I’m Andrew Winkler, a former Stanford and Columbia math professor.
We’ll explore the most interesting insights I’ve come across, ranging across the mental landscape: math, science, personality, how we think and feel, and how we love or feel unloved. We’ll give answers to all the most confusing questions everyone has, have new books and authors, and reach new understandings.
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I’m Andrew Winkler, a former Stanford and Columbia math professor.
We’ll explore the most interesting insights I’ve come across, ranging across the mental landscape: math, science, personality, how we think and feel, and how we love or feel unloved. We’ll give answers to all the most confusing questions everyone has, have new books and authors, and reach new understandings.
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In this episode of Now I Get It, I dive into the fascinating topic of complimentary neuroses in relationships. I explain how we tend to be drawn to people whose unresolved patterns and neuroses compliment our own, creating a sense of wholeness. While this dynamic can feel comforting at first, over time, it often leads to conflict and challenges that provide an opportunity for growth and transformation.
I also walk you through the key developmental stages—like attachment, exploration, and identity—and how experiences during these phases shape our behaviors and attachment styles as adults. By understanding these patterns and embracing the “crucible” of conflict in relationships, we can move beyond a superficial sense of completeness to achieve true wholeness, both individually and as a couple.
In this episode, you will learn:
(00:02) What complimentary neuroses are and how they show up in relationships
I explain why we’re attracted to partners whose patterns mirror and compliment our own.
(02:20) How developmental stages shape our attachment styles
I talk about the attachment, exploration, and identity phases and how they impact us as adults.
(04:12) The outcomes of different attachment styles
I cover avoidant, anxious, and secure attachments, and how they show up in relationships.
(08:04) Why pushing polarities can restore balance
I share how intensifying certain behaviors can help us break free from unbalanced patterns.
(12:44) The role of relationships as a transformative crucible
I explain how the heat and pressure of relationship conflict can lead to growth and healing.
(14:57) Why love frequencies matter
I talk about the importance of feeling loved in a way that keeps the “crucible” strong enough to hold transformation.
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Today, we dive into the fascinating concept of complimentary neuroses in relationships and explore how our individual developmental stages and attachment styles, shaped by early childhood experiences, influence the partners we are drawn to and the dynamics that ensue. I explain that our attractions and tolerances often align with our own neuroses, creating complementary relationships that are both enriching and challenging.
You’ll be able to gain insights into the attachment styles—secure, avoidant, and anxious—and how these early patterns manifest in adult relationships and how the phases of development, from attachment and exploration to identity and competence, and how each stage leaves its mark on our personalities. This episode reveals the transformative power of relationships, as they provide a crucible for growth, healing, and the potential to overcome our limiting patterns.
In this episode, you will learn:
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Today, we return to the concept of interaction style to cover a facet to it that I haven't addressed previously, but that turns out to be a bit more significant and well worth focusing on.
Welcome to episode nine of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. I’m talking about the concept of the four interaction styles and the core values that are associated with them.
Tune in and listen as I explore how these styles can be mathematically partitioned, how they manifest in gestures and behaviors, and the distinctions between sensing and intuition and initiators and responders.
In this episode, you will learn:
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In many countries, there is a significant difference in the perception of the culture between males and females. This is just one of the reasons why authoritarian movements have a very strong opposition to any sort of differences in sexuality, sexual identity, and sexual orientation—because many of those ideas fly in the face of a cultural value that says that these are very fundamental differences between people.
Welcome to episode eight of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. Today, I’m talking about the intersection of authoritarianism and the scientific understanding of time, space, and gravity.
Tune in and listen as I explore the nature of time and space and the role of cesium clocks in establishing a precise definition of time.
In this episode, you will learn:
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A lot of people are confused when they think about life, how life happens and how it's possible, but if you take a look at that bright yellow thing in the sky, there's a lot of energy coming from it. If you let it soak into your skin, you'll notice that there's real energy there. If you put solar cells on your house, you can see a very significant, measurable amount of energy captured.
Welcome to episode seven of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. Today, I’m talking about the fundamental principles of life, energy, and evolution.
Tune in and listen as I explore the significance of kinetics and catalysts in facilitating chemical reactions essential for life and the concepts of heritability, selection, and probability.
In this episode, you will learn:
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It's easy to condemn the horrific actions of Nazis, fascists, and various other authoritarian movements. On both the left and the right, there are been groups that are murderous and highly abusive of human rights. Nevertheless, I find myself compelled to argue that we should be compassionate towards those people, even as we obviously condemn the damaging and horrific actions they perform.
Welcome to episode six of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. Today, I’m talking about the complexities of authoritarianism and libertarianism and discussing the psychological and societal factors that contribute to these ideologies.
Tune in and listen as I explore the role of racism and religion in authoritarian movements, the dangers of societal division, and how important it is to practice unity through compassion and understanding.
In this episode, you will learn:
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AI is undoubtedly one of humanity's greatest inventions, transforming industries and simplifying millions of lives. But as we see it evolve at lightning speed, inevitable questions arise: is this technology sustainable? Can we trust it to remain harmless? Let's find out, shall we?
Welcome to episode five of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. Today, we explore the evolution and development of Artificial Intelligence. From Alan Turing's foundational ideas on computing to making computers behave like neural networks, we dive deep into the world of this fascinating technology created to mimic human intelligence.
Tune in and listen as I break down the mechanics of AI and explain why, due to its imbalanced cognitive functions, we must keep an eye on its evolution to ensure its ethical progress and use.
In this episode, you will learn:
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Among the many critical formative inventions in human history, perhaps one of the most important is the concept of bartering and currency. With this system, humans have enabled themselves to spend more time doing things within their skill set while others do the same, creating a net surplus for everyone.
Welcome to episode four of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. Today, I’m changing the pace a bit and turning our attention in a different direction. We’ll return to relationship talk soon enough, but for this episode, I want to explore the concepts around cryptocurrency.
Tune in and listen as I recount and expand on the history and evolution of currency, from barter systems to gold and silver and now the concept of cryptocurrency.
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Often, we treat others with a great deal more kindness and care than we treat ourselves—but this is a mistake. By putting our own needs last, we hinder our ability to actually be helpful and supportive to our loved ones.
Welcome to episode three of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. Today, I’m talking about nurturing yourself and others. By simply treating ourselves the way we would someone else, we’re able to garner more empathy for others and less prone to burn out.
Tune in and listen as I explain all about the eight facets to the self and how we can use these teachings to nurture ourselves.
In this episode, you will learn:
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If you're with someone who isn’t the same psychological type as you, chances are that many of the ways you express love go unfelt—and you may even be oblivious to the ways that love is shown to you, too.
Welcome to episode two of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. Today, I’m talking about how to be mindful of the love that you’re giving and receiving. Even more than that, I want you to understand the way your loved ones’ minds work and proactively find ways of showing and sharing love.
But how do we do that? How do we know? It turns out, they’re showing us how all the time.
Tune in and listen as I cover the specific four traits that people have, the four types of interaction style, and the distinction between initiators and responders and the intuitive vs the abstract.
In this episode, you will learn:
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Do you feel so loved that you can't possibly imagine feeling more loved? And what about your loved ones, do they feel the same? In this thread on relationships, we'll explore together what you need to know to be able to reach that kind of place in your life and to achieve that kind of feeling.
Welcome to episode one of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy. I’m Dr. Andrew Winkler, former math professor at both Stanford and Columbia Universities. On this podcast, we’ll explore the most interesting insights I’ve come across throughout the mental landscape.
Tune in and listen as we cover math, science, personality, how we think and feel, and how we love or feel unloved. I’m also going to welcome guests to help us learn the answers to all of our most confusing questions and help us reach new understandings.
In this episode, you will learn:
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