Fertility Finesse? smart, honest conversations on fertility, trying to conceive, IVF, miscarriage and mindset, because you deserve more than vague advice and outdated myths.
I’m your host Helena Tubridy, fertility coach, trauma therapist, former gynae nurse and midwife, bringing a rare mix of science, mindset, and lived experience to the mic.
We're talking expert voices from reproductive healthcare, real stories and practical strategies to move the dial on your fertility.
We get into the mindset shifts that make a difference, the emotional load nobody talks about, and the questions you’ve been too afraid to ask.
From the latest fertility research to the everyday stress of treatment, this straight-talking reality checks and care.
So whether you’re just starting out, doing, IVF, facing failed cycles or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you medically-accurate insights, and confidence.
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Fertility Finesse? smart, honest conversations on fertility, trying to conceive, IVF, miscarriage and mindset, because you deserve more than vague advice and outdated myths.
I’m your host Helena Tubridy, fertility coach, trauma therapist, former gynae nurse and midwife, bringing a rare mix of science, mindset, and lived experience to the mic.
We're talking expert voices from reproductive healthcare, real stories and practical strategies to move the dial on your fertility.
We get into the mindset shifts that make a difference, the emotional load nobody talks about, and the questions you’ve been too afraid to ask.
From the latest fertility research to the everyday stress of treatment, this straight-talking reality checks and care.
So whether you’re just starting out, doing, IVF, facing failed cycles or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you medically-accurate insights, and confidence.
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Fertility Finesse Show host and fertility, IVF and miscarriage coach Helena Tubridy chats with clinical psychotherapist Stephanie Regan to explore the emotional complexities of fertility challenges and their impact on relationships. Stefanie Regan is a Dublin-based psychotherapist and media relationship expert with decades of experience in mental health, trauma, and workplace wellbeing. A regular on Newstalk and Ireland AM, she’s known for her warm, practical advice that helps people navigate love, loss, and life. Co-host of Tough Love and author of Journey Forward: Trauma and Healing (2023).
They discuss how couples navigate stress and grief differently, the importance of communication, and the role of therapy in providing support.
The conversation also touches on societal pressures, family dynamics, and the evolving nature of family structures, emphasizing the need for resilience and understanding in the face of adversity.
It's all about:
Navigating Love Through Fertility Challenges
The Emotional Landscape of IVF and Relationships
Fertility challenges can strain relationships but also reveal their strength.
Couples often experience stress and grief differently during fertility treatments.
Communication styles can differ significantly between partners, impacting their connection.
Intimacy can be affected by the medical nature of fertility treatments.
Therapy can provide essential support and perspective during fertility struggles.
Understanding family dynamics is crucial for couples without children.
It's important to reflect on the reasons behind the desire for more children.
Societal pressures can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy for couples trying to conceive.
Setting boundaries is essential for those without children in family dynamics.
The landscape of family structures is evolving, requiring new conversations about parenting
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Fertility Challenges Together
02:17 Understanding Stress and Grief in Relationships
05:00 The Impact of Parenthood on Relationships
07:29 Coping Styles and Communication in Couples
13:14 Reclaiming Intimacy During Fertility Treatments
17:40 The Role of Therapy in Relationship Support
27:12 Understanding the Emotional Investment in Fertility
29:59 The Importance of Self-Reflection in the Fertility Journey
32:15 Navigating Control and Acceptance in Fertility Challenges
35:34 Coping with the Pain of Comparison and Loss
39:04 The Burden of Responsibility in Childless Adults
42:09 Reclaiming Value in Childless Relationships
46:09 The Evolving Landscape of Parenting Choices
49:37 Resilience and Love Through Fertility Struggles
Fertility Finesse is your go-to podcast for smart, straight-talking conversations about fertility, IVF, miscarriage, and everything that comes with navigating this emotional rollercoaster.
Hosted by internationally recognised fertility coach, trauma therapist, and former midwife Helena Tubridy, the show blends medical accuracy with lived experience. Expect expert guests from reproductive medicine, psychology, and allied fields, alongside practical mindset tools and strategies Helena has honed through years of guiding clients worldwide.
Clear insights, compassionate guidance, and the occasional reality check to help you cut through the overwhelm and actually feel more in control of your journey.
Whether you’re just starting out, deep into treatment, or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you with the knowledge, support, and confidence to advocate for your fertility.
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When a routine doctor visit for heavy periods led to an anaemia diagnosis, Justyna Strzeszynska realised how little objective data exists around menstrual health.
There was no reliable way to measure blood volume or categorise clots — and no language to describe what “normal” really meant.
Her frustration became the seed for Joii, an award-winning fem-tech app and medical-grade tool that helps users measure their menstrual blood loss, track changes, and recognise their period as the 5th vital sign in both reproductive and general health.
In this conversation with Helena Tubridy, Justyna shares:
✨ Her journey from personal experience to health-tech entrepreneur
✨ Why those with endo, adeno, PCOS and fibroids need better menstrual data
✨ How Joii’s discreet scanning technology works — using specially designed pads
✨ How user data is shaping new research into the big question: “What is a normal period?”
✨ And why empowering women with measurable data changes everything
If you’ve ever been told your period is “just heavy,” this episode will open your eyes to the power of real insight — and why menstrual health deserves medical precision, not guesswork.
💡 Connect with Justyna:
🔗 Website: https://www.joiicare.com
📱 Instagram: @joiicare
📧 For media & partnerships: hello@joiicare.com
💬 Connect with Helena for 1:1 fertility coaching, online courses, and guest talks
🌐 www.helenatubridy.com
📸 Instagram: @helenatubridyfertility
🎧 Subscribe to Fertility Finesse for expert-led insights, stories, and mindset tools for your fertility journey.
🩷 This episode is supported by pre-Conceive by Pillar Healthcare — premium nutritional support for fertility and reproductive health.
Original music by Kane O'Rourke
Fertility Finesse is your go-to podcast for smart, straight-talking conversations about fertility, IVF, miscarriage, and everything that comes with navigating this emotional rollercoaster.
Hosted by internationally recognised fertility coach, trauma therapist, and former midwife Helena Tubridy, the show blends medical accuracy with lived experience. Expect expert guests from reproductive medicine, psychology, and allied fields, alongside practical mindset tools and strategies Helena has honed through years of guiding clients worldwide.
Clear insights, compassionate guidance, and the occasional reality check to help you cut through the overwhelm and actually feel more in control of your journey.
Whether you’re just starting out, deep into treatment, or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you with the knowledge, support, and confidence to advocate for your fertility.
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Tiny Gland, Mighty Impact — with Dr. Shandeep Momi
In this episode of Fertility Finesse, I’m joined by Dr. Shandeep Momi; a Dublin-based GP and founder of Functional Thyroid Care, who’s redefining how we understand and optimise thyroid health for fertility AND pregnancy..
Dr Momi opens up about his deeply personal story that shaped his clinical mission: his wife’s long, difficult journey to a Hashimoto’s diagnosis, and the gaps they uncovered in conventional thyroid care. From that experience came his passion to bridge science with a truly integrative, patient-centred approach.
We explore why “normal” thyroid blood results don’t always mean optimal reproductive health, how deeper testing can reveal hidden imbalances, and why thyroid function is so crucial for fertility, hormone balance, and energy.
Dr Momi breaks down what most people, and many clinics STILL miss, and offers practical insights to help you ask better questions, get better answers, and take charge of your thyroid story.
If you’ve ever been told your thyroid is “fine” but you still need answers, this episode is a must-listen.
Fertility Finesse is your go-to podcast for smart, straight-talking conversations about fertility, IVF, miscarriage, and everything that comes with navigating this emotional rollercoaster.
Hosted by internationally recognised fertility coach, trauma therapist, and former midwife Helena Tubridy, the show blends medical accuracy with lived experience. Expect expert guests from reproductive medicine, psychology, and allied fields, alongside practical mindset tools and strategies Helena has honed through years of guiding clients worldwide.
Clear insights, compassionate guidance, and the occasional reality check to help you cut through the overwhelm and actually feel more in control of your journey.
Whether you’re just starting out, deep into treatment, or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you with the knowledge, support, and confidence to advocate for your fertility.
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On this episode of Fertility Finesse, I’m joined by the brilliant Jen Hogan, Irish Times journalist, broadcaster, author, podcast host and... mum of seven!
Jen is known for her sharp insights and her warm, no-nonsense take on the realities of family life, motherhood, and everything in between.
She’s a powerful voice in breaking the silence around the real challenges facing parents and what really matters; topics that often get swept under the rug.
Her best-selling book The Real Mum’s Guide to Surviving Parenthood and her TV and radio work give countless parents accurate info, a sense of solidarity, honesty, and sometimes the laugh they desperately need.
In our conversation, Jen shares both her journey, navigating pregnancy loss, the challenges of secondary infertility, post-natal anxiety and depression, a career change, and the juggle of a big family alongside a demanding career.
She brings her trademark mix of warmth, wit, and hard-earned wisdom to some of the most important conversations in parenting and fertility today.
If you’ve ever felt unseen in your fertility or parenthood journey, or just longed for a voice that tells it like it is, without scaring the living daylights out of you then this episode is for you.
Fertility Finesse is your go-to podcast for smart, straight-talking conversations about fertility, IVF, miscarriage, and everything that comes with navigating this emotional rollercoaster.
Hosted by internationally recognised fertility coach, trauma therapist, and former midwife Helena Tubridy, the show blends medical accuracy with lived experience. Expect expert guests from reproductive medicine, psychology, and allied fields, alongside practical mindset tools and strategies Helena has honed through years of guiding clients worldwide.
Clear insights, compassionate guidance, and the occasional reality check to help you cut through the overwhelm and actually feel more in control of your journey.
Whether you’re just starting out, deep into treatment, or finding your way after loss, Fertility Finesse empowers you with the knowledge, support, and confidence to advocate for your fertility.
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🎙️ Fertility Finesse Episode: Claire Walsh – Holding Her Breath Through IVF
What happens when a world-record free diver, author, and mindset coach finds herself facing one of the greatest challenges of all, not 60 metres below the surface,
but within the world of fertility treatment?
In this unflinchingly honest episode, Claire Walsh joins me (our first time to meet in person) to reflect on her deeply personal experience of IVF:“It was unlike anything I’d ever experienced.”
From holding her breath in freediving to holding it in the clinic waiting room, Claire brings her signature depth, humour, and poetic insight to a subject so many still whisper about. She opens up about the emotional whiplash of hormone swings, the disorienting blur of appointments, the loneliness of hope and loss—and why she knew, “If ever I get through this, I’m going to talk about it.” The floodgates opened on Instagram when Claire shared what she had gone through. A brave decision to help others. Claire is a joy to speak with and we've had a few conversations lasting hours...
🎧 In this episode, we explore:
• How fertility treatment rattles even a seasoned resilience expert
• Why being a ‘strong woman’ doesn’t protect you from the heartbreak of IVF
• The pressure to “just be grateful” and stay silent
• What helped Claire re-anchor herself during her toughest moments
• Surviving in a medicalised system
• Coming to terms with facing life without a child
Claire doesn’t sugar-coat the experience. Instead, she tells it as it with her signature raw honesty, tenderness, and a refusal to hide her vulnerability.
This is a conversation for anyone who wonders, “Why is this happening to me? Is it just me”—and for those supporting someone they love through it.
🔗 About Claire:
Claire is an 8-time national freediving record-holder, Buteyko breathwork coach, TEDx speaker, and bestselling author of Under Water: How Holding My Breath Taught Me to Live. I adored this book and highly recommend you read it!
She brings the full force of her creative, physical, and emotional intelligence into every conversation and this one is no exception.
🌊 Trigger Warning: This episode contains references to IVF and fertility challenges. Please listen with care.
🗝️ If you’re navigating fertility yourself, know that you are not alone—and that finding your voice is part of finding your power.
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So delighted to welcome Mark Whitney, founder of Pillar Healthcare, to Fertility Finesse, especially as he and his partner just welcomed their second baby!
Huge congratulations, and heartfelt thanks for making time to share his insights during this incredibly special (and sleep-deprived!) chapter.
Mark is the driving force behind pre-Conceive and my respected sponsor for this FFS podcast series. It's the first fertility supplement in Europe to be independently tested in a clinical trial.
Over three years of research, pre-Conceive was shown to improve key fertility parameters in both women and men, making it a major milestone in evidence-based reproductive support.
With a passion for the periconceptional period - those vital months before and around conception -
Mark brings both professional expertise and personal dedication to improving reproductive outcomes, not just for today’s intending parents.
Outside of Pillar Healthcare, Mark collaborates with academic institutions, serving on the board of a research and incubation centre exploring new treatments in restorative reproductive medicine.
This episode is packed with practical, grounded guidance and a lot of heart. I'm so grateful to Mark for sharing his knowledge and guidance with you all.
💊 What’s real and what’s just great marketing?
With fertility supplements lining every pharmacy shelf and popping up in every algorithm, how do you know what’s actually worth taking? Mark breaks down the science vs. the spin—and why “just take CoQ10” might not be the full picture.
🥦 Food first… but is it enough?
We explore the idea that a healthy diet should cover your nutritional needs, and why that’s often not enough for fertility. Mark and Helena get real about common nutrition mistakes and overlooked gaps in preconception care. Ans look at easy ways to get on track.
👶 Trying to conceive in your 40s?
You're not alone, and your nutrition needs might be different now. This episode highlights what women over 40 need to focus on to give their fertility the best possible support, including insights into egg quality and what’s modifiable vs. what isn’t.
🧬 Male fertility matters, too.
Often ignored and under-tested, sperm health plays a much bigger role than many people realise, including its link to miscarriage. Mark shares what kind of improvements men can see and how sperm can be a mirror of overall health.
👨👩👧👦 Secondary infertility: the surprise no one expects
Already have a child, but struggling to conceive again? We talk about how fertility can shift on both sides and the role of lifestyle, age, and supplementation for second-time (or third-time) hopefuls.
💡 Final takeaway:
If you’re at the very start of your fertility journey, or not sure what to take Mark offers his #1 piece of advice on supplements and why “less but targeted” often beats a scattergun approach.
🔗 Mentioned in this episode:
🎧 Whether you’re trying for baby #1 or #4, this episode is packed with clarity, calm, and clear guidance to help you make smarter, more confident choices on your fertility journey.
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Title: “Dating, Blending, Baby-Making: Love, Fertility & Second Chances with Mairead Loughman”
What do dating, partnership, and fertility have in common? Everything—especially when you're navigating love and conception in real life, not just theory. In this lively and inspiring episode, I’m joined by the fabulous Mairead Loughman - well-known relationship expert, matchmaker, and host of the award-winning Would Like to Meet podcast.
We dive into the real talk about:
💞 Why choosing the right partner matters more than ever
👶 The unique Irish challenges of blending families and trying to conceive
🧠 Mairead’s five must-answer questions before committing to someone new
🪞What actually makes a relationship work (and how much has changed in just a generation)
🔗 How dating and fertility are more closely linked than people realise—and what that means for anyone TTC
We also touch on her insightful second podcast Tough Love, co-hosted with psychotherapist Stephanie Regan for anyone navigating the messy middle of modern relationships.
Whether you're figuring it out for the first time or giving love and family another go, this episode is a warm, witty, must-listen. Mairead is truly inspiring and so full of grounded, compassionate wisdom that may just change how you date, relate, and dream of your future family. And make it your own reality...
🎧 Listen now on Fertility Finesse wherever you get your podcasts.
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This week, I’m thrilled to welcome the brilliant and beautifully honest Suzanne Domotor to the show. A mom of two with a deeply personal fertility journey, Suzanne brings raw insight and radiant warmth to this powerful conversation.
Diagnosed with endometriosis at just 20, Suzanne’s path took a major turn when adenomyosis was also discovered during surgery. Alongside her reproductive health challenges, she uncovered multiple food intolerances, leading her to rethink everything from daily meals to long-term plans. Especially when you love cheese... what can you do?
Suzanne and her husband co-founded Fully Free, a vibrant, plant-based cheese company born from necessity and a love of great food.
Together, they’ create award-winning dairy alternatives that puts freedom back on the plate.
Suzanne shares openly about what it’s like to have a fertility coach as a mother
Yes, I’m her proud mum, Helena Tubridy! We dive into the experience of growing up with open conversations around reproductive health, what others were saying, and how early support influenced her decision to start her family young, while many of her friends were still in college.
She takes us through the emotional terrain of making life-shaping choices early on, and the unique perspective that comes from choosing motherhood on her own terms.
We also talk candidly about pregnancy, birth, and early motherhood, especially the parts no one prepares you for.
Suzanne brings truth, grace, and grit as she reflects on the untold realities of birthing and raising tiny humans, and
how fertility conditions like endo and adeno continue to shape her daily life.
This is a conversation about courage, clarity, and creating a life that aligns with your needs and not societal timelines.
Tune in for a warm, deeply human chat filled with wisdom, laughter, and a fresh perspective on fertility and family-building.
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In this episode, Helena Tubridy welcomes Dr. Codruta, medical director of Saol Nua Clinic, sharing an effective and science-backed approach to reproductive health: Restorative Reproductive Medicine (RRM).
Dr. Codruta brings clarity and warmth to what can often feel like a confusing and overwhelming journey. She explains how RRM focuses on identifying and treating the underlying causes of fertility issues rather than simply bypassing them with medication or IVF. The focus is on preparing for a healthy pregnancy, often after miscarriage, secondary infertility, or over the age of 40.
They discuss the key principles of Restorative Reproductive Medicine and the common mistakes and missed diagnoses that many couples face. Dr Codruta shares why a thorough investigation is essential before treatment begins. They also talk about how hormonal imbalances, thyroid issues, endometriosis, and cycle irregularities can all impact fertility and how they can be effectively treated and higlight the often-overlooked role of mindset, mental health and emotional wellbeing. How a fertility doctor and fertility coach work together to help couples achieve pregnancy more easily.
A warm and honest conversation packed with compassion, insight, and practical guidance for couples trying to conceive naturally, or those who feel stuck after failed fertility treatments.
Dr. Codruta offers a refreshing and dynamic perspective: with the right investigations, an integrative approach and expert support, many couples can and do achieve pregnancy naturally, without rushing into invasive options.
To learn more about Dr Codruta’s work find her on Instagram @dr_codruta_p
Tune in to feel more empowered, and inspired.
Share with someone who needs to hear this!
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In this inspiring episode, Helena Tubridy chats with the brilliant Nikki Dwyer - mother of two,
lawyer-turned-fertility advocate, and co-founder of the Future Fertility Show.
Nikki opens up about her personal fertility experience - the emotional ups and downs, what
surprised her most, and how it changed her perspective on the entire fertility industry.
She shares:
The gaps in fertility care and options, support and transparency that still exist
What sparked the idea for the Future Fertility Show, a unique annual event designed to inform and
empower anyone thinking about fertility or planning a family.
Connect with Nikki on Instagram: @nikkidwyer_
Listen to her podcast with sister Liz Dwyer: Fess Up – available wherever you get your podcasts!
Whether you’re just starting to think about having a baby, knee-deep in IVF, or feeling overwhelmed
with the system - Nikki’s energy, commitment and insights offer comfort, clarity, and a powerful
reminder: you’re not alone. Listen now and share with someone who needs a little hope and a whole
lot of honesty.
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In this episode Síle Seoige joins Helena to talk about pregnancy loss.
Pregnancy loss is deeply personal, often lonely, and rarely spoken about openly.
In this raw and heartfelt conversation, broadcaster and advocate Síle Seoige shares her deeply personal experience of two miscarriages -
the emotional impact, the unexpected challenges, and the support that helped her through.
Síle opens up about the silence that surrounds pregnancy loss, the things no one tells you, and how her own grief led her to create the powerful and groundbreaking
documentary Deireadh Tochta (Still Silence).
This eye-opening programme shines a light on miscarriage in Ireland, weaving together personal stories, expert insights,
and the latest research on pregnancy loss.
Together, they discuss:
· The emotional rollercoaster of miscarriage—what helped and what didn’t
· The importance of speaking up and breaking the silence around loss
· The supports that are available but often not talked about
· How Deireadh Tochta sparked national conversation and change
· If you’ve ever felt alone in your pregnancy loss, what to do next or know someone who has suffered miscarriage this episode is here to remind you: you are not alone, your experience matters, and you can help others.
Watch Deireadh Tochta (In English) here: TG4 Documentary
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