Well, this is it, folks! Adam and Cole deliver the final episode of Sorry For Asking, in which they reflect on the past four years of bringing you frank discussions and a diverse group of guests, the laughs and the stories, and the overall mission statement behind this project - to humanize and destigmatize your favorite adult content creators, and share the ins and outs, the whys and hows. We're sorry, but... when you know, you know, and it's time for other things. Thanks, everyone, for four fantastic seasons, and stay tuned for what's next!

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And this time, Adam and Cole welcome the whirlwind that is the very studly Hayden Harding to the pod. Hayden jumped into the scene via a steady stream of scenes with the renowned Sean Cody studio, breaking expectations by bringing some meat and fuzz to the mix, as Sean Cody is usually known for its smooth boy next door aesthetic. He tells stories of growing up in Southern California in a very conservative Catholic family, and finding ways to charm his way toward his authentic self by moving to Australia and working in the wine industry, and eventually making it to Los Angeles, working all kinds of jobs before landing in the gay adult film industry as Hayden Harding. Whether our boundaries are rigid or porous, Hayden’s story is just further proof that there’s so much more going on in the lives and minds of our favorite sexy content creators.

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Make yourself decent and get the sling ready, folks, we’ve got company. This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by their good friend James, known to the gay adult film world as the Inked Pig (sometimes as Jimmy Ink). James gives us a deep download of his upbringing in the Bronx growing up with macho Italian values and breaking free from them his own unique way.

Sometimes being shamed is a perfect recipe for becoming an uninhibited sex god, and James is proof. After making his way to LA and becoming a tattoo artist, a traumatic head injury left him in a deep recovery state that got him thinking about a new path. Before he knew it, the Inked Pig made a very quick splash in the content creator world and has kept the man quite busy ever since. Sorry for asking, James!

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Welcome back, y’all! Just the boys again this time. Adam and Cole have a little catch up about what they’re up to as summer comes to a close, including creative endeavors, recent shoots, and upcoming travels, plans, and hopes for the fall. They also speak on some moments of folly that we all could learn from (you’re welcome!)

Also, before resuming having guests, Adam and Cole try another hand at last episode’s format of reviewing each other’s scenes, except this time they speak on some recent uploads to their spicy pages, this time with the scenes having some very different things in common - namely being filmed out of the country, and not one but two simultaneous scene partners. You can guess what that might entail, sorry about it…

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In this episode, Adam and Cole go deep into their memory banks to give you the full experience by reliving the first time either of them did a studio scene. The assignment: Each of them will watch the other's scene, comment and review, and ask questions. What it was like, what happened, how it happened, and all surrounding circumstances. Simple, right? Of course, nothing is ever simple on set, especially when you've never done it before! First, Cole gives us a run down of Adam's debut in Hole 2, Adam completes the picture, and then Adam returns the favor by getting into Cole's introduction to the studio world in Scrum. Both Raging Stallion productions, both directed by the legendary Tony Dimarco. Every day in the industry is a story. Here are two pretty hot ones. Enjoy!

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Welcome back, listeners. We have a guest this week, so get ready for some chaos because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than Michael Boston! He’s won multiple awards, including the XBiz Gay Performer of the Year, and the Grabby for Best Butt, and Michael reminisces with the boys about winning the latter in the presence of his mother. He grew up Mormon in Utah, and shares what it was like growing up very much himself while also grappling with the rules of the church. Learning to break those rules slowly but surely is what led him toward a career in the gay adult industry, where he’s thrived. It hasn’t all been roses though, as he spills some tea about his take on what studio business has been like lately. But he takes it all in stride and sorry, this conversation is very funny. Enjoy!

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Harrumph! Welcome to the summer grumps! In this episode, Adam and Cole do their best Waldorf and Statler as they catch up about recent things they’ve been up to in the heat of these summer days. Adam shares about his wild experience in Germany, from the techno stages of Whole Festival to Pride weekend at the legendary Berlin nightclub scene. Cole tells stories of a recent visitor at his home that didn’t go quite according to plan. Just shooting the breeze on a hot summer day. Sorry about it!

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We love a multi-hyphenate in the industry. And boy, do we have a good one today. Adam and Cole welcome Taylor Stilson to the show, who has so many qualifications under his belt that it’s hard to keep track. Having worked with Taylor on respective collabs, using his adult content moniker Jameson Taylor, Adam and Cole have seen Taylor around town at the parties rocking some fierce looks blending all sorts of fashion trends that play with the masculine ideal. Slowly getting to know him over time, the boys realized there’s a lot more to this fella than we get at first glance at his very sexy social media presence. A singer, musician, and professor, with a background in kinesiology and body work, Taylor utilizes all his talents for various income streams - when he gave Adam a game changing massage, the boys knew it was time to ask him some deeper questions and share his answers with the world. And where better than here on this show, right? Get a load of Taylor over here!!

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Right on the heels of a busy 4th of July weekend, Adam and Cole dive head first into a brand new studio set up for the podcast! It’s summer 2025, things are changing everywhere, and the boys have a one on one catch up about the various things this season that are keeping them on their toes. From improv shows to party venue pivots, upcoming trips and festivals, recent Pride festivities to reasons for nostalgia, the boys even have time to share about some recent intimate experiences that got them thinking about some potential moral dilemmas. Sorryyyyyy.

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Summer is here officially, and to ring it in, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by LA nightlife fixture and sexy content creator, Judas King. Having made a connection while working the Hot Dog Sunday parties in LA together, Adam invited Judas to share his origin story of growing up in Northern California with an adoptive Mormon family, and the bumpy road that lead to his unique place in the queer zeitgeist. From the early days of Guys in Sweatpants, to stripping, to go-go dancing, to the delicate dance of handling sugar daddies, Judas has paved his way in the industry in a manner all his own, shooting scenes with thicker boys and even a snaky split tongue to add to his signature. There's nobody like Judas King, and we barely scratch the surface. Sorry!

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On the eve of Cole’s birthday, Adam and Cole get together in this episode to chat about some shoots that didn’t go quite according to plan and what it takes to pivot when things get a little shaky. Especially if we are having problems with the money shot. Studios and performers all have their tricks to get a climax on camera, and the boys have some stories to tell, with surprisingly overlapping details. Cole also tells of his recent exploits in Puerto Vallarta for a content creator awards ceremony, while Adam shares his experience at a yearly retreat to refresh his queer soul (and more). Finally, the boys do another round of kiss and tell, because why not! Sorry!

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Icon Alert! Adam and Cole are paid an in-studio visit by none other than the multiple award-winning Landon Conrad, for many of us, a blueprint of post-Y2K gay adult fantasies. With his Viking build, blue eyes, and always with the perfect hair, Landon made his mark in the industry effortlessly and tells us some stories of how he got there. We also get into what it’s like to have been part of the DVD era of adult films, only to take a break and re-enter the limelight during a time when everyone is making their own content, and what the landscape looks like going forward for someone with industry experience. We like our wine with a little salt and pepper!

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Feast your eyes and ears on this week’s guest, the very sexy and sultry Heath Halo! Heath joins Adam and Cole via Zoom to talk about his intention to make a quick mark in the industry, starting with a podcast that ended up turning into a profitably spicy social media presence, to becoming one of Falcon’s biggest stars. Having grown up around a heap of Texan masculinity and participating in a unique family set up as a sometimes stay-at-home dad, Heath used social media to cultivate a brand all his own. With the mischievous smirk, the bedroom eyes, the thick legs, and the personality to boot, it’s no wonder his three year plan is going so smoothly. Prepare yourself, we all have a crush on Heath. You will too.

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Welcome back, folks. This time, it’s just our boys, Adam and Cole, and this time, they have some stories to tell. As spring continues to bring out our spicy sides, the boys decide to take some turns sharing about some recent fun they’ve had with gentlemen, on as well as off camera. First, some stories about cats, because why not? Then Cole tells of an upcoming shoot that is Severance-themed, while Adam reminisces about a stepbrother and stepson scene. Then the stories begin, including a couple of recent massage clients for Cole, as well as a very fun three-way collab. Adam shares about how his dalliances have been very dynamic and specific, including some particularly submissive boys, side play, and a surprise visit from someone he has been curious about for a long time. To finish up, the boys have a little discussion about the other things common about springtime, which are conflict and conflict resolution, and the lessons this brings up. Lots of fun in this episode, enjoy and sorry!!

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We have another last minute guest addition this week, in the form of the very handsome Daniel Gainsbrook! Daniel joins Adam and Cole in the studio to share stories and perspectives on what it’s like to be an adult content creator with a Punjabi background, having grown up in Pakistan and even having been at one point married, with children. Daniel moved to Canada and took the reins of his life and pivoted into the gay adult film landscape, looking for a place to belong. Every journey into the gay adult content stratosphere is unique, and Daniel’s story is proof that sometimes going with your gut is the best way to personal liberation.

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He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’t slowing him down at all. In fact, he’s got some new passions and projects, his foray into the straight porn industry turning heads all over the internet. Derek remains steadfast in his convictions that no matter what kind of content he is creating, he knows himself and what he offers and that an attitude of gratitude is keeping him afloat and working more steadily than ever. He also shares some important facts about his work with the Free Speech Coalition, that led to him winning their Advocacy award, proving that making adult films isn’t just about hot content, it’s also about preserving our rights to free speech and, above all, privacy. You’re gonna love this one, y’all.

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This week, Adam and Cole get paid a visit by the very sexy and smart Logan Stevens, a true “multi-hyphenate” in the industry! Logan shares candidly about his path from being an only child in Wisconsin more concerned with nature documentaries than cartoons, and hanging out with trees instead of people, to getting an education in anthropology that led to international jobs and internships in government. Feeling unfulfilled by this call, he followed his more creative side by going to New York and flexing his musical skills and costume designing muscles, all while also understanding the privilege and lucrative potential of being just generally damn attractive. As creators, we grapple with these many callings, and sometimes we follow where the money is - this conversation with Logan touches on the many avenues we find to survive in the American capitalist landscape when you are creatively capable, but also gay and hot. Logan has found himself in this position because it suits him, and we go deep into why and how, and it’s oh so much fun.

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Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He also shares with the boys how his very conservative Christian upbringing affected his coming of age as a young, closeted bookworm to his slow coming out process, and eventually coming into his own as a self-actualized gay young adult who understood that shame and modesty no longer served him. He shares about some of his favorite scenes, his eventual foray into studio work, and the boys share a moment to grieve the late Roman Mercury, who passed away suddenly a few weeks ago. To close the episode, Emil reflects on what advice he’d give his younger self from his current perspective, which proves poignant and fitting to many others in the community, in or out of the adult industry. Don’t miss this one, folks, Emil is a true keeper.

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Aaaaand we’re back! Season 4 of Sorry For Asking begins with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor catching up over the best things about the holidays, how they navigated the week of the LA fires, Adam’s trip to Costa Rica, Cole’s multiple trips to Florida, some recent shoots, upcoming opportunities, and the hopes they share for the upcoming year. Adam has entered his reading glasses era while he continues headfirst into his relationship, as well as the growing business of party planning, and Cole tells tales of how massage has become more of a career while his content has had an uptick in MMF content (look it up). Also, the boys discuss a little bit about the difference between charm and cringe, when dealing with the wandering hands of partygoers in shared queer spaces. The world is in a weird place, but Adam and Cole are still here to pontificate thoughtfully on all that goes into being adult content creators in LA during this strange time in history.

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And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are two examples of how switching things up in the new year can bring some inspiration to their lives, in order to kick some old habits and jumpstart new ones. The boys pontificate on how to take better care of themselves as winter approaches, mentally, physically, and even financially, in order to ensure a fruitful and clearheaded start to the looming new year. Thank you all for listening to season 3 of Sorry For Asking, and we will be back!!

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