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In this episode, Ashley Cobb discusses the importance of HIV testing, particularly among black women, with guest Kennedi Lowman, who shares her personal journey of living with HIV. They explore misconceptions about HIV, the significance of support networks, and the need for awareness and education in the community. The conversation emphasizes the importance of prioritizing health and the resources available for testing and support.
In this engaging conversation, Ashley Cobb and Lyvonne Briggs explore the profound connection between pleasure and liberation, particularly for Black women. They discuss the importance of reclaiming spirituality and sensuality, the need to decolonize Christianity, and the significance of healing bodily trauma. The dialogue also delves into the complexities of non-monogamy, jealousy, and the role of kink as a spiritual practice. Lyvonne shares insights from her book, 'Sensual Faith,' and emphasizes the importance of self-love and understanding one's own desires.
In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Mikki Bey delve into the concept of emotional regulation and its profound impact on relationships and sexual experiences. Mikki shares her journey into emotional regulation, emphasizing its importance as a skill that can prevent severe consequences in life. The conversation explores how emotional states affect sexual desire and intimacy, the significance of vulnerability in communication with partners, and the necessity of addressing emotional baggage. They also discuss the value of professional guidance in personal development and the importance of creating emotional safety within oneself. Techniques for co-regulation and enhancing intimacy are highlighted, providing listeners with practical insights for improving their emotional and sexual well-being.
In this episode, host Ashley Cobb and expert Chanel Jaali Marshall delve into the world of kink, discussing its various definitions, the importance of consent, and how it can enhance communication in relationships. They explore the misconceptions surrounding kink, particularly in the Black community, and provide insights on how to navigate desires with partners who may not share the same interests. The conversation emphasizes the significance of curiosity and open-mindedness in exploring one's sexuality.
In this episode of 'Sex with Ashley', host Ashley Cobb speaks with Nikki Boyer, the creator of the podcast and TV show 'Dying for Sex'. They discuss the profound journey of Nikki's best friend Molly, who, after being diagnosed with stage four breast cancer, embarks on a quest for sexual exploration and self-discovery. The conversation delves into the emotional impact of Molly's story, the creative process of adapting the podcast into a TV show, and the lessons learned about friendship, grief, and sexual empowerment. Nikki shares insights on the importance of living life fully and embracing one's desires, while also reflecting on the feedback received from viewers and the portrayal of Molly's journey.
In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Dr. Tamara Rose delve into the complexities surrounding the Diddy trial and Cassie's experiences, exploring themes of survival, consent, and the challenges faced by women in abusive relationships. They discuss the societal perceptions of domestic violence, the psychological aspects of trauma, and the importance of support systems. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding towards survivors, as well as the significance of accountability and recognizing red flags in relationships.
In this episode of 'Sex with Ashley', host Ashley Cobb engages with Dr. Janelle Frederick, a pelvic floor physical therapist, to discuss the often-overlooked topic of pelvic floor health, specifically focusing on prolapse. They explore the symptoms, causes, and treatment options for prolapse, as well as its impact on sexual health and emotional well-being. The conversation emphasizes the importance of awareness, education, and seeking help for pelvic floor issues, encouraging women to take charge of their health and not suffer in silence.
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In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Dr. Donna Oriowo discuss the complex relationship between self-esteem and identity, particularly for black women. They explore how societal messages, supremacy culture, and personal experiences shape self-perception and relationships. Dr. Oriowo shares insights from her book, 'Drink Water and Mind Your Business,' emphasizing the importance of building self-esteem, setting boundaries, and choosing one's own path in life. The conversation highlights the need for representation in media and the impact of personal journeys on self-acceptance and empowerment.
In this episode, Ashley Cobb engages with licensed therapist Nikquan Lewis to discuss the profound impact of trauma on relationships, self-esteem, and sexuality. They explore how trauma shapes partner selection, the importance of friendships, and the necessity of reauthoring personal narratives around sex and relationships. Nikquan emphasizes the need for awareness and understanding of one's trauma to foster healthier connections and self-acceptance. The conversation culminates in the announcement of Nikquan's upcoming book, which aims to guide readers in reclaiming their narratives and understanding the cost of trauma in their lives.
In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Omisade Burney-Scott discuss the often-taboo topic of menopause, particularly from the perspective of Black women. They explore the importance of open conversations about menstrual health, the symptoms and experiences of perimenopause, and the impact of societal narratives on women's identities as they transition through menopause. The discussion also touches on the complexities of sexuality during menopause, challenging common myths and emphasizing the potential for positive sexual experiences during this life stage. In this conversation, Omisade Burney-Scott and Ashley Cobb explore the multifaceted experience of menopause, discussing its impact on sexuality, self-discovery, and health. They emphasize the importance of understanding one's body, the potential benefits of hormone replacement therapy, and the significance of community support. The dialogue encourages women to embrace their changing identities and prioritize their satisfaction and happiness during this life stage.
In this episode, we talk with Dr. Candice Hargons about her book, "Good Sex." We explore various definitions of good sex, the importance of communication, and the ingredients that contribute to a fulfilling sexual experience. Dr. Hargons shares her research findings on intimacy, pleasure, and the significance of being open and receptive in sexual relationships. The discussion also touches on personal experiences, societal expectations, and the liberation that comes from understanding one's sexual desires.
In this episode, host Ashley Cobb speaks with midwife Leonne about the complexities of sexual health during and after pregnancy. They discuss the role of midwives, the safety of sex during pregnancy, the physical changes women experience post-birth, and the importance of communication and patience in navigating these changes. Leonne also addresses the impact of orgasms on labor and the significance of pelvic floor therapy for postpartum recovery.
In this conversation, Ashley Cobb interviews Marla Renee Stewart, a sex educator and sexual strategist, about the complexities of sexuality in long-term relationships, the impact of purity culture, and the importance of communication and understanding in sexual dynamics. They discuss the changes that occur in sexual relationships after marriage, the significance of premarital counseling, and practical tips for enhancing sexual communication. Marla introduces her concept of seduction learning styles and emphasizes the need for kindness and understanding in navigating sexual dissatisfaction.
In this enlightening episode, Dr. Michael Reed discusses the evolving field of cosmetic gynecology, focusing on procedures like labiaplasty and vaginal tightening. He emphasizes the importance of understanding women's needs, both aesthetic and functional, and advocates for better education and training for practitioners in this field. The conversation highlights how these procedures can enhance women's sexual health and overall well-being, challenging societal perceptions and promoting empowerment.
In this conversation, Ashley Cobb and Reba Thomas delve into the topic of ethical non-monogamy, exploring its rising popularity, definitions, and various forms. They discuss the dynamics of ethical non-monogamous relationships, particularly within marriages, and emphasize the importance of consent, communication, and understanding personal boundaries. The conversation also touches on personal experiences and the significance of finding community and resources for those interested in exploring non-monogamous lifestyles.
In this episode of Sex With Ashley, we are discussing the journey through polyamory .In this conversation, LeNae Smith and Ashley Cobb explore the complexities of polyamory, discussing the importance of safety, communication, and boundaries in non-monogamous relationships. They emphasize the need for honest conversations before entering polyamorous arrangements and share insights on how multiple partners can enhance intimacy. The discussion also covers the pros and cons of polyamory, including the challenges of jealousy and the importance of self-protection. Finally, they provide resources for those interested in exploring polyamory further.
In this episode of Sex After, Ashley Cobb speaks with Sophia about her experiences with anorexia and its impact on her sexuality. They discuss the journey of recovery, the importance of self-love, and how masturbation played a crucial role in reconnecting with her body. Sophia shares her insights on the relationship between eating disorders and sexual health, offering advice for those struggling with similar issues and emphasizing the importance of self-care practices.
In this episode of Sex After, host Ashley Cobb speaks with actress and sexual health influencer Toni Bryce about her journey as a transgender woman, her experiences with sex before and after her transition, and the importance of communication and consent in sexual relationships. Toni shares her insights on navigating intimacy, preparing for anal sex, and the significance of establishing non-negotiables in sexual encounters. The conversation also touches on the dynamics between cis women and trans women, emphasizing the shared experiences of womanhood and the need for solidarity. Toni offers valuable advice for anyone looking to enhance their sexual experiences, encouraging listeners to embrace their desires and communicate openly with partners.
In this episode of 'Sex After', Ashley Cobb and Karli Harvey Raymond discuss the impact of life changes on women's sexual lives. They explore themes of empowerment, body positivity, communication, and the importance of understanding one's desires. Karli shares her expertise as a certified sex educator, emphasizing the need for women to embrace their sexuality and communicate openly with their partners. The conversation also touches on navigating relationships while being a parent, the significance of self-love, and the importance of exploring fantasies without shame.
In this engaging conversation, Ashley Cobb and Tamela Gordon explore the complexities of intimacy and relationships while navigating life with dentures. Tamela shares her personal journey, discussing the challenges and adaptations she has made in her sexual practices, the reactions from partners, and the importance of self-acceptance. The discussion emphasizes the significance of openness in relationships and offers valuable advice for others facing similar situations.
