In this episode of Mental Wealth, I sit down with The Jordan Strong, a two-time All-American football player, devout Christian, model bodybuilder, and all-around great guy. Jordan shares his compelling life story, discussing his upbringing in Batesville, Mississippi, and the significant impact of family and faith on his life. He delves into his challenging high school years, the transformative JUCO experience, his time at Coastal Carolina University, and his brief stint in the NFL. Through it all, Jordan emphasizes the importance of resilience, mental health, and a strong work ethic. This heartfelt conversation is a testament to overcoming adversity and finding purpose beyond the game.00:00 Welcome to Mental Wealth00:01 Introducing Jordan Strong00:58 Jordan's Humble Beginnings03:57 Discovering Football07:05 High School Struggles11:22 Facing Adversity15:20 The Turning Point19:50 JUCO Journey Begins20:20 Overcoming High School Setbacks20:38 JUCO: A New Beginning21:23 Finding Purpose and Faith22:34 Proving Myself at JUCO25:01 The Road to College Offers28:00 Choosing Coastal Carolina33:10 Adapting to Coastal Carolina36:54 NFL Dreams and Realities40:07 Life Lessons from FootballSocial MediaInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jaimeertakeoverr/Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=jaimeertakeoverrTwitter https://twitter.com/jaimeertakeoverTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeertakeoverr?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSpotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2h0daCcrMMgixG4DsyFGa0?si=pnIWA-ykSOil2JGkITZMAAD'Jordan Social Mediahttps://www.instagram.com/djordanstrongg?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==https://www.tiktok.com/@djordanstrong?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
In this episode of Mental Wealth, my fiancé and I, dive into the critical questions couples should address before getting married and having children. We share personal insights and expectations about marriage, parenting, traditional vs. modern relationship dynamics, handling conflicts, and balancing work and personal life. Our conversation also touches on the importance of open communication, supporting each other's personal growth, and building a relationship based on trust, respect, and shared values. Join us as we navigate through these foundational topics to ensure a strong and healthy partnership.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:51 Expectations of Marriage02:12 Marriage as a Partnership04:28 Roles Within Marriage08:09 Traditional vs Modern Relationship Dynamics11:41 Handling Conflicts and Disagreements16:27 Embracing Vulnerability in Relationships17:26 Defining Core Values and Beliefs20:48 The Role of Religion in Our Lives26:04 Supporting Each Other's Personal Growth27:37 Envisioning Our Future Together31:09 Balancing Work, Personal, and Social LifeSocial MediaInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jaimeertakeoverr/Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=jaimeertakeoverrTwitter https://twitter.com/jaimeertakeoverTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeertakeoverr?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSpotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2h0daCcrMMgixG4DsyFGa0?si=pnIWA-ykSOil2JGkITZMAA
In this episode, we discuss the adjustments and intentional time management required as we prepare to live together and juggle their social lives and individual work commitments. We dive into our financial goals, approaches to budgeting and large purchases, and our perspectives on prenups. The conversation also covers planning for children, including adoption and parenting styles, the impact of children on our relationship, and the importance of continuing to nurture our marriage. Join us as we explore our values and plans for the future together.00:00 Adjusting to Living Together00:58 Balancing Social Life and Relationships03:22 Financial Goals and Aspirations06:33 Approach to Budgeting and Spending09:42 Views on Prenups and Financial Security14:32 Sacrifice in Relationships14:40 Prenups: To Sign or Not to Sign?14:56 Discussing Parenthood15:09 Adoption and Family Building15:38 Co-Parenting After Separation17:08 Parenting Styles and Discipline20:12 Dividing Parenting Responsibilities21:33 Importance of Education24:36 Impact of Kids on Relationships26:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
In this episode, I provide a personal life update, including my experiences working in a pediatric unit and the challenges of balancing two jobs. The main topic of discussion is the bystander effect—why people tend to do nothing in critical situations when others are present. I delve into the psychology behind this phenomenon, discussing factors like diffusion of responsibility, social cues, and the fear of social judgment. I also explain how these factors manifest in real-world situations, including online harassment and workplace bullying. Finally, I offer practical advice on how to become an upstander instead of a bystander, encouraging viewers to take action in critical moments.
00:00 Life Update: New Job and Adjustments
01:14 Introduction to the Bystander Effect
01:37 Real-Life Examples of the Bystander Effect
03:09 Psychological Reasons Behind Inaction
05:12 Social Cues and Ignorance
07:07 Fear of Social Blunders and Evaluation Apprehension
09:26 Online Harassment and Cyber Bullying
12:15 Workplace Harassment and Safety Violations
16:04 Becoming an Upstander: Taking Action
19:46 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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It's a strange reality: constant notifications, yet a longing for genuine connection. Unpacking the paradox of feeling both seen and unseen in the digital age.Social MediaInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jaimeertakeoverr/Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=jaimeertakeoverrTwitter https://twitter.com/jaimeertakeoverTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeertakeoverr?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSpotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2h0daCcrMMgixG4DsyFGa0?si=pnIWA-ykSOil2JGkITZMAA
In a world of DMs and texts, let's not forget the power of a real, in-person conversation. Challenge yourself to have more real-life conversations this week. Put down the phone and connect with the people around you. Social MediaInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jaimeertakeoverr/Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=jaimeertakeoverrTwitter https://twitter.com/jaimeertakeoverTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeertakeoverr?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSpotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2h0daCcrMMgixG4DsyFGa0?si=pnIWA-ykSOil2JGkITZMAA
The constant comparison on social media can erode your self-worth and steal your joy. Let's make a conscious effort to celebrate our own lives instead of comparing them. Your journey is unique and valuable.
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Is social media connecting us or isolating us? Scrolling through perfect feeds can fuel feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. Remember, what you see online is often a highlight reel, not reality.
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In this episode, I delve into the growing issue of modern loneliness, exacerbated by societal shifts and the paradoxical effects of digital connection. I reflect on the impact of Covid-19, societal changes, and the role of social media in deteriorating meaningful relationships. The episode covers the alarming health consequences of loneliness, comparing it to smoking, and emphasizes the importance of community, meaningful connections, and personal interaction. Potential solutions and small steps are offered to combat this epidemic, encouraging viewers to reconnect with their communities and improve their social skills.
00:00 Introduction: The Paradox of Connection
00:20 The Impact of Covid on Social Interaction
01:29 The Modern Loneliness Epidemic
03:00 Societal Shifts and Community Bonds
07:17 The Role of Social Media in Loneliness
15:08 Consequences of Loneliness
16:32 Solutions to Combat Loneliness
20:43 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
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Break it down, weigh the pros & cons, trust your intuition. Simple strategies for confident decisions.Social MediaInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jaimeertakeoverr/Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=jaimeertakeoverrTwitter https://twitter.com/jaimeertakeoverTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeertakeoverr?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSpotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2h0daCcrMMgixG4DsyFGa0?si=pnIWA-ykSOil2JGkITZMAA
Stop overthinking! Focus on your "good enough" threshold and make a choice. Action beats inaction. Let's choose progress over perfection.Social Media
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Have you ever struggled with making the right decisions? In this episode, I dive deep into the art of decision making and explore why it can be so challenging. From the impact of cognitive biases like confirmation bias to emotional influences and the role of intuition, I cover it all. I also discuss practical strategies such as taking breaks, setting realistic deadlines, and aligning decisions with personal values and goals. Learn how to overcome decision paralysis, gather useful information, and turn failures into learning opportunities. By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with the skills to make better decisions and improve your life satisfaction.00:00 Introduction: The Challenge of Making the Right Decision00:32 The Importance of Decision Making01:26 Understanding Cognitive Biases02:13 Emotional Influences on Decisions03:03 The Role of Intuition04:10 Rational vs. Emotional Decisions04:21 The Power of Taking Breaks08:07 Strategies for Better Decision Making12:44 Overcoming Decision Making Challenges17:25 Managing Fear of Failure20:39 Cultivating a Decision Making Mindset23:10 Conclusion: Developing Good Decision Making Skills
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Disagreeing doesn't mean disrespecting. We can hold different views and still treat each other with kindness and consideration. Focus on the issue, not the person.Social MediaInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jaimeertakeoverr/Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=jaimeertakeoverrTwitter https://twitter.com/jaimeertakeoverTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeertakeoverr?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcSpotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2h0daCcrMMgixG4DsyFGa0?si=pnIWA-ykSOil2JGkITZMAA
We may argue about different things, but often, the core problem is the same: a lack of understanding. Let's find common ground.Social Media
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Disagreements escalate when we stop listening and start reacting. Emotional triggers, miscommunication, and a need to be "right" are common reasons for disagreement escalation.
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In this episode of Mental Wealth, I delve into the importance of disagreeing respectfully. I discuss how differing opinions often lead to disrespect and deteriorating relationships. I emphasize understanding others' perspectives shaped by their experiences, avoiding personal attacks, and the pitfalls of idolizing political figures. Using a personal anecdote I illustrates the value of providing a safe space for diverse opinions. The episode covers key techniques for respectful disagreement, such as active listening, using 'I' statements, remaining calm, and finding common ground. The importance of addressing emotional triggers and presenting disagreements professionally, especially with authority figures, is highlighted. I also stresses the significance of self-reflection and open-mindedness in maintaining healthy relationships.
00:00 Introduction to Respectful Disagreement
01:03 Personal Experience with Disagreement
01:56 The Role of Politics in Division
03:52 Techniques for Respectful Disagreement
06:22 Dynamics of Disagreement
07:13 Handling Emotional Triggers
16:19 Respectful Disagreement with Authority
20:05 Disagreeing in Group Settings
21:50 Practicing Respectful Disagreement
23:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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Most people just HEAR, they don't LISTEN. Learn the crucial difference and how to become a better communicator.
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Understanding isn't just about hearing; it's about seeing the world through the speaker's eyes. That's engaged listening.
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When we only listen to respond, we miss the chance to connect and truly understand. Shutting down opinions you don't agree with is like closing a book before reading it. You miss the whole story.
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Active listening means giving your full attention, understanding the speaker's message, and showing you're engaged. It's about genuine connection!Social MediaInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jaimeertakeoverr/Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/search?term=jaimeertakeoverrTwitter https://twitter.com/jaimeertakeoverTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimeertakeoverr?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc