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Co-Parenting and Coffee
Jillian Andre & Ally McArthur
38 episodes
5 days ago
Picture this...You’re sitting with your friends…other moms, who have gone through a divorce or are contemplating. Who maybe didn’t picture their lives co-parenting, but are there with you. You are sharing your stories, you are inspiring each other, validating and challenging each other through your shared experiences. You are belly laughing, tearing up, and enjoying your favorite cup of coffee all at the same time. You don’t judge each other, you empower each other to continue on your journey, to heal, and to just be you whatever that looks like. Welcome to Co-parenting and Coffee.
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Picture this...You’re sitting with your friends…other moms, who have gone through a divorce or are contemplating. Who maybe didn’t picture their lives co-parenting, but are there with you. You are sharing your stories, you are inspiring each other, validating and challenging each other through your shared experiences. You are belly laughing, tearing up, and enjoying your favorite cup of coffee all at the same time. You don’t judge each other, you empower each other to continue on your journey, to heal, and to just be you whatever that looks like. Welcome to Co-parenting and Coffee.
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Kids & Family
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Co-Parenting and Coffee
Building a Community for Women in Crisis

Keywords:

The Sparrow Collective, divorce support, women's empowerment, community housing, financial literacy, holistic wellness, nonprofit funding, collaboration, women in crisis, supportive living

Summary

In this conversation, Susan Trippi of the Sparrow Collective discusses the challenges women face during and after divorce, including financial burdens and the need for supportive communities. The Sparrow Collective aims to provide a holistic living environment for women and children impacted by divorce, offering various support services, including legal, financial, and emotional assistance. The discussion also highlights the importance of community involvement and collaboration in creating impactful solutions for women in crisis.takeaways

  • The Sparrow Collective is a response to the needs of women going through divorce.
  • Women often bear the financial burden of divorce for years.
  • Housing costs are a significant concern for women post-divorce.
  • The collective aims to provide a supportive living community for women and children.
  • Wraparound support services will be available to residents.
  • Funding for the collective comes from state, federal, and private sources.
  • The model of the collective can be replicated in other communities.
  • Community involvement is crucial for the success of the collective.
  • Women are increasingly seeking support and resources during divorce.
  • Connection and community are vital for healing and empowerment.
  • Empowering Women Through Divorce: The Sparrow Collective
  • Building a Community for Women in Crisis
  • The Financial Burden of Divorce: A Call to Action
  • "This is a significant need for women and children."
  • "We are the disruptors of the status quo."
  • "It's a game changer for us."
  • "Divorce is challenging in so many ways."
  • "We are done with that. We're not available for that."
  • "We are always open to collaborating on workshops."
  • "We all have something within us that we can contribute."


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2 weeks ago
59 minutes 9 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
ADHD and Co-parenting

Summary


In this conversation, the hosts discuss the complexities of co-parenting, particularly when one or more children have ADHD. They explore the challenges faced by parents in maintaining consistent routines and communication, the importance of structure for children with ADHD, and various strategies to support these children effectively. The discussion also highlights the significance of positive reinforcement, the need for clear communication between co-parents, and practical tools to help manage ADHD behaviors. The episode concludes with resources for parents seeking additional support.

Takeaways


Co-parenting can be challenging, especially with ADHD involved.

Routine and structure are crucial for children with ADHD.

Communication between co-parents is essential for the child's well-being.

Using positive reinforcement can motivate children to complete tasks they dislike.

Transitions between homes can be difficult for ADHD kids.

Visual aids and checklists can help children manage their routines.

It's important to model calm behavior for children.

Parents should prioritize the child's needs over personal differences.

Using timers can help children focus on tasks for short periods.

Celebrating small achievements can boost a child's confidence.

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Keywords


co-parenting, ADHD, parenting strategies, family dynamics, peaceful parenting, communication, routines, transitions, positive reinforcement, parenting tools



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1 month ago
58 minutes 30 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Espresso Shot: What is a GAL

Ally and Jill explain what a GAL in Massachusetts is and their experiences with them.

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5 months ago
12 minutes 31 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Espresso Shot: The holidays are coming!

Ally and Jill talk holidays!

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5 months ago
12 minutes 5 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
A family doesn't divorce; they restructure.

keywordsco-parenting, divorce, family restructuring, Concilium process, support systems, women's empowerment, litigation abuse, family dynamics, domestic violence, conciliation, family law, co-parenting, attorney-client relationship, guardian ad litem, legal process, empowerment, judicial system, divorcesummaryThis conversation explores the complexities of co-parenting and divorce, emphasizing the importance of support systems, the Concilium process, and the empowerment of individuals, particularly women, during and after divorce. The speakers discuss the emotional and legal challenges faced by families restructuring after divorce and the need for a holistic approach that includes legal, financial, and mental health support. In this conversation, experts discuss the complexities of domestic violence cases, the importance of shifting control to the court, and the role of attorneys in empowering clients. They explore the long-term implications of co-parenting, the function of guardian ad litem, and the cost-effectiveness of the conciliation process. The discussion emphasizes the need for a holistic approach in family law, highlighting the significance of finding trained conciliant professionals.takeaways

  • A family doesn't divorce; they restructure.
  • Divorce is a legal process, but it's not just legal.
  • Women often face financial disparities post-divorce.
  • Divorce teaches valuable life lessons.
  • Managing anxiety is crucial during divorce.
  • Support systems are essential for navigating divorce.
  • The Concilium process offers a new perspective on family restructuring.
  • Empowerment is key for individuals going through divorce.
  • Litigation abuse can be a significant issue in family law.
  • Creating a new family structure requires collaboration and understanding. Control needs to shift to the court in domestic violence cases.
  • Attorneys play a crucial role in empowering clients.
  • Judges have the ultimate authority in attorney changes.
  • Conciliation offers a new approach to family law.
  • Long-term co-parenting considerations are essential.
  • Guardian ad litem provides a voice for children.
  • The conciliation process can be cost-effective.
  • Finding the right attorney is vital for clients.
  • A common language among professionals enhances collaboration.
  • Holistic approaches in family law benefit all parties.
  • Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges
  • The Role of the Concilium Process
  • "The control needs to shift."
  • "It's a snapshot in time."
  • "It's a common language."



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5 months ago
1 hour 16 minutes 14 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Replace financial shame with a plan - advice from a professional!

co-parenting, divorce, financial planning, financial advisor, single parents, college costs, financial education, emergency funds, financial shame, support community


Summary

In this conversation, Jill and Ally discuss the complexities of co-parenting and financial challenges that arise during and after divorce. They emphasize the importance of community support, understanding financial implications, and the role of financial advisors in helping individuals navigate their new financial realities. The discussion also covers practical advice for single parents, managing expectations around college costs, and the significance of having an emergency fund. The speakers highlight the need for empathy and understanding in financial planning, especially for women who may feel overwhelmed by their circumstances.





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6 months ago
1 hour 1 second

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Co-Parenting Your LGBTQ+ Child

Summary


Hilary Smiley shares her experience of parenting a transgender child and the challenges she faced. She emphasizes the importance of early intervention and seeking help from gender clinics. Hilary discusses the medical aspect of caring for a transgender child, including puberty blockers and hormone therapy. She also talks about the emotional journey of accepting and affirming her child's gender identity. Hilary encourages parents to forgive themselves for any mistakes and to prioritize their child's happiness and well-being. The conversation explores the challenges and experiences of co-parenting a transgender child. We discuss the importance of open communication, patience, and understanding in supporting their children's gender identity. We also address common misconceptions and offer advice for parents who may be struggling to accept their child's gender identity. The conversation emphasizes the need for therapy and professional support for both the child and the parents. Overall, we highlight the importance of affirming and empowering transgender children to live their authentic lives.

Keywords


transgender, parenting, gender identity, early intervention, gender clinic, medical care, puberty blockers, hormone therapy, acceptance, emotional journey, co-parenting, transgender child, open communication, acceptance, therapy, support


Takeaways


Early intervention and seeking help from gender clinics is crucial for transgender children.

Medical professionals play a vital role in guiding parents and children through the transition process.

Parents may experience a range of emotions and challenges, but it's important to prioritize their child's happiness and well-being.

Forgiving oneself for mistakes and being open to learning and growth is essential in supporting a transgender child. Open and honest communication is crucial when co-parenting a transgender child.

Parents should be patient and understanding as their child explores their gender identity.

Therapy and professional support are essential for both the child and the parents.

Acceptance and affirmation are key to helping transgender children thrive.

Parents should educate themselves and seek resources to better understand their child's experience.

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7 months ago
56 minutes 4 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Espresso Shot: Back to School!

We discuss all things co-parenting and back to school in this short espresso shot!

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7 months ago
14 minutes 20 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Espresso Shot: Summer

In this epresso shot we discuss schedule changes, vacations, and how to manage summer break while co-parenting!


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10 months ago
11 minutes 8 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Espresso Shot: Things between houses

In this espresso shot Ally and Jill discuss their experiences with sharing clothes, toys, sports equipment between houses. They also discuss things that have worked and not worked so well for them in keeping track of the stuff!

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10 months ago
10 minutes 20 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Reclaiming my voice

A story shared from one of our listeners reclaiming her voice!


These stories are sponsored by Soberlink!

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10 months ago
3 minutes 7 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
A Conversation About Coercive Control

This very special episode covers an important and serious topic: coercive control, a form of domestic abuse. Our Coffee Date today is with advocates Larissa Crane, MSW, LICSW, MRT and Hilary Purtell. We will explore what coercive control is, how to recognize it, and what to do if you or someone you love is in a relationship with a coercive controller. Even if you have not experienced coercive control, this is a must-listen to know how to recognize it, either for your future self, or to know what to look for as you support friends and family going through a challenging relationship.

Main Points

  • Today’s Quote: “The truth is, it takes a village to get through the tough stuff in life. It doesn’t have to be a big village, but we all need people to help hold us up when life, loss, and grief knock us down.” -Michelle Deville

  • Defining coercive control

  • What to do and not to do

  • Navigating court with a coercive controller

  • Shared Story: Forgiveness and Letting Go

Coffee Date Info

Coffee Date Guest: Larissa Crane, MSW, LICSW, MRT

Coffee Date Bio: Larissa Crane is a psychotherapist and yoga teacher based in the Boston area who specializes in helping people overcome anxiety, depression, and eating disorders using a trauma-informed approach.  Her practice is dedicated to supporting "high conflict" litigants who are navigating the Massachusetts probate and family court. Larissa is highly skilled in conducting GAL (Guardian ad Litem) reports, parenting coordination services, and counseling for those who have experienced coercive control or narcissistic abuse. 

Coffee Date Guest: Hilary Purtell

Coffee Date Bio: Hilary Purtell is a professional actor, voice talent and on-camera host, and is co-director of the Jane Does Well Education and Advocacy Committee. Hilary holds a master's degree in Counseling Psychology, and writes articles about family law best practices and divorce in Massachusetts.


Coffee Date Links and Resources:


Article on janedoeswell.com:

National Domestic Violence Hotline: (800) 799-7233

National Resource Center on Domestic Violence: https://www.nrcdv.org/ 
Casa Myrna (Massachusetts): https://casamyrna.org/

Massachusetts Coercive Control Bill Information: malegislature.gov/bills/193/s1097

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11 months ago
48 minutes 4 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Stories: Heartache and Hope

This Mother shares a letter she wrote to her sons about her choice to get divorced and the heartache and hope that she knows they will share through this experience.


These Stories are sponsored by Sober link:

Lay the groundwork for brighter days ahead. Visit ⁠⁠www.soberlink.com/coffee⁠⁠ to learn more and get $50 off your device.




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11 months ago
4 minutes 54 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Mother's Day with our Moms

Ally and Jill invite their Moms on this special Mother’s Day episode.  We talk about how they managed our divorces and watching us go through such challenging times as their children.  We discussed how they felt, What was their biggest fears were, and how they feel now. 


Main Points

  • Today’s Quote: “As you prepare for all possible outcomes, may you also remember to prepare for positive outcomes, too. May you prepare yourself for good memories, good lessons, and all the little places where sunlight will come shining through.” -MHN

  • Shared Story: A letter to my sons


Special Offer From Soberlink for Co-parenting and Coffee listeners!  https://www.soberlink.com/partners/coffee

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11 months ago
42 minutes 10 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Espresso Shot: Your Ex found someone..Now what?

Jill and Ally discuss this common milestone in a co-parenting experience.

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11 months ago
11 minutes 52 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Stories: Watching your kids happiness

In this story our listener shares their experience of stepping back and recognizing their kids growth and happiness after divorce.


This episode is sponsored by Soberlink:

Lay the groundwork for brighter days ahead. Visit ⁠www.soberlink.com/coffee⁠ to learn more and get $50 off your device.


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11 months ago
7 minutes 6 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Bringing Good Energy into Your Space

One of the most empowering experiences after a split can be arranging and decorating your living space to make it your own. Our Coffee Date today is with LInda Varone, RN, MA, CFS, a former nurse who turned her passion for working with people into an interior design and Feng Shui business. We will explore how even little things can bring positive energy into your living space as you work to make it your own, whether you stayed in the home you shared with your ex or you’re settling into a new place.

Main Points

  • Today’s Quote: “Under the anger, under the fear, under the broken-heartedness, there is a radiance that has never been lost, that is the truth of who you are.” Ganaji

  • Decluttering

  • Lighting

  • Using the Ba-Gua 

  • Shared Story: The unexpected best part

Coffee Date Info

Coffee Date Guest: Linda Varone

Coffee Date Bio: Linda Varone, RN, MA, CFS, is an award-winning consultant and professional speaker awarded Boston magazine’s Best of Boston©. Heading her firm, Nurturing Spaces, for over twenty-five years, she consults and lectures nationwide on Interior Design, Interior Psychology, and Feng Shui. Linda is well known for making complex subjects accessible and entertaining. She has presented at the Boston Society of Architects – Women in Design, Harvard, MIT, the International Feng Shui Conference – San Diego, IKEA, and Cisco Systems. She has been quoted in the Boston Globe and Boston magazine. She has appeared on WCVB-TV’s Chronicle. Linda is writing a book on Interior Psychology based on her home consultations and background in psychology.

Coffee Date Links: https://www.lindavarone.com/ 

Ba-Gua:https://www.lindavarone.com/blog/ 

Special Offer From Soberlink for Co-parenting and Coffee listeners!  https://www.soberlink.com/partners/coffee


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12 months ago
45 minutes 24 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Espresso Shot: Loneliness

Divorce and Co-parenting can be very lonely. In this espresso shot we talk about what loneliness is..How we have experienced it in our process and some things we have done to combat it.

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1 year ago
11 minutes 59 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Stories: 1,000 Chances

In this story our listener shares their experience with the breakdown of a relationship struggling with addiction.


This episode is sponsored by Soberlink:

Lay the groundwork for brighter days ahead. Visit www.soberlink.com/coffee to learn more and get $50 off your device.



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1 year ago
3 minutes 28 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Co-Parenting and Addiction

Addiction in a relationship is complicated and challenging to navigate. It becomes even more complex when it is part of a divorce, custody negotiation, or during the co-parenting phase. Our Coffee Date today is with Laura Crossett, a certified drug and alcohol counselor and senior business development/outreach manager at Soberlink. We will explore how to navigate addiction as a part of your co-parenting journey, and how to help your kids through it.

Main Points

  • Today’s Quote: “You can’t save people. You can only love them while they learn how to save themselves.” - Lori Deschene

  • Coffee Date: Addiction and Co-Parenting with Laura Crossett

  • What to do if you are in a relationship with an addict

  • Available Resources including Soberlink

  • How to help your kids

  • Shared Story: 1,000 Reasons

Coffee Date Info

Coffee Date Guest: Laura Crossett

Coffee Date Bio: Laura Crossett is the Business Development/Outreach Manager at Soberlink, engaging with professionals in Addiction Recovery and Family Law to promote effective alcohol monitoring systems. Laura is a Certified Alcohol & Drug Counselor Level II (CADC-II, ICADC) with CCAPP and has a BA from the University of Colorado at Boulder.  She holds memberships with the Behavioral Health Association of Providers (BHAP), The Women's Association of Addiction Treatment (WAAT), and Treatment Professionals in Alumni Services (TPAS), underscoring her commitment to the behavioral health community. In active recovery since 2007, Laura attributes her success in maintaining long-term sobriety to a monitoring program she completed after inpatient treatment. Her firsthand experience is a testament to how valuable sober monitoring programs can be in the substance use treatment continuum of care.

Coffee Date Links: www.soberlink.com 

Instagram: @soberlink.stories

Email: lcrossett@soberlink.com 
Special Offer From Soberlink for Co-parenting and Coffee listeners!  https://www.soberlink.com/partners/coffee

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1 year ago
42 minutes 26 seconds

Co-Parenting and Coffee
Picture this...You’re sitting with your friends…other moms, who have gone through a divorce or are contemplating. Who maybe didn’t picture their lives co-parenting, but are there with you. You are sharing your stories, you are inspiring each other, validating and challenging each other through your shared experiences. You are belly laughing, tearing up, and enjoying your favorite cup of coffee all at the same time. You don’t judge each other, you empower each other to continue on your journey, to heal, and to just be you whatever that looks like. Welcome to Co-parenting and Coffee.