Hey Bestie, let’s be real—conflict is a part of life. Whether it’s with a partner, friend, boss, or family member, difficult conversations can feel overwhelming. But here’s the thing: conflict doesn’t have to be scary. In fact, conflict, when handled well, can be the key to deeper trust, better communication, and stronger relationships.

In this episode, we’re diving into:

• Why avoiding conflict actually makes things worse.
• The neuroscience behind conflict and why our brains react the way they do.
• The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (John Gottman’s research on behaviors that destroy relationships).
• How to reframe conflict as a tool for growth and connection.
• Strategies to approach difficult conversations with confidence, clarity, and emotional control.

You don’t have to be afraid of conflict—you can master it. Let’s talk about how!

Reflection Questions:

1️⃣ What is one difficult conversation I’ve been avoiding, and why?
2️⃣ How do I typically respond to conflict? (Fight, flight, freeze, fawn?)
3️⃣ What unconscious beliefs about conflict am I carrying from childhood or past experiences?
4️⃣ How can I reframe my next conflict as an opportunity for connection and growth?
5️⃣ What’s one small change I can make in my communication style to reduce unnecessary conflict?

Call to Action:

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Bestie, you were never meant to be afraid of conflict—you were meant to master it. 💛