Client Success: How Ashley Went from a "Painful Divorce" to "Healed and In Love" Work with Sade: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment Connect with Ashley: https://calendly.com/ashleykingcoaching/30min Episode Summary In this episode, Sade and Ashley King discuss Ashley's transformative journey after divorce, focusing on healing from trauma, recognizing readiness for dating, and navigating the challenges of finding love again. They explore the importance of core values, honesty in dating,...

In this episode, I dive deep into a breakthrough moment from our recent Dating After Divorce Collective coaching call. Here's what we unpack:Key Insights:Why shame triggers show up in your dating journey and how societal narratives impact your dating confidenceThe real reason dating feels hard (hint: it's not because "all the good ones are taken")How fear of wasting time leads to either dismissing potential partners too quickly or staying too long with the wrong onesWhy perfectionism and the ...

Tired of dating feeling like Groundhog Day? In today's episode I share the proven framework that helps my clients break free from dating frustration and create real results. If you've hit a wall with dating apps, feel stuck in negative patterns, or wonder why nothing seems to work - this episode is for you. Episode Highlights: 🔍 Why traditional dating advice fails divorced women The trap of jumping on and off dating apps without a strategyHow "putting yourself out there" without skills leads ...

Let's talk about a pattern I see in many divorced women - the reluctance to fight for the relationship they want. Through the lens of "learned helplessness," I explore why capable, strong women who fought for their first marriages often hold back in their post-divorce dating journey.Key Insights:The difference between fighting for a specific person versus fighting for your desired relationship outcomeHow past relationship trauma creates false beliefs about our dating optionsWhy validating dat...

In this deep-dive episode, I explore our complex relationship with time in dating after divorce, challenging the common belief that dating is a "waste of time." As part of my three-episode series about time, we examine how this mindset affects your dating journey and what to do about it. Key Concepts Explored: What Actually Wastes Time in Dating: - Dating without a strong "why" or due to external pressure - Pursuing someone who clearly stated they don't want what you want - Trying to convin...

Are you limiting your dating pool based on age? In this episode, I challenge the common assumptions about dating older men and reveal why your dating filters might be holding you back from finding true connection. Key Insights: The truth behind the "nurse with a purse" stereotype and why it shouldn't dictate your dating choicesWhy age filters often mask deeper fears about dating and settlingHow to shift from fear-based dating to confidence-based choicesThe power of staying neutral when meetin...

Is your age holding you back in dating? I hear this concern from so many women in our community. Today, let's unpack what's really going on when we let age become a barrier to love. Key Insights: Age anxiety peaks when dating because we've internalized limiting societal messages about women and agingThese beliefs impact not just how we date, but how boldly we live our entire livesYour age is just a number - what matters is the life you choose to live at any ageHere's the truth: The "age probl...

Does the thought of attending an event alone feel awful? In this episode, Sade Curry discusses the stigma and shame associated with attending social events alone, particularly after divorce or being single. She shares her personal experience of attending events alone and contrasts it with her clients' feelings of inadequacy and exposure. Sade emphasizes that societal conditioning and internalized beliefs contribute to this shame, urging individuals to challenge these thoughts th...

In today’s episode, we dive into the digital dating arena and tackle a common struggle: managing the overwhelm that comes with using dating apps. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned swiper, the avalanche of notifications, messages, and profiles can quickly turn an exciting journey into a stressful experience. Join Sade Curry to explore the emotional and psychological impact of dating after divorce in this modern dating landscape, and discover practical strategies to reclaim control ...

Do you keep thinking a man is the one only to get blindsided yet again? Ever get discouraged and think you'll never figure out how to see a man's true character? In this insightful episode, Natasha Moore share's her story of finally understanding how to choose the man who was right for her after a divorce and an annulment. We share our personal stories, offering candid reflections on our journeys to healing, self-discovery, and finding love again. From the challenges of long-distance relati...

If you're struggling with dating after divorce and need personalized guidance, schedule a complimentary coaching consultation with Sade Curry. Click here to schedule your session. Dating After Divorce Episode 215: When Are You Ready to Date? In this Sade Curry delves into the concept of "readiness" for dating after a divorce. She explores the often undefined notion of being "ready" to date and its potential consequences on one's dating journey. Sade discusses the subtle yet powerful belief th...

If you frequently feel hurt, sad, anxious or angry when you are dating, then this episode is for you. Join Sade Curry as she breaks down the concept of Personalization, a cognitive distortion that creates a ton of negative emotions in life and in relationships. Want to find a loving partner after divorce? Click here to sign up for the Core Values Dating Blueprint today. WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER: How to heal and prepare to be successful at dating after divorceHow to find the motivation to try on...

Do you find yourself focusing way too much on other people when dating? In this episode, Sade Curry emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-discovery in the dating process, as women who have not healed from codependency and people pleasing may struggle with centering their desires and actions on their own wants and needs. Sade offers strategies for retraining intuition, reconnecting with core values, and saying no in a way that resonates with oneself. She also discusses how socie...

Healing from infidelity can be a difficult journey. When you have experienced a betrayal, it can rock your whole world and require deep recovery and healing. My guest this week has gone through that healing journey. Gia Huff was blindsided by her ex-husband’s affair and created a beautiful life for herself after divorce - one that includes a new loving partner. Tune in this week to hear Gia’s inspiring story of deep healing and growth that helped her meet her partner in only a few days on the...

Special Announcement: Join me for my live event, Core Values Dating Live! Click here for details Episode Show notes: My guest today is the woman from whom I first learned that codependency was a thing. Elisabeth Klein has been a writer and mentor for Christian women for decades. In this episode, Elisabeth shares her story of a 20-year marriage that ended in divorce due to hidden drinking, emotional abuse, controlling behavior, and lying. Despite initially vowing to never rema...

Shame is a painful emotional experience that can stem from childhood experiences and societal conditioning, especially for women. In this episode, I had Karen C. L. Anderson on for her second guest appearance on the podcast. We talked about her new book, You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma and Shame about generational trauma and shame between mothers and daughters from a personal perspective. Key Takeaways: - Recognizing shame involves paying attention to underlying thoug...