Join today's guest, Jessica Barnes, on an exploration of how the attitudes and behaviors of parents can subtly pass down through generations, shaping our beliefs, biases, and worldviews. Jessica invites listeners to reflect on which inherited perspectives still serve them, and reveals the importance of listening inward and analyzing our intuitive responses.
Jessica also shares the value of surrounding oneself with people from different backgrounds and with different values, as a way to expand perspective and build empathy. Finally, she offers practical advice on how to stay open-minded and balanced in a world of many “truths,” where people’s realities can differ widely, and how it’s perfectly okay to simply disagree while remaining true to your own values.
Resources:
Jessica's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2Ps59OvIQF63G4FBGcqbVV?si=7e1b27567df84092
Jessica's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094182336643
Jessica's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/get.zen.with.jess
Catherine Delahunty (Tauiwi experience): https://carecca.nz/catherine-delahunty/
Jase Williams (Trauma Informed Pedagogies): https://www.jasewilliams.nz/index.htmlMatt Brown - (My Fathers Barbers): https://www.penguin.co.nz/authors/matt-brown
The Pākehā Project: https://www.pakehaproject.nz/offerings
Madeleine's website: https://www.peopleskillsconsulting.co.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, Madeleine sits down with Adrian Martinca to explore the profound effects of artificial intelligence on human life and connection. Together, they discuss what kind of relationship we should be striving to build with AI, and how the rapid pace of technological change shapes our values and choices. The conversation also touches on the quieter, everyday consequences of tech, how social media and misdirected connectivity can erode family bonds, and why this makes it harder for parents to truly support their children in pursuing their dreams.
Adrian shares practical strategies to help children verbalize dreams as action statements, bringing wishes for a brighter future one step closer to realization.
Resources:
Technology For The Future: https://t4tf.org/
Operation Dream Force:
https://t4tf.org/operation-dream-force/
Madeleine's website: https://www.peopleskillsconsulting.co.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This time Madeleine talks with Kirstin Barchia, an expert in the art of Calm Connection. They discuss the causes of stress in teenagers, reveal how stereotypical 'teen behaviour' is often the symptom and not the disease, and most importantly how finding your own calm as a parent is the key first step towards meaningful connection with your teen.
Drawing on her insight into how childhood today differs from the past, Kirstin shares practical advice that works in the real world of parenting.
Resources:
Free guide: https://www.kirstinbarchia.com.au/connection
Calm connection workshop: https://www.kirstinbarchia.com.au/ccw
Madeleine's website: https://www.peopleskillsconsulting.co.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Madeleine interviews Tim Curtis, SAS veteran, to explore a powerful topic which resonates with the core of this podcast: building resilience. Together, they unpack how children can develop emotional and social resilience, discussing the growth that comes through struggle, and how letting kids work through challenges builds the confidence they need to successfully regulate and thrive in todays world. Tim also shares practical tips and advice that parents can implement to help kids face setbacks and recover stronger than ever.
Resources:
Resilience Shield Website: https://resilienceshield.com/
Building Resilient Kids: https://resilienceshield.com/kids/
Madeleine's website: https://www.peopleskillsconsulting.co.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, host Madeleine talks with Judith Yeabsley, feeding specialist and author, about all things picky eating. They explore why some kids are fussy with food, what’s normal (and what’s not), and how parents can take the pressure off mealtimes. Judith shares practical, down-to-earth strategies for helping children build a better relationship with food, without battles or bribery. Whether you're dealing with a toddler who only eats crackers or a school-aged child stuck in a food rut, this episode is packed with insight and encouragement.
Resources:
https://calendly.com/judith-23/bookatimewithjudithhttps://theconfidenteater.com/books/
https://www.facebook.com/theconfidenteater
https://www.instagram.com/theconfidenteater/
https://bsky.app/profile/theconfidenteater.bsky.social
Madeleine's website: https://www.peopleskillsconsulting.co.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This time Madeleine speaks with Dr Barker-Clarke about the complex world of sexting and image sharing among young people. This conversation covers what sexting looks like today, how kids think about it, and why open, non-judgmental conversations matter more than ever. Dr Barker-Clarke shares insights from her personal research, including the most effective methods of teaching kids about online safety and consent, and why it’s so important to approach the topic from the child’s perspective.
Whether you’re unsure how to bring it up or just want to better understand what your kids might be facing, this episode offers practical advice and a thoughtful look at a tough but important issue.
In this episode host Madeleine interviews Sarah Aiono, a parent and expert in the role of play in the development of children.
Sarah and Madeleine discuss tips on how to make routines fun, as well as the best ways to help children manage failure. They delve into topics such as device usage, as well as exploring why being bored might actually be an important step in the process of developing creativity and problem solving skills.
Resources: https://learningthroughplay.com/
https://www.playcentre.org.nz/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Schema-A3-posters.pdf
https://www.facebook.com/longwortheducation/
Madeleine's website: https://www.peopleskillsconsulting.co.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, host Madeleine Taylor speaks with Amy Castle, a mother, experienced parent, and dedicated advocate for perinatal mental health. As a team member at PADA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Aotearoa), Amy sheds light on the challenges many parents face during and after pregnancy, including perinatal anxiety and depression. She discusses the lack of awareness and support available and shares valuable insights on recognizing the signs, accessing help, and the importance of open conversations around maternal mental health.
Amy also provides practical advice on managing perinatal mental health and highlights key resources from PADA, including screening tools and national helplines. Whether you're a new parent, a support person, or simply want to learn more, this episode offers essential guidance on navigating perinatal mental health challenges and finding the right support.
PADA: https://pada.nz/
Screening tools: https://pada.nz/screening-tools/
Helplines: https://pada.nz/national-helplines/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Madeleine speaks with Dr. Emily Bashah, a renowned psychologist based in Arizona, to delve into the complex topics of radicalisation and dangerous ideologies. Drawing from her extensive experience in clinical psychology and forensic consulting, Dr. Bashah unpacks how these ideologies take root, what makes individuals—particularly young people—vulnerable, and the role of social isolation in the process.
This episode explores actionable strategies for parents, educators, and communities to safeguard children from becoming isolated and susceptible to harmful influences, emphasizing the importance of connection, critical thinking, and open communication in preventing radicalization.
Dr Bashah's Book: https://www.optamerican.com/library
Parenting Types Podcast link: https://www.optamerican.com/podcast/episode/ca6ae501/parenting-types-how-both-attachment-and-anti-fragility-are-important-to-your-childs-success
Worksheets: https://www.optamerican.com/_files/ugd/56553d_99fb2af3fdd54e44886c07393548e38c.pdf
https://www.optamerican.com/_files/ugd/56553d_4e03706d7f44486185da908583ca3366.pdf
Madeleine's site: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In Episode 4 of difficult conversations host Madeleine is joined by Brett Harvey to discuss the challenges surrounding the rise in accessibility and consumption of pornography.
Madeleine and Brett discuss many topics including the dangers of pornography addiction, safe strategies to approach difficult conversations with young people, and tips to encourage healthy development and exploration of sexuality.
Most importantly, Brett drives home the importance of embracing a culture of awareness and open conversation in order to tackle this ever-growing issue.
Resources:
https://www.taimakorero.co.nz/resources
https://www.taimakorero.co.nz/store
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode Madeleine interviews RuruHana Brownie on the topic of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders. RuruHana is passionate about raising awareness towards the potential dangers of alcohol, especially in the societies of today where alcohol use is embraced and promoted.
This episode gives insights into the causes and symptoms of FASD, as well as information about the support systems in place within Aotearoa New Zealand.
FASD-CAN: https://www.fasd-can.org.nz/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode host Madeleine is joined by counsellor and social worker Tash Micheletti to dive into the essential yet confronting topic of consent. They explore the importance of the "enthusiastic yes", and discuss strategies for parents to become comfortable in supporting their children to understand and navigate consent.
Whether you're a parent looking for ways to have open conversations or just interested in learning more about fostering a culture of respect, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Tune in for an engaging and thoughtful conversation on fostering a positive approach to consent and respect.
This episode covers sensitive topics - viewer discretion is advised.
Resources provided by Tash: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lVeA4XgBxI4smx14bxRgv2KfKSjS-Ok6/view?usp=drive_link
Tash's website: http://balancedtherapy.co.nz/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This episode focusses on the tragic topic of baby loss, as Madeleine is joined by Vicki Culling, a bereaved parent, educator, and support worker.
Vicki shares her invaluable experiences in hopes of helping other bereaved parents to find moments of solace in the midst of sorrow, honour the memory of their children, and discovering unexpected sources of strength along the way.
Growing Around Grief: https://www.funeralguide.co.uk/help-resources/bereavement-support/the-grieving-process/tonkins-model-of-grief
Ring Theory: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/promoting-hope-preventing-suicide/201705/ring-theory-helps-us-bring-comfort-in
Vicki's website: https://www.vca.co.nz/
Whetūrangitia: https://wheturangitia.services.govt.nz/
Sands NZ: http://www.sands.org.nz/
Huggable Hearts: https://www.huggablehearts.co.nz/
Refuge in Grief: https://refugeingrief.com/
Glover Memorials (free plaques): http://www.glovermemorials.co.nz/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This episode features Celia Hogan, an expert on the importance of play and the role it plays in child development. Celia and Madeleine discuss the benefits of nature in play, child-led play, and strategies for enabling the healthy contribution of play to children's cognitive, physical, social, and emotional well-being.
Celia's website: https://littlekiwisnatureplay.com/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, Madeleine is joined by optometrist Keren Dravitzki as they delve into the fascinating world of eye health. Myopia, commonly known as nearsightedness, is a growing concern in today's digital age.
Explore the environmental factors that contribute to Myopia, strategies to protect developing eyes, and tips to minimise eye strain and tiredness.
Myopia - for families: https://mykidsvision.org
Myopia - for parents: https://mymyopia.com/for-parents
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This week on Resilient Kids Madeleine speaks with specialist Brett Harrington about all things ADHD. This episode is filled with insights and strategies for parents raising children with ADHD. Listen in as Brett shares her expert knowledge and we discover that ADHD is not something to be fought against, but rather a challenge that we must embrace and adapt around.
Brett's website: https://adhdsorted.com/
ADHD New Zealand: https://www.adhd.org.nz/
Additude magazine: https://www.additudemag.com/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this week's episode, host Madeleine speaks with Te Kahukura Boynton, to explore innovative strategies for imparting financial wisdom to children.
Te Kahukura Boynton is a 19 year old Law Student, Entrepreneur and Activist for Māori. Te Kahukura is on a mission to teach Maori financial literacy because she believes that this will reduce disparities in outcomes. You can learn more about her journey by following @maorimillionaire_ on social media or visiting www.maorimillionaire.com
Te Kahukura shares invaluable insights to help children understand the profound significance of money, delving into topics such as budgeting, teaching kids the value of money, and how to role model positive behaviours in the realm of finance.
How much is too much: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/jean-illsley-clarke/how-much-is-too-much-previously-published-as-how-much-is-enough/9780738216829/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This episode we are joined by Sarah Amy Glensor Best, an author, parenting coach, and mother of 3, as she shares her insightful take on the significance of play in a child's life. Madeleine and Sarah uncover the reasons behind play's importance and practical ways to infuse it into daily routines, fostering creativity and resilience naturally. Covering topics such as what is play, why we play, and even how to use play to explore sensitive topics like death, tune in to discover how to make play an integral part of your parenting journey.
Sarah's website: www.powerfulparenting.world
Sarah's book: https://www.amazon.com/Changing-World-Childs-Play-Inspirations/dp/0994114214
Interview with Dr Peter Gray: https://www.rnz.co.nz/national/programmes/afternoons/audio/2018902731/more-play-for-young-people
Playcentre: https://www.playcentre.org.nz
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, we're joined again by children’s continence nurse Lisa Smith, a seasoned professional in the realm of potty training. Lisa imparts her extensive expertise, offering invaluable advice for parents and caregivers. From recognising signs of readiness to overcoming challenges like regression, Lisa's proven techniques and empathetic approach pave the way for a successful potty training journey. This episode equips listeners with practical strategies and many valuable tips. Listen in to learn how to navigate this important developmental milestone with confidence and ease.
Free webinar - Going potty over potty training: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cghPAfuSWw
Lisa's website: https://childrenscontinence.com/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
On this week's interview we hear from the wonderful Lisa Krause. Lisa is a parent and grandparent with years of experience and expertise parenting. She has worked as a parenting educator and a teacher of parenting science. On this episode Madeleine and Lisa have a discussion on the topic of helicopter parenting. Lisa uses the terms “Rescuing your children” rather then helping and guiding them. In order for our children to reach adulthood with all the skills they require they need to be taught and nurtured but also left alone to figure things out. Lisa brings up important questions such as; how early should they start doing chores? When is it okay to let your child take risks that could hurt them? Does your child need assistance or just a listening ear? These questions and more are the backbone of the important conversation that has taken place.
Lisa's website: www.parentcoachconnection.com
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
