Welcome to the very first episode of the You’re Too Picky podcast—the dating podcast for women who are done pretending their standards are the problem.
In this kickoff episode, your host Ellyn (coach, creator, and certified dating app survivor) breaks down the myth of being "too picky"—what it really means, who gets to say it, and why that label might actually be a badge of honor.
We’re talking:
Why “too picky” is usually code for “you won’t settle”
The difference between clarity and control
When high standards are rooted in self-worth—and when they might be fear in disguise
Sneak peeks at upcoming segments like “Red Flag or Nah?”, the “Too Picky Hotline,” and “Dating App Fails”
Why this isn’t a fixer podcast—and why that’s exactly the point
If you’ve ever ghosted someone for weird shoes (hi, same), questioned your standards, or felt like no one around you gets it—this podcast is your new favorite group chat.
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🎧 New episodes drop every Friday—come be picky with us.