This is the final episode of season two! Thank you all for being here; I am so grateful for your support and time. Today, we are diving into the inevitable twists and turns of unpredictability when following God's plans. We make our plans and often want control, but God is sovereign.
Today, we learn that while we make our plans, the Lord appoints our steps. We can learn to trust God on the mountaintops and valleys. We do this well when we practice a few key ideas.
Focus Passage:
Proverbs 16:9 - In their hearts, humans plan their course,
but the Lord establishes their steps.
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Lord Jesus,
Thank you for loving us so much that you won’t give us what we cannot yet handle. Help us embrace change as we surrender our own ideas to your careful plan. Lord continue to be faithful to remain with us on the journey as we learn more and more about what it means to praise you on the mountaintops and the valleys.
In Jesus name,
Amen
Show Notes:
Asbury Bible Commentary
Asbury Bible Commentary Copyright © 1992 by The Zondervan Corporation.
Etymology - https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h3824/kjv/wlc/0-1/ Faith Spilling Over Tips to Deal with Change - https://faithspillingover.com/2018/04/10/when-god-changes-your-plan/
Today we are diving into the theme of rejection. Rejection is a part of life for all of us and affects us socially, romantically, and professionally. The emotional toll of rejection has even been tied to physical pain based on neurological studies.
However, Jesus, experienced profound rejection in his life and is our guide to remain steadfast even in the face of rejection. Jesus doesn't reject us, he selects us out of the world. We can apply the truth of our focus verse to help process the pain of rejection.
Focus Passage:
John 15:18-19 - 18 If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. NIV
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
You were rejected by those closest to you and understand the pain of rejection well. When we face rejection, please remind us that you chose us, you call us beloved, and you sent your HS to equip us in our time of need. Help us speak life-giving words over ourselves and others when we are healing from the hurt of rejection.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Show Notes:
Rejection triggers physical pain area in the brain - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/14551436
Effects of Rejection - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/conquering-codependency/202106/4-strategies-cope-rejection
How the 12 Apostles Died - https://www.christianity.com/church/church-history/timeline/1-300/whatever-happened-to-the-twelve-apostles-11629558.html
Believer's Bible Commentary
Copyright © 1989, 1990, 1992, 1995, 2016 by William MacDonald.
Dr. Leslie Baker-Phelps - Bouncing Back from Rejection: Build the Resilience You Need to Get Back Up When Life Knocks You Down - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1684034027
Daily Biblical Affirmations - https://sunshynegray.com/daily-christian-affirmations/
Do you find it easy to discuss your faith with your family and loved ones? It can be tricky, even daunting, especially if they don't openly prescribe to your beliefs. However, in today's episode, we will dive into an inspiring passage of scripture about having courageous conversations about our faith.
We are equipped and encouraged to share our personal stories about how God is working in our lives. Furthermore, we are meant to show restraint and respect so that others may see the light of Christ through us.
Focus Passage:
1 Peter 3:15 ESV - but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect,
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
It can be tough to face our family and friends who don’t understand our faith. Help us to have a calm and gentle spirit even as we face persecution, skepticism, or slander. Lord, only you change hearts, minds, and attitudes. We pray for all of our family members and friends who don’t have a relationship with you, and we ask that they encounter your hope, your peace, and your spirit this season.
In Jesus name,
Amen
Show Notes:
When was Jesus really born? https://www.jewsforjesus.org.au/articles/when-jesus-was-really-born
https://www.crosswalk.com/faith/spiritual-life/5-simple-tips-for-sharing-your-faith.html
https://newspring.cc/articles/evangelism-isnt-an-argument...-its-a-way-of-life
Expositor's Bible Commentary (Abridged Edition): New Testament
Copyright 2004.
Welcome back, NOTW Listeners! Today's episode is a dive into the transformative power of bold prayers. Maybe your prayer life has grown flat, boring, or wimpy. Today Jess shares part of her personal experiences where prayer turned impossible situations around.
Jesus gives us some encouragement in Mark 11:22-24, where He emphasizes having faith in God, speaking to mountains without doubt, and the assurance that believing in prayer's fulfillment makes it a reality. The crucial aspects of praying with courage involve our wholehearted faith, rooted in scripture, and expecting fruitfulness in our lives.
Focus Passage:
Mark 11:22-24
22 “Have faith in God,” Jesus answered. 23 “Truly[f] I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them. 24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
I pray for every listener right now that you would stir their hearts with a prayer that is beyond their ability, imagination, or resource. Place in their minds in this moment something they are afraid to ask you for. Give us a boldness to ask for big, audacious, miraculous things and help us to keep those prayers aligned to your WORD. Jesus, I rebuke and cancel the spirit of doubt at work in our minds so that we may pray with full faith. Help us in our unbelief. Let us not be content with safe, predictable prayers, we desire a courageous spirit that will believe in the unbelievable!
In Jesus Name,
Amen
https://www.crossway.org/articles/10-key-bible-verses-on-prayer/
Believer's Bible Commentary
Copyright © 1989, 1990, 1992, 1995, 2016 by William MacDonald.
Keys to Believe Big, Think Big, and Pray Big -
David Guzik Commentary - https://www.blueletterbible.org/comm/guzik_david/study-guide/matthew/matthew-21.cfm?a=950021
Brother Andrew Story - https://www.opendoorsuk.org/about/our-history/brother-andrew/
In Episode 8 of the Nerd of the Word podcast, we dig into the challenging topic of "Courageous Compassion" and its relevance to the parable of the Good Samaritan. Compassion is defined as "suffering together" and involves actively working to alleviate the suffering of others. Jesus tells a shocking story to illustrate what courageous compassion looks like.
The episode emphasizes that courageous compassion involves caring for and helping those who are not like us, even when it challenges the status quo or disrupts power dynamics.
Focus Passage:
Luke 10: 36-37
36 “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
37 The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”
Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
Help us be motivated to show compassion to those around us who are suffering. Let us see them with the eyes of faith and be courageous enough to serve, heal, and resource people who we don’t always see eye to eye with. May we be fearless in our compassion as you were fearless in placing value on the outcasts of your time. Help us to be more like you every day.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Show Notes:
Africa Bible Commentary
Africa Bible Commentary, Tokunboh Adeyemo, General Editor. Copyright © 2006, 2010, and 2022 by ABC Editorial Board.
Compassion defined - https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/compassion/definition#:~:text=Compassion%20literally%20means%20%E2%80%9Cto%20suffer,though%20the%20concepts%20are%20related
Luke as historian - Asbury Bible Commentary
Asbury Bible Commentary Copyright © 1992 by The Zondervan Corporation.
Priests vs Levites
https://ww.bibleodyssey.org › people › main-articles › pr…
In today's episode, we discover the transformative power of authenticity. We all can struggle to be genuine, but the consequences of compromising one's identity are serious. Drawing from the biblical passage of 1 Samuel 16:7, we explore how God values the heart over appearances. Using the story of King David as an example, we uncover the benefits of authentic living. Some of these include deeper relationships, resilience against peer pressure, and the pursuit of one's true purpose. You are more interesting than your mask!
Focus Passage:
1 Samuel 16:7
7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
Help us to live a life of authenticity. Help us to be true to ourselves, and who you made us to be. We know that when we have the courage to be ourselves, we experience more fulfilling lives, and stronger relationships, and we stand to impact our world in a greater way. Help us see our uniqueness as a gift to us and to others.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Show Notes:
Expositor's Bible Commentary (Abridged Edition): Old Testament
Copyright 2004.
McGee, J.V. (1982) Through the Bible with J. Vernon McGee (vol. II, Joshua-Psalms). California: Thru the Bible Radio.
Dr. Stephen Joseph - Benefits of Authenticity https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-doesnt-kill-us/201912/why-are-authentic-people-happier
In this episode, we chat about the concept of having the courage to disappoint others and break free from people-pleasing tendencies. People-pleasers often receive praise for their accommodating nature, but this can come at the cost of neglecting their own well-being. The negative consequences of perpetual people-pleasing are discussed, including self-neglect, passive aggression, increased stress, and being taken advantage of.
Those of us who struggle with wanting to keep others happy can learn a little bit from the passion of the apostle Paul!
Focus Passage:
Galatians 1:10 ESV - For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
It is difficult to disappoint others, especially when they are close to us. However, we want to please you over all others. Give us the courage to disappoint others when it means we are following your plans, purposes, and healthy rhythms of life. Help us continue to serve others with a happy heart and remind us when we feel taken advantage of or bitter that we might have fallen into a space of people-pleasing. Set us free from seeking the approval of man over that of God.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Show Notes:
Fears that hold us back -
Galatians Overview - https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/galatians/
How much it costs to buy papyrus - https://testamentpress.com/ancient-money-calculator.html
Softer ways to say no-
In this episode of The Nerd of the Word, we dive into the challenging yet liberating act of confessing one's wrongdoings.
Jess includes a gripping reference to the movie "Luther, The Fallen Sun," which underlines the crucial role of confession in preventing dire consequences. Shame often drives us to maintain secrecy, making it clear that confession requires immense courage, from admitting minor childhood transgressions to more significant, deeply painful secrets. The central idea is that confession is an integral aspect of living a fulfilling life in Christ, echoing Jesus' call for repentance.
Focus Passage:
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Jesus,
We need your help to confess our sins. When we are tempted to hide our wrongdoing, please convict us through the Holy Spirit. Lead us to safe people when our hearts need a face-to-face confession, and help us walk in the freedom you purchased on the cross.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Show Notes:
Courage to confess- https://christianworkingwoman.org/broadcasts/courage-to-confess/
Africa Bible Commentary
Africa Bible Commentary, Tokunboh Adeyemo, General Editor. Copyright © 2006, 2010, and 2022 by ABC Editorial Board.
Believer's Bible Commentary
Copyright © 1989, 1990, 1992, 1995, 2016 by William MacDonald.
Confess Definied - https://www.dictionary.com/browse/confess
Steps to get up the courage to confess - https://www.regenerationministries.org/5-ways-to-get-up-the-courage-to-confess/
In this episode of the "Nerd of the Word" podcast, we dive into the challenging topic of giving when financial resources are scarce. We dig into the innate generosity embedded within our very beings, drawing from biblical wisdom and modern scientific research. As we navigate life's stresses and challenges, such as financial difficulties, the act of giving can seem daunting. Yet, it's precisely during these tough times that our faith and courage are put to the test.
When the piggy bank is empty, it’s hard to give. Even when we consider non-monetary giving of our time and talents, it becomes difficult because we often can leverage that time and effort to gain resources for ourselves. It is far easier to be generous when we have plenty of resources.
We are made in the image and likeness of God (Genesis 1:26-31), and have the very DNA of generosity baked into our being. Jesus himself said it is better to give than to receive (Acts 20:32-35)
It’s so cool that modern science is starting to catch up to what the bible has been saying for centuries. Research is confirming that people who demonstrate generosity live a fuller, healthier, and happier life.
Our focus passage today gives us a powerful picture of what it looks like to have the courage to give even when we have very little.
Focus Passage:
Mark 12:41-44
41 Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. 42 But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a few cents. 43 Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. 44 They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on.”
Main Takeaways:
- The poor widow gave all she had to live on in faith
- The courage to give comes from a deep trust in God
- Not all of us will be asked to give everything we have to live on, but some will be tested in this way
- God never asks us to give what we don't have, but He often asks us to give what is in our hands
Prayer
Lord Jesus,
Help us to grow in faith and trust in you as our provider. When we face seasons when money is tight, help us to be like the poor widow and seek to give and serve others. For those listening who are in need, I pray that you would provide miraculously. I ask that you make a way where there seems to be no way and strengthen their faith. Help us become a people marked by generosity, whether our season is one of abundance or hardship. You, Lord, honor those whose trust and hope are in You.
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Show Notes
Definition of Generous - https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/generous
Ascent Study “It Pays to Be Generous” - https://www.fool.com/the-ascent/research/study-it-pays-be-generous/
8 Biggest Benefits of Being Generous - https://www.fool.com/the-ascent/banks/articles/8-biggest-benefits-being-generous/
The Gospel of Mark Summary - https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/mark/
NIV Application Commentary - Copyright © 1996 by David E. Garland.
Tendai Story - https://www.premierchristianity.com/features/5-stories-of-miraculous-provision/2166.article
In this episode of the podcast, we delve into the topic of finding courage in the midst of panic. Many of us have experienced moments of sheer panic, whether due to personal challenges, financial crises, or the unexpected twists of life. These situations can leave us feeling overwhelmed, fearful, and unsure of how things will work out. However, through the power and authority of God at work, we can develop faith and spiritual awareness as we learn to combat panic.
We are continuing our courage series this week and talking about having courage when you are panicking. Have you ever been lost? Or maybe your child got lost, and you didn’t know where they were. The type of real, unfiltered panic in those moments catches your breath while simultaneously causing your heart to beat like a racehorse.
Here are some of the most common “freak-out” triggers we experience in life, according to Benenden Health:
One of the main reasons we tend to feel a heightened sense of overwhelm is because we fail to see how things are going to work out. Being a Nerd of the Word has helped me realize that even as we face uncertainty…we serve an unseen trustworthy and powerful God.
Focus Passage:
2 Kings 6:16-17
So he answered, “Do not fear, for those who are with us are more than those who are with them.” And Elisha prayed, and said, “Lord, I pray, open his eyes that he may see.” Then the Lord opened the eyes of the young man, and he saw. And behold, the mountain was full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha.
Main Takeaways:
- We panic when we cannot see God working through our circumstances
- Spiritual awareness and trust in God keeps us in a place of courage no matter what we face
- Spending time with other believers can open our eyes to God at work around us
- Meditating on God's word is vital to understanding the character and power of God Almighty
Prayer
Lord Jesus,
We pray for eyes that are open to what God is doing in us and through us. Let us not shrink back in fear when we face uncertainty and circumstances where we feel outnumbered and outgunned. We know that when we surrender our entire existence to your plans and purposes, you promise to go before us. We need only be still and let the Lord fight for us. Help us to release any outcomes or expectations to you. Lord, give us spiritual awareness every day so that we can courageously follow you.
In Jesus name,
AmenShow Notes
Beneden Health - Major Stress Triggers
https://www.benenden.co.uk/newsroom/top-ten-most-stressful-life-events/
Africa Bible Commentary
Africa Bible Commentary, Tokunboh Adeyemo, General Editor. Copyright © 2006, 2010, and 2022 by ABC Editorial Board.
New Bible Commentary
Copyright Universities and Colleges Christian Fellowship, Leicester, England, 1953, 1954, 1970, 1994↵All rights reserved. Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Hodder and Stoughton Ltd and Zondervan Publishing House. All rights reserved.
In this episode, we delve into the spine-tingling world of childhood fears, especially the fear of the dark. Join us as we explore the scriptural solution found in 2 Timothy 1:7 and uncover the powerful meaning behind each word in this verse. Discover how parents and children alike can use the Word of God as a weapon to conquer fear, whether it's facing nightmares, bullies, or the uncertainties of life. Get ready for a faith-filled journey that equips you to move forward with courage, even in the presence of fear.
You may not believe this but I was a scared kid. Like super freakishly afraid of the dark, the basement, and any other creepy things. I was such a skittish kid that even spooky music could set off my imagination and my feet running toward safety.
Halloween is this month and while I find it adorable to see all my young nieces and nephews in their cute and innocent costumes this holiday also celebrates by aggressive displays of dark, demonic, and frightening images. I mean have you seen some of the window displays right now…I get the heebie jeebies just walking past them.
For the sake of parents everywhere I wanted to address a common occurrence for kids…and let’s be honest sometimes adults as well. Having the courage to face our fear of the dark, the scary, and the things that terrorize us. The good news is as a Nerd of the Word and a follower of Jesus, we have the power to overcome the fear we face.
Focus Passage:
2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”
Main Takeaways:
- God doesn't want us to be afraid
- God imparts his love, power, and self-control as we submit our fears to him
- The word of God is the sword that helps slay our fears
- We can teach ourselves and our children to overcome fear of the dark, monsters, and more through the power of scripture
Prayer
Dear Jesus,
Thank you for the gift and power of your Word. Help us to equip ourselves with your truth and to use the word of God as a sword to slay our fears. Lord help us as parents to equip our children with powerful passages of scripture. When we face things that make us tremble in fear, remind us of your great power and love`. Jesus you died to conquer every creepy, scary, fear-inducing thing on earth including death. May we live a life that looks like we believe that truth through and through?
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Show Notes
https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g1167/kjv/tr/0-1/ (Deilia)
https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4995/kjv/tr/0-1/ (sōphronismos)
https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g1411/kjv/tr/0-1/
(dynamis)
Essential Bible Companion Copyright © 2006 by John H. Walton, Mark L. Strauss, and Ted Cooper Jr.
In this episode, we dive into the inspiring message of Psalm 27:14 and explore the courage it takes to wait patiently, especially during moments of high-stakes uncertainty. Join us as we uncover this scripture's historical and modern-day significance, providing practical insights on how to wait well with hope, humility, and expectancy. Whether you're facing a critical decision, a medical diagnosis, or simply the daily frustrations of waiting in line, this episode will equip you with the courage to embrace waiting as part of God's divine plan.
It is so good to be back with a new season and a new topic heading into the fall and winter. As I mentioned during the final episode of season 1, season 2 will be broadly focused on the topic of courage.
I love how courage is defined by Lisa Bishop.
“Courage is the ability to face and overcome fear while prioritizing a greater objective. It is not the absence of fear but rather the determination to act despite its presence, guided by a strong sense of purpose and a commitment to achieving a higher good.”
Today's episode is all about having the courage to wait.
It may not be obvious that waiting requires courage especially when we think about our day-to-day moments of waiting. But this all changes when the type of waiting we are called to is far more critical. Like when we are waiting on; a diagnosis, hearing back from a hiring manager, or biopsy results. When we find ourselves in a season of high-stakes waiting it can be paralyzing and scary.
Focus Passage:
Psalm 27:14 –
Wait[a] on the Lord;
Be of good courage,
And He shall strengthen your heart;
Wait, I say, on the Lord! NKJV
Main Takeaways:
- Waiting well requires us to wait with hopeful anticipation
- Ways to wait well include praying, serving, approaching the waiting with humility and expectation
- We can have the courage to wait well because God's timing and plans are purposeful
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
It can be incredibly difficult to wait especially when we face a season of uncertainty. Help us to wait well. When we want to rush ahead, remind us that pressing into your presence is where we find the courage to endure. When we find it hard to rest in the unknown, please make us aware that you are with us. Help us serve others while we wait and reflect on how you are molding, shaping, and maturing us through the process. We ask all of this in Jesus' name.
Amen
Show Notes:
Courage Definition Lisa Bishop - https://christianworkingwoman.org/broadcasts/courage-to-confess/
https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h6960/kjv/wlc/0-1/
© 2020 The Enduring Word Bible Commentary by David Guzik — ewm@enduringword.com
New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson
Essential Bible Companion to the Psalms Copyright © 2010 by Brian Webster and David Beach.
Spurgeon, Charles Haddon "The Treasury of David: Volume 1" (Psalms 1-57) (Peabody, Massachusetts: Hendrickson, 1988)
How Jesus is our good shepherd? What benefits do we experience as his sheep? What does it mean to be a shepherd, and how does allowing Jesus to lead us to change our confidence in life?
These are the questions we will attempt to explore today in the last episode of our confidence series!
When we misplace our needs on humans, we will be disappointed, frustrated, anxious, and unfulfilled. The reason is that ONLY ONE DIVINE PERSON can provide for all we need, so we lack nothing. That person is Jesus. This leads us to our focus passage for today.
Psalm 23
1 The Lord is my shepherd;I shall not [a]want.
2 He makes me to lie down in [b]green pastures;He leads me beside the [c]still waters.
3 He restores my soul;He leads me in the paths of righteousnessFor His name’s sake.
4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,I will fear no evil;For You are with me;Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;You anoint my head with oil;My cup runs over.
6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow meAll the days of my life;And I will [d]dwell in the house of the Lord[e]Forever.
Main Takeaways:
Maybe you have never known Jesus as your Good Shepherd. Maybe you have heard of this passage, but having the assurance in your heart is still shaky. We all have moments of uncertainty, but the Lord promises to care for his people. Today is a good day to surrender your life to the GOOD SHEPHERD.
Thank you for listening to the Nerd of the Word Podcast. I have thoroughly enjoyed spending time in God’s word with you this season.
I’m already working on the next season, focusing on COURAGE! A mighty God uniquely equips us to face giants of all shapes and sizes. I cannot wait to share some of the power verses we can cling to when we feel afraid.
Show Notes:
NIV Application Commentary Copyright © 2002 by Gerald H. Wilson.
APOSTOLIC WRITERS’ DIGEST, JUNE 1999, PAGE 12.
Our WORDS have power!
Today’s focus passage is popular for and for a good reason. It’s all about how what we SAY can positively or negatively affect our lives. While external feedback can temporarily boost our confidence, the reality is it lasting change comes from within. It comes from our thoughts and our words.
Do you know someone who is always speaking negatively? You know, the type who believes the worst about everything. They never have a nice thing to say about anyone or any situation. They are contrary. Let me ask you a question, do you like hanging around with those people? Me neither…even though I have been that person in seasons of my life. #reformeddebbiedowner Those people tend to go through many hard things in life.
Alternatively, have you met a totally optimistic person? You know, who always looks on the bright side, rarely complains, and expects good things are right around the corner. I married one of those people. I love being around uplifting and encouraging people because good things seem to happen around them.
There could be more than a personality trait at work here.
Focus Passage:
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit. NKJV
Main Takeaways:
- The book of Proverbs is more than just a collective of good advice. The sayings and admonishments contained within the book are God's invitation to gain wisdom and learn how life is best lived.
- Science and scripture are aligned on the power of what we say and think. The more we speak life-giving words, the more we experience positive outcomes.
- While we cannot stop a negative thought, we can reformat it into a positive one.
- Biblical affirmations are not just wishful thinking. Encouragement that is rooted in scripture is vital.
- If we want to change our lives, we must learn to change the confession of our mouths.
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
We know our words have power. Forgive us when we speak death instead of life. Help us to recognize when we are in a pattern of negative thinking and speaking, and give us the wisdom to replace toxic thoughts with your truth. We desire a life of confidence, hope, joy, and faith. May our words align with your words.
In Jesus' name,
Amen
Resources:
Eugene's Story from Forbes -
Proverbs Overview - Bible Project
https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/proverbs/
Biblical Affirmations Gabby Abigaill
https://gabbyabigaill.com/50-biblical-affirmations-that-will-change-your-life/
Neuroscience Behind Words -
https://brm.institute/neuroscience-behind-words/
Let me ask you if you have ever been ignored. I have two teens, so I am incredibly familiar with being ignored. If I ask for the dishes to be done, it is as though I have said nothing or I’m speaking a foreign language.
When this happens, it causes me to feel unheard, disrespected, and at times unloved.
Can you relate? Maybe you don’t have teens, but someone in your life never seems to hear you. Or you have asked so many times without knowing if you are being heard that you’ve stopped asking.
Many Christians feel similar discouragement when they think that God doesn’t hear their prayers. Fortunately, this is not the case and we don’t need to jump up and down, yell, scream, or beg God to hear us. God does hear us and will give us what we ask in prayer…with a tiny caveat!
Focus Passage:
1 John 5:14-15
This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.
Main Takeaways:
- God doesn't just hear what we say in prayer; He is intently listening.
- When our prayers are aligned with God's will we can expect a positive response.
- Just because we don't receive a response from God doesn't mean he doesn't hear us, love us, or have our best interest at heart.
- The more we understand God's word and His character the more our prayers will align with His will.
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
Thank you for making it possible for us to pray boldly and know that you hear us. Help us to align our prayers to your will and grow in expectant hope that you always keep your promises. Forgive us when we grow tired, upset, or frustrated when our prayers go unanswered. Reveal to us your will so that we can refine our thoughts and expectations according to your Word.
In Jesus' Name,
Amen
Resources:
NIV Application Commentary - Copyright © 1996 Gary M. Burge.
Alpine Bible - Fallen in a Hole Analogy
We are continuing our confidence theme as it relates to burnout. Today’s passage gives us hope and confidence that we don’t have to strive, rush, and be perfect in order to satisfy Jesus. Our hustle-and-hurry culture has many of us worn out, depleted, and spiritually desperate. We can become discouraged that we are not doing enough, serving enough, or worthy enough.
Some of us alleviate the pain and pressure by engaging in unhealthy habits. We drink to take the edge off, eat through our emotions, and take sleeping pills to quiet our brains for a few hours so we can do it all again. This leads to a major deficit in self-confidence and contentment. If you think this is only for secular workaholics…think again. Ministers and pastors experience burnout at an alarming rate.
Focus Passage:
Matthew 11:28-30 28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
Main Takeaways:
- Jesus is reminding the "second-class" Jews that the burdens of the Mosaic law observed by the Pharisees are not what he desires.
- While the Easy Yoke of Christ isn't void of any responsibility, it is an achievable workload because God shares in carrying the weight.
- We must be willing to go to Jesus when we feel burnout or burden overwhelming us
How to take the EASY yoke:
- Go to Jesus. Sit in his presence and seek to soak in his word.
- Let go of things that are causing burnout or burden.
- Make a habit of rest.
If you are pushing the boundary toward burnout, consider this verse and the promise Jesus gave not to burden us with overwhelming demands. He will show us the gentle rhythms of his ways. We gain confidence when we rest that Jesus can handle our heavy burdens and is faithful to release us from the crucible of the hustle and hurry!
Prayer:
Dear Jesus,
In the hurried rush of our lives, help us remember to come to you when we need rest. When we find ourselves on the edge of burnout, remind us that we must submit ourselves to your yoke, which is easy because you help us carry the load. Forgive us for thinking we can do it all, and help us remember that with you, we can do anything, and without you, we can do nothing.
In Jesus' name,
Amen
Resources:Carson, D.A. "Matthew: The Expositor's Bible Commentary" Volume 8 (Matthew-Luke) (Grand Rapids, Michigan: Zondervan, 1984)
Expositor's Bible Commentary (Abridged Edition): New Testament, Copyright 2004.
IVP New Testament Commentary Series - Intervarsity Press NT Commentary Matthew
Christian Ministry Burnout Stats -
John Mark Comer
https://johnmarkcomer.com/new
This sin of denying yourself or others rest -
Friendship is vital to our mental, physical, and spiritual health. Pastors and Doctors agree that having a healthy support system contributes to a happy, full life of contentment and joy.
However, it can be difficult to make new friends or get involved. In fact, I have mentored and coached many people who have found themselves struggling with their faith. One of the MOST common circumstances they share is that they don’t attend church regularly, serve or volunteer, and have very few Christian friends. Coincidence…I don’t think so.
Trust me; I understand the overwhelming task of building community. This is especially true if you have recently moved, divorced, or left a toxic place. However, the Bible is clear that we are not meant to live in isolation.
Focus Passage:
Hebrews 10:24-25 NIV
24 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, 25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.
Main Takeaways:
- God is Love. If we desire to know God, we must be willing to life with others.
- Life in isolation is dangerous. We are more susceptible to mental health challenges, negative thinking, and temptations that could overwhelm us.
Practical Ways to Build Friendship:
- Be invitational - include others in what you are already doing
- Host a small group or bible study
- Serve at your local church
- Pray for godly friends
- Be the kind of friend that you want to have
Prayer:
Lord Jesus,
Thank you for creating us to live in community. We know that through relationships, we grow in faith and experience the fullness of your love. Forgive us when we have isolated ourselves or shied away from getting involved in community. Help us when we feel insecure. Give boldness to make friends. Help us maintain a regular fellowship habit with other believers because we know that this is your will for our lives.
In Jesus' name,
Amen
Resources: Benefits of Friendship - Mayo Clinic
Expositor's Bible Commentary (Abridged Edition): New Testament Copyright 2004.
Robinson, Theodore H. "The Epistle to the Hebrews" (The Moffatt Commentary) (London: Hodder and Stoughton, 1948)
In light of the relatively recent coronation of King Charles, I thought it would be fitting to discuss our own adoption as sons and daughters of God. Don’t get FOMO if you are not part of the British monarchy…you are part of a far greater family with far greater influence, resources, and legacy!
That being said, many of us struggle with feelings of unworthiness. We can feel unworthy of respect, adoration, love, and even acknowledgment. If you are like me, I don’t feel like royalty.
I’m going to guess King Charles doesn’t struggle with this because he IS ROYALTY! If he came to my hometown, there would be parades, conventions, and events whereby the common folk could strain to get a glimpse of the king.
God’s kingdom is very different from the British monarchy, but I think the comparison is worth exploring to give us a glimpse into our extravagant spiritual inheritance.
Focus Passage
Galatians 4:7 So you are no longer a slave, but God’s child; and since you are his child, God has made you also an heir.
Main Takeaways
- Jesus made our adoption into God's family possible without observing all of the Mosaic laws
- When we become Christians and are saved by grace through faith in Christ, we become Christian royalty in the Kingdom of God
- As we grow in maturity as "royal" sons and daughters, we begin to walk, talk, and act like true ambassadors of the Kingdom of God (We become more like Jesus)
Lord Jesus,
You are the King of kings. Help us remember our royal lineage and responsibility whenever we feel unworthy. When the world attempts to discredit our family, may we behave with grace, mercy, and with unshakable authority from the Holy Spirit. As we face days of discouragement, remind us to straighten our crowns because YOU have approved and adopted us. May we walk, talk, and act like Christian royalty.
In Jesus' name,
Amen
Resources
Dawn Klinge Adopted by God -
https://www.dawnklinge.com/abovethewaves/what-it-means-to-be-adopted-by-god-6-amazing-privileges
Bible Project Galatians -
https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/galatians/
Bible Gateway Galatians 4 -
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=galatians+4&version=NIV
Africa Bible Commentary, Tokunboh Adeyemo, General Editor. Copyright © 2006, 2010, and 2022 by ABC Editorial Board.
Succession According to the Royal UK Encyclopedia -
https://www.royal.uk/encyclopedia/succession
Commonwealth Countries -
Last week, we talked about humility and anxiety, which sort of ties in perfectly with our topic and passage this week. What has to do with imposter syndrome? So let me ask you, have you ever felt like you were invited somewhere you didn't belong? Have you worried that you got a job, promotion, or some position because someone overestimated your abilities?
You may suffer from imposter syndrome if you've ever felt this way. , according to dictionary. com, this is the anxiety or self-doubt that results from persistently undervaluing one's competence and your active role in achieving success while falsely attributing one's accomplishments to luck or external forces. Essentially, it's this fear you don't belong, and eventually, people are going to find out the truth. Being a nerd of the word has taught me a few things about how to deal with imposter syndrome.
Focus Passage:
2 Corinthians 3:4-5 NLT
We are confident of all this because of our great trust in God through Christ. It is not that we think we are qualified to do anything on our own. Our qualification comes from God.
Main Takeaways
- Imposter Syndrome keeps us focused on our inadequacy rather than God's competency
- Our competency and qualification come from God, as does our success
- When we focus on glorifying God through our success, we can show up humble and authentic in every circumstance. This is a sure-fire imposter syndrome KO (Knock Out). Prayer
Lord,
Remind us when we feel like we aren’t good enough, worthy enough, or deserving of promotion that you are the reason we are blessed. Help us point to your glory in all circumstances and know that you have promised to uphold us even when we doubt ourselves.
In Jesus' name, Amen.
Resources
Imposter syndrome definition - https://www.dictionary.com/browse/impostor-syndrome
How to avoid imposter syndrome -
https://www.betterup.com/blog/what-is-imposter-syndrome-and-how-to-avoid-it
Ways to overcome imposter syndrome -
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/overcoming-imposter-syndrome/
David Guzik Bible Commentary 2 Corinthians 3
Imposter Syndrome, according to Dr. Sharon Hodd Miller -
So someone who is seen as humble can often be mistaken for being passive or insecure. But this isn't true. Genuinely humble people are typically genuinely confident people.
The qualities of a confident person are shockingly similar to that of humble people:
Focus Passage:
1 Peter 5:6-7 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
Main Takeaways:
Prayer:
Lord Jesus,
Forgive us our pride when we worry and show a lack of trust in your love for us. Give us the power to overcome what we face. Help us to develop a humble spirit and release our anxious thoughts to you. And we ask when we face persecution that we would remember it only lasts for a moment, but joy comes in the morning. We ask these things in Jesus' mighty name.
Amen.
Resources:
Qualities of humble people - https://www.forbes.com/sites/jeffboss/2015/03/01/13-habits-of-humble-people/?sh=28132e7949d5
Roman religious practices -
