In this episode of 8,000 Promises, host Adi Tilford is joined by members of the Faith Collective for Truth and Healing in Adoption, including Sarah Easterly, Becca Overby, and Colin Fagan. They discuss the importance of centering adoptee and birth parent voices in adoption narratives, particularly within faith communities. The conversation delves into the complexities of adoption, the healing journey, and the role of faith in understanding and supporting adoptees and birth parents.
Content Warning: Care for your soul, this episode will talk about Suicidal ideation
Want to connect with todays guest? Here are their link's!
Sara Easterly:
https://adoptionunfiltered.com/
https://www.instagram.com/saraeasterlyauthor/
Colin Fagan:
https://www.instagram.com/colinpfagan
Beka Overby:
https://www.instagram.com/bekaoverby
Here’s a link to the Faith Collective’s web site for resources and more conversations. https://adoptionfaithcollective.org/
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Follow my writing at 8KP’s Anam Cara with Adi Tilford
Created By Adi Tilford
Produced by Tyler Tilford-Hamlin
Cover Art by Megan Henry with Mountain Roots Photography
Background Music by Ken Kuhns Jr.
In this episode of "8,000 Promises," host Adi Tilford welcomes Sally Henry, an adventurous woman in the third third of life, who shares her journey through grief, the importance of living in the present, and the power of doing the next right thing. Sally discusses her experiences with loss, finding purpose, and the significance of small, meaningful actions in everyday life.
Want to subscribe to Sally Henry’s Substack? Here are her links!
https://substack.com/@sallyhenry?utm_source=about-page
https://sallyhenry.substack.com/about
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Follow my writing at 8KP’s Anam Cara with Adi Tilford
Created By Adi Tilford
Produced by Tyler Tilford-Hamlin
Cover Art by Megan Henry with Mountain Roots Photography
Background Music by Ken Kuhns Jr.
In this heartfelt conversation, Adi Tilford hosts Michele Vrabel. They discuss the Journey of healing and Michele’s book, “Butterfly Stitches.” They explore resilience, faith, and the power of sharing stories. Michele shares with Adi her insights into her writing processes and the importance of positive child experiences in overcoming trauma.
CONTENT WARNING: Michele’s story is not easy, her story includes things like Child abuse and Sexual abuse, be prepaired to care for your soul. So if any of these topics stir up a need to stop, Honor yourself.
Want to follow Michele? Here's a link to her website https://michelevrabel.com/
Check out her first book "Butterfly Stitches" here! https://a.co/d/70G3LQ3
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Follow my writing at 8KP’s Anam Cara with Adi Tilford
Created By Adi Tilford
Produced by Tyler Tilford-Hamlin
Cover Art by Megan Henry with Mountain Roots Photography
Background Music by Ken Kuhns Jr.
In this episode of 8,000 Promises, host Adi Tilford welcomes Julie McGue, an American writer and adoptee, to discuss her latest book, "Twice the Family: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Sisterhood." The conversation delves into themes of adoption, family dynamics, and the journey of self-discovery. Julie shares her experiences of navigating closed adoption, the importance of belonging, and the healing power of storytelling.
Want to connect with Julie? Here are links to her socials!
https://www.facebook.com/juliemcguewrites
https://www.instagram.com/julieryanmcgue/
Want to read her book Twice the Family? You can purchase her book here!
https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Twice-the-Family/Julie-Ryan-McGue/9781647427863
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Follow my writing at 8KP’s Anam Cara with Adi Tilford
Created By Adi Tilford
Produced by Tyler Tilford-Hamlin
Cover Art by Megan Henry with Mountain Roots Photography
Background Music by Ken Kuhns Jr.
In this episode of the 8,000 Promises podcast, host Adi Tilford is joined by her friends, the Nerdy Bible Girls, to discuss the theme of 'Small Right Things.' They explore the significance of intentionality in everyday actions and relationships, sharing personal stories and insights on how small, right decisions can create meaningful impact. The conversation delves into the challenges of obedience, the importance of maintaining right relationships, and the role of faith in navigating life's complexities.
Want to connect with Jayme? Email her at Jaymeadams22@gmail.com
What about Tiff? Give her a follow and DM her on Instagram! @tiffanyhaifleywriter, https://www.tiffanyhaifley.com/
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Follow my writing at 8KP’s Anam Cara with Adi Tilford
Created By Adi Tilford
Produced by Tyler Tilford-Hamlin
Cover Art by Megan Henry with Mountain Roots Photography
Background Music by Ken Kuhns Jr.
In this episode of the 8,000 Promises podcast, host Adi Tilford reflects on her year-long hiatus and shares her journey of personal growth, including her experiences with homeschooling her daughter, resurrecting her passion for coaching soccer, and navigating grief within her family. She emphasizes the importance of doing small, right things in life and how these actions can create significant ripple effects. Adi also discusses the new direction of the podcast, including upcoming interviews and community-focused initiatives.
It's been almost a year since the last episode.
The podcast focuses on doing small right things.
Homeschooling has been a transformative experience.
Resurrecting dreams can lead to unexpected opportunities.
Community building is essential in youth sports.
Grief can impact our ability to create and connect.
Small actions can have big ripple effects.
The podcast will feature a variety of guests.
Listening to the spirit's promptings is important.
Creating a supportive environment for families is crucial.
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Follow my writing at 8KP’s Anam Cara with Adi Tilford
Created By Adi Tilford
Produced by Tyler Tilford-Hamlin
Cover Art by Megan Henry with Mountain Roots Photography
Background Music by Ken Kuhns Jr.
In the closing episode of 2024, the discussion with Spencer Owen delves deep into the spiritual journey of rest, Sabbath, and sabbatical. Both hosts explore personal experiences and challenges in making time for rest amidst hectic schedules. The conversation touches on the neuroscience of rest, the theological basis of Sabbath as evidenced by creation and the cross, and how true rest can serve as an act of social justice. Insights and stories reflect on dynamic and static rest, the transformational power of genuine Sabbath practices, and offer practical tips for integrating rest into daily life.
00:00 Welcome and Introduction
00:33 Reflecting on Podcasting and Dream Guests
03:09 Spencer's New Podcast Journey: Trauma Informed Church Kid
05:52 Challenges and Rewards of Podcasting
07:09 Balancing Life and New Priorities
09:35 Understanding Rest and Sabbath
10:26 The Science of Fasting and Rest
16:49 Personal Experiences with Rest
26:52 Understanding Sabbath in Christianity
27:08 God's Rest in Genesis and Its Significance
30:08 Jesus' Rest and the Completion of Creation
33:37 The Resurrection Theme in Literature and Life
35:47 The Seventh Day and Our Role as Co-Rulers
38:17 Dynamic and Static Rest in Practice
40:43 Rest as an Act of Social Justice
46:56 Personal Reflections on Practicing Rest
49:49 Conclusion and Future Plans
You can connect with Spencer through his website Renewed Life Counseling and on Facebook at Renewed Life Counseling
Podcast: churchkidpod.podbean.com
Website: www.renewedlifellc.com
Contact info: spencer@renewedlifellc.com More 8K Episodes from Spencer:
The Promise for Atonement (re-pair): with Spencer Owen
Grapple Loudly - Wrapping up Amplify: God Sees and Hears Everyone
Grapple with Forgiveness with Spencer Owen
Grappling with Dreams and Desires and their Fulfillment with Spencer Owen
The Friendship and Attachment Grapple with Spencer Owen
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
Additional Resources Mentioned:
The Holy Longing - Ronald Rolheiser
Joy Unspeakable: Contemplative Practices of the Black Church by Barbara Holmes
S8: E87 Grand Finale of Sitting with a Cynic: Rest, Reflect, Repeat with a Christian and an Agnostic
In the grand finale of the 8KP podcast, host Adi is joined by her friend and brother-in-law, Casey Rippy, for a heartfelt discussion on rest, Sabbath, and sabbatical. They reflect on the importance of taking time off to recharge and explore personal anecdotes related to napping and taking breaks from the daily grind. Casey shares his perspective on the necessity of dedicating a day each week to relaxation, his thoughts on how sabbaticals should ideally be away from home, and the rejuvenating power of nature. The episode underscores the value of rest in maintaining mental and emotional well-being and invites listeners to share their experiences and insights on the topic.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:39 Reflecting on the Podcast Journey
01:54 Discussing Rest and Napping
05:40 The Importance of Sabbath
10:19 Family Dynamics and Rest
18:38 Understanding Sabbatical
25:57 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell
8KP Episodes with Casey (Our 8KP Cynic)
Friends beyond Faith - Series 7 From Football to Family:Casey’s (Our 8KP Cynic) Dream Evolution - Series 6
Sitting with a Cynic: A Christian and an Agnostic Figure out Forgiveness (Or do they?) - Series 5
A Christian and an Agnostic Walk into a Bar… Sitting with a Cynic - Series 4
Find Casey at https://www.facebook.com/casey.rippy/
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
In this episode of 8000 Promises, Adi welcomes Pamela, a long-time ministry leader and empty nest coach, to discuss the importance and practice of rest, Sabbath, and sabbatical. Pamela shares her personal experiences with power napping and the shift towards embracing true rest amidst a busy lifestyle. The conversation touches on various aspects, including the cultural resistance to rest, strategies for incorporating Sabbath into one's life, and the profound spiritual and relational benefits that come from slowing down. Additionally, Pamela offers insight into her work supporting mothers transitioning to empty nests and provides valuable resources for cultivating a restful and fulfilling midlife phase.
00:00 Introduction and Warm Welcome
00:41 Funny Napping Stories
02:29 The Importance of Rest
04:23 Pamela's Personal Journey
10:09 Defining Rest
16:33 Embracing Sabbath
22:33 Finding Joy in Simple Moments
23:12 Choosing the Right Day for Sabbath
24:27 Encouragement for Starting a Sabbath Practice
25:12 Understanding God's Heart in Rest
26:22 The Gift of Rest and God's Love
28:23 Embracing the Empty Nest
35:45 Trusting God with Your Children
37:51 The Importance of Trust and Faith
42:55 Pamela's Coaching and Resources
44:32 The Delight of Sabbath Rest
Connect with Pamela:
Website: https://pamelahenkelman.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/phenkelman
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pamelahenkemanmidlifemindsetcoach
The Midlife Momma Podcast: https://pamelahenkelman.com/podcast
Free Discovery Session: https://calendly.com/pamelahenkelman/consultation-with-coach
Freebie from Pamela: Your Kids Are Grown...Now What?
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
More resources mentioned in the episode:Tara Lee Coble - Bible Recap
Bema Discipleship Podcast Episode 1
Monument Presbyterian Church Sabbath Summer Series 2022 - look for more sermons by date
Novena of Surrender Day 1
In this episode, hosts Adi and Tiff welcome Marty Solomon, the creator and executive producer of the Bema Discipleship Podcast and president of Impact Campus Ministries. The discussion centers around the concepts of Sabbath, rest, and sabbaticals. Marty shares insights about his own journey with Sabbath, including his personal struggles with anxiety and the importance of surrender. They also explore the Biblical roots of Sabbath, discuss the complexities of integrating rest into modern life, and touch upon the relationship between Sabbath, rest, healing and forgiveness. Marty emphasizes the importance of being gracious with oneself and others while practicing Sabbath.
00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Marty Solomon
00:31 The Origin of Nerdy Bible Girls
01:28 Discussing Rest, Sabbath, and Napping
03:07 Marty Solomon's Background and Work
06:22 Exploring the Biblical Library and Asking Better Questions
08:41 Understanding Sabbath and Its Importance
17:45 Forgiveness and Its Connection to Sabbath
24:16 Heartfelt Reflections on Jesus
24:55 Grappling with Sabbath and Sabbatical
25:34 Personal Experiences with Sabbatical
27:40 The Social Fabric of Sabbath and Sabbatical
32:33 Implementing Sabbath and Sabbatical in Modern Life
35:50 Reflections on Personal Growth and Spiritual Practices
45:49 Parenting and Sabbath Practices
48:09 Concluding Thoughts on Rest and Sabbath
Keywords
rest, Sabbath, sabbatical, BEMA podcast, Bible, Jesus, creation, trust, forgiveness, social realities, Sabbath, sabbatical, justice, privilege, social strata, Torah, radical social structure, biblical, rest, facilitation, learnings, reflections
More from Marty Solomon: martysolomon.com.
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
More Resources from this conversation
Asking Better Questions of the Bible by Marty Solomon
In this conversation, Adi Tilford and Sally Henry discuss the importance of rest and Sabbath. They explore the cultural messages around productivity and the need to constantly be doing something. They also discuss the role of rest in sustainability and balance, and how it allows us to have a more realistic perspective of our role in the world. Sally emphasizes the importance of checking out from work and responsibilities and taking time to rest and recharge. They also touch on the idea of seasons and how there are times when we need more rest and times when we need less. Rest is essential for growth, healing, and recovery. It rejuvenates us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Jesus modeled the importance of rest by stopping and allowing life to be interrupted. Rest is a rebellion against our go-go culture. It is a time to reset, recover, and think clearly. Rest is a need that should be met, just like any other need. When we embrace rest, beautiful things can come out of it. We need to prioritize rest and allow ourselves to be refreshed.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Sally Back
07:22 The Power of Reflection and the Necessity of Rest
13:12 Challenging Cultural Messages around Productivity
17:44 Rest as a Source of Recovery and Freedom
23:46 Putting Rest in Perspective and Honoring Seasons
28:41 The Power of Rest for Growth and Healing
32:21 Embracing Rest as a Rebellion Against Our Culture
35:12 The Need for Rest: Prioritizing Refreshment
38:33 Rest: A Pathway to Clarity and Recovery
41:34 Rest: A Key Ingredient for Beautiful Transformation
Keywords: rest, Sabbath, recovery, productivity, balance, sustainability, cultural messages, perspective, seasons, rest, growth, healing, recovery, rejuvenation, interruption, rebellion, reset, recovery, clarity, need, prioritize, refresh
More 8KP from Sally Henry
Read Sally’s Essay The Henry Adventure
Connect with Sally on Instagram Living in the Kingdom for Real
Living in the Kingdom for Real
Dreams, Desires and Devine Choreography
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
In this enlightening conversation, Adi Tilford welcomes Rebecca Anthony, a long-time friend and spiritual director, to explore the concepts of rest, Sabbath, and sabbatical. Rebecca shares her personal journey and powerful encounters with Jesus during moments of rest. She provides practical advice on how to incorporate Sabbath practices into a full life, emphasizing the importance of rest as a gift from God rather than an earned reward. Rebecca also discusses how her new business, Peaceful Homes, aims to bring peace and organization into families' lives through intentional rest and decluttering. This episode offers valuable insights and practical tips for anyone looking to deepen their spiritual practice of rest and experience the transformative power of Sabbath.
00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Rebecca
01:04 Rebecca's Rest Story
02:50 Spiritual Encounters and Rest
09:59 Defining Rest, Sabbath, and Sabbatical
20:36 Personal Reflections on Rest and Resistance
25:54 Introduction to Sabbath Practices
26:14 Rebecca's Family Journey with Sabbath
27:57 Implementing Sabbath Rest
31:15 Challenges and Reflections on Sabbath
35:17 Practical Tips for Starting Sabbath
48:38 Creating a Peaceful Home
50:25 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement
Connect with Rebecca Anthony: RebeccaDAnthony@gmail.com
Rebecca’s Journal Prompts for Creating/Resetting: A Sabbath Rest Day
1. If you don’t currently have times in your calendar where you rest, what roadblocks come up for you when you consider incorporating rest into your schedule? What may be the most challenging aspect for you?
2. What are words you would use to describe yourself when you aren’t intentionally taking time to rest and get replenished? What distracts you from resting?
3. Ask God if He is inviting you to intentionally take one day a week to rest from work. If so, ask him which day, and/or time periods, would be best for you and your family. Does the day you currently rest on, still work best for you and/or you and your family?
4. What will you do on your Sabbath rest times and your dedicated day to rest? Make a list of the life giving, healing and restorative activities/practices that you’re curious about including in your week. Consider how you, and/or you and your family can rest with Jesus and worship him throughout your week. Ask yourself, what brings my soul joy and delight.
5. What will you exclude on your Sabbath rest day?
6. Ask your family members what they’d love to do on their sabbath rest day.
Rebecca’s Favorite Meditation Apps:
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Additional Resources:
John Mark Comer - The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
The Next Right Thing Guided Journal Emily P. Freeman
Resting Well This Summer with John Eldredge (TSF)
You Are More than You’ve Been Told an interview with Hosanna Wong
S8: E:82: The challenge to rest in a culture of busy with the Nerdy Bible Girls
In this conversation, the Nerdy Bible Girls discuss the importance of rest, Sabbath, and sabbatical. They share personal experiences and stories related to napping and the challenges of finding time to rest in a busy culture. They explore the different definitions of rest, Sabbath, and sabbatical, highlighting the need for physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual rest. The conversation emphasizes the importance of silence and solitude as practices that can lead to rest for the soul. They also discuss the concept of retreat as a reset and a way to find rest in God. Rest, Sabbath, and sabbatical are important practices that allow us to find renewal and connect with God. It can be challenging to let go of our plans and embrace rest, but it is necessary for our well-being. Resting our bodies and minds in different ways is important, and activities like running, painting, walking, swimming, and playing can all be restful. Sabbath is a gift from God and can be practiced in different ways, honoring each person's schedule and needs. It is a time to delight in God, play, worship, and give God the best of our day. Sabbath is not about legalism, but about surrendering to God and trusting that He can do the work we are not doing. Sabbath can also include the gift of sexual intimacy with our spouse. It is important to find what brings us delight and rest, and to invite others to join us in Sabbath practices.
Chapters
01:03 Upcoming Guests and Topics
02:00 Reflecting on Summer and the Need for Rest
04:23 Finding Rest in Unconventional Places
06:19 Personal Experiences of Rest and Grieving
07:03 Funny Napping Stories
09:03 Napping as a Spiritual Practice
10:12 Challenges of Resting and People-Pleasing
15:00 Napping and Resting in Different Life Stages
18:10 Napping and Resting for Parenting
22:11 Resting in God and Finding Rest for the Soul
24:17 The Importance of Silence and Solitude
26:05 Resting in Music and the Concept of Retreat
26:59 Resting as a Reset and Joining God's Pace
27:58 The Challenge of Rest
28:28 The Cultural Pressure of Productivity
31:22 The Difficulty of Turning Off
34:48 Different Desires for Sabbatical
37:02 Planning and Not Planning
38:23 Resting the Body and Engaging the Mind
43:41 The Gift of Sabbath
47:23 Surrendering and Trusting
57:58 Restful Activities: Walking
59:22 Restful Activities: Swimming
01:00:20 Restful Activities: Playing
01:01:10 The Gift of Intimacy
Keywords: rest, Sabbath, sabbatical, napping, challenges, culture, definitions, physical rest, emotional rest, mental rest, spiritual rest, silence, solitude, retreat, reset, pace, rest, Sabbath, sabbatical, renewal, well-being, plans, embrace, bodies, minds, running, painting, walking, swimming, playing, gift, God, delight, worship, surrender, trust, work, legalism, sexual intimacy, spouse, practices
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
You can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Want to connect with Jayme? Email her at Jaymeadams22@gmail.com
What about Tiff? Give her a follow and DM her on instagram! @tiffanyhaifleywriter,
https://www.tiffanyhaifley.com/
Resources Mentioned:
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry - John Mark Comer
More Nerdy Bible Girl Episodes:
Intro to the Nerdy Bible Girls
Amplify: God Sees & Hears Every ONE
Unpacking Forgiveness: A Journey with the Nerdy Bible Girls
These Dreams We Have: Faith, Dreams and Real Life with the Nerdy Bible Girls S6:E:68
On Friendship: From Sparkling Cider to Spiritual Wisdom with the Nerdy Bible Girls S7:E:77
In this conversation, Adi Tilford and Spencer Owen discuss unexpected friendships that formed during the COVID-19 pandemic and the challenges of making and maintaining friendships. They explore the idea of reconstructing religion for those who have experienced spiritual trauma and the need for trauma-informed theology. They discuss the division and polarization in society and the role of the church in promoting love and unity. They also touch on the importance of setting realistic expectations in friendships and the need for inner work and attachment healing. The conversation explores the importance of secure attachment and feedback loops in building healthy relationships. It emphasizes the need for individuals to feel safe within themselves and with God in order to form secure attachments with others. The discussion also highlights the idea that God not only loves us but also likes us, and that building a secure sense of self starts with our relationship with God. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the importance of play and rest in our lives.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and COVID-19 Friendship Stories
07:48 The Challenges of Division and Animosity
14:00 Grapples with Friendship and Loneliness
21:27 The Biblical Perspective on Friendship and Acceptance
26:37 Attachment Styles and Realistic Expectations
29:15 The Importance of Inner Work and Therapy
35:22 Building Secure Attachments and Feeling Safe
45:45 Understanding God's Love and Liking for Us
56:28 The Transformative Power of Felt Safety
01:06:12 Play as a Spiritual Practice and Joining God in His Work
01:09:24 Introduction and Podcast Announcement
01:11:04 Reconstructing Religion for the Hurting
01:11:33 A Trauma-Informed Perspective on the Bible
01:12:01 Ending Each Episode with Clarity and Understanding
Keywords: podcast, support, friendship, trauma-informed, theology, division, unity, expectations, inner work, attachment healing, secure attachment, feedback loops, safety, relationship with God, play, rest
You can connect with Spencer through his website Renewed Life Counseling and on Facebook at Renewed Life Counseling
Watch the Live Video of this Conversation on Facebook
More from Spencer:
The Promise for Atonement (re-pair): with Spencer Owen
Grapple Loudly - Wrapping up Amplify: God Sees and Hears Everyone
Grapple with Forgiveness with Spencer Owen
Grappling with Dreams and Desires and their Fulfillment with Spencer Owen
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
In this episode of '8,000 Promises,' Casey returns for his fourth conversation. Adi, the Christian, and Casey, the Agnostic, delve into the complexities of friendship across differing religious beliefs, exploring whether Christians and agnostics can maintain authentic relationships. They humorously dissect Biblical stories, discuss respectful dialogues, and share personal insights on living out faith authentically. The episode also teases an upcoming discussion on rest and Sabbath before taking a brief hiatus.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Goal
00:40 Discussing Conversion and Friendship
02:30 Respect in Interfaith Friendships
06:12 Living Out Faith Authentically
12:44 Challenges of Understanding Religious Texts
21:09 Humorous Take on Biblical Stories
22:09 The Beloved Disciple and the Race
22:46 Jesus and the Adulterous Woman
24:00 Debate on Ancestry and Divinity
26:05 Heavenly Reflections and Humor
28:19 Crafting Comedy from Scripture
31:38 The Bro Voice and Pop Culture
35:23 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Topics
Keywords: Friendship, Podcasting, Religious belief / Christianity, ConversionAuthentic conversations, Humor / Comedy, Jesus and scripture, Friendship dynamics, Podcasting about faith, Christian podcasts,Exploring conversion in modern faith, Authentic friendships across beliefs, Humor in religious conversations, Jesus in modern storytelling, Faith-based discussions, Religious belief clash, Christian teachings, Agnostic perspectives, Interfaith friendships
8KP Episodes with Casey (Our 8KP Cynic)
From Football to Family:Casey’s (Our 8KP Cynic) Dream Evolution - Series 6
Sitting with a Cynic: A Christian and an Agnostic Figure out Forgiveness (Or do they?) - Series 5
A Christian and an Agnostic Walk into a Bar… Sitting with a Cynic - Series 4
Find Casey at https://www.facebook.com/casey.rippy/
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
This episode of 8000 Promises features the Evans sisters—Molly, Emily, and Abby—co-hosts of the podcast 'Word with the Girls'. They discuss the dynamics of their sisterly friendship, unexpected friendships formed through life experiences, and how their podcast fosters deeper conversations and relationships. The sisters share insights on how to nurture sibling relationships, addressing challenges in different life seasons, and the importance of creating safe relational spaces. They also discuss summer plans focused on play and reconnecting with both nature and important people in their lives.
00:00 Welcome to 8,000 Promises with the Evans Sisters
01:11 Unexpected Friendships: Molly's Story
03:09 Unexpected Friendships: Emily's Story
04:53 Unexpected Friendships: Abby's Story
07:07 Getting to Know the Evans Sisters
14:07 Defining Friendship and Sibling Bonds
27:44 Navigating Friendship in Different Life Seasons
29:35 Navigating Disappointment in Friendships
30:27 Therapy and Values in Friendships
30:56 Motherhood and Friendships
31:23 Defining Friendship Expectations
32:39 Vulnerability and Depth in Friendships
34:36 Challenges of Finding Community
35:31 Military Life and Community
37:38 Building Deep Connections
48:39 Podcasting and Strengthening Bonds
54:04 Summer Plans and Play
Other Resources:
8KP Episode 54: He’s Always Been Faithful with Guest Writer Molly Evans
You can listen to A Word With the Girls podcast:
https://open.spotify.com/show/4ma45liWALp3Wv904OxjQb?si=0zAvMlBzRti2xrUO3p6F9Q
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In this episode of 8000 Promises' the focus is on friendship and community. Adi Tilford and her friends Ondi and Nancy, discuss their personal journeys and insights on establishing and maintaining meaningful connections. Ondi, a mother and writer, shares her proactive approach to building friendships, while Nancy, who has faced challenges with social anxiety, speaks candidly about her experiences and progress. The conversation also explores the definitions of friendship and community, the value of consistent engagement, and how these relationships contribute to personal healing. The episode concludes with a discussion on the importance of play and how each plans to incorporate it into their summer.
00:00 Introduction to the Episode
00:43 Meet the Guests: Ondi and Nancy
04:35 Unexpected Friendships
08:55 Defining Friendship and Community
10:40 Engaging in Community
20:17 Personal Challenges in Building Friendships
23:28 Struggles with Social Anxiety
24:48 Ted's Influence and Overcoming Fear
28:01 The Role of Consistency and Community
29:34 Healing Through Relationships
38:15 The Spiritual Discipline of Playing
42:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Keywords: friendship, community, engage,investment in friendships, unexpected friendships, healing through friendships, spirituality and friendships
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8KP Episodes with Ondi:
Little Yeses Go A Long Way - Season 1
Surprise: God’s Promise for Friendship - Season 2
Your Words Defeat the Enemy (Ignite Insight) - Series 4
You can connect with Nancy on instagram at my.unphotoshopped.life and on Tiktok at my.unphotoshopped.life and on her website https://myunphotoshoppedlife.com/
8KP Episodes with Nancy:
You are Not as Bad as You Think Because God is Better than you Know - Season 2
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Join Adi Tilford, along with her Nerdy Bible Girls co-hosts Tiff Haithley and Jamie Adams, as they dive into a heartfelt discussion on unexpected friendships, the lessons they bring, and the importance of being present in each other's lives. In this episode, they share personal stories of unlikely connections and reflect on maintaining meaningful relationships amidst life's chaos.
Introduction: Welcoming Words
Prayer and Purpose
Unexpected Friendships
Jayme's Tale: Virginia, the Retired Nun
Tiff's Unexpected Friendship
Adi's Story: Wylene, the Elder Mentor
Insights on Friendships and Grieving
Jesus, Friendships, and Compassion
Maintaining and Letting Go
The Depth of Presence
Season of Play
Conclusion: The Value of Friendship
Keywords: friendship, unexpected friendships, growth, change, grieving, letting go, joy, pain, losses, grief, healing, joy, friendship, pain, testimony, play, balance, vulnerability
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Resources Mentioned:
Christine Caine clip about friendship
Parker Palmer- Let Your Life Speak
Do the New You by Stephen Furtick
You have a Stunning Capacity to Do Hard Things! Sadie Robertson Huff & Katherine Wolf
Through the Eyes of a Lion: Facing Impossible Pain, Finding Incredible Power by Levi Lusco
More Nerdy Bible Girl Episodes:
Intro to the Nerdy Bible Girls
Amplify: God Sees & Hears Every ONE
Unpacking Forgiveness: A Journey with the Nerdy Bible Girls
These Dreams We Have: Faith, Dreams and Real Life with the Nerdy Bible Girls S6:E:68
In this episode, Adi Tilford shares the third and final part of the therapeutic story called 'Born to be Queen'. The story follows a woman who learns valuable lessons from a gardener after a childhood marked by unwanted experiences in the desert. In part III, the woman embarks on a journey through the desert, facing her fears and discovering her true identity. She eventually finds the golden crown she was given at birth and realizes that she was born to be queen. Adi Tilford also mentions upcoming episodes on the topic of friendship.
Keywords: therapeutic story, healing, Jesus, ministry, life on earth, identity, journey, desert, fear, truth, crown, queen, friendship
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In this episode of the 8000 Promises series on dreams and desires, Adi and Spencer Owen, who brings his expertise in scripture and neuroscience, delve deep into the nature of dreams, desires, and their spiritual and psychological impacts. They explore the challenges of trusting God, dealing with unmet needs, and understanding how our desires align with our identity and spiritual growth. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural analysis, they discuss the balance between contentment and longing, the process of maturing spiritually, and the importance of recognizing our limitations. The episode concludes with a discussion on gratitude and the transformative power of aligning ourselves with God's desire for us.
00:00 Introduction to Dreams and Desires
01:27 Spencer's Childhood Dreams
04:49 Connecting Childhood Dreams to Adult Life
09:09 Theological Reflections on Desires
19:05 Parental Reflections and Spiritual Growth
28:06 Balancing Contentment and Desire
28:44 Exploring Incarnational Theology
29:13 The Role of Anger and Forgiveness
31:41 Trusting God Amidst Fear and Scarcity
36:51 The Courageous Work of Counseling
38:56 Learning to Trust and Let Go
40:33 The Process of Spiritual Transformation
57:05 The Importance of Gratitude
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Keywords: childhood dreams, desires, impact, theology, identity, contentment, longing, maturity, growth, fulfillment, trust, fear of death, scarcity mindset, surrender, desires, dreams, faithfulness, gratitude
You can connect with Spencer through his website Renewed Life Counseling and on Facebook at Renewed Life Counseling
Watch the Live Video of this Conversation on Facebook
More from Spencer:
The Promise for Atonement (re-pair): with Spencer Owen
Grapple Loudly - Wrapping up Amplify: God Sees and Hears Everyone
Grapple with Forgiveness with Spencer Owen
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!
