Happy hump day tot-ers! In today's rather humbling ep, I travel down memory lane to the time another beautician and her client walked in on me getting my perineal area lasered (yes, that is the technical term for asshole). I also chat about self growth, love and the progress I've made over the past couple of weeks. I honestly feel like a new me and I'm here for it! I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! x
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Happy Tuesday cuties! I'm currently on a flight to Sydney but I just wanted to update y'all on my week ahead. I'm going to Mardi Gras with TikTok wooo, so exciting! Be sure to follow along on all my socials (below!) I also wanted to tell you all about a new app that I'm on (Sunroom) where creators can post/upload anything without any censorship (HELLOOOO! what a dream). I go into more detail in the ep but if you want to follow me on there and create a closer friendship with me, my link is below! I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG!
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Hi tot fam! In today's episode I reveal all re: my recent ADHD diagnosis (woohoo finally!). I discuss the signs and symptoms I experienced throughout childhood into adulthood that pointed towards ADHD as well as the struggles I still face daily. If you're struggling, I highly recommend making an appointment to get that referral or talking to a psychologist about the possibility of getting tested if that's something you've been considering. I also answered some of your questions towards the end re: getting a diagnosis!! love u all! hope you're having a great week! xx
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Australian School Bans LGBTQ+ students?! Citipointe Christian College Horror
Hey tot fam! In today's mini ep I discuss the foul goings on at a Brisbane Christian College known as Citipointe.
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Happy Tuesday fam! In today's episode I am joined by my friend and fellow queer, genderfluid, human - Keara Graves! In this episode we speak very candidly about our experience' with being genderfluid including how we knew, what it feels like, how to distinguish between wanting to challenge societal norms and actually being GF and SO much more. We also answer a tonne of your burning Q's relating to gender fluidity, pronoun usage and/or being queer in general. Definitely check out Keara's socials below too - they create amazing content as well!! We hope you enjoyed! Definitely let me know if you loved hearing from Keara - you'll be hearing from us again v soon! ;) Loveeee, Dutchy xxx
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Happy Tuesday cuties! Welcome to 2022 - let's get this bread. I recorded today's episode from isolation (woohoo - naht). I'm currently awaiting my covid test results (5 days and counting) and was eager to get back on my poddy shit for y'all. In this catch up ep I speak about what I've been up to for the past couple of months including: my new puppy Moose, quitting my previous job, landing a new job in fashion marketing and coming out as gender fluid at the end of last year (more about this in future eps I'm sure!!)
I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG!
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Happy Thursday Tater Tots! In today's episode I open up about my current mental health struggles & starting my journey on lexapro. I also speak about birth control, specifically the pill and how much I've changed since coming off 6 months ago. I fully feel like a different person since coming off and it's been incredible. I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below!
Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG!
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Happy Tuesday Tater Tots! It's been a hot minute! I hope you're all doing well and staying safe! :) In today's episode Dom and I have a casual chit chat catch up about life, trashy tv, locky-d and so much more. Pop this one on for an easy listen! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx
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HEYYY TATER TOTS!! In today's episode I am joined by one of my besties Charlee! We cover A LOT of topics in this chit chat/catch up episode. Please make note of the time stamps below for sensitive issues. In this episode we discuss vaccines, living abroad, solo travel, abortion & being pro choice, the toxic side of social media, sexual assault, cancel culture, tiktok drama, sex toys, therapy + more. We hope you enjoy this super casual chat between two pals and I'll catch you in next weeks episode!
Don't forget to like, rate & review if you're enjoying topics of taboo so far - it helps me out a heap xxx
**TIME STAMPS**
00-1:40 Intro
1:40-3:01 Charlee's intro
3:01-6:07 Life in the UK/living in lockdown
6:07-8:20 Vaccinations
8:20-11:53 Anti-vaxxers & fear mongering in the media/facebook
11:53-24:03 Abbie Chatfield speaks about Abortion
24:03-32:19 Tiktok Drama + Sexual Assault
32:19-36:34 Spreading negativity/online bullying/cancel culture
36:34 - 1:04:01 Answering your questions
1:04:01 Outro
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Hey Tater-tots.
Today I'm joined by my wonderful boyfriend Fraser as we delve into some of the internet's best unpopular opinions. Some are fun, some are dumb, but they are all thought provoking.
DISCLAIMER:
We briefly talk about sexual assault and rape between 13:22 and 14:52
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Going to therapy, opening up about my mental health & maybe I'm coeliac?
Happy Monday Tater Tots!! In today's epsiode, ya girl opens up about her mental health a bit more & why I've been a bit slow on the socials of late. I finally booked myself in to see a Psychologist (woo!!) and really want to normalise going to therapy and talking about it as someone with a platform. I also dive into my thoughts on thinking I'm undiagnosed ADHD and that all of my gut issues may very well be due to having coeliac disease. Lots to unpack here. Thanks for listening and being the most patient fam ever.
Happpppy Tuesday Tater Tots!! Today's episode is all about what it's like being on the asexual spectrum. I recently uploaded this one onto my YouTube channel and it was far too wholesome not to post on here as well as an audio file! Some of the Dutchy fam reached out & were happy to answer some of your questions re: asexuality! In this episode we cover topics such as sexual desire (or lack of), how to know if you're asexual, what it means to be demi, what sexual attraction feels like, what the aro/ace spectrum entails and so much more!!
I seriously hope you enjoy this one & learn lots!! All my love, Dutchy xx
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Happy Pride Month Tater Tots!
After last weeks absolute mammoth of an episode with Frase last week, this is a nice brisk ep were I talk all things pride, from my first pride month to how to celebrate pride when you are closeted (hence the title of the podcast ;)) and a special merch announcement (WHAT?!).
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Happy Hump Day Tater Tots!
In todays episode, my boyfriend (Fraser) and I discuss all things online dating and also answer some of your questions about dating a bisexual, dating as a bisexual + so much more.
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Youtube: Dutchy
Happy Tuesday #tot fam! In today's episode I welcome one of our very own listeners on to the pod to chat about male bisexuality, gender dysphoria, demisexuality + so much more!
Be sure to follow #tot on IG if you would like to get involved/featured on future episodes or to chat about topics covered in each of my episodes! I'll catch you all next week!
LINKS:
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Youtube: Dutchy
Happy Monday #tot fam!! In today's episode I dive into queer imposter syndrome and how to deal with feeling like you're not queer enough or the LGBTQ+ community.
Megan's IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/megandijkman/">@megandijkman</a><br>
Youtube: Dutchy
Happy Monday tot fam! In today’s raunchy episode I invite my good friend Kyah back onto #tot to talk about SEX! I was sent FlexMami’s card game (ReFlex) so we decided to play & discuss. We chat about our first time, hook up culture, orgasms (and what they feel like), squirting, how to communicate personal boundaries inc. likes & dislikes and SO much more! Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG!
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Youtube: Dutchy
Time stamps with ** = sensitive topics/trigger warning!
Time Stamps:
Intro 0:00-2:40
Hook up culture: 2:40-4:27
Communicating sexual desires: 4:27-7:07
Your first sexual experience: 7:07-9:52
First sex talk: 9:52-13:45
Female condoms/protection: 13:45-14:50
**What to do when "no" isn't enough for someone: 14:50-16:26**
Dental dams - where to get them/are they necessary: 16:26-17:19
How to have safe lesbian/gay sex: 17:19-17:44
Should you still use protection in relationships? 17:44-18:37
How to move past sexual assault? 18:37-20:13
Painful penetration & alternative sexual acts: 20:13-21:05
How to make sure I don't hurt my gf for our first time: 21:05-21:55
How to be confident in the bedroom/sex injuries/awkwardness: 21:55-23:44
Vasectomies & cumming? 23:44-24:38
How to smell & taste healthy down there: 24:38-26:50
How do girls masturbate: 26:50-29:40
Where to get STI tests in Australia? 29:40-31:05
Squirting? But no orgasm? 31:05-32:00
**How to set boundaries in the bedroom/how to say no: 32:00-33:10**
Could you live a fulfilling life without sex? 33:10-34:34
Favourite thing about sex? 34:34-36:17
How do you communicate your sexual boundaries verbally? 36:17-37:34
Non-verbal consent? 37:34-40:31
Favourite way to initiate sex: 40:31-42:02
What is bad sex? 42:02-44:37
How would you describe an orgasm? 44:37-46:55
Outro 46:55-48:17
REVIEWERS OF THE WEEK: 48:17-49:57
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