In this episode host Madeleine interviews Sarah Aiono, a parent and expert in the role of play in the development of children.
Sarah and Madeleine discuss tips on how to make routines fun, as well as the best ways to help children manage failure. They delve into topics such as device usage, as well as exploring why being bored might actually be an important step in the process of developing creativity and problem solving skills.
Resources: https://learningthroughplay.com/
https://www.playcentre.org.nz/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Schema-A3-posters.pdf
https://www.facebook.com/longwortheducation/
Madeleine's website: https://www.peopleskillsconsulting.co.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, host Madeleine Taylor speaks with Amy Castle, a mother, experienced parent, and dedicated advocate for perinatal mental health. As a team member at PADA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Aotearoa), Amy sheds light on the challenges many parents face during and after pregnancy, including perinatal anxiety and depression. She discusses the lack of awareness and support available and shares valuable insights on recognizing the signs, accessing help, and the importance of open conversations around maternal mental health.
Amy also provides practical advice on managing perinatal mental health and highlights key resources from PADA, including screening tools and national helplines. Whether you're a new parent, a support person, or simply want to learn more, this episode offers essential guidance on navigating perinatal mental health challenges and finding the right support.
PADA: https://pada.nz/
Screening tools: https://pada.nz/screening-tools/
Helplines: https://pada.nz/national-helplines/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Madeleine speaks with Dr. Emily Bashah, a renowned psychologist based in Arizona, to delve into the complex topics of radicalisation and dangerous ideologies. Drawing from her extensive experience in clinical psychology and forensic consulting, Dr. Bashah unpacks how these ideologies take root, what makes individuals—particularly young people—vulnerable, and the role of social isolation in the process.
This episode explores actionable strategies for parents, educators, and communities to safeguard children from becoming isolated and susceptible to harmful influences, emphasizing the importance of connection, critical thinking, and open communication in preventing radicalization.
Dr Bashah's Book: https://www.optamerican.com/library
Parenting Types Podcast link: https://www.optamerican.com/podcast/episode/ca6ae501/parenting-types-how-both-attachment-and-anti-fragility-are-important-to-your-childs-success
Worksheets: https://www.optamerican.com/_files/ugd/56553d_99fb2af3fdd54e44886c07393548e38c.pdf
https://www.optamerican.com/_files/ugd/56553d_4e03706d7f44486185da908583ca3366.pdf
Madeleine's site: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In Episode 4 of difficult conversations host Madeleine is joined by Brett Harvey to discuss the challenges surrounding the rise in accessibility and consumption of pornography.
Madeleine and Brett discuss many topics including the dangers of pornography addiction, safe strategies to approach difficult conversations with young people, and tips to encourage healthy development and exploration of sexuality.
Most importantly, Brett drives home the importance of embracing a culture of awareness and open conversation in order to tackle this ever-growing issue.
Resources:
https://www.taimakorero.co.nz/resources
https://www.taimakorero.co.nz/store
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode Madeleine interviews RuruHana Brownie on the topic of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders. RuruHana is passionate about raising awareness towards the potential dangers of alcohol, especially in the societies of today where alcohol use is embraced and promoted.
This episode gives insights into the causes and symptoms of FASD, as well as information about the support systems in place within Aotearoa New Zealand.
FASD-CAN: https://www.fasd-can.org.nz/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode host Madeleine is joined by counsellor and social worker Tash Micheletti to dive into the essential yet confronting topic of consent. They explore the importance of the "enthusiastic yes", and discuss strategies for parents to become comfortable in supporting their children to understand and navigate consent.
Whether you're a parent looking for ways to have open conversations or just interested in learning more about fostering a culture of respect, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Tune in for an engaging and thoughtful conversation on fostering a positive approach to consent and respect.
This episode covers sensitive topics - viewer discretion is advised.
Resources provided by Tash: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lVeA4XgBxI4smx14bxRgv2KfKSjS-Ok6/view?usp=drive_link
Tash's website: http://balancedtherapy.co.nz/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This episode focusses on the tragic topic of baby loss, as Madeleine is joined by Vicki Culling, a bereaved parent, educator, and support worker.
Vicki shares her invaluable experiences in hopes of helping other bereaved parents to find moments of solace in the midst of sorrow, honour the memory of their children, and discovering unexpected sources of strength along the way.
Growing Around Grief: https://www.funeralguide.co.uk/help-resources/bereavement-support/the-grieving-process/tonkins-model-of-grief
Ring Theory: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/promoting-hope-preventing-suicide/201705/ring-theory-helps-us-bring-comfort-in
Vicki's website: https://www.vca.co.nz/
Whetūrangitia: https://wheturangitia.services.govt.nz/
Sands NZ: http://www.sands.org.nz/
Huggable Hearts: https://www.huggablehearts.co.nz/
Refuge in Grief: https://refugeingrief.com/
Glover Memorials (free plaques): http://www.glovermemorials.co.nz/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This episode features Celia Hogan, an expert on the importance of play and the role it plays in child development. Celia and Madeleine discuss the benefits of nature in play, child-led play, and strategies for enabling the healthy contribution of play to children's cognitive, physical, social, and emotional well-being.
Celia's website: https://littlekiwisnatureplay.com/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, Madeleine is joined by optometrist Keren Dravitzki as they delve into the fascinating world of eye health. Myopia, commonly known as nearsightedness, is a growing concern in today's digital age.
Explore the environmental factors that contribute to Myopia, strategies to protect developing eyes, and tips to minimise eye strain and tiredness.
Myopia - for families: https://mykidsvision.org
Myopia - for parents: https://mymyopia.com/for-parents
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This week on Resilient Kids Madeleine speaks with specialist Brett Harrington about all things ADHD. This episode is filled with insights and strategies for parents raising children with ADHD. Listen in as Brett shares her expert knowledge and we discover that ADHD is not something to be fought against, but rather a challenge that we must embrace and adapt around.
Brett's website: https://adhdsorted.com/
ADHD New Zealand: https://www.adhd.org.nz/
Additude magazine: https://www.additudemag.com/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this week's episode, host Madeleine speaks with Te Kahukura Boynton, to explore innovative strategies for imparting financial wisdom to children.
Te Kahukura Boynton is a 19 year old Law Student, Entrepreneur and Activist for Māori. Te Kahukura is on a mission to teach Maori financial literacy because she believes that this will reduce disparities in outcomes. You can learn more about her journey by following @maorimillionaire_ on social media or visiting www.maorimillionaire.com
Te Kahukura shares invaluable insights to help children understand the profound significance of money, delving into topics such as budgeting, teaching kids the value of money, and how to role model positive behaviours in the realm of finance.
How much is too much: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/jean-illsley-clarke/how-much-is-too-much-previously-published-as-how-much-is-enough/9780738216829/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
This episode we are joined by Sarah Amy Glensor Best, an author, parenting coach, and mother of 3, as she shares her insightful take on the significance of play in a child's life. Madeleine and Sarah uncover the reasons behind play's importance and practical ways to infuse it into daily routines, fostering creativity and resilience naturally. Covering topics such as what is play, why we play, and even how to use play to explore sensitive topics like death, tune in to discover how to make play an integral part of your parenting journey.
Sarah's website: www.powerfulparenting.world
Sarah's book: https://www.amazon.com/Changing-World-Childs-Play-Inspirations/dp/0994114214
Interview with Dr Peter Gray: https://www.rnz.co.nz/national/programmes/afternoons/audio/2018902731/more-play-for-young-people
Playcentre: https://www.playcentre.org.nz
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
In this episode, we're joined again by children’s continence nurse Lisa Smith, a seasoned professional in the realm of potty training. Lisa imparts her extensive expertise, offering invaluable advice for parents and caregivers. From recognising signs of readiness to overcoming challenges like regression, Lisa's proven techniques and empathetic approach pave the way for a successful potty training journey. This episode equips listeners with practical strategies and many valuable tips. Listen in to learn how to navigate this important developmental milestone with confidence and ease.
Free webinar - Going potty over potty training: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cghPAfuSWw
Lisa's website: https://childrenscontinence.com/
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
On this week's interview we hear from the wonderful Lisa Krause. Lisa is a parent and grandparent with years of experience and expertise parenting. She has worked as a parenting educator and a teacher of parenting science. On this episode Madeleine and Lisa have a discussion on the topic of helicopter parenting. Lisa uses the terms “Rescuing your children” rather then helping and guiding them. In order for our children to reach adulthood with all the skills they require they need to be taught and nurtured but also left alone to figure things out. Lisa brings up important questions such as; how early should they start doing chores? When is it okay to let your child take risks that could hurt them? Does your child need assistance or just a listening ear? These questions and more are the backbone of the important conversation that has taken place.
Lisa's website: www.parentcoachconnection.com
Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/
Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Heather has been working with parents and parenting professionals for 15 years and offers a unique perspective all the way from Carolina in the USA. In their conversation Madeleine and Heather discuss how hard it is for parents to find their own solutions when issues come up with their children rather then looking for help from professionals. The irony of this being a parenting podcast is not missed. Parents have intuitive sense of what their children need, and Heather provides suggestions for how parents can look inwards to find information in difficult situations.
Heathers website: www.reflectivedialogue.com
Sleep is one of the most essential parts of all of our lives. Billie, a sleep consultant with the business Sleeping Lions, takes her time to share our vital sleep is for all of our health. This is especially the case for babies. Billie discusses with Madeleine strategies for getting our infants to sleep. Billie boils it down to how essential it is to be consistent and have a plan and how habits around sleep can begin developing as early as day one!
Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below.
Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Resources:
https://www.sleepinglions.co.nz/
Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor
Guest: Billie Searing
Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir
Intro Music By: Guy Ritani
This week we welcome Judith Yeabsley back onto the podcast. After telling us of her own experiences in parenting in season one we have her back to talk about her are of expertise, picky eating. As the founder of The Confident Eater, Judith has ample knowledge and a strong ability to share that knowledge. As a former teacher and a forever learner herself, she understands what it takes to teach and shares her knowledge with care and grace. There is much to learn from this episode with The Confident Eater!
Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below.
Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Resources:
Sharing not Staring: https://theconfidenteater.com/blog/our-food/sharing-not-staring-especially-for-our-fussy-eaters/
Common Mistakes: https://theconfidenteater.com/blog/picky-eating-support/avoiding-common-mistakes-for-parents-of-fussy-eaters/
The link to the research (in the easy to read format): https://wharaurau.org.nz/sites/default/files/files/resources/Optimising%20Eating%20Occasions%20at%20School%20-%20How%20To%20Support%20Selective%20Eaters%20%28Dr%20Amy%20Lovell%29.pdf
And her contact details.
Website: https://theconfidenteater.com/
FB page: https://www.facebook.com/theconfidenteater/
Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor
Guest: Judith Yeabsley
Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir
Intro Music By: Guy Ritani
To begin season two, our specialist season, we tackle the absolutely essential topic of grief. Grief is something we all have to go through at some point, and having the knowledge of Claire Laurenson in your tool belt is a huge asset. Claire has been doing grief work for nearly forty years, and like all of us has experience working through her own grief. Claire is an amazing resource who discusses many different techniques for helping your children through their grief. Madeleine and Claire are able to flow through a relaxed conversation on such an important topic and Claire’s immense knowledge is well and truly essential listening.
Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below.
Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Resources:
Claire’s Website: https://griefrelief.co.nz/
Skylight: https://www.skylight.org.nz/resources/loss-and-grief
Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/
Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor
Guest: Claire Laurenson
Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir
Intro Music By: Guy Ritani
In this episode we speak to another highly experienced professional about the important topic of poos and wees. Lisa Smith is a children’s continence nurse and has been working with children and families for many years. You will hear Lisa explain how the bowel is like a second brain! Truly. The bowel is impacted by our emotions much like our brain. So the topic of poos and wees is actually a complex and important one. Lisa’s knowledge is a crucial resource for families needing more information about number ones and number twos. Toilet training is not the end of the road, and we are sure adults listening will learn important tips to make sure our health is kept in shape.
Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below.
Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Resources:
Winnie Weka and Mr Poo – on Lisa's website www.poosandwees.org.nz
C for Constipation and watch the video, E for Enuresis and watch the videowww.kidshealth.org.nz
Youtube: wee, poo and you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBOeiPmi5Ro&t=75s
Squatty potty video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YbYWhdLO43Q=
Lots of children’s resources on Toileting, wetting and soiling www.continence.org.nz
Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/
Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor
Guest: Lisa Smith
Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir
Intro Music By: Guy Ritani
Madeleine has a conversation with Liz Andrew-Brake, a person Madeleine met when they were just a child. Liz now has a toddler of 17 months and comes to talk about managing tantrums. Their discussion revolves around founding balance in responding to tantrums. Liz is an experienced social worker, so her knowledge and Madeleine’s expertise leads them to create a toolbox to deal with tantrums. Managing emotions is always a tricky journey, but their conversation is a practical model for all parents.
Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below.
Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com
Resources:
Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/
Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor
Guest: Liz Andrew-Brake
Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir
Intro Music By: Guy Ritani
