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SOFT x SAVAGE
Laura Patricia Martin
192 episodes
1 day ago
Becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn’t always comfortable — evolution requires standards, emotional regulation, capacity, and devotion to your future self. Soft x Savage is for women stepping into partnership, motherhood, wealth, and leadership without losing softness or self. Not performative empowerment or aesthetic healing — but refinement, discipline, discernment, and self-trust for the woman rising with elegance, power, and real-life depth.
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Becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn’t always comfortable — evolution requires standards, emotional regulation, capacity, and devotion to your future self. Soft x Savage is for women stepping into partnership, motherhood, wealth, and leadership without losing softness or self. Not performative empowerment or aesthetic healing — but refinement, discipline, discernment, and self-trust for the woman rising with elegance, power, and real-life depth.
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SOFT x SAVAGE
Ep. 192: Is Modern Femininity Making Motherhood and Marriage Harder Than It Needs to Be? With Monica Yates

In this bold and unfiltered episode, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Monica Yates — coach, speaker, and author of Becoming Her — to unpack the modern woman’s paradox: how feminism gave us freedom… but also left many women feeling disconnected, exhausted, and unsupported.


Together, they dive into the raw truth of motherhood, business, and relationships in an era that tells women to “have it all” — without showing the cost of doing it alone. Monica shares insights from her book Becoming Her, revealing how true feminine empowerment isn’t about competing with men, but about returning to internal safety, softness, and surrender — while still building powerfully in business.


If you’ve ever felt torn between being the high-achieving woman and the nurturer, this conversation will feel like exhaling after years of holding your breath.


Key Takeaways

- Modern feminism gave women choice — but not always peace.

- True feminine empowerment blends ambition and surrender, not one over the other.

- Motherhood and business both require strong support systems and emotional safety.

- The “independent woman” narrative often isolates us from the relationships we desire.

- Feminine leadership is about knowing when to lead and when to lean back.

- Becoming Her explores how internal safety creates the foundation for freedom.


Memorable Sound Bites

- “Support is the backbone of balancing motherhood and business.”

- “True feminine empowerment blends strength with vulnerability.”

- “Clear communication is the cornerstone of modern relationships.”

- “Internal safety unlocks the power of surrender.”

- “‘Becoming Her’ delves into the essence of feminine power.”Connect with Monica Yates:


- Instagram

- Website

- Book: Becoming Her


Connect with Laura Patricia Martin:


- Instagram- @itslaurapatriciamartin

- Soft x Savage Podcast

- Apply for Soft x Savage Society Mastermind

- Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training

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      1 week ago
      48 minutes 55 seconds

      SOFT x SAVAGE
      Ep. 191: Spilling the Tea on My Backend Systems (That Everyone Pretends Don’t Exist)

      Everyone keeps asking, “How do you do it all and still make money?”


      Here’s the truth: I don’t believe in balance. I believe in systems.


      In this episode, I’m spilling the tea on the backend that actually runs my business—the automations, workflows, and client systems that keep everything moving while I’m baking cookies, raising my baby, and living my Soft x Savage dream life.


      Most coaches won’t tell you this part because it’s not “sexy” enough for Instagram. But these are the exact systems I built *two years before I ever met Edy*… because I knew the woman I was becoming—a wife, a mom, and a CEO—deserved a business that could hold her life, not consume it.


      If you’ve ever looked at women who seem to “do it all” and wondered how, this episode gives you the full breakdown:


      - The backend systems that automate my income and client delivery


      - How I structure my calendar for energy management (not time management)


      - The non-negotiables I protect as a wife and mom

      - Why I built all of this before I ever “needed” it


      This is the episode you listen to when you’re done glamorizing hustle and ready to build something that lasts.


      🔥 SIMILAR EPISODES

      - Ep. 189: “The 5 Daily Actions I Take to Feel Wealthy and Magnetic”

      -Ep. 158: “The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO”

      -Ep. 165: “How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women”


      💎 Next move?

      If this episode spoke to your soul, screenshot it, share it on your Stories, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast. Tell me which “unhinged” move you’re making next—I’ll be cheering you on.


      Resource Links:

      ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

      Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power.

      ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership


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      2 weeks ago
      35 minutes 1 second

      SOFT x SAVAGE
      Ep. 190: The Unhinged Things I Did to Get My Dream Life, a Multi-Six-Figure Business, and a Baby

      Everyone loves to talk about strategy, structure, and timelines…


      But no one talks about the unhinged decisions—the ones that make zero sense on paper and total sense in your soul.


      In this raw and honest episode, I’m breaking down the wild, intuitive moves that created my dream reality:


      a thriving multi-six-figure business, a loving relationship, and a baby I once only prayed for.


      If you’ve been doing “all the right things” but still feel stuck, this episode will shake something awake in you.


      Because the truth is—your dream life isn’t built from logic. It’s built from leaps.

      💡 You’ll Learn- The 6 “unhinged” choices that changed everything in my business, love life, and motherhood

      - How feminine energy and faith create quantum results

      - Why playing it safe keeps high-achieving women stuck in survival

      - The mindset that turned my chaos into clarity and cash flow

      🔥 SIMILAR EPISODESEp. 153: How I’m Scaling My Business for Motherhood & Still Hitting $1M

      Ep. 158: The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO
      Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women
      💎 Next move?

      If this episode spoke to your soul, screenshot it, share it on your Stories, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast. Tell me which “unhinged” move you’re making next—I’ll be cheering you on.


      Resource Links:

      ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

      Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power.

      ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership

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            3 weeks ago
            48 minutes 17 seconds

            SOFT x SAVAGE
            Ep. 189: The 5 Daily Actions I Take to Feel Wealthy and Magnetic

            What if feeling “rich” wasn’t about your bank account—but about how you move through your day?


            In this episode of the Soft x Savage Podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on the 5 biggest daily actions that keep me in my rich AF energy—the kind of energy that builds premium brands, attracts high-ticket clients, and creates the soft life of freedom, expansion, and luxury.


            These aren’t random habits or fluffy routines. These are strategic, intentional actions that I use to regulate my nervous system, amplify my creativity, and hold the frequency of wealth daily—so the money, clients, and opportunities flow.


            Inside this episode, you’ll learn:


            - The exact mindset shift that makes me feel wealthy every single morning (no matter what’s in my Stripe account).

            - Why structure and discipline actually create more freedom—and how I use them to balance motherhood and million-dollar moves.

            - The wealth rituals that collapse time around results and keep me magnetizing high-value clients without burning out.

            - How I weave both soft and savage energy into my daily life to stay powerful, playful, and paid.

            - The secret behind building momentum that compounds into consistent high cash months.

            If you’ve been craving behind-the-scenes of how I embody my “rich AF” identity—not just in business, but in my relationships, health, and lifestyle—this episode will give you the blueprint.

            Who this episode is for:

            Women building premium personal brands, coaches scaling to six and multi-six figures, and ambitious leaders preparing for their next era of freedom—whether that means motherhood, marriage, or million-dollar years.


            Tune in, take notes, and start embodying your rich AF life now.


            🎧 Subscribe & share this episode to IG Stories to win the weekly prize and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast

            Tag me so I can celebrate you—and help more people find this series.


            Resource Links:

            ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

            Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power.

            ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership

            Connect with Laura:

            Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠

            YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠


            Support the Show:

            Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market.

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            4 weeks ago
            27 minutes 50 seconds

            SOFT x SAVAGE
            Ep. 188: How to Stop Rushing Through Life and Actually Feel Safe Where You Are

            Most women live like life is one big race — rushing to “get their body back,” rushing to hit the next income milestone, rushing to move on to the next chapter. But here’s the truth: when you trust yourself, you don’t have to rush.


            In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what this looks like in my own life right now. Postpartum, business, relationships — I feel safe in every chapter because I’ve built the practices that make me trust myself no matter the season. That’s the difference between living anxious and living anchored.


            We’ll dive into:

            • Why women feel anxious attachment to life (and why it’s not your fault)
            • How building mastery in money, health, and relationships changes everything
            • Why safety isn’t about rushing through a chapter but owning the one you’re in
            • The real secret to resting without guilt and still knowing momentum is inevitable

            If you’ve been feeling like you’re sprinting from one milestone to the next, this episode is your permission slip — and the strategy — to slow down, anchor in, and actually feel safe where you are.

            🎧 Subscribe & share this episode to IG Stories to win the weekly prize and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast.. Tag me so I can celebrate you — and help more women find this series.

            ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

            ⁠DM “Messaging” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses

            ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership


            Connect with Laura:

            Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠

            YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠


            Support the Show:

            Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures — with brands that actually lead the market.


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            1 month ago
            38 minutes 31 seconds

            SOFT x SAVAGE
            Ep. 187: Quitting Corporate America to Chase Love in Spain, Build a 7-Figure Brand… and Make Sh*t Happen with Samantha Daily

            What does it really take to build a personal brand that not only makes you money, but gives you the freedom to live boldly and love deeply?


            In this episode, Laura Patricia Martin (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Samantha Smith (@_samanthadaily)—7-Figure Personal Brand Consultant, creator of Million Dollar Messaging™️, and host of the Makeshift Happen Podcast (1.8M+ downloads)—to talk about what it means to chase big dreams while also building a fulfilling life.


            Sam shares her raw story of moving to Spain, starting her business from scratch, and the challenges and triumphs that shaped her journey to seven figures. Together, Laura and Sam unpack:

              - How to navigate the tension between ambition and intimacy

              - Why courage is the secret ingredient to building both brands and relationships

              - The role of supportive partnerships when pursuing your boldest goals

              - What it really looks like to align your business with your purpose

            This is a conversation about choosing courage over comfort, finding safety in your ambition, and building a brand that lets you live fully on every level.

            🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT

            Soft x Savage Society is here. Build a brand that pays you on repeat (so you can be a present wife and mama bear)

            Click here to apply

            💸 FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES

            1. Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power
            2. Download the Build A Brand in 20 Min a Day Checklist by DMing me “Checklist”
            3. Say Less — $111 program showing you how to tell stories that activate your dream buyers


            🔥 SIMILAR EPISODES

            • Ep. 186: The Season No One Actually Prepares You For: Balancing Postpartum, Marriage & Multi-6 Figures
            • Ep. 173: Building a Brand that Holds You (Not the Other Way Around)
            • Ep. 165: Scaling with Structure and Soul
            • Ep. 152: When Your Relationship and Business Both Want Your Energy
            • Ep. 138: Why Courage Creates Demand

            ✨ SHOP + SUPPORTMy exact Amazon storefront — supplements, skincare, and home luxuries I swear by.

            🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARE

            Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.


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            1 month ago
            44 minutes 36 seconds

            SOFT x SAVAGE
            Ep. 186: The Season No One Actually Prepares You For: Balancing Postpartum, Marriage & Multi-6 Figures

            If you’re a high-level online coach, feminine founder, or multi-6-figure entrepreneur navigating big life transitions—this episode is for you.I’m sharing the behind-the-scenes of what it really looks like to be:

            • A new mom navigating postpartum and NICU life
            • A multi-6-figure business owner scaling while sleep-deprived
            • A partner + wife in the making learning how marriage shifts with a baby
            • A woman re-committing to her health, nervous system, and identity in real time

            Inside, I open up about:

            • How I’m holding a multi-6-figure brand while holding a newborn
            • The honest truth about marriage and relationship shifts postpartum
            • The habits and health practices keep me grounded
            • The messy middle of becoming a new version of yourself while still leading your business

            This isn’t a highlight reel. It’s the raw reality of running a powerful brand, raising a family, and reclaiming yourself in the process.

            🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT

            Soft x Savage Society is here.

            We don’t just launch offers—we build brand universes.

            Click here for early access + behind-the-scenes.

            💸 FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES

            1. Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power
            2. Download the 100 Mil Brand Guide. Message me “100 Mil” on IG for the link
            3. Say Less — $111 program showing you how to tell stories that activate your dream buyers

            🔥 SIMILAR EPISODES

            • Ep. 153: How I’m Scaling My Business for Motherhood & Still Hitting $1M
            • Ep. 158: The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO
            • Ep. 160: 0 to Married (and Pregnant) in Under a Year: The Unfiltered Tea You Didn’t Know You Needed With My Hubby Eduardo Gomez Del Casal
            • Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women

            ✨ SHOP + SUPPORT

            My exact Amazon storefront — supplements, skincare, and home luxuries I swear by.

            🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARE

            Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.





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              1 month ago
              35 minutes 30 seconds

              SOFT x SAVAGE
              Ep. 185: Build a Brand That Funds the Life You Want

              This is a clip from the Brand Like A Rich Btxh Masterclass (you can watch the full thing here).


              Most entrepreneurs are stuck selling from survival mode. Their income depends on hustling in the DMs, running random launches, or showing up daily online. The problem? That’s not freedom—and it’s not sustainable.


              In this episode, I’m breaking down the Rich Bitch Brand framework that takes you from inconsistent revenue to a six-figure brand that sells on repeat. You’ll learn how to package your brilliance into premium offers, position yourself as the authority in your industry, and finally build a brand that funds the lifestyle you’ve been saving on Pinterest.


              Here’s what we’ll cover inside:

              - The real math behind the “dream life” lifestyle (and what it actually costs).

              - Why most coaches and service providers struggle to sell their $500–$2K offers consistently.

              - The shift from *selling programs* to *selling a brand*—and why authority matters more than price.

              - How to position your brand so clients line up to pay you $5K, $10K, even $25K.

              - The exact strategy that allowed me to go from crickets to consistent $15K–$20K months.

              If you’re tired of piecing together launches, hustling for every client, and wondering why your “good work” isn’t selling… this episode will show you how to finally step into your Rich Bitch era and build a brand that pays for the life you actually want to live.


              🎧 Listen now and start building your six-figure brand today.


              Resource Links:

              ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

              ⁠DM “Brand” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses

              ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership


              Connect with Laura:

              Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠

              YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠


              Support the Show:

              Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market.

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                1 month ago
                26 minutes 50 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 184: Soft Won’t Sell: The Psychology of Why Customers Buy from the Bold

                If you’ve been told to “be nice,” “play it safe,” or “tone it down” in your business… this episode will flip that advice on its head.


                The truth? Soft won’t sell. Customers don’t buy from polite, forgettable brands. They buy from bold women who own their authority, speak with conviction, and create exclusivity in the market.


                Inside this episode, I break down the psychology of why customers love “rich bitch” energy—and how to infuse it into your brand so your content stops blending in and starts converting.

                What You’ll Learn in This Episode:- Why certainty builds trust and makes your audience feel safe buying from you

                - The psychology of scarcity and exclusivity (and how to use it to raise your value)

                - Why “nice girl branding” actually dilutes your power and authority

                - How boldness taps into aspirational identity and creates demand

                - The principle of cognitive ease—and why clarity closes faster than charm

                If you’re ready to stop friend-zoning yourself online and start stepping into your rich bitch brand era, this episode is your permission slip to get unapologetically bold.

                Resources & Links:

                • Join the Brand Like a Rich Bitch Masterclass — Learn how to position your brand with bold, conviction-driven messaging that makes you unforgettable.
                • Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power.

                ✨ SHOP + SUPPORTMy exact Amazon storefront — supplements, skincare, and home luxuries I swear by.🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARESubscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.


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                2 months ago
                36 minutes 20 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 183: Stealing Hormozi’s $100M Playbook for My $100K Soft x Savage Launch: Here’s the Cliffnotes

                If you’re a high-level online coach, brand strategist, or feminine founder scaling your business with structure and soul—this episode is your blueprint.


                I’m breaking down how I’m building Soft x Savage Society as a $100K launch by modeling Alex Hormozi’s $100M weekend… but in a way that actually works for women like us.

                Inside this episode, I share:

                - How I’m turning this into a brand-led launch (not a discount drop)

                - The exact strategy behind my 6-figure launch plan

                - Why I’m prioritizing digital assets, nervous system regulation, and scalable systems

                - What feminine founders get wrong when launching—and how I’m doing it differently

                - How to build a business that sells before you speak (and lets you rest in between)

                This isn’t just a podcast episode.. it’s a real-time case study in brand, embodiment, and launch power.

                🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT

                Soft x Savage Society launches Sept 2.

                We don’t launch offers. We build brand universes.

                DM me “SOCIETY” on Instagram for early access + behind-the-scenes.

                💸 FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES

                1. Download the Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power
                2. Download the 100 Mil Brand Guide. [Message me “100 Mil” on IG for the link]
                3. Join Say Less— My program showing you how to tell stories that gets your dream buyers activate and buying for just $111

                🔥 SIMILAR EPISODES-Ep. 156: You’re Doing Everything Right… So Why Aren’t You at $100K Yet?

                -Ep. 147: Creating an Online Brand That's In A League Of It's Own in 2025

                ✨ SHOP + SUPPORT

                My exact Amazon storefront — supplements, skincare, and home luxuries I swear by.

                🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARE

                Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.


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                2 months ago
                31 minutes 17 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 182: Staring at a Blank Screen? How to Break Creative Blocks and Start Making Bank

                You sit down to create content… and nothing. The cursor just blinks back at you while your brain screams, “Why can’t I think of anything?”


                Here’s the truth: creative blocks aren’t just frustrating, they’re expensive. Every time you stall out, you lose momentum, brand authority, and the chance to cash in on content that could’ve been selling for you.


                In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on:

                • Why creative blocks really happen (and it’s not because you’re “not creative”)
                • The fastest way to flip your brain from frozen to flowing
                • How to turn one messy idea into magnetic, money-making content
                • The reframe that helps you stop obsessing over “perfect” and start posting with power

                If you’ve been staring at a blank screen wondering how to make your content land—and make you bank—this is the reset you need.

                🎧 Subscribe & share this episode to IG Stories to win the weekly prize and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast

                🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT:

                Ready to build the business that buys you the soft life?

                Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand.

                DM “SAVAGE” on Instagram for insider bonuses.💸 FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES:

                1. Download the Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power
                2. Join LIBERATED: $77 training showing you how to make a brand that is in a league of your own

                🔥 SIMILAR EPISODES: Episode 180Episode 169✨ SHOP + SUPPORT

                — My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries)

                🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARE

                Love the episode?

                Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

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                2 months ago
                25 minutes 53 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 181: Freedom, Fortune, & the Savage Season No One Talks About

                The soft life looks effortless from the outside — the freedom, the fortune, the mornings without alarms, the space for love and family while your business runs itself.


                But here’s the truth no one talks about… you have to earn it.


                Your savage season is where you build the discipline, systems, and momentum that make your soft season inevitable. It’s the season where you go all in, create cash on command, and set yourself up so future you can coast without losing momentum.


                If you’ve been craving both freedom and expansion, this episode will show you why your soft life starts with savage strategy.

                IN THIS EPISODE, WE DIVE INTO:

                — The difference between your soft season and savage season (and when to be in each)

                — Why discipline is the fastest path to love, money, and momentum

                — How to create cash on command in your “takeoff” season

                — The mindset shift that makes a million-dollar year inevitable

                — How to plan the season that buys your future freedom

                🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT:

                Ready to build the business that buys you the soft life?

                Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand.

                DM “SAVAGE” on Instagram for insider bonuses.

                💸FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES:1. Download the Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant shifts in your content power

                2. Join LIBERATED: $77 training showing you how to make a brand that is in a league of your own


                🔥SIMILAR EPISODES:

                - 5 Unhinged Things That Make People Completely Obsessed With You (That You’re Probably Not Doing)

                - Authenticity Series #8— How Discipline Builds Authority: The Secret to Consistent, Magnetic Authenticity

                - The Secret to Scaling Without Burning Out or Starting Over

                ✨ SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries)🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARE

                Love the episode?

                Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.




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                2 months ago
                33 minutes 31 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 180: 5 Unhinged Things That Make People Completely Obsessed With You (That You’re Probably Not Doing)

                A breakdown of the feminine seduction codes that make you unforgettable — in business, love, and life.


                If you’ve been feeling invisible, overlooked, or underwhelmed by how people respond to you… this episode is your wake-up call. We’re not here to be liked. We’re here to be felt.


                Listen in for the real reason some women walk into a room (or post one Story) and instantly become the one they can’t stop thinking about.


                — The energy shift that makes people lean in

                — Why obsession = emotional rhythm control

                — How to build mystique without hiding

                — What makes your identity addictive (without forcing it)

                — The biggest mistake women make when trying to be magnetic


                Ready to turn your frequency into influence?


                Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand.


                DM “OBSESSED” on Instagram for insider bonuses.



                — My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries)


                Love the episode?


                Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.


                Let’s make sure more women find this movement

                🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT:

                Ready to turn your frequency into influence?

                Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand.


                DM “OBSESSED” on Instagram for insider bonuses.

                💸 FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES:

                1. Download the Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training— $22 for instant shifts in your content power

                2. Watch the High Demand Woman Training — $33 replay that shows you how to add $10K/month with aligned systems

                ✨ SHOP + SUPPORT

                — My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries)🎧 SUBSCRIBE + SHARE

                Love the episode?

                Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.


                Let’s make sure more women find this movement.

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                3 months ago
                39 minutes 55 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 179: This One Belief Almost Killed My Business… and My Relationship

                I built a brand off being the woman who could do it all.

                But behind the scenes? I was unraveling.


                This episode unpacks the silent belief that high-achieving women carry: “If I don’t hold it all together, everything will fall apart.”

                The belief that made me feel like I had to be the glue, the power source, the planner, the softness, the strategy—and never slip.

                And how letting go of that belief saved my business, my relationship, and my nervous system.


                Whether you’re scaling your brand, raising babies, or trying to balance it all without burning out, this is the truth most women won’t say out loud—but need to hear.


                What you’ll hear in this episode:

                • The identity crisis that hits when you’re “successful” but exhausted

                • Why being strong all the time is the fastest path to disconnection

                • How the Soft x Savage movement was born out of breaking this pattern

                • What it really looks like to rebuild a business and brand from softness

                • The truth about feminine leadership, support, and sustainable power


                🎧 Subscribe & share this episode to IG Stories to win the weekly prize and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast
                Tag me so I can celebrate you—and help more women find their power.


                More Support & Resources:

                • ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — A 12-month mastermind for feminine leaders scaling with power, presence, and profit

                • ⁠DM “Messaging” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses

                • ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — Everything I use to lead like a savage while living soft


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                It helps more ambitious women ditch the performance, own their power, and lead from their full identity.

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                3 months ago
                27 minutes 26 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 178: Authenticity Series #9— Be Her Now: How to Build a Brand That Breathes You

                If you’ve been waiting to “arrive” before showing up fully—this episode is your wake-up call.

                In the final episode of the Authenticity Series, we’re talking about what it really means to become the woman your brand is built for. Not six months from now. Not after the next launch. Now.

                This episode dives into the real reason your brand might feel disjointed, why content feels like effort instead of embodiment, and how to stop creating from who you think you need to be—and start leading from who you already are.

                Inside this episode:

                • Why your alter ego is actually your unfiltered self without fear
                • The reason your content feels like work instead of resonance
                • How to create from your current identity—not a fantasy future one
                • The energetic mismatch that’s keeping you stuck in inconsistent messaging
                • What it looks like to let your brand breathe like a living extension of your voice, values, and vibe


                You don’t need to change to be more magnetic.


                You need to trust who you are right now—and start building from there.


                🎙 Listen now to Episode 9 of the Authenticity Series on the Soft x Savage Podcast

                📲 Share on IG Stories + tag @softxsavagepodcast to enter this month’s giveaway

                💬 DM me “podcast” to get access to the full Authenticity Challenge lineup


                🎧 Subscribe & share this episode to IG Stories to win the weekly prize and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast


                Tag me so I can celebrate you—and help more people find this series.

                ⁠

                Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

                ⁠DM “Messaging” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses

                ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership


                Connect with Laura:

                Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠

                YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠


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                3 months ago
                18 minutes 56 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 177: Authenticity Series #8— How Discipline Builds Authority: The Secret to Consistent, Magnetic Authenticity

                You want to be seen as an authentic, powerful leader?


                Then consistency has to become your spiritual practice.


                In Episode 8 of the Authenticity Series, we’re unpacking the real reason your content might feel ungrounded, inconsistent, or like it isn’t building real traction—even when it’s good. Spoiler: it’s not your voice… it’s your follow-through.


                Inside this episode:

                • Why authenticity without consistency creates chaos instead of credibility

                • How discipline becomes your deepest form of self-trust—and audience trust

                • What your broken promises are silently doing to your magnetism and brand power

                • Why nervous system regulation matters more than emotional expression when building trust

                • The secret to being felt and followed consistently (even in seasons of emotional chaos)


                This is your invitation to lead from grounded presence—not just emotion.

                Discipline isn’t about control. It’s about creating a container for your truth to be heard, honored, and received.


                🎙 Listen now on the Soft x Savage Podcast
                💬 DM “podcast” to get the full Authenticity Challenge lineup

                🎧 Subscribe & share this episode to IG Stories to win the weekly prize and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast

                Tag me so I can celebrate you—and help more people find this series.


                ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy
                ⁠DM “Messaging” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses
                ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership

                Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠
                YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠


                Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market.



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                3 months ago
                18 minutes 12 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 176: Authenticity Series #7— Stop Trying to Be Someone New: Double Down on What Already Works

                High-achieving women, this one’s for you.


                You’ve built success by being yourself—by showing up real, raw, and aligned.


                But now that you're reaching for the next level, you’re feeling the pressure to become someone new in order to belong in “higher” rooms.


                This episode is your reminder:
                You don’t need to reinvent yourself.
                You need to double down on the 20% of your authentic expression that created 80% of your results.


                In Episode 7 of the Authenticity Series, we’re unpacking:

                • Why your frontend (what people see) might be misaligned with your backend (what actually built your brand)

                • The sneaky way high-level women start performing again at new levels of growth

                • Why your desire to evolve is valid—but faking it isn’t the path

                • How to refine your identity instead of abandoning it

                • How staying rooted in your authentic expression creates scalable, sustainable success

                You don’t need to become someone else to get to your next level.

                You need to become more of you.


                Resource Links:

                ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

                ⁠DM “Messaging” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses

                ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership


                Connect with Laura:

                Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠

                YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠

                ⁠

                Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market


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                3 months ago
                13 minutes 55 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 175: Authenticity Series #6— The #1 Thing Holding Back Your Income in 2025 (And How to Fix It Fast)

                You don’t need a brand overhaul, a rebrand, or a 17-step content plan to make more money.
                You need alignment, embodiment, and a message that actually moves.


                In Episode 6 of the Authenticity Series, we’re breaking down the real reason your content hasn’t translated to cash—and what shifts will unlock your most profitable, ease-filled season yet.


                Inside this episode:

                • Why now is the moment to activate your next income level (not wait until Q4 panic hits)

                • The #1 content shift that builds trust and converts high-ticket offers

                • How to create from alignment, not burnout—so your message sells while you rest

                • What it really looks like to monetize your story, voice, and presence

                • How to set up the rest of 2025 for overflow without overworking


                This isn’t about hustling harder.
                It’s about finally getting paid for who you are, not just what you do.


                If you’re ready to lead your space, raise your rates, and attract more aligned, ready-to-buy clients—this is your mid-year wake-up call.


                Resource Links:

                ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

                ⁠DM “Messaging” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses

                ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership


                Connect with Laura:

                Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠

                YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠

                ⁠

                Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market.



                🎙 Listen now on the Soft x Savage Podcast
                📲 Share on IG Stories + tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast for a chance to win this month’s giveaway
                💬 DM me “podcast” and I’ll send you the full Authenticity Challenge lineup

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                3 months ago
                20 minutes 44 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 174: Authenticity Series #5— The Energetic Shift That Makes Your Content Land With Power + Ease

                If you’ve ever wondered why some content lands effortlessly—while yours feels like it’s trying too hard or falling flat—this is the energetic reframe you didn’t know you needed.


                In Episode 5 of the Authenticity Series, we’re diving into the subtle but powerful difference between creating content to be seen… and creating content to expand others.


                You’ll learn:

                • The exact energetic shift that transforms your content from “trying” to transmitting

                • How to create from overflow instead of performance

                • Why sharing from wholeness builds more authority than oversharing ever could

                • How to move from self-validation to soul expansion in your messaging

                • The difference between content that performs and content that pulls


                This episode is for the woman who knows she has a voice, a message, a mission—but is ready to lead with it in a way that feels good, grounded, and deeply magnetic.


                Because when your content comes from embodiment, not effort... it works.


                🎧 Listen now on the Soft x Savage Podcast
                📲 Share on IG Stories and tag @softxsavagepodcast an @itslaurapatriciamartin to enter the July giveaway


                Resource Links:

                ⁠Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind⁠ — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacy

                ⁠DM “Messaging” on Instagram⁠ — For direct access to details and bonuses

                ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadership


                Connect with Laura:

                Instagram: ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠

                YouTube: ⁠@softxsavage⁠

                ⁠

                Love the episode?

                Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders and online coaches scale to 6-figures—with brands that actually lead the market.


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                3 months ago
                17 minutes 11 seconds

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Ep. 173: Authenticity Series #4: What Empowered Authenticity Really Means (And Why Your Vulnerability Isn’t Landing)

                Welcome to Episode 4 of the Authenticity Series on the Soft x Savage Podcast—your go-to space for high-achieving women who want to lead, scale, and get paid through real, embodied expression.


                Today we’re diving into a question that’s running silently through the minds of many thought leaders, coaches, and creators right now:


                What is empowered authenticity—and how do I show up powerfully online without oversharing, overexplaining, or performing my pain?


                If your content feels honest but still isn’t converting…
                If you’re stuck between wanting to be vulnerable but not wanting to lose authority…
                If you’re craving connection without constantly leaking your process—

                This episode is going to change the game.


                We’re unpacking:

                • The difference between trauma expression vs. embodied storytelling

                • Why you can feel deeply without spilling emotionally all over your content

                • The BODY / SPACE / LESSON method that helps you share with power, not panic

                • How your nervous system and embodiment are more important than your strategy

                • What to do when you feel like you're “in it” and still want to lead


                This episode is your permission slip to stop bleeding online for engagement and start sharing from a place of depth, presence, and internal power.


                You don’t need to be fully healed to lead—
                But you do need to know when you're performing pain instead of transmitting truth.


                🎙 Tune into Episode 4 of the Authenticity Series on the Soft x Savage Podcast

                📲 Share this episode to IG Stories + tag @itslaurapatriciamartin and @softxsavagepodcast to enter the July giveaway
                💬 DM me “podcast” for direct access to the full challenge lineup

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                3 months ago
                18 minutes 1 second

                SOFT x SAVAGE
                Becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn’t always comfortable — evolution requires standards, emotional regulation, capacity, and devotion to your future self. Soft x Savage is for women stepping into partnership, motherhood, wealth, and leadership without losing softness or self. Not performative empowerment or aesthetic healing — but refinement, discipline, discernment, and self-trust for the woman rising with elegance, power, and real-life depth.