“Hedonism is the willingness to experience the orgasmic quality of the joy and fun of living. It is constant pleasure seeking – every moment of every day. It is the willingness to make your life a pleasure instead of a pain.” ~ Gary Douglas
Do you seek pleasure in your life, or do you seek to avoid or get through the pain of it?
When you have the point of view that your body is a pain, your relationship is a pain, your finances are a pain, then you shall find that as your reality. Your point of view will become that which you seek. More pain.
If you were to destroy those points of view and become a seeker for pleasure, then your whole living can become a source of pleasure. Let’s explore more in the Curious Universe!
Let’s go deeper into the possibilities of pleasure together!
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Hello Wizard, let’s play with the energies of kindness, shall we?
You see, kindness is not necessarily what this reality declares it to be. This reality will have you believe that kindness is really niceness, which requires you to cut off your Wizardry capacities in favour of someone else's judgment and desire to control you….
And my dear friend, there is nothing kind about that to you.
What if you stepped into being the kind of benevolent wizard you truly are? Now is the time after all.
If you are interested in exploring my Wizadrdy membership, go HERE: https://www.asifbymagic.space/wizardry
You are the wizard we have all been waiting for.
Sometimes a creation halts. Out of nowhere, it slams on the brakes and says no.
Be it a class creation, a book you are writing, an event you are hosting, or even a simple family gathering. It all seems light and generative, and suddenly boom. It’s HEAVY.
So we just kill it, right?
Or….. what if instead we asked some questions?
What if this is consciousness leading you in a dance with universal timing?
Let’s explore in the Curious Universe!
Trust can be a Fickle lover…
Who do you trust and why do you trust them? Did they earn it? Prove it? Or do they start at 100% trust and go down from there? Oh, you capricious thing called trust.
But the bigger question is “Do you trust you?” and if so, how deep is that trust?
Do you trust your awareness? Your body? Your business? Your being? Many can only trust what they have judged as right, which isn't really trust at all if you look at it.
I invite you to explore this with me in the Curious Universe with my unique guest Gabor Gürtler, as you discover how deep is your trust?
At 27, G (Gabor) lost everything — his health, business, relationship, and financial stability. What seemed like the end became the beginning of The Process: a journey of being.. you.
Today, his work reaches hundreds of thousands, reminding people that they can choose different — and create a life they’d gladly wake up into.
For more with Gabor please explore here:
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How many orders do you give your body a day, and never acknowledge it?
I am so tired…. that’s an order
Eating this is going to make me fat…. that’s an order
Look at how old I am getting…. that’s an order.
Like a general to its army, you are constantly ordering your body every day and usually not in the way you would like to!
But order is most often a diminishment of what is possible.
What if, instead, you created your own body?
What if every day were a creation for and with your body?
How do you choose that? Let’s explore in the Curious Universe!
Tell me… are you living the dream?
Perhaps in some areas, but what about those areas we don't like to talk about? Or the places that we have just accepted as mediocre or tolerable.
Do you really wish to have a life that’s just tolerable?
Imagine your life was like a living dream where magic and possibilities were spilling out in every area.
It’s not a fantasy, it's a possibility, and I would love to explore this with you in the Curious Universe Podcast!
Where do you hold back?
Is it with the things you would like to say?
The choices you would like to make?
The joy of you?
The magic of you?
The power of you?
Most of us hold back somewhere and we all have a very good reason for doing so. Often with a whole catalouge of proof to back it up.
But what if UNLEASHING is the only thing that will change your life and actualize your dreams?
Join me in the Curious Universe to explore!
It’s summertime here in North America, and bodies are heating up!
Whether you are heading to the beach, sunbathing in your backyard, or even just wearing less clothes -because damn it’s hot out, you may be noticing judgment coming up around your body or having awareness of other people judging their bodies.
What if we melted those judgments by turning UP the sexualness?!
I am not talking about being provocative or doing sexuality, I am talking about one of the most powerful energies we can embody.
If you haven’t heard about it or you would like more of it, join me in the Curious Universe!
From Havoc to Flow: Creating Systems that Work for Your Family
What if your whole life was in flow and was supported by systems that truly worked for you and your entire family?
Does that sound too good to be true?
Or perhaps you have tried it all before and it never worked…
Well, structures will fail you, routines can get dull, and we can’t control everyone, but if you include the energetics, you might see results you never imagined possible!
Join me in the Curious Universe!
You Don’t Have to Do This Alone: Building Your Buffet of Support.
Single parent, part-time parent, partnered parent… no matter what type of parent you classify yourself as, we all have moments of feeling alone. And it’s when we are driving on empty without the support we require that we hit burnout.
What if, no matter your situation and the people currently around you, you could create a buffet of support? Yep, I said buffet like you're going to a fancy brunch somewhere and you get to have as much of all the yummy things you desire.
Because you really don’t have to do this alone.
Let’s explore in the Curious Universe!
Unrealistic Expectations Are Overrated And Outdated: Here’s What Actually Works.
Whether you are a stay-at-home parent with a loving partner or a single full-time working one, the current parenting expectations are overrated and outdated! Have you ever really thought about it?
If you took all of the expectations of you as a parent in this day and age, are they truly achievable without major burnout or harm to yourself or your relationships?
These expectations are damaging, dangerous and don’t even work anyway.
Let’s explore what does work in the Curious Universe!
PS This is going to be a 3-part series, so make sure to catch the upcoming episodes!
Maintaining an image and pretending to be someone that you aren’t takes a whole lot of energy.
Have you ever been exhausted after an evening of socializing, spending time with your family, or even chatting with your coworkers? What if that draining feeling is an indication that you are NOT being you?
Being you is relaxing, honouring and quite the adventure!
But how do you even choose this undefined thing called you?
Join me and my special guests Jaco Joubert & Percy Van Den Berg in the Curious Universe!
Check out Jaco & Percy’s upcoming Being You class!
LIVE & ONLINE
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What if having physical interactions with the Earth was an honoring of your body? And of the Earth.
Our bodies are made of the Earth and have a connection to it beyond what you can imagine.
Some people feel earthquakes with their bodies, or know when the dermis of the Earth is desperate for water. Others come alive during Spring and go to resting in the Winter because they are so in sync with the Earth cycles.
There are many other physical acknowledgments that bodies have which tie directly to the Earth, yet we don’t always recognize that is what is occurring.
Tribes of old used to have a communion and an honouring of the Earth that has been forgotten by most. However in a world that pushes us to do more, produce more, work more it can feel impossible to have such a connection and honouring. But what if it is easier than you think?
Join me in the Curious Universe and let’s explore.
The beauty industry is known for creating standards of “beauty” and perfection that feed judgment, negativity and separation.
Not really the realm of kindness.
But what if that isn’t what true beauty is?
What if true beauty draws out the beauty in you?
Like a smiling baby or a stunning sunset.
What if the beautiful energies and aesthetics of the world can be a kindness? A kindness for your body, for your being, for your life.
This one is going to require us to step beyond what most of us have been taught but I believe we can, so let’s explore in the Curious Universe.
Ever have one of those weird days?
You know where you just kinda can’t seem to get anything done, or your body feels strange without a real reason, maybe you have brain fog or tiredness even though you had a good sleep.
Well then this podcast is for you.
I am going to give you a few tips and tricks to have a wonderful day even when the word seems to be pressing in on you.
Join me in the Curious Universe Podcast
Would you like to bask in the possibilities of living without reference points? Reference points are all the places where you are referencing who you were yesterday. It is making the past the source for the creation of your present and future.
But haven’t you noticed t
hat sometimes who you are changes and those reference points fall flat? Maybe you suddenly stop enjoying your favourite foods or you want an entire new wardrobe because nothing feels like you anymore.
If you had no reference points you could have infinite possibilities. Join me in the Curious Universe to explore!
PS This is a good one to bookmark for those times that you have massive change or are asking to change something in your life.
Not just kinda sorta…. but really truly, what if every point of view you have has created the reality you are in now and the reality you will step into tomorrow?
This is like hacking the matrix.
If you are willing to acknowledge that you truly are this powerful then what would you be capable of? What magic is there at your fingertips ready to be woven?
Come explore with me in the Curious Universe a different possibility with creating your life.
A guest wrote in and asked me about a parenting topic.
It is a great topic.
Her question touched on so many aspects of life where we want to gift all that we can to the people we care about. This can show up especially with our kids.
As parents you walk around with an uncontrollable aspect of you on display for all to see and judge called your kid. Now they are not actually you but how much are you judged by every action they make as though it IS you?
And in turn how aware are you of others judgment of your kids that you wish to protect them from?
It is a vicious cycle of judgment and there is a way out and a way into possibility.
Join me in the Curious Universe for some easy tools and some out of the box parenting possibilities!
I don’t know about you but I was never told that I was the creator of my life. Or I missed that class in school anyways.
In fact, I was in my 30’s when I discovered these keys to life that had so much power and practicality to them that I really don’t know how I had managed before without them.
When I started to consciously create my life everything changed.
And when I added the element of honouring myself with that (many years later) an entirely new reality showed up for me.
Please comes explore with me and my very special guest Michael Besik Ocher
for this episode of the Curious Universe.
For more with Michael Besik Ocher:
www.instagram.com/michaelocher
Autism, OCD, ADHD….
And all of the other labels!
These days people are using these lables more and more. Some stem from professional diagnosis some from self identification.
Regardless of where the label comes from my curiosity is when do the labels stop you? And when do they actually set you free?
Now I am aware that for some this is a charged topic but I invite you to release the charge, flood yourself with curiosity and explore with me.
You are safe and no one knows what true for you other than you. I wonder what more we can become aware of in the Curious Universe.
