jocelyn and Jade mix in personal stories, humor, and some Reddit-inspired commentary about how adults struggle with friendships. A big theme is how people avoid difficult conversations with friends, even though they’ll do it in romantic relationships or with family. The hosts argue that friendships are relationships too, and they deserve honesty, accountability, and investment.
The episode closes with a call for listeners to reflect on their own circles: stop calling acquaintances “friends,” be honest about what you’re willing to tolerate, and don’t be afraid to let go of people who don’t add value to your life.
Timeline:
00:00 Unexpected Gossip
01:00 Marriage and Boundaries
03:19 Communication in Friendships
11:35 Top Five Friends to Let Go
12:27 The Drama Friend
13:43 The Diva Friend
15:19 Owning Up to Mistakes
18:50 Too Attached or Too Detached
35:08 The Favor Seeker
39:55 High Standards in Friendships
40:57 Political Differences in Friendships
43:39 Weekly Reddit: Ending Friendships
44:58 Moral and Ethical Differences
57:19 The Importance of Communication
01:18:13 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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What happens when you’re five years into a relationship, living together, in love… but he still won’t propose? 👀 In this week’s episode, we dive into a viral Reddit story where a woman finds out the real reason her partner won’t put a ring on it: kids. He wants them, she doesn’t. And suddenly, the “forever” relationship doesn’t feel so secure.
We get into it ALL — mismatched expectations, why “they’ll change their mind” is the worst relationship gamble, and how resentment creeps in when one partner sacrifices their dreams for the other. Plus, you know us… we spiral into everything from pregnancy fears and parenting fails to cruise ship nightmares, waterboarding hair wash flashbacks, and dating stories featuring “Fat #1” and “Fat #2.” 😂
This is one of those episodes where the conversation is both deep and hilarious — a reminder that no matter how much love there is, dealbreakers matter.
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Timeline:
00:00 Understanding Dating Preferences
00:42 Weekly Reddit Story: Why My Partner Hasn't Proposed
02:22 The Dilemma of Having Kids
04:52 Advice and Opinions on Relationship Decisions
07:06 Personal Experiences and Reflections on Parenting
21:05 Cruises, Elevators, and Other Anxieties
35:20 Dating Preferences and Racial Bias
42:16 Unexpected Reunion with Fat Number Two
42:44 The Annual Birthday Call
44:11 Memories of a Night with Jose Cuervo
45:21 Reflections on Past Relationships
48:07 Graduation Plans and Reflections
52:57 New Job Challenges and Adjustments
54:10 Fitness Challenges and Goals
59:59 Learning Korean and Other Languages
01:12:19 Exploring Korean Convenience Stores
01:20:27 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts
#Podcast #Relationships #Marriage #Millennials #ModernWomen #ModernMen #DatingAfter30 #Parenting #SingleLife #NavigatingAdulthood #WorkLifeBalance #UnfilteredConversation #VibeTribe
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Back door escapes. LinkedIn DMs. A 4-year-old spilling the tea. We’re diving into the wildest ways people discover they’re being cheated on—plus our own messy confessions, listener stories, and unfiltered takes on girl code, “cheating down,” and why some people forgive what they shouldn’t.
We also get real about the rise of “whites only” communities in 2025, the history they’re ignoring, and why it’s more dangerous than they think. It’s chaos, honesty, and best-friend energy all in one.
From sneaky back door exits to the other woman sliding into your LinkedIn messages (yes, LinkedIn), Episode 37 is all about the wild, ridiculous, and sometimes heartbreaking ways people find out they’re being cheated on. Jocelyn, Jade, and returning guest Antonio aren’t holding back—they’re confessing their own messy pasts, spilling listener-submitted cheating stories, and debating the messy truths about girl code, “cheating down,” and whether good sex is ever worth putting up with bad behavior.
We’re talking the shocking truck-in-the-backyard discovery, a husband busting his wife via Pinterest, a 4-year-old accidentally outing an affair, and the chaos that happens when friend groups blur the lines. You’ll hear the petty ways people get caught, the delusional ways we justify staying, and the brutally honest conversations about why we sometimes forgive what we shouldn’t.
But it’s not all relationship drama—this week we also take a detour into some real talk about the rise of “whites only” communities in 2025. We unpack the history behind segregation, why the comparison to “Black-only” spaces doesn’t hold up, and how fear, not superiority, is still fueling racism today. It’s blunt, it’s unfiltered, and it’s exactly the kind of conversation you’d have with your most honest friends over wine.
Whether you’re here for the tea, the life lessons, or the laugh-out-loud commentary, Episode 37 delivers it all—chaos, honesty, and a little bit of therapy you didn’t know you needed.
Timeline:
00:00 Introduction: Why People Cheat
01:06 Question of the Week: Discovering Infidelity
01:50 Cheating Stories: Real-Life Experiences
05:42 Discussion: Reactions and Reflections on Cheating
07:21 Personal Anecdotes: Cheating and Relationships
18:12 Karaoke Memories and Fun Times
21:09 Honesty in Relationships: The Good and the Bad
33:24 Childhood Memories: Indirectly Snitching
36:19 Discussing Segregated Communities
40:07 Economic Viability of Segregated Towns
40:41 Racism in 2025: A Discussion
44:24 Personal Experiences with Racism
01:02:02 Cheating Stories and Relationship Dynamics
01:17:24 Concluding Thoughts and Farewells
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Looking for a job in a tough market? Jocelyn and Jade keep it real about what actually works—and what definitely doesn’t. Jocelyn shares how she lowballed herself in an interview and what that taught her about knowing your worth. They break down why blaming the job market is often just an excuse, the importance of tailoring your resume (yes, multiple versions), and how to use tools like ChatGPT to actually land interviews—not just write cute bios.
They also get into:
This one’s part career advice, part real talk, part chaos—and you’ll feel seen, dragged, and entertained all at the same time.
Timeline:
00:00 Learning from Job Interview Mistakes
00:56 Reddit Job Search Questions
03:01 Creating Multiple Resumes
08:33 Using Chat GPT for Job Applications
15:58 Aggressively Applying for Jobs
16:56 Challenges in the Job Market
20:26 The Importance of Honesty in Job Applications
26:03 Negotiating Salary and Job Offers
51:00 The Role of Remote Work in Job Searching
51:42 Navigating Office Politics During the Pandemic
53:16 The Reality of Remote Work and Promotions
55:01 Dealing with Jealousy and Office Dynamics
57:14 Understanding Friendship Hierarchies
57:22 The Concept of a B-Roll Friend
01:14:31 Chat GPT: Friend or Foe?
01:26:37 Living with a Ghost
01:30:58 Engage with Us!
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This week, we asked the internet: What’s your most controversial opinion? …and y’all did not disappoint. From parenting and weddings to job hunting and even fast food on Affirm (yes, for real), we’re reacting to the internet’s spiciest takes—and dropping a few of our own.
We get into:
We also roast people going into debt over Labubus, reflect on how we budgeted our way out of financial messes, and talk about that viral TikTok of the woman who got fired over McDonald's and Uber Eats. It’s chaotic, honest, and very on brand.
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Follow & Rate the show if you’re loving the chaos.
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Timeline:
00:00 Reckless Driving Stories
00:31 Question of the Week: Controversial Opinions
01:42 Debating Procreation and Parenting
03:48 Human Euthanization Debate
04:50 Geography Confusion and Misunderstandings
08:27 Obesity in Children: A Controversial Take
13:18 Morning People vs. Night Owls
15:35 Weddings: Worth the Cost?
17:56 Adapting to New Cultures
20:13 Men and Emotions
21:42 The Internet's Impact on Society
23:16 Church Attendance and Spirituality
24:10 Genetic Diseases and Procreation
25:27 Negative Stereotypes and Personal Experiences
34:03 Job Hunting Realities
50:12 Viral TikTok: Firing Over Food Delivery
52:36 The Consequences of Slandering a Business
54:22 DoorDash on Affirm: A Financial Audit
56:48 The Reality of Using Affirm for Fast Food
01:00:30 Financial Struggles and Mismanagement
01:06:35 The Journey to Financial Stability
01:18:15 The LASIK Experience: Pros and Cons
01:39:08 The Debate on Female Attraction
01:44:24 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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This week, we’re back with Part 2 of a relationship story so chaotic, we had to split it up. Remember the guy whose wife’s best friend was sitting on his lap, asking for emotional support...and maybe even a ring? Yeah. He finally sat them both down—and now everything’s out in the open.
Turns out, the wife made a wild decision to let her best friend “borrow” her husband’s emotional availability…as practice. What could go wrong, right?
Jocelyn and Jade break down the update with hilarious, blunt, and brutally honest commentary. From emotional cheating and gaslighting to friendship boundaries and bad decisions, this one has all the drama—and some serious real talk.
And as always, we go off-script:
This episode has laughs, lessons, and chaos… just how we like it.
🗣 Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.
Timeline:
00:00 Respecting Those Who Handle Your Food
01:19 Reddit Drama: The Emotional Affair
27:16 The Thong Song: Behind the Scenes
35:30 Shaggy's 'It Wasn't Me': The Untold Story
41:31 Cheating: A Deep Dive into Infidelity
48:18 The Busy Excuse: Are They Really That Busy?
53:46 Travel Plans and Flaky Friends
54:41 K-Pop and K-Drama Obsessions
57:00 Themed Parties: Fun or Pressure?
01:02:57 Holiday Hosting and Decorations
01:24:24 Health and Nutrition Rants
01:37:36 Considering Ozempic for Weight Loss
01:39:50 Wrapping Up and Thank You
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What happens when your spouse’s best friend starts acting like your second wife—and your partner refuses to believe it? In this unfiltered episode, we break down a wild Reddit relationship story full of toxic friendship dynamics, emotional cheating, and marriage denial. From relationship red flags and friendship boundaries to choosing loyalty in marriage over people who overstep, we’re diving all the way in.
Then we shift gears and ask the men: What’s the main reason you wouldn’t want to be a woman? The answers spark a hilarious but honest conversation about period struggles, gender expectations, hysterectomy decisions, and the everyday reality of navigating adulthood as modern women.
If you’re dealing with adult friendship problems, tired of people disrespecting your relationship, or just need real talk from women who’ve lived through it—this one’s for you.
Topics We Cover:
Timeline:
00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts
00:34 Weekly Reddit Story: A Friend's Betrayal
01:41 Analyzing the Reddit Story
06:03 Personal Reactions and Commentary
16:10 Weekly Reddit Question: Why Men Wouldn't Want to Be Women
26:38 Annoying Women and Workplace Dynamics
28:23 Gatekeeping and Its Absurdity
30:05 Fashion Obsessions and Shopping Experiences
31:57 Human Unity and Empathy
41:08 Friendship Dynamics and Betrayal
46:05 Workplace Shenanigans and Frustrations
50:16 Closing Remarks and Call to Action
Perfect for listeners who love:
#ToxicFriendships #RelationshipAdvice #ModernMarriageStruggles #MillennialWomen #EmotionalCheating #RedditStories #PersonalDevelopment #NavigatingAdulthood #UnfilteredConversations #HonestFriendshipTalk
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Friendship breakups are the worst—and in this episode, we’re diving into the most chaotic, petty, and just plain dumb reasons people are losing friends. From secret Santa sabotage and ghosting after grief to borrowing money and never paying it back, this one hits real close to home.
We get into:
If you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or just tired of one-sided friendships, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about why adulting makes friendships harder, how to spot red flags, and why nobody tells you how messy losing friends can be after 30.
Listen now and check out all episodes:
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00:00 The Faulty Gift Card Incident
01:09 Weekly Question: Zodiac Signs and Friendships
04:38 Question of the Week: Stupid Reasons for Ending Friendships
14:28 Lending Money to Friends: A Slippery Slope
33:55 The Cat Dilemma
38:51 Juneteenth: A Lesson in History
46:10 Juneteenth Awareness and Ignorance
50:52 The Struggles of Attending a Concert
51:51 VIP Experience and Disorganization
01:02:22 Concert Merchandise Madness
01:11:01 Reflecting on Workplace Petty
01:15:42 New Job Excitement and Farewells
01:33:13 Final Thoughts and Farewell
Tags/Keywords:
adult friendship breakups, signs of fake friends, ghosting friends, losing friends in adulthood, petty friendship drama, outgrowing people, navigating adulthood, millennial friendship struggles, emotional friendship loss, relationship insights, friendship red flags, navigating societal expectations
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Imagine waking up and the internet is just gone—permanently. No Google. No Instagram. No TikTok brain rot to get you through the day. In this laugh-out-loud episode, we ask the ultimate digital detox question: what’s your next move when the internet disappears?
We get into how modern women and men navigate adulthood when tech suddenly stops working. Jocelyn shares how her Tesla literally kicked her out of self-drive mode (you can't make this up), and Jade opens the floodgates on broke travel—aka that one friend who shows up with vibes and vibes only. We also dive into some chaotic friendship stories, quitting a toxic job, wild childhood memories, food obsessions, and how K-dramas got us in a chokehold again.
This episode hits hard if you're:
🎧 Topics:
Timeline:
00:00 Tesla's Self-Driving Drama
00:51 Question of the Week: Life Without Internet
05:52 Nostalgia: First CDs and Childhood Memories
12:18 Workplace Woes and Exit Strategies
18:52 Tesla Road Trip to Atlanta
34:41 Theatrics in Fighting
34:56 Character Analysis: Season One vs. Season Two
35:16 Toxic Characters and Their Appeal
36:50 K-Drama Recommendations
38:04 Mr. Queen: A Unique Plot
39:11 Historical Accuracy in K-Dramas
47:48 Broke Travel Stories
57:12 Addictions and Guilty Pleasures
01:02:51 Double Trouble and Bathroom Humor
01:03:29 Weight Loss Struggles and Fasting
01:04:13 Disappointment with CM Chicken
01:05:04 Nostalgia and Body Image
01:06:32 Live Stream Announcement and Walking Together
01:07:35 Chips, Butter, and Childhood Snacks
01:11:03 Personal Trainers and Fitness Goals
01:21:19 Childhood Discipline Stories
01:29:05 Closing Remarks and Viewer Engagement
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