This Kinktober, @YourSexologistBestieKash links up with @master_radiant — sensual Dom, educator, and embodiment of calm control — for a deep dive into the art of pleasure, power, and presence. 😈 From impact to intention, Kash and Master Radiant explore how kink can serve as both release and restoration — where safe touch, guided pressure, and intentional restraint help the body let go of what the mind holds on to. They unpack the psychology of pleasure, how negotiation builds safety, and why aftercare is just as sexy as foreplay. This episode reminds us that kink isn’t just about dominance or pain — it’s about trust, healing, and the confidence that comes from knowing what (and who) moves you. 🖤 Products Featured: • Spread Desire Spreader Bar • Bonds Of Desire Ankle & Wrist Restraints • Heart Desires Paddle • Royal Treatment Your Highness 🎙️ Business of Pleasure – Episode 40: Rated R For Radiant Hosted by @YourSexologistBestieKash Featuring special guest @master_radiant

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, reproductive trauma, and child loss. In this heartfelt and healing episode of The Business of Pleasure, your sexologist bestie Kash sits down with Dannie of Diamond Daddy— jewelry designer, diamond specialist, and survivor — for an intimate conversation on love, loss, and the journey to rediscovery after abuse. Both women open up about their personal histories with domestic violence. Kash shares how witnessing and experiencing abuse — even before recognizing it as abuse — shaped her own understanding of love, safety, and boundaries. Together, they unpack the complexity of realizing you’re being mistreated only once it becomes physical, and the emotional patterns that make so many survivors second-guess their pain. Dannie courageously details her story — surviving domestic violence, enduring reproductive trauma and child loss, and finding the strength to rebuild her life and heart. Her story is one of rebirth: from pain to proposal, she found a love that honors her healing, safety, and wholeness. ✨ Topics include: • Recognizing emotional and psychological abuse before it turns physical • The generational echoes of trauma and survival • Healing from reproductive trauma and child loss • Relearning intimacy and trust after abuse • Rediscovering self-worth and creating space for love again 💼 Adult Edutainment Segment: Kash highlights Bedroom Kandi’s Royal Treatment Collection, featuring tools that nurture safety, self-connection, and sensual healing — including The Queen vibrator, Get In Touch finger vibe, and Delicious Encounters lubes. These products are designed to help survivors rebuild intimacy with their bodies in a way that feels safe, empowering, and affirming. 🎧 Tune in to this emotional yet empowering conversation on reclaiming pleasure, love, and purpose after survival — a reminder that even the deepest scars can heal, and every woman deserves her royal treatment.

Touch is more than physical… it’s connection, communication, and one of the most powerful love languages we have. 💆🏽‍♀️💋 In this Pro Touch Month kickoff episode of the Business of Pleasure Podcast, @YourSexologistBestie sits down with Mama Dee — sensual healer, erotic masseuse, and founder of @d.vine.touch — to explore the sacred and sensual side of touch. Together they dive into the emotional, spiritual, and physical power of hands-on connection, and how intentional touch can soothe trauma, spark intimacy, and help you reconnect with your own body. Kash also breaks down the difference between sensual and erotic touch, shares tantric principles, and reveals how nervous system regulation and self-awareness can turn simple touch into full-body healing. This episode features Bedroom Kandi’s new Pro Touch Collection: 💫 Warm Me Up – reusable heating pad for soothing warmth 💫 Massage Oil Trio – for glide and sensory exploration 💫 Get In Touch – finger vibrator with 20 vibration patterns 💫 Make Me Over – discreet hand-strap vibe in a luxury compact ✨ Because sometimes, the softest touch has the strongest impact.

As we close out Self-Care September and Mental Health Awareness Month, we sit down with NY Times Best-Selling Author, media personality, and sex-positive pioneer Mandii B (aka @fullcourtpumps) — host of Whoreible Decisions, Decisions, Decisions, Selective Ignorance, and more — for a deeply honest, liberating conversation about breaking free from boxes, owning your voice, and the climb that made it all worthwhile. From achieving recognition as a big voice in sex-positive conversations to the discouraging moments that came with her rise, Mandii shares how she continues to reinvent herself while staying true to her power. Alongside her partner Weezy WTF, she became a New York Times Best-Selling Author, and today she continues to expand her influence across multiple platforms — proving there’s no limit to what women who refuse to be boxed in can achieve. Follow Mandii B: Instagram & X: ⁠@FullCourtPumps

In Part 2 of The Inner Kid conversation, @KentJonesOfficial, @Big_Black_Supervillain, @Tahoe_TV, and @YourSexologistBestie dive deeper into the idea of making space for our inner teenagers—the “big kids” inside us who never fully got their moment. From sneakers and video games to the hobbies and passions we once couldn’t afford, the things we chase as adults often connect back to pieces of ourselves that were left behind. Instead of weaponizing those joys in relationships, we ask: what happens when we honor them, and how does that shift intimacy, safety, and emotional connection? The guys open up on how seeing the “baby picture” version of your partner can change the way you love them, and why everyone deserves to be seen in every phase they’ve lived through. We close with a little fun, gifting Kent some of Bedroom Kandi’s Manifest Men’s Care, Eros head-to-toe balm, and Black Excellence soap set—plus a live demo of our Lovelife Krush, the sound-responsive toy that had the whole room in awe. A mix of emotional transparency and playful exploration, this episode is all about living without boundaries and creating space for the versions of ourselves that still deserve care.

Season 3 of The Business of Pleasure keeps the energy high and the conversations raw. In PART 1 of this episode, Your Sexologist Bestie @yoursexologistbestie is joined by @kandi, @tahoe_tv, @big_black_supervillain (the other half of The Soft & The Strong), and Grammy-nominated artist @kentjonesofficial. We open with Kandi sharing a saving grace tip using Bedroom Kandi’s Nourish Whipped Body Butter before she dips out — then the conversation takes off. From Kent’s rise in the music industry to his bold transparency about his foot fetish (something he’s spoken about on The Breakfast Club and Angela Yee’s Lip Service), we dive into how pleasure, kinks, and lifestyle intersect with growth. Kent reflects on how even the things that once defined his joy — like his love of feet — have evolved, pushing him to explore new spaces, like submission and kink dynamics. Chris opens up about aftercare in their relationship, and the guys expand the conversation into something deeper: the little boy and teenage self that still live inside us, and the need to make room for those parts of ourselves in adulthood. This episode is an emotional and sensual roller coaster — touching on everything from sexual exploration to emotional transparency, and how true intimacy means caring for the whole person, inside and out.

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash and BK Founder Kandi Burruss sits down with Bedroom Kandi top performers and Consultant Advisory Council leaders LaDonya "Lady D" McClure and Anisha Robinson. Together, they dive into what it really takes to keep intimacy alive — from everyday sensuality to the art of creating pleasure-centered experiences in and out of the bedroom. With years of success as BK leaders, LaDonya and Anisha share how their journeys have been fueled not just by business wins but by a deeper understanding of self-care, confidence, and connection. This episode blends laughter, candid talk, and a few naughty insights 😉 — proving that when women own their pleasure, they own their power.

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash is joined by Bedroom Kandi founder Kandi Burruss and influencer Tahoe for a no-holds-barred conversation with the larger-than-life Mr. Organik. Known for his disciplined lifestyle, fitness, and entrepreneurial hustle, Mr. Organik opens up about his brand, his mindset, and the routines that fuel his success. But the conversation doesn’t stop there — things get wild when the crew dives into his dating life, relationships, and the reality that even a man this confident still has room to grow when it comes to women, romance, and intimacy. It’s raw, funny, and eye-opening — a mix of business talk, magnetic energy, real talk about love and sex, and BK product play woven throughout. If you’ve ever wondered how discipline, manifestation, and masculinity collide with vulnerability and growth, this episode will have you locked in.

In Part 2 of this deeply intimate episode, Chris and Kash go beyond playful banter and dive straight into the real—unpacking fears, emotional weight, and the truth behind what it means to love boldly while still healing. Kash opens up about the silent fears she carried at the beginning of their relationship—how loving a man who felt like home came with the terrifying possibility of losing him. Chris listens in real time as she shares parts of her heart he never knew existed, reminding us that even in healthy love, there are shadows we don’t always talk about. Together, they reflect on the importance of creating safe emotional spaces in relationships—where vulnerability isn’t punished, truth isn’t weaponized, and intimacy is built not just through touch, but through trust. They also explore the ways pleasure and emotional safety are connected, and how their Bedroom Kandi favorites (like the Mic Drop Wand and the Head to Toe balm) become tools for both sensual care and bonding. This is more than a podcast episode—it’s a love-u-ment. 🎧 Tune in for: • How fear shows up even in healthy relationships • What emotional safety looks like for high-functioning women • Creating soft space for masculine healing • Why pleasure and vulnerability are lovers, not opposites Part 2 reminds us that real love doesn’t avoid the hard conversations—it thrives in them. And when you’re brave enough to speak your truth, the right partner won’t run—they’ll reach deeper.

🧠❤️ When a Man Cries, Listen Closely… In this powerful first half of the episode, Kash (@YourSexologistBestie) invites you into her love life—not for spectacle, but for expansion. Joined by her partner Chris (aka Supervillain), the two unpack his evolving relationship with pleasure across different life stages: before marriage, during it, post-divorce, and now. What begins as a conversation about intimacy and masculine vulnerability quickly deepens when they discuss the accident that nearly took Chris’s life—and how it became one of their most profound, non-sexual experiences of intimacy. Chris opens up about pain, recovery, and what it meant to feel truly cared for by a partner, leading to a moment of raw emotion that closes the episode. This is the kind of emotional honesty we don’t often hear from men… but Kash brings it out with care, curiosity, and love. Part 2? Let’s just say—she gets into the other head and a whole lot of BK for pleasure and wellness 😏 🎧 Watch now and subscribe to @BusinessOfPleasurePod

In this grown and grounded episode of The Business of Pleasure, I’m joined by Ro from the 237 No Place Like Home podcast—a Brooklyn husband, father, and real one with insight for days. This convo is for anyone wondering what intimacy looks like when you’ve been committed for the long haul—and why the mindset of a mature man hits different than the typical “young dude energy.” We talk about what it means to show up for your partner and your community, how Black men can model intimacy and leadership for younger generations, and the responsibility that comes with love, growth, and longevity. Ro breaks down how he keeps things fresh in marriage, what intimacy really means to him, and why it’s deeper than sex—it’s legacy. We also explore the difference between being performative vs. being present, how emotional awareness shapes connection, and why seasoning your sex life isn’t just about toys—it’s about effort, creativity, and care. 🛍️ BK Products Featured:     •    Head to Body Body Balm – because touch matters     •    Embrace C-Ring – for couples looking to spice things up and stay connected This episode is full of gems from a man who’s living it, not just talking about it.

This episode of The Business of Pleasure is more than just laughs and lipstick—though we have plenty of that too. I’m joined by my Delusional Bestie, Billy the Bad Guy, and we go from twerking to truth-telling as we explore what it really means to choose yourself—loudly, confidently, and sometimes painfully. We talk about the decisions we make in the name of love that are really rooted in survival, and what it feels like to set boundaries that make you the “bad guy” in someone else’s story. We reflect on identity, healing, and how to show up fully as you are. Then we switch gears with some Bedroom Kandi fun—featuring our Them Moisturizing Balm, Pride Lipstick Collection, harnesses, our Rainbow Dildo, and Male Pleasure Sleeve—plus tips for loving the love below, no matter your anatomy. And of course we talked pheromones and grooming to make sure Billy spent men’s health month right! A little shade, a lot of heart, and some damn good pleasure gems.

This Father’s Day, we’re giving men more than a tie—we’re giving real talk, real pleasure, and real tools to stay ready. 💪🏽🌹 In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Tahoe and Kash dive into men’s health, performance anxiety, touch starvation, and the truth about ED. We’re breaking myths, exploring the male G-spot (no entry required 😏), and testing how well Tahoe really knows his own D. Featuring BK’s Stamina Spray, Sidekick Pleasure Sleeve, oral sex cards, and role-play dice—because pleasure is part of your wellness plan too.

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, @YourSexologistBestie Kash sits down with chemist and product developer Angela Solomon—founder of Sunshine Creations and one of Bedroom Kandi’s original beta consultants. Angela shares how her Caribbean roots and background in biology and chemistry led her to create a skincare product to help a loved one, which blossomed into a full collection now offered by Bedroom Kandi. The two discuss Caribbean hygiene culture, the quiet labor women carry in caring for men, balancing motherhood and business, and Angela’s journey from consultant to formulator. Plus, with Father’s Day around the corner, Kash plugs BK’s current promo: spend $100 and get a free Men’s Grooming Kit—or join the Bedroom Kandi community for free. Shop or join now: https://poplme.co/bedroomkandi

Kasha started as a Bedroom Kandi consultant… but working hard and showing up got her all the way to top team leader, CAC leader, national top performer, Director of Training & Development, and now Master Trainer, influencer, board-certified clinical sexologist, and host of The Business of Pleasure podcast. Her journey even led to a feature on The Real Housewives of Atlanta and a presentation spot at Kandi’s iconic Dungeon Show. In this solo episode, @YourSexologistBestie Kash opens up about the highs, the heartbreak, the hustle—and how Bedroom Kandi gave her more than a business… it gave her a family. Products mentioned in this episode: Allure, Amaze, Cuddle, Queen, Petal Pleaser, Love Triangle, Velvet, Makeup Brushes, Soft Spoken Suede, Delicious Encounters Lube, Revitalize Me Shop her faves + join the BK movement (for free!): https://poplme.co/bedroomkandi

Healing, Mapping, & Reclaiming the O! Liberation Coach Aysha Bellamy joins Kash for a powerful, pleasure-packed episode where they get into therapy culture, medical trauma, and that one time the military accidentally took her ovary — yes, for real. From navigating early menopause to mapping a new relationship with sensation and self, this episode is about reclaiming your body, your power, and your pleasure. Oh, and of course… she left with some Bedroom Kandi gifts that’ll help along the way. Plus, Kash walks Coach Bellamy through some of her favorite sensory tools to help her experience more pleasure without direct stimulation on the clitoris for beginners and experts alike, and we break down how solo pleasure can be your ultimate self-care. Don’t miss this powerful conversation about resilience, liberation, and reclaiming joy.

It’s the Masturbation May kickoff, and we’re bringing heat! I’m joined by comedian Davida D plus BK stars Love Jones & Moe for a wild ride of laughs, education, and spicy surprises. We kick things off with the BK TikTok Fantasy Draft—building the ultimate pleasure night using both Soft Line and Adult Line faves. Then we dive into all things self-pleasure, stepping outside the vanilla box, feminine hygiene, and top-tier product tips to upgrade your solo (or partnered) play. Davida even gets some personal pleasure coaching—and let’s just say, the convo gets hotter the longer you watch!

Welcome back to Business of Pleasure with Your Sexologist Bestie, Kash! This week’s guests are Tina House Latiker and Toni Drumwright-Antoine as we dive into Organize & Orgasm. We talk about how labor organizing intersects with pleasure advocacy, the current challenges impacting intimacy spaces, and what leadership means to them. Tina also shares how she stays grounded navigating advocacy work while Toni talks about the work she does with the homeless! Plus… we have some fun with the BK Boom Boom Sing-Along Game, and spotlights on a few BK favorites including Kandi Kisses, and Toni schools us on lube and demos the Helping Hand male pleasure sleeve! Tune in for pleasure, power, and a little play!

In this powerful and emotional episode, we’re joined by sisters Brandy DeJesus and Chante Devers for an intimate conversation on sisterhood, strength, and staying connected through sickness and healing. Brandy opens up about her journey battling cancer and how Bedroom Kandi products supported her pleasure and self-care during chemo. Chante shares her experience as Brandy’s rock, best friend, and business partner—proving that sisterhood can be both sanctuary and strategy. We laugh, cry, and celebrate resilience in our BK Bestie Quiz—where each sister answers heartfelt questions about the other. This episode is a joyful rollercoaster you won’t forget, filled with truth, tenderness, and testimony. Tune in, subscribe, and get ready to feel inspired.

In this powerful yet super hilarious episode of The Business of Pleasure, we’re joined by two Bedroom Kandi Consultant Advisory Council trailblazers: Noni (In2MeIC) and LaDonya (Lady D). Together, they open up about their deeply personal journeys of reclaiming pleasure after trauma and the tools that helped them get there. From navigating pain to rediscovering intimacy, this episode is filled with laughter, vulnerability, and real talk. Noni and LaDonya share how Bedroom Kandi products supported their healing, how they’ve used their stories to empower others, and what advice they have for consultants holding space for survivors. Whether you’re on a healing journey or supporting someone who is, this conversation reminds us that pleasure is not a privilege—it’s a right.