• Food

Living abroad made me appreciate Japanese food even more.

• Language

I catch myself saying things like „nicht schlecht“ (“not bad”) and complaining more often — just like many Germans do.

• Fashion

In Japan, I used to wear colorful clothes, but now my style is simpler and more practical.

[ Word of the Day ]

trist (adj.) — gloomy, dull, or depressing

e.g.Das Wetter ist heute trist.The weather is gloomy today.

From a Mid-Sized Town to Düsseldorf

・Why we decided to move

・How the moving process went

Comparing Our New City and the Old One

・Pros and cons of living in a smaller town

・Pros and cons of living in a big city

Looking Ahead: Our Future Life in Germany

・How we want to live from now on

[ Word of the Day ]

die Lebenshaltungskosten (living costs / cost of living)
= the total amount of money needed to cover basic expenses such as housing, food, transportation, and other everyday needs

e.g.
Die Lebenshaltungskosten in Großstädten sind oft deutlich höher als auf dem Land.
(The cost of living in big cities is often significantly higher than in the countryside.)

Our discussion points:

1: Our Progress with Learning German/Japanese

2: Which Language is Harder: German or Japanese?

3: Pronunciation and Accent Challenges

5: How to Stay Motivated

6: Future Goals

[ Word of the Day ]

das Piktogramm (pictogram)

= a symbol that conveys meaning through a simple image

e.g.

Piktogramme werden verwendet, um ohne Worte zu kommunizieren.

(Pictograms are used to communicate without words.)

Our discussion points:

1: Wedding Day Reflections

2: Post-Wedding Administrative Tasks

3: Life as a Married International Couple in Germany

4: Future Plans: Living Between Japan and Germany

[ Word of the Day ]

die gesetzliche Krankenversicherung

public health insurance

e.g.

Ich habe eine gesetzliche Krankenversicherung.(I have public health insurance.)

Our discussion points:

1: Food

2: Work Culture & Life Balance

3: People & Social Norms

4: Weather & Nature

5: Politics, Healthcare

[ Word of the Day ]

introvertiert (introverted) adjective
describes a person who is inward-turning, reserved, or focused on internal thoughts and feelings rather than external stimulation.

e.g.

Maria ist eher introvertiert und zieht es vor, ihre Freizeit mit einem guten Buch zu verbringen.
(Maria is rather introverted and prefers to spend her free time with a good book.)

[ Word of the Day ]

der Trauzeuge / die Trauzeugin (witness to a marriage)

📝 Episode Outline

Marriage Procedures in Germany

 - documents we needed in Japan

 - procedure we needed to do in Germany

Differences between marriage procedures in Japan and Germany

 - comparisons with Japanese procedures

Preparation for our marriage ceremony

 - dress, flowers, music and so on…

[ Word of the Day ]

die Rivalität (rivalry)

competition for the same objective or for superiority in the same field

e.g.

Es gibt eine Rivalität zwischen Deutschland und Frankreich

(There is a rivalry between Germany and France)

Purpose of the Trip

・What we did in London

・Food / Restaurant

New Discoveries in London

・London drinking culture

・People in London

・I love big cities

・English jokes

Comparing Cultures: London vs. Germany & Japan

・American person we met

・German stare

【a word of the day】

die Haftpflichtversicherung

(liability insurance)

Apartment Hunting in Germany vs. Japan

-How to find an apartment in German and in Japan?

-How does typical German and Japanese apartment look like

How Renting Works in Germany and Japan

-The landlord system in Germany

-The agency system in Japan

Troubles in Renting

-Recent issues we've faced

-Tips for renting in Germany

Our Story

-Brief summary of us

Good Things About an International Couple

-From Patrick’s perspective & Yukari’s perspective

Challenges of an International Couple

-Differences in language, expression, and so on

-Misunderstandings

-Cost a lot

Long Distance

-The hardest thing about long distance

-Patrick’s regret

-F*ck romance!?

Tips for Other Couples

-PLAN EVERYTHING

-TELL YOUR WISH

Our Personal Fashion Journey in Japan and Germany

-What does Patrick think about Japanese fashion

-What does Yukari think about German fashion

-Initial style challenges & changes after moving to Germany

German Fashion Trends

-How climate and lifestyle influence fashion choices

Japanese Fashion Trends

・Popular trends (Y2K)

Episode Outline (Talking Points):

Family Relationshop

・Old and modern typical German vs. Japanese families dynamics

Family Gatherings & Traditions

・German Christmas vs. Japanese New Year

Communication Styles

・Japanese families don't communicate?!

・Do overly strong family relationships hinder children's development?

First Visit in Japan

・How and why Patrick first came to Japan

・Cultural shocks and first impressions

Meeting Yukari in Japan

・How we met

・"I love you" on the first date

・Dating culture in Japan vs. Germany

Later Visits to Japan

・ Where we went and what we did during those visits

・Favorite city

・Japan is colder than in Germany?

Word of the Day

”Papierkram”

It is typically used without an article in German, as it refers to the cumbersome and tedious paperwork or administrative tasks, often associated with bureaucracy.

Ich habe den ganzen Tag mit Papierkram verbracht.

(I spent the whole day doing paperwork.)

1 Differences from pre-German expectations

Initial image

Reality

2 Culture shock

Weather

Unfriendliness

3 Similarities between Germany and Japan

・Are we both a bit shy?

・Following rules

4 Germany vs. Japan: Pros & Cons

・Better work-life balance in 🇩🇪

・Good food and great customer service in 🇯🇵

5 Our plans for the future

・Where to settle?

1. Self-Introductions & German Learning Background

・When I started learning German.

・Why I study German.

・How Patrick supports my learning.

2. Typical & Funny Mistakes

・My biggest mistake.

・Funny mistakes Patrick found in my German.

3. My Learning Goals and Learning Tips

・My goals for learning German in 2025.

・Tips for learning