THE VIBRANT SURVIVOR -How to Identify a Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse, Toxic Relationships, Trauma Healing, Health, Wellness
Lesley Cain - Health and Wellness Coach, Trauma Informed Coach, Healthy Boundaries Coach
153 episodes
6 days ago
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Heal after narcissistic abuse.
Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships?
Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups?
Are you ready to heal after narcissistic abuse?
In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal after narcissistic abuse through holistic health, trauma support, and boundaries.
If you’re ready to disconnect from dysfunction and prioritize your healing after narcissistic abuse, then you’re in the right place!
Hi, I’m Lesley. A wife, mom, and narcissistic abuse survivor. For years, I rationalized toxic relationships and dysfunctional environments, in an effort to find connection, purpose, success, and peace. I fell for lies, fake opportunities, and empty promises, wasting my time, talents, and money. It took a toll on my mental health (Hello, CPTSD!); and it almost cost me my life…literally.
I finally realized that if I was going to break the cycle and heal my childhood trauma from the inside out, I needed a holistic approach. I reclaimed and redirected my resources towards solutions that helped me to put the narcissists in my life in my rear-view mirror. After applying some stealthy strategies for drama-free exits, protecting my peace, and pursuing my goals, I was determined to help others to identify, navigate, and heal from this insidious form of abuse. I went to school and became a Master Certified Health Coach and Certified Trauma Support Specialist. And I’m here to teach you how to heal after narcissistic abuse.
If you’re ready to experience healing after narcissistic abuse that focuses on YOU; holistic health and wellness solutions with real results like greater clarity, confidence, a more positive mindset, healthy boundaries, and better relationships – this podcast is for you!
Take a deep breath in…Let it out slowly…And just relax, this time is for you.
Contact: support@lesleycain.com
Instagram: @thevibrantsurvivor
***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Any reliance you place on this information is strictly at your own risk. Lesley Cain is not a doctor, therapist or counselor. If you need healthcare, medical attention, therapy, or counseling, please seek professional help from a licensed practitioner.
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Heal after narcissistic abuse.
Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships?
Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups?
Are you ready to heal after narcissistic abuse?
In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal after narcissistic abuse through holistic health, trauma support, and boundaries.
If you’re ready to disconnect from dysfunction and prioritize your healing after narcissistic abuse, then you’re in the right place!
Hi, I’m Lesley. A wife, mom, and narcissistic abuse survivor. For years, I rationalized toxic relationships and dysfunctional environments, in an effort to find connection, purpose, success, and peace. I fell for lies, fake opportunities, and empty promises, wasting my time, talents, and money. It took a toll on my mental health (Hello, CPTSD!); and it almost cost me my life…literally.
I finally realized that if I was going to break the cycle and heal my childhood trauma from the inside out, I needed a holistic approach. I reclaimed and redirected my resources towards solutions that helped me to put the narcissists in my life in my rear-view mirror. After applying some stealthy strategies for drama-free exits, protecting my peace, and pursuing my goals, I was determined to help others to identify, navigate, and heal from this insidious form of abuse. I went to school and became a Master Certified Health Coach and Certified Trauma Support Specialist. And I’m here to teach you how to heal after narcissistic abuse.
If you’re ready to experience healing after narcissistic abuse that focuses on YOU; holistic health and wellness solutions with real results like greater clarity, confidence, a more positive mindset, healthy boundaries, and better relationships – this podcast is for you!
Take a deep breath in…Let it out slowly…And just relax, this time is for you.
Contact: support@lesleycain.com
Instagram: @thevibrantsurvivor
***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Any reliance you place on this information is strictly at your own risk. Lesley Cain is not a doctor, therapist or counselor. If you need healthcare, medical attention, therapy, or counseling, please seek professional help from a licensed practitioner.
Hey, Survivor!Have you ever been used by the narcissist to avoid consequences? In this episode, I’m sharing about the latest hearing in the murder trial. I’ll talk about the defense’s strategy, the prosecutor’s insights, and how you can recognize narcissistic manipulation tactics disguised as mental illness, physical ailments, victimhood or rationalizations. You can prioritize your health and well-being by staying grounded in reality and speaking your truth - even when it’s hard and it hurts. Your courage matters!
If you, or someone you know, have been used to avoid accountability, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you reclaim your body and brain, after trauma? In this episode, I’ll talk about a trauma healing and wellness workshop that I led for an awesome group of survivors. I’ll share why a holistic approach to healing is important, especially whole food nutrition and exercise that’s fun for you. Healing doesn’t begin when the narcissistic or toxic person who hurt you reaps what they’ve sown. Your healing starts with YOU!
If you, or someone you know, want to tap into the power of meals and movement for healing, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you self-regulate, when facing gaslighting, manipulation, and other toxic behaviors? In this episode, I’ll talk about body-based regulation when systems, institutions, and people you thought you could trust turn against you. I’ll share about the second round of hearings for 1 of the 4 school administrators who failed to protect students from a former teacher’s misconduct. You can’t control the narcissist or their tactics; but you can control how you care for your nervous system and your truth. Your health and well-being matter!
If you, or someone you know, are experiencing narcissistic abuse by toxic systems and leaders, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Ever tried drumming, as a trauma healing tool? In this episode, I’ll talk about body-based regulation and the power of drumming. I’ll share about my experience at a group healing session, what it felt like, the science behind it, and how you can put it into practice and improve your health and well-being. Your safety matters!
If you, or someone you know, are looking to add more tools to your toolbox, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!What’s with the laughing, joking, smirking, during serious court hearings, like a murder trial? In this episode, I’ll explain why people (including the narcissist, witnesses, counsel, judges, even you) sometimes laugh, joke, or smirk during serious hearings — why it can be triggering — and provide holistic tools to protect your body, mind, and spirit. Other people’s behavior is their business. But your health and healing is your business. Your health matters!
If you, or someone you know, are struggling to understand what’s so funny when lives have been ruined or lost, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you triumph over trauma when testifying? In this episode, I’m sharing my experience interviewing with a detective about the murders. I explain why I decided to speak up after all these years, how I prepared, the feelings that came up, and how I dealt with them. Re-telling what has happened to you can bring up a lot of hard feelings. When and if you feel safe to do so, your voice can bring truth to light, empower others; and the emotional release can be healing. Your story matters!
If you, or someone you know, are debating over speaking your truth, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you navigate overwhelming experiences — toxic people, narcissistic family members, work stress, grief, or healing from abuse? In this episode, I’m sharing my emotionally heavy, retraumatizing experience at the murder trial. Every-body experiences trauma differently. It’s not a sign of weakness. It’s human. So, I’m sharing some grounding tools that will help you to calm your body and brain, and support your health and well-being. Your peace is priceless!
If you, or someone you know, are trying to recover and care for yourself while the hardest moments of your life are replayed, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!In this episode, I’m sharing my latest experience at the murder trial. So, please listen to your body and take care as you’re tuning in. I’m talking about what retraumatization looks like, feels like, and how you can navigate it and heal. You’re stronger than you know!
If you, or someone you know, are dealing with retraumatization through trials [of any kind], this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!This episode may be triggering, so I encourage you to listen to your body and practice self-care as you’re tuning in. I’m sharing my experience at the first trial hearing of the alleged murderer. I’ve also included some takeaways from my counseling session after the hearing. And I’m giving you some healthy ways to navigate any trials, toxic relationships, or traumatic events you may be experiencing. Your life and peace matter!
If you, or someone you know, are looking for trauma healing real talk, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Have you ever tried SoulCollage? It’s an expressive arts practice developed by Seena B. Frost in the 1980’s that uses images, intuition, and the creation of collaged cards to explore different aspects of yourself. In this episode, I’m sharing my experience with this process during a trauma healing group session. And I’ve included 5 C’s of creative healing for survivors. Your unique and creative healing matters!
If you, or someone you know, are looking for a creative healing tool, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Have you ever been told you’re too much? It’s easy to get caught up in drama and what has happened to you in your narcissistic and toxic relationships; however, it's important to explore other aspects of what’s going on: the state you’re in; the state they’re in; what’s happening holistically. In this episode, I’m sharing an exercise, based on psychiatrist Eric Berne’s “Transactional Analysis,” from a trauma healing group session that I recently attended. And I’ve included 5 benefits for survivors. You’re not too much. You are enough!
If you, or someone you know, need help reclaiming your power, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Has your health and well-being taken a hit, after trauma? In this episode, I’m sharing some things to keep in mind when you’re healing from trauma - whether it’s from narcissistic and toxic relationships or otherwise. Your healing matters!
If you, or someone you know, need help with healthy expectations on your healing journey, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Ever wonder how narcissistic leaders manage to avoid consequences? In this episode, I’m sharing 5 shady tactics used to dodge accountability, and what you can do about it - even when the system feels rigged. Your voice matters!
If you, or someone you know, need help navigating toxic leadership and organizations, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Have you been told not to argue with a narcissist? In this episode, I’m sharing how you can — but not in the way you may think. I’m flipping the script to give you a framework to respond — not react — after narcissistic abuse. Protecting your peace is powerful!
If you, or someone you know, need help with healthy boundaries, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Have you been silenced, shamed, or publicly targeted for telling the truth about narcissistic abuse? In this episode, I’m sharing breaking down a major reason narcissists try to silence you: your truth. Whether it's a family member, coworker, or local leader—abusers often try to silence those who speak honestly and hold them accountable. I’ll share personal insight and practical strategies to stay grounded, keep speaking, and protect your peace—because their fear of truth is not your problem to manage. You and your truth matter!
If you, or someone you know, need help navigating truth-telling and silencing tactics, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!Do you dream of justice, after narcissistic abuse? In this episode, I’m sharing things to consider before taking legal action, for the sake of your health and well-being. Justice is important; but often doesn’t play out in the way that you expect or desire. Making sure that you’re fit for the fight, prioritizing your peace, and setting healthy boundaries are underrated power moves. I’m with you, and I’m here to help. You are worthy of justice AND healing!
If you, or someone you know, need help navigating your journey to justice, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you know the narcissist still wants control, after you’ve gone low or no contact? In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 subtle manipulation tactics they may use to control your behavior, emotions, thinking, and other relationships. You may feel stressed, exhausted, or crazy when the narcissistic or toxic individual goes dark, then deploys these passive-aggressive tactics. You’re not alone, and this puts your health and well-being at risk. So, prioritize your peace and healing!
If you, or someone you know, need help navigating narcissistic control tactics, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you rest as a trauma survivor? In this episode, I’m using an acronym to share 4 ways to R.E.S.T. on your healing journey. You may have learned that rest is weak, for the lazy, or that stillness is unsafe. Chronic stress, CPTSD, and hypervigilance will compromise your health and well-being. But rest is a power move. And your healing starts with YOU!
If you, or someone you know, need more rest, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you deal with the casualties of narcissistic and toxic relationships? In this episode, I’ll cover 3 things to know and do, when the narcissist poisons your crew. Betrayal can be a blessing. And you’re worthy of healthy relationships and a vibrant life!
If you, or someone you know, need help identifying, navigating and healing from the loss of relationships after narcissistic abuse, this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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Hey, Survivor!How do you navigate traumatic comparisons in narcissistic families and other relationships? In this episode, I’m sharing my personal experience and insights on what I call “post-traumatic pissing contests. I’ll cover 3 key points to help you set healthy boundaries and hold space for yourself and others. Enough of the invalidation and minimization of lived experience! Your truth matters!
If you, or someone you know, have been a victim or perpetrator of the trauma comparison game (aka “post-traumatic pissing contest”), this episode is for you.
Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
💚Lesley
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THE VIBRANT SURVIVOR -How to Identify a Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse, Toxic Relationships, Trauma Healing, Health, Wellness
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST***
Heal after narcissistic abuse.
Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships?
Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups?
Are you ready to heal after narcissistic abuse?
In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal after narcissistic abuse through holistic health, trauma support, and boundaries.
If you’re ready to disconnect from dysfunction and prioritize your healing after narcissistic abuse, then you’re in the right place!
Hi, I’m Lesley. A wife, mom, and narcissistic abuse survivor. For years, I rationalized toxic relationships and dysfunctional environments, in an effort to find connection, purpose, success, and peace. I fell for lies, fake opportunities, and empty promises, wasting my time, talents, and money. It took a toll on my mental health (Hello, CPTSD!); and it almost cost me my life…literally.
I finally realized that if I was going to break the cycle and heal my childhood trauma from the inside out, I needed a holistic approach. I reclaimed and redirected my resources towards solutions that helped me to put the narcissists in my life in my rear-view mirror. After applying some stealthy strategies for drama-free exits, protecting my peace, and pursuing my goals, I was determined to help others to identify, navigate, and heal from this insidious form of abuse. I went to school and became a Master Certified Health Coach and Certified Trauma Support Specialist. And I’m here to teach you how to heal after narcissistic abuse.
If you’re ready to experience healing after narcissistic abuse that focuses on YOU; holistic health and wellness solutions with real results like greater clarity, confidence, a more positive mindset, healthy boundaries, and better relationships – this podcast is for you!
Take a deep breath in…Let it out slowly…And just relax, this time is for you.
Contact: support@lesleycain.com
Instagram: @thevibrantsurvivor
***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Any reliance you place on this information is strictly at your own risk. Lesley Cain is not a doctor, therapist or counselor. If you need healthcare, medical attention, therapy, or counseling, please seek professional help from a licensed practitioner.
