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Now I Get It, with Dr. Andy
Andrew Winkler
29 episodes
4 days ago

I’m Andrew Winkler, a former Stanford and Columbia math professor.


We’ll explore the most interesting insights I’ve come across, ranging across the mental landscape: math, science, personality, how we think and feel, and how we love or feel unloved. We’ll give answers to all the most confusing questions everyone has, have new books and authors, and reach new understandings.


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I’m Andrew Winkler, a former Stanford and Columbia math professor.


We’ll explore the most interesting insights I’ve come across, ranging across the mental landscape: math, science, personality, how we think and feel, and how we love or feel unloved. We’ll give answers to all the most confusing questions everyone has, have new books and authors, and reach new understandings.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Mathematics
Society & Culture,
Science,
Relationships
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Complimentary Neuroses in Relationships: Why Adults Attach and Attract Love
Now I Get It, with Dr. Andy
16 minutes 30 seconds
9 months ago
Complimentary Neuroses in Relationships: Why Adults Attach and Attract Love

Today, we dive into the fascinating concept of complimentary neuroses in relationships and explore how our individual developmental stages and attachment styles, shaped by early childhood experiences, influence the partners we are drawn to and the dynamics that ensue. I explain that our attractions and tolerances often align with our own neuroses, creating complementary relationships that are both enriching and challenging.


You’ll be able to gain insights into the attachment styles—secure, avoidant, and anxious—and how these early patterns manifest in adult relationships and how the phases of development, from attachment and exploration to identity and competence, and how each stage leaves its mark on our personalities. This episode reveals the transformative power of relationships, as they provide a crucible for growth, healing, and the potential to overcome our limiting patterns.


In this episode, you will learn:

  • (00:45) What are complementary neuroses in relationships? Why we are attracted to partners with neuroses that complement our own.
  • (02:30) The role of attachment styles in shaping relationships: How avoidant, anxious, and secure attachments form in early childhood and influence adult behavior.
  • (08:50) The impact of developmental stages on personality: An exploration of the phases of attachment, exploration, identity, and competence, and how they shape who we are.
  • (16:39) How relationships act as a crucible for transformation: Understanding how our neuroses collide in relationships and create opportunities for growth.
  • (14:21) Why balance and attunement in parenting are critical: The importance of mirroring and balanced responses in helping children form a healthy sense of self.


Let’s connect!

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Now I Get It, with Dr. Andy

I’m Andrew Winkler, a former Stanford and Columbia math professor.


We’ll explore the most interesting insights I’ve come across, ranging across the mental landscape: math, science, personality, how we think and feel, and how we love or feel unloved. We’ll give answers to all the most confusing questions everyone has, have new books and authors, and reach new understandings.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.