We love a multi-hyphenate in the industry. And boy, do we have a good one today. Adam and Cole welcome Taylor Stilson to the show, who has so many qualifications under his belt that it’s hard to keep track. Having worked with Taylor on respective collabs, using his adult content moniker Jameson Taylor, Adam and Cole have seen Taylor around town at the parties rocking some fierce looks blending all sorts of fashion trends that play with the masculine ideal. Slowly getting to know him over time, the boys realized there’s a lot more to this fella than we get at first glance at his very sexy social media presence. A singer, musician, and professor, with a background in kinesiology and body work, Taylor utilizes all his talents for various income streams - when he gave Adam a game changing massage, the boys knew it was time to ask him some deeper questions and share his answers with the world. And where better than here on this show, right? Get a load of Taylor over here!!

Right on the heels of a busy 4th of July weekend, Adam and Cole dive head first into a brand new studio set up for the podcast! It’s summer 2025, things are changing everywhere, and the boys have a one on one catch up about the various things this season that are keeping them on their toes. From improv shows to party venue pivots, upcoming trips and festivals, recent Pride festivities to reasons for nostalgia, the boys even have time to share about some recent intimate experiences that got them thinking about some potential moral dilemmas. Sorryyyyyy.

Summer is here officially, and to ring it in, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by LA nightlife fixture and sexy content creator, Judas King. Having made a connection while working the Hot Dog Sunday parties in LA together, Adam invited Judas to share his origin story of growing up in Northern California with an adoptive Mormon family, and the bumpy road that lead to his unique place in the queer zeitgeist. From the early days of Guys in Sweatpants, to stripping, to go-go dancing, to the delicate dance of handling sugar daddies, Judas has paved his way in the industry in a manner all his own, shooting scenes with thicker boys and even a snaky split tongue to add to his signature. There's nobody like Judas King, and we barely scratch the surface. Sorry!

On the eve of Cole’s birthday, Adam and Cole get together in this episode to chat about some shoots that didn’t go quite according to plan and what it takes to pivot when things get a little shaky. Especially if we are having problems with the money shot. Studios and performers all have their tricks to get a climax on camera, and the boys have some stories to tell, with surprisingly overlapping details. Cole also tells of his recent exploits in Puerto Vallarta for a content creator awards ceremony, while Adam shares his experience at a yearly retreat to refresh his queer soul (and more). Finally, the boys do another round of kiss and tell, because why not! Sorry!

Icon Alert! Adam and Cole are paid an in-studio visit by none other than the multiple award-winning Landon Conrad, for many of us, a blueprint of post-Y2K gay adult fantasies. With his Viking build, blue eyes, and always with the perfect hair, Landon made his mark in the industry effortlessly and tells us some stories of how he got there. We also get into what it’s like to have been part of the DVD era of adult films, only to take a break and re-enter the limelight during a time when everyone is making their own content, and what the landscape looks like going forward for someone with industry experience. We like our wine with a little salt and pepper!

Feast your eyes and ears on this week’s guest, the very sexy and sultry Heath Halo! Heath joins Adam and Cole via Zoom to talk about his intention to make a quick mark in the industry, starting with a podcast that ended up turning into a profitably spicy social media presence, to becoming one of Falcon’s biggest stars. Having grown up around a heap of Texan masculinity and participating in a unique family set up as a sometimes stay-at-home dad, Heath used social media to cultivate a brand all his own. With the mischievous smirk, the bedroom eyes, the thick legs, and the personality to boot, it’s no wonder his three year plan is going so smoothly. Prepare yourself, we all have a crush on Heath. You will too.

Welcome back, folks. This time, it’s just our boys, Adam and Cole, and this time, they have some stories to tell. As spring continues to bring out our spicy sides, the boys decide to take some turns sharing about some recent fun they’ve had with gentlemen, on as well as off camera. First, some stories about cats, because why not? Then Cole tells of an upcoming shoot that is Severance-themed, while Adam reminisces about a stepbrother and stepson scene. Then the stories begin, including a couple of recent massage clients for Cole, as well as a very fun three-way collab. Adam shares about how his dalliances have been very dynamic and specific, including some particularly submissive boys, side play, and a surprise visit from someone he has been curious about for a long time. To finish up, the boys have a little discussion about the other things common about springtime, which are conflict and conflict resolution, and the lessons this brings up. Lots of fun in this episode, enjoy and sorry!!

We have another last minute guest addition this week, in the form of the very handsome Daniel Gainsbrook! Daniel joins Adam and Cole in the studio to share stories and perspectives on what it’s like to be an adult content creator with a Punjabi background, having grown up in Pakistan and even having been at one point married, with children. Daniel moved to Canada and took the reins of his life and pivoted into the gay adult film landscape, looking for a place to belong. Every journey into the gay adult content stratosphere is unique, and Daniel’s story is proof that sometimes going with your gut is the best way to personal liberation.

He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’t slowing him down at all. In fact, he’s got some new passions and projects, his foray into the straight porn industry turning heads all over the internet. Derek remains steadfast in his convictions that no matter what kind of content he is creating, he knows himself and what he offers and that an attitude of gratitude is keeping him afloat and working more steadily than ever. He also shares some important facts about his work with the Free Speech Coalition, that led to him winning their Advocacy award, proving that making adult films isn’t just about hot content, it’s also about preserving our rights to free speech and, above all, privacy. You’re gonna love this one, y’all.

This week, Adam and Cole get paid a visit by the very sexy and smart Logan Stevens, a true “multi-hyphenate” in the industry! Logan shares candidly about his path from being an only child in Wisconsin more concerned with nature documentaries than cartoons, and hanging out with trees instead of people, to getting an education in anthropology that led to international jobs and internships in government. Feeling unfulfilled by this call, he followed his more creative side by going to New York and flexing his musical skills and costume designing muscles, all while also understanding the privilege and lucrative potential of being just generally damn attractive. As creators, we grapple with these many callings, and sometimes we follow where the money is - this conversation with Logan touches on the many avenues we find to survive in the American capitalist landscape when you are creatively capable, but also gay and hot. Logan has found himself in this position because it suits him, and we go deep into why and how, and it’s oh so much fun.

Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He also shares with the boys how his very conservative Christian upbringing affected his coming of age as a young, closeted bookworm to his slow coming out process, and eventually coming into his own as a self-actualized gay young adult who understood that shame and modesty no longer served him. He shares about some of his favorite scenes, his eventual foray into studio work, and the boys share a moment to grieve the late Roman Mercury, who passed away suddenly a few weeks ago. To close the episode, Emil reflects on what advice he’d give his younger self from his current perspective, which proves poignant and fitting to many others in the community, in or out of the adult industry. Don’t miss this one, folks, Emil is a true keeper.

Aaaaand we’re back! Season 4 of Sorry For Asking begins with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor catching up over the best things about the holidays, how they navigated the week of the LA fires, Adam’s trip to Costa Rica, Cole’s multiple trips to Florida, some recent shoots, upcoming opportunities, and the hopes they share for the upcoming year. Adam has entered his reading glasses era while he continues headfirst into his relationship, as well as the growing business of party planning, and Cole tells tales of how massage has become more of a career while his content has had an uptick in MMF content (look it up). Also, the boys discuss a little bit about the difference between charm and cringe, when dealing with the wandering hands of partygoers in shared queer spaces. The world is in a weird place, but Adam and Cole are still here to pontificate thoughtfully on all that goes into being adult content creators in LA during this strange time in history.

And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are two examples of how switching things up in the new year can bring some inspiration to their lives, in order to kick some old habits and jumpstart new ones. The boys pontificate on how to take better care of themselves as winter approaches, mentally, physically, and even financially, in order to ensure a fruitful and clearheaded start to the looming new year. Thank you all for listening to season 3 of Sorry For Asking, and we will be back!!

Lube up more than your nethers this time, folks. Your brain, heart, and soul could each use a good yank, as evidenced by today’s conversation with OG YouTube sensation turned holistic adult content producer, Davey Wavey. Adam and Cole dive deep into Davey’s history, growing up Catholic in Rhode Island, and falling into the early days of YouTube video diaries going viral and making coin, ultimately leading him to creating his own porn studio. After cultivating a community of followers and inviting them into the ongoing conversation of our collective queer sexual awakening and authenticity, Davey created Himeros.TV. In this episode, we get into the mission statement behind what Himeros is about, offering a different way to experience adult content that reflects a variety of physical as well as emotional and spiritual touch points. Did you know that porn could be healing? Davey had an inkling, and he turned it into something special with Himeros, an alternative to the gay erotica we are more familiar with, that may open up new avenues of how you process, consume, and enjoy erotic art, and thereby your erotic self. Adam and Davey share stories of how they met and worked together, and how working in this field has helped all three gentlemen on the path to deeper self discovery. May require a second listen, sorry not sorry!

After gushing about him at the end of our last episode, Adam and Cole give a warm in-studio welcome to the iconic emperor of trans masculine adult content and sexual healing, Viktor Belmont! In this hilarious and heady conversation, Viktor shares about his exceptionally unique experience of self-actualization, not only as a sexual healer and formidable adult content presence, but also as a trans man. Growing up in rural Oregon as a young punk rock lesbian, Viktor came to learn some things about himself before taking the transition plunge and relocating to San Francisco, where he lived modestly while developing an immediate understanding of the need to brand himself as a well-known sexual internet presence. In the days of MySpace and Tumblr, he gained a following as well as a very specific understanding of what it was he could bring to the table, not only to monetize his sexuality but also to bring some healing to clients of all kinds who could benefit from the firm hand of a trans male dom daddy. Viktor is a fascinating storyteller, so put on some headphones and fall under his captivating spell just as Adam and Cole do. Thank you Viktor, we love you, sorry not sorry!!

Hey folks, let’s catch up! Cole and Adam get together this week to discuss a busy end of summer schedule, including some recent scene work and seasonally-themed collaborations. They also get into some of their younger scene partners and ask questions about whether or not the younger generation of queer men may be desensitized to sex, given its overwhelming availability compared to twenty years ago. Adam tells stories of his excursion to this year’s Folsom Street Fair weekend in San Francisco, including a new romantic entanglement he’s been mostly quiet about. The boys also discuss how the fall season has felt especially potent surrounding the impending election, which by now will be concluded to some hopefully positive results! Cole then tells the story of his first time doing a three-way bi scene, unlocking some new avenues of his own sexual exploration, which leads to Adam sharing a new desire of his, which (spoiler alert) will lead to the guest on our next episode. Sorry, but not so sorry!

After a couple false starts, Adam and Cole finally get the chance to sit down with the legendary Reese Rideout to hear his tale. What false starts, you ask? Tune in to hear the wild story about what took so long to get Reese on the pod. Reese shares vividly about his path to gay adult film legend status, in the early days of Randy Blue all the way to his current blend of sexy and funny easily seen in his internet presence. Sexuality is a spectrum, and Reese has learned so much as he’s carved out a spot for himself in the pantheon - it helps when you have a wife who is also your business partner, scheduling scenes with other hot gay adult content creators! Reese’s story is fascinating, unique, and hilarious, but is also couched in some bouts with alcoholism and deep personal loss, as you’ll hear when he shares about losing a family member. We appreciate Reese for his candor and spirit, and it’s no wonder he’s lasted so long in this crazy industry.

Happy spooky season, listeners. To kick off the final stretch of season 3, Adam and Cole bring to the table just the dose of infectiously joyful, confident femme-dom energy in the form of iconic performer and producer, Siouxsie Q! Siouxsie is a captivating storyteller, sharing about growing up in the Bay Area and being drawn to the abundance of freak flags in San Francisco before starting out as a peep show performer. This led to many kinds of work within the adult work arena, securing on-camera appearances and eventually becoming a creator behind the scenes for a variety of studios. Grab a pen and paper, because Siouxsie brings to this discussion so many avenues of learning about how to queer desire, the beauty of fluidity in sex and romance, the capitalist perspective of adult film work, and how to utilize it to your leftist advantage, bringing a personal aesthetic to the industry (she refers to her own as Bjork Swan Dress Energy), the many types of scenes she’s had a hand in bringing to the public, and how an unexpected romance developed into the most unconventional and rewarding personal as well as professional relationship with creator, Michael Vegas. We absolutely love Siouxsie, and you will too!

Just Adam and Cole today, folks. After a last minute cancellation, the boys decide to hide from the insanity-inducing heat wave and get together to hang out and talk shop, starting with a little run down of how they feel about the upcoming elections. Then as they each catch up about their end of summer shenanigans, they begin a fun little discussion about some sexy beach stories they’ve experienced in the past. Adam busts Cole’s chops a bit about a recent favorite co-collaborator in his group scenes, which leads to Cole discussing his latest foray into the world of massage for hire. What are the rules and politics of a sexy massage? It’s a fun exchange that gets deep into body worship, the dom sub interplay of body work, and the emotional healing magic of physical connection. But we promise, our guest will come back next episode. Sorry!

All hail our first ever returning guest performer: this week the boys are joined again by Drew Valentino! Drew visits Adam and Cole this time to discuss what a difference two years make in the gay adult content industry, since the last time he was on the podcast. No longer an exclusive with the Falcon group, and seemingly less interested in making content, Drew goes in depth about what’s changed in the industry since he first joined as a wide eyed and bushy tailed performer, collecting awards and cornering the market as a scruffy, tatted, pit-loving adult film star. He shares a bit about what has led to his decision to leave Los Angeles and give an imminent move to Madrid a try for a while, leaving behind his passion for standup comedy and building a new presence in the adult film industry while also channeling his comedy into a beefed up social media presence. He also gets deep about what (or who) he will be missing most in Los Angeles, giving way to a heartfelt discussion about a very alternative relationship that can develop among the backdrop of content creation. We will miss you, Drew, but can’t wait to see you conquer Spain!