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Divorce is one of the most emotionally and financially challenging transitions you can go through — but it doesn’t have to mean financial chaos.
In this episode of Financial Coaching for Women, Shayna and Vanessa sit down with Linda, a listener who’s in the middle of an amicable divorce but still navigating shared accounts, joint debts, and a home they co-own.
Together, they walk through how to start separating finances, set up a simple money system, and communicate effectively with a spouse during such a sensitive season. You’ll hear practical steps for setting boundaries, tracking shared bills, and creating financial independence — even before the divorce is finalized.
If you’re trying to move forward financially while everything feels messy, this episode will give you both clarity and confidence. 💪
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1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
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Hey, Budget Besties! 👋
Today, we’re reairing one of our favorite conversations — a guest appearance we did with our good friend Jesse Merchan, host of the Bold Faith Moves podcast. This was the very first time her community talked about budgeting on her show — and we went all in on making the “B word” less scary, more joyful, and a whole lot more empowering. 💪✨
In this episode, we share our story of friendship and faith, how we both became debt-free, and the real-life budgeting tips that changed everything. You’ll learn how to simplify your money, stop feeling overwhelmed, and still enjoy the life God’s blessed you with — yes, even if you love Target runs and pumpkin spice lattes. ☕💸
💳 The one simple bank account hack that will change your financial life
🏦 Why separating bills and spending money brings instant clarity and peace
💁♀️ How to be “bougie on a budget” — and still hit your money goals
🔁 How to automate your money so it practically runs itself
🙌 Why budgeting isn’t about restriction — it’s about freedom and stewardship
💖 The faith-filled mindset shift that turns guilt and shame into peace and purpose
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
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You make way too much money to be in this much debt — and we say that with love. ❤️
If you’re swiping your credit card for groceries, juggling balances between cards, and convincing yourself it’s worth it “for the points,” this episode is for you. We’re breaking down the truth about debt — how it keeps you stuck in the past — and showing you what it really means to fund your future instead.
Today, we’re talking about why your credit card is not your budget, what it looks like to be your own bank, and the small but powerful steps that help you stop relying on debt once and for all.
💳 Why using credit cards (even if you pay them off every month) keeps you one month behind
🏦 How to be your own bank and stop borrowing from your future
💡 Why “earning points” is not the same as earning interest — and how to actually win with your money
💬 The simple mindset shift that breaks the habit of relying on credit
💰 Practical steps to remove credit cards from your daily spending — and finally use your own money
📘 How our DIY Debt Relief Workbook can help you talk to creditors, negotiate balances, and take control
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
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Festive season is coming in hot—and you don’t need to white-knuckle it. In this bonus chat with time management coach Anna Dearmon Kornick, we talk about setting a holiday vision, building simple guardrails for both time and money, and saying “yes” to what matters (and no to the rest). Plus: details on the Take Back Your Time Challenge: Stress-Free Holiday Edition—and our VIP workshop, Bougie on a Budget: How to Cash-Flow Christmas (No Holiday Hangover).
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In this heartfelt episode of Financial Coaching for Women, we’re joined by Kayden — a former coaching client whose story will remind you that it’s never too late to turn financial frustration into freedom.
Kayden and her husband went from constant miscommunication and missed payments to budgeting as a team, buying a home, and cash-flowing their life — even after a massive income cut. Her journey shows that progress isn’t about perfection; it’s about persistence, communication, and trusting the process.
If you’ve ever felt like you “make good money but have nothing to show for it,” this one’s for you.
💡 How Kayden went from “making good money with nothing to show for it” to paying every bill on time
🏠 How she and her husband bought a house while learning to budget together
💬 The mindset shifts that helped her improve communication with her spouse — even when he wasn’t in coaching
💳 How she tackled confusing student loans, renegotiated payoffs, and started cash-flowing expenses
🪣 Why starting small with savings buckets and guilt-free spending changed everything
📉 What to do when your income gets cut in half (and how to rebuild without panic)
🙌 The power of accountability, persistence, and coaching — even when life gets messy
🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Today we’re bringing you real-life stories and real lessons straight from our private coaching sessions. If our clients are struggling with it, chances are you are too. We’re breaking down the mistakes we see most often, how to fix them, and how to set yourself up for easy, stress-free money wins.
In this episode, we’re talking about two of the biggest budget busters we see:
1️⃣ Overcomplicating your money system with third-party apps like PayPal and Apple Pay.
2️⃣ Losing track of your true numbers — like your real minimum payments — and making your budget harder than it needs to be.
These stories will help you see how small tweaks can completely change how confident and in control you feel with your money.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Most people say their budgets get blown by “surprise” expenses — but let’s be real: Christmas isn’t a surprise. New tires? Not a surprise. Your dog’s annual vet visit? Definitely not a surprise. These are expected expenses that just don’t happen every month.
In this episode, we’re tackling how to stop the rollercoaster of “I was fine last month, now I’m swiping the credit card.” The solution? Savings buckets. When you create separate savings accounts for predictable but irregular expenses, you save today to avoid borrowing tomorrow.
Why most “surprise” expenses aren’t really surprises
How savings buckets can bring stability to your monthly budget
The exact steps to set up your own buckets
Real-life stories from clients who’ve transformed their finances using this method
💡 What You’ll Learn
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Quick Friday pop-in! If you make good money but have nothing to show for it, we walk through our simple, one-page budget system that actually matches how you live. You’ll learn the 5 money categories, how a separate Bills Account puts payments on autopilot, why separate spending cards end the guilt/fights, and how named savings buckets plus a clear debt plan tell you exactly what to do each payday—no expense logging required. Real client wins, practical steps, and a calmer way to pay bills, kill debt, and still enjoy life. 💸✨
00:00 – Introduction: Why You Need a Budget System for Financial Success
00:23 – Common Budgeting Mistakes: Why Tracking Expenses Isn’t Enough
01:07 – The Overwhelm of Money Management and How to Fix It
01:29 – The Five Simple Budget Categories for Real-Life Spending
02:43 – How Our Editable Budget System Works (and Why It’s Different)
04:11 – Powerful Tools: Savings Tracker, Debt Payoff, and Asset Management
05:38 – Real User Testimonials: Transforming Finances with Our Budget System
07:18 – The Power of Knowing Your Numbers: Net Worth, Debt, and Savings
08:34 – Automating Your Bills and Achieving Financial Organization
10:03 – Final Thoughts: Take Control of Your Money with the Best Budget System
Client Wins We Read On Air
Tammy: “6 months in—buckets growing, bills dropping, husband’s on board.”
Rebecca: “Finally seeing my money clearly. Planned debt payoff + categorized savings = game changer.”
Barbara: “Paid off 7 cards. Use cash for almost everything. No more checking the account before buying gas.”
Lindsay: “Less stress. No guilt. Separate spending accounts = harmony.”
Jess: “Net worth rising is my new favorite hobby.”
Kathleen: “Went from $1,000 over each month to finally breaking the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle.”
Lori: “Autopaid bills from a designated account = zero stress.”
Amanda: “Bird’s-eye month + Paycheck Plan replaced my old tracker. So much clearer.”
Melissa: “It does the math. I actually have more money than I thought.”
Sheena & Becky: “Whole-picture clarity → car paid off, long-term goals funded.”
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Ever feel like your work life and home budget are in a tug-of-war? Same, bestie — and you’re not alone. This week, we sat down with Stephanie, a law professor who’s been making huge moves with her money using our budget system. But like many of us, she hit a snag when it came to business travel.
Stephanie’s story is a masterclass in navigating:
Work reimbursements that take months
Whether credit cards are ever worth it (spoiler: rarely, but sometimes!)
How to separate personal and professional expenses without losing your mind (or your receipts)
Setting up a system that actually works — especially when math isn’t your thing
We cover:
✔️ Pre-funding business trips
✔️ Why a separate bank account is a game-changer
✔️ How to track expenses without burning out
✔️ What to do about credit card perks like car rental insurance or international fees
✔️ And why setting a weekly “receipt party” on your calendar might be your new best friend
Stephanie also shares how budgeting is now a whole family thing — from planning for Christmas (without the chaos) to giving her kids their own savings accounts (and real-time money lessons 💪).
Whether you're a working parent, frequent traveler, or just tired of the budget rollercoaster — this episode is packed with smart, doable strategies to help you stay on track and feel in control.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Today’s episode is ripped straight from real coaching convos with our clients — because if they’re dealing with it, chances are you are too. We’re talking about a common money trap that shows up in more budgets than you’d think: whole life insurance.
Spoiler alert: It’s not a good investment.
Not when you’re paying hundreds a month, not seeing any return, and living outside your means just to keep it going.
We break down:
Why whole life insurance is rarely worth it (especially when your budget is tight)
The difference between whole life and term life insurance
What to do if you’ve already been paying into a whole life policy
How to reorder your financial steps so you can actually build wealth (on your own terms)
We’re all about helping you avoid costly mistakes, feel seen, and walk away with quick wins. So whether you're paying $473/month into a policy that’s draining you or wondering if your “life insurance” line item is doing anything for you — this one's for you.
Remember: we want you to save, invest, and protect your family on purpose — and in the right order. Let’s get that money back in your budget and get you back in control.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Hey budget besties! Today we’re cleaning out that messy “junk drawer” bank account and giving your money actual homes. If everything’s been tangled together—paychecks in, bills out, Target runs, Starbucks, gas, kids’ surprises—no wonder it feels like your money’s disappearing. We’ve got you. 💛
Why one catch-all account = chaos (hi, stress 👋🏽)
The Lisa story (aka how pedicure money turns into cupcakes, milkshakes, gas, and laundry pods)
The simplest way to create freedom to spend without tracking every transaction
How to use digital envelopes with four separate debit accounts:
Gas & Groceries
Restaurants
Personal/Fun Money
Kids
How this step pairs with the V-System so bills get paid first, spending lives separately, and guilt goes bye!
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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We’re chatting with our friend Ral West, a powerhouse entrepreneur who’s all about building a business that serves your life, not the other way around. Ral’s got 40+ years of experience, has built and sold a wildly successful company, and now teaches business owners how to get their time, health, and freedom back.
Let’s just say… she’s walking the walk — 52 podcast interviews, a course, a mastermind, and a month-long vacation on the books. 👏🏽
In This Episode, We Cover:
The real cost of letting your business run your life
How to systematize, automate, and delegate (without micromanaging!)
The art of effective delegation — and why most people are doing it wrong
Why your business should support your dream life, not suck it dry
The 6 foundational principles RA teaches to help business owners scale and enjoy life
The connection between financial clarity, boundaries, and building a sustainable business
“If it doesn’t fit into my dream life vision — I don’t do it.” – Ral West 🙌🏾
We also had a total alignment moment around budgeting! Because y’all know we’re big fans of automation, delegation, and systems — whether you’re managing your business or your money. 💸
So if you’re out here trying to do it all yourself (in your business, at home, or with your money), this is your sign to pause, reset, and start building systems that actually support your life.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Budget besties, we’ve got a very special guest on the pod today… our very own teammate and financial coaching pro, Michelle! 🎉
This episode marks a first—Michelle’s first time on the mic with us, and we’re diving into what’s really happening behind the scenes during our free weekly Office Hours. We’re calling this new series “Lessons from the Sessions,” and trust us, Michelle is bringing the wisdom, encouragement, and big sister energy you didn’t know you needed.
We talk about:
How Michelle went from podcast listener to being a core part of our team ❤️
What led her to financial coaching (hello, emergency fund = credit card era 👋)
Why getting a paycheck ahead is the #1 topic in Office Hours—and how you can get there too
The truth about savings buckets (yes, we love them, but no, you don’t start there!)
Why being detail-obsessed with your spending might actually be slowing you down
And how just showing up—even if you’re not ready to talk—can move you forward
Michelle also gives us a peek into the kinds of questions people bring each week, and why Office Hours have become a lifeline for so many women trying to make their money feel steady and stress-free.
📅 Office Hours happen every Wednesday at 12pm CT and are 100% free to everyone in our community—no system or coaching purchase required. If you’ve got questions, feel stuck, or just want to listen in and learn, Michelle’s your girl.
We’re SO excited to bring her back on the pod monthly to share more real-life insights from these powerful sessions. Get ready to feel encouraged, empowered, and way less alone in your money journey.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
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Check out our Stress Free Bills Mini Class!
Ever find yourself nervously swiping your debit card, praying your bills are already covered? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. In this episode, we’re diving into Step 3 of the Budget Besties Method: setting up a dedicated Bills account. 🙌🏽
When your bills have their own space to breathe (aka their own bank account), you're no longer guessing, stressing, or backtracking. We’re talking clarity, control, and total peace of mind, besties.
Shana and Vanessa share real-life stories from clients whose lives were changed just by making this one move—including being able to travel without worrying if the lights would be on when they got back. Yes, it’s that real.
We’re showing you:
Why running everything through one account is sabotaging your budget
What counts as a “bill” (spoiler: it’s not groceries)
How separating your bills removes the guesswork
Why this is the first step toward getting a paycheck ahead
✨ Get ready to take a breath, let your budget work for you, and stop letting your money keep you up at night. This one’s a game changer.
Mentioned in this episode:
Want to go deeper? Head to budgetbesties.com/bills to grab the video series and learn how to build your buffer, automate your bills (yes—even if you're scared), and stop living paycheck to paycheck for good.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Budget besties... it’s time. 🎃
We’re sipping pumpkin spice, skeletons are popping up in the neighborhood, and Hobby Lobby has Christmas aisles in full swing—which can only mean one thing: it's time to plan your October budget!
In this episode, Shana and Vanessa walk you through the exact steps they use with their coaching clients to get ready for the new month, including:
✨ How to separate your spending accounts so you can swipe with confidence
✨ What “month-specific” spending really means (hello Halloween candy, costumes, dad’s birthday, and skate camp 👀)
✨ The power of savings buckets—yes, even for Homecoming dresses and horse expenses
✨ Why automating your transfers is the key to budget peace (and no more tracking every dollar)
✨ What it looks like to have money left over after budgeting—yes, it’s possible!
Whether you're just getting started or you're deep in your debt payoff journey, we’ve got the real-life examples and step-by-step process to help you stop guessing and start planning with clarity.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Today’s episode is packed with real life, real clients, and real money lessons from our coaching sessions — and trust us, if they’re going through it, you probably are too. From college kids nearly losing scholarships to business owners buried in tools they don’t need, we’re breaking it all down.
This is the episode where you get to learn through someone else’s mistakes (hallelujah), feel less alone, and walk away with quick wins you can apply to your own budget — right now.
✨ Today’s Lessons From the Coaching Couch💸 1. Be a Good Steward of Your Money
One of our sweet clients had to have a Come to Jesus moment with her son after he almost lost his scholarship. Her message?
“If someone gives you money — you have a responsibility to use it well.”
Whether it’s a scholarship, a paycheck, or a random blessing — the same is true for all of us. Your job, your income, your opportunities are a gift. And budgeting is how you honor it. Period.
➡️ When you know what’s coming in and where it’s going, you can be intentional and wise — and avoid losing what you worked so hard to get.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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If you've ever felt overwhelmed, annoyed, or just plain lost trying to budget — you are NOT alone. We’ve seen it all: the scribbled notebook budgets, 111-line spreadsheets with scary color-coding, and "budgets" that are really just transaction trackers in disguise. No wonder budgeting feels like a chore (or a punishment) for so many of us.
But good news — it doesn’t have to be that way. 🙌
In this episode, we’re diving into:
💥 The 5 Reasons Most Budgets Fail:
They're way too complicated
They focus on the past, not the plan
They're built paycheck-to-paycheck instead of month-by-month
They don’t give you real clarity
And honestly? They’re just ugly (sorry, neon Google Sheets)
We show you real-life examples (thanks, clients — we love you) of bad budgets and break down exactly why they didn’t work — even though our clients were genuinely trying.
🎉 Then we flip the script and show you…
This is the same system we use with every single client, whether they’re just getting started or juggling six-figure incomes. It’s clear, one-page, and dare we say… pretty?
Here’s what it includes:
Income — Your favorite number! We start here so we know what we're working with.
Debt — The not-so-fun column, but necessary for getting that snowball rolling.
Bills — Anything with a due date goes here. Think rent, subscriptions, utilities.
Spending — All the day-to-day stuff: groceries, gas, Starbucks, kids’ activities, etc.
Savings — The game-changer. This is how you break the debt cycle and plan ahead.
🌟 This budget isn’t just numbers on a page — it’s a system. It tells you what to do, how much you have left, and makes sure every dollar has a job.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Today’s episode is one of those stop what you’re doing and listen moments. 🛑💸
We're sitting down with our real-life friends—and now clients—Aaron and Sarah, who pulled back the curtain on how they went from financial frustration and separate bank accounts… to saving more than ever, paying off debt, and dreaming big (like, Montana ranch big).
If you’ve ever:
Felt guilty about spending money on things just for you
Kept finances separate in your marriage (and it’s not working)
Struggled to talk about money without spiraling into an argument
Wondered where the heck your money is going even with good income
…this episode is for you, budget bestie. 🧡
We’re walking through their journey step-by-step, from the moment they realized retirement felt impossible to building a budget system that gave them peace, clarity, and permission to spend (yes, even on horses and hunting trips 🐴🦌).
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Today, we’re bringing you behind the scenes of our private coaching sessions—because if our clients are facing these struggles, chances are you are too. 💯
From booming photography side hustles to once-a-month paycheck chaos, we’re unpacking the real-life budgeting problems that hit hard—and how to solve them on purpose.
In this episode, we dive into:
📷 What to do when your side hustle brings in big money—but not every month
🗓️ How to manage irregular income like a pro (especially when you get paid once a month)
🧾 Why calling your credit card companies can buy you breathing room
💸 Building a paycheck buffer so your bills don’t rule your life
💥 The hard convos that actually set you free financially
These are the exact money moves we make with clients every day—and you’ll walk away with some powerful mindset shifts and practical next steps to apply to your own budget.
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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Budget besties, this one’s the heart of the whole system. If your future feels boring, budgeting will always feel like busywork. Step 1 of our method is Dream Again—building a vision that actually excites you so you want to budget, stick with it, and change habits with purpose.
We share a powerful early-client story (hi tears 🥲) where “What are your goals?” stopped them in their tracks—and how getting crystal clear on a shared vision made everything else click. Then we show you how to map goals across Now, 1 Year, 5 Years, and your “X-Year” horizon (not age 65—your milestone). When you know where you’re going, the rest of the method stops feeling restrictive and starts feeling…fun.
What You’ll Learn
Why most people quit budgeting (spoiler: no exciting future to aim at)
How a clear “why” makes budgeting simple—and even enjoyable
The 4-part vision map: Now, 1 Year, 5 Years, X-Years
How life stages (kids’ ages, career transitions, moves) shape your targets
Partnering up: how to dream together so you’re rowing in the same direction
Check out our Dream Again Worksheet
Check out Luke & Tina's Episode #79
Connect With Us:
1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook
2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate
3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget
4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching
5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall
"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌
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