Whew, sis… the dating world is wild out here! In this season finale, I’m unpacking why I believe the dating pool has pee in it — from the lack of genuine partnership to the rise of people wanting aesthetically pleasing “situationships” instead of real connection.
I talk about how modern dating has lost its essence — people aren’t yearning for each other, they’re performing love instead of being in it. Let’s get back to building relationships rooted in partnership, not performance.
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🎙 Episode 30: It’s Okay to Want More
Sis, it’s okay to want more. 💕 You can be grateful and still crave greater. This episode is your reminder that gratitude and desire can coexist—you don’t have to settle for crumbs just to seem humble. You deserve love, peace, and opportunities that match your effort and energy.
I talk about finding balance between appreciation and ambition, letting go of guilt for having standards, and giving yourself permission to outgrow the version of you that accepted less. Wanting more doesn’t make you greedy—it makes you self-aware.
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Somewhere along the way, adulting made us forget how to just live. In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to reclaim your joy — to stop overthinking, stop over-analyzing, and start having fun again.
You don’t have to earn rest, joy, or play. You can chase your goals and still make time to dance in your kitchen, laugh until your stomach hurts, and do the things that remind you of your younger self. This one’s your reminder to stop being so hard on yourself and let life be soft again.
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Sometimes the hardest part of growth is realizing you’ve outgrown the spaces, routines, and people that once felt like home. In this episode, I talk about what it feels like to outgrow your environment — from recognizing when you’ve become stagnant to learning how to release what no longer serves you.
It’s not about being “better than,” it’s about being true to yourself. Growth can be lonely, but it’s also beautiful when you finally start aligning with who you’re becoming.
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In this episode, I talk about the importance of setting boundaries and refusing to shrink yourself for the sake of others. Too often, we let people take advantage of our kindness, our time, or our energy—but it’s time to stop letting yourself be used. You are a big deal, and you deserve to be treated like one.
I share insights on how to recognize when someone is overstepping, how to shift your mindset from “I should be grateful” to “I am worthy,” and why walking away can sometimes be the best form of self-respect.
Tune in for a reminder that honoring yourself isn’t selfish—it’s self-care.
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Sometimes we find ourselves choosing the same type of person over and over — different faces, same patterns. In this episode, I dive into how to stop repeating old relationship cycles and how to fully embrace your single girl era. It’s about stepping into your power, choosing yourself first, and living life on your terms without waiting for validation or approval from anyone else.
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Friendship breakups can hurt just as much—sometimes even more—than romantic ones. In this episode of The Soft Place Diaries, I dive into why these endings cut so deep, how to walk away with grace instead of gossip, and the importance of pouring back into yourself during the healing process. I also reflect on my own experiences with friendship breakups, mutual ghostings, and the lessons I’ve learned about letting go.
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It’s time to tighten up, sis. Too many women are moving through the dating world forgetting who they are and what they bring to the table. In this episode, I talk about dating with intention, refusing to be a “good morning text” on somebody’s roster, and remembering that you are the prize. No more desperation. No more messy storylines. It’s time to date like you know your worth.
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Sometimes we think healing has to be a solo mission, but the truth is—you can’t heal in isolation. In this quick girl chat, I talk about the importance of leaning on community, getting back into your self-care routines, and reminding yourself that discipline is an act of love, not punishment. Healing is softer when we don’t try to do it all alone.
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Hey sis, let’s get real — sometimes we forget that being gentle with ourselves is just as important as showing up for everyone else. In this episode, I talk about finding little moments of happiness, learning to be kind to yourself, and taking this self-care journey one day at a time. It’s about embracing your softness, giving yourself grace, and remembering that self-love isn’t a task to check off — it’s a practice, and it starts with you.
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Sis, let’s talk about it — why do people love telling women to “stay humble”? In this episode of The Soft Place Diaries, we’re unpacking the culture of humbling women, especially Black women, and how it shows up in relationships, work, and even family.
We’ll break down:
✨ The difference between true humility and forced humility
✨ Why people feel the need to shrink your shine
✨ How to resist being “humbled” and stand in your confidence
✨ Why shining unapologetically is a soft life requirement
You don’t have to apologize for your joy, your accomplishments, or your glow. The right people will never be threatened by your shine.
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Are you tired sis? Not just “I need a nap” tired — I’m talking about the kind of exhaustion that sits in your bones. In this episode, I’m getting real about Black girl burnout — the mental, emotional, and physical fatigue that comes from constantly showing up, holding it together, and pouring into everyone but yourself.
We’ll talk about:
If you’ve been feeling stretched too thin, this is your reminder to slow down, refill your own cup, and give yourself permission to just… be.
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This one’s for the soft hearts. In this quick girl chat, I’m talking directly to the women who still believe in love, even in a world that makes it feel outdated. If you’re a lover girl navigating confusion, loneliness, or wondering if love still makes sense for you — this is your gentle reminder that softness is still a strength. Keep your heart open, but protect it too.
Tap in for a quick dose of encouragement, clarity, and softness.
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In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why so many “good girls” are still single—and why the answer has nothing to do with your degree, salary, or résumé.
We’re talking about the ways women unknowingly audition for love by leading with their accolades instead of their authenticity. And worse? Sometimes trying to “outshine” other women just to be chosen.
This one’s for the women who are tired of pitching perfection and ready to be loved for who they actually are.
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In this episode, we’re unpacking the low maintenance label — especially how it’s been programmed into Black women to keep us quiet, easygoing, and settling for less. Being “low maintenance” isn’t about being easy; it’s about knowing your worth and unapologetically asking for what you deserve — whether it’s dates, attention, or respect.
Let’s break down why asking for more isn’t “too much” and how raising your standards is a form of self-love and empowerment.
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In the Season 2 premiere of The Soft Place Diaries, we’re talking about the moment everything cracked—and how I still chose softness.
What does it really mean to keep your heart solid after heartbreak? I’m sharing pieces of my own healing journey, the difference between hardening and healing, and what it looks like to stay soft without settling. Because yes, my heart broke—but my spirit didn’t.
💌 Plus, I’ve got a self-care challenge to help you start (or restart) your healing era this week.
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✨ Let’s heal soft. Let’s grow together. Let’s stay solid.
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In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to reclaim your power, pivot when life calls for it, and stop shrinking just because you’ve made mistakes in the past. Whether it’s a relationship you’ve outgrown, a boundary you’ve been afraid to set, or a version of you you’re finally ready to leave behind—it’s never too late to choose differently. So, when are you going to start standing on business?
Let’s talk about it.
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In this episode, I sat down with licensed therapist and femininity coach Chanel Diane (@c.diane_llc) for an intentional conversation about what it means to embrace femininity—especially as a Black woman—in today’s world. We explore how to reclaim softness, invite ease into your daily life, and release outdated narratives that associate femininity with weakness. This is for the women ready to live life in flow, not force.
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Some chapters don’t deserve a sequel. In this episode, we’re talking all about why going back to exes isn’t always the answer—even when it feels tempting. From protecting your peace to remembering who you are, this is your reminder that some blocks should stay closed.
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Happy Mother’s Day, sis. This episode is your reminder to get back on your Zoom—on your womanhood, on your softness, on your integrity. We’re talking real girl code—not performative, not cliquey, but rooted in love, confidence, and accountability.
Let’s get into what it looks like to stand tall in your femininity without tearing down the next woman. To show up for women you don’t know, to operate with no secret envy, no hidden competition, just wholeness. It’s time we reclaim the sacredness of womanhood—together.
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