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Your Mess or Mine?
Mel
31 episodes
2 days ago
” Your Mess or Mine?” is a podcast that dives into the full spectrum of relationships - family, friends, work, and romance. We've expanded beyond dating to explore every dynamic that shapes our lives. Through real stories, expert insight, and listener questions, we help you navigate the messiness of human connection with understanding and growth.
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” Your Mess or Mine?” is a podcast that dives into the full spectrum of relationships - family, friends, work, and romance. We've expanded beyond dating to explore every dynamic that shapes our lives. Through real stories, expert insight, and listener questions, we help you navigate the messiness of human connection with understanding and growth.
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Episodes (20/31)
Your Mess or Mine?
Date Night or Me Night?

Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode has something for you! Will and I are sharing fun date ideas, creative gifts, and ways to treat yourself—because love isn’t just for couples. From unique experiences to solo adventures, we’ve got you covered.

Tune in as we break down the best ways to make memories whether it’s with someone special or just with yourself. Because who says you need an occasion to celebrate love?

🎧 Listen now and get inspired for your next great date—or the ultimate self-care night!

Topics: Gift ideas for special occasions/Valentine's Day for singles and couples.

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at

 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

 

Dance Classes from Diva Dance - https://divadancecompany.com/locations/arlington-texas/

Workout Classes from Wise World of Fitness - https://www.wiseworld.fit/

NY Pizzeria NRH - https://www.nyorkpizzeria.com/

 


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9 months ago
38 minutes 39 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
The Dating Draft: Buiding your dream partner one trait at a time

In this playful episode we're diving into the ultimate fantasy draft-but make it dating! Join us as we build our dream partners, one hilarious and quirky trait at a time. From personality must-haves to ridiculous red flags we're somehow willing to overlook, no trait is off-limits.

Plus, we ask YOU the listeners to share your dream traits and dating apps must-haves. Did your submission make it onto the show?

It's light, fun, and maybe just a little revealing...so grab your headphones and draft along with us!

Send us your dream partners and let us know whose lineup you think wins the draft.

1. Personality traits 2. Hobbies & interests 3. Skills & abilities 4. Physical quirks 5. Red flags 6. Wildcards

Topics: Red Flags, emotional intelligence, love bombing, and frankenboyfriend/frankengirlfriend. @coachryan

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at

 https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

 

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9 months ago
56 minutes 6 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Office Affairs & Toxic Chairs

Should you date a coworker? Or is it a one-way ticket to drama-ville?And what about toxic workplaces-how do you protect yourself when the problem is bad management?

Will and I spill the tea on workplace relationships and listeners share their insights on the subject.

Will and I also give you the tools you need, and practical tips to prioritize your well-being in a toxic work environment.

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com, yourmessormine@gmail.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at

 https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

If you'd like to check out the AMAZING dentists I mentioned here's their links:

https://www.colleyvilledentistry.com/

https://www.whittledentistry.com/

 

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10 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes 32 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Silent Nights, Not Silent Fights

The holidays are a time for joy, connection, and celebration-but let's be real, they can also come with their fair share of challenges.

This week, Will and I sit down with our guest Tatiana, who shares her story about dealing with her cousin's toxic girlfriend. With her birthday/Christmas party coming up at her grandma's house, Tatiana opens up about her fears and struggles to keep the peace while protecting her joy.

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at

https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

 

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11 months ago
42 minutes 57 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Getting Real With Will

AND I'M BACK WITH YOUR NEW CO-HOST WILL!!!!


Will and I discuss real struggles in attempting to date as an introvert, mending relationships, and how you can feel stuck when you're in an abusive relationship.

Domestic violence hotline: 800-799-7233


If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send me a message at

 https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

 

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11 months ago
54 minutes 15 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Breadcrumbing

SEASON 2 FINALE - Gabriel, Vikki, and I discuss our experiences with breadcrumbing.

Topics: Breadcrumbing, proper etiquette when scheduling a date, double booking, ghosting, place holders, and dating apps.

Speed dating event we hope to see you at: https://www.facebook.com/share/r/UcaViqjoRDyCTTib/

If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/



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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes 25 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Dumped or Discarded?

Gabriel and I discuss the difference between being broken up with and being discarded.

Topics: Cuffing season, avoidant attachment, narcissists, discard phase, talk therapy, getting over a breakup.

If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

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1 year ago
28 minutes 23 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Going The Distance

Gabriel and I interview Ashely as she shares her experience in her very new relationship.

Although the distance is what ended her previous relationship she's hoping this new one will go the distance for her.

Topics: Dating long distance, dating as a single parent, and new relationships.

*Ashley was also on season 2 episode 3 during one of the live interview clips. * If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/


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1 year ago
44 minutes 22 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Relationship Roadmap - 4 tips for navigating new territory

Topics: New relationships, including how to introduce your child to someone you're dating.


Belinda and I share 4 expert tips on how to navigate a new relationship.


If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send us a message at: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/⁠



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1 year ago
17 minutes 28 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
The Pros & Cons of Delayed Intimacy
Topics: Unveiling the 3-month rule. Weighing the benefits and drawbacks of delaying intimacy. Gabriel and I explore four pros and cons of waiting three months for intimacy...timing matters. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/
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1 year ago
48 minutes 6 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Narcissistic Abuse - Recognizing & Healing

Topics: Narcissistic abuse, trauma bond, signs of a narcissist.

Belinda and I share our experiences being in a relationship with a narcissist, how we recognized it was toxic, and our journey through the process.

If you are in an abusive relationship and need someone to talk to please call the *National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233*

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send us a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/ App for daily affirmations: Premium Motivation


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1 year ago
57 minutes 35 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Overthinking
Topics: overthinking text messages, toxic relationships, breakups, and how to help calm an overthinker. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send us a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/
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1 year ago
34 minutes 58 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
To text or not to text

Topics: texting etiquette, co-dependency, working on personal development, overthinking text messages, and being secure in yourself. Personal trainer: Jos Wise

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

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1 year ago
38 minutes 9 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Best & Worst Of First Dates - Live

Men and women share their stories of best and worst first dates - live from The Archibald

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

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1 year ago
27 minutes 23 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
To ghost or not to ghost

Topics: Ghosting, attachment styles, and calling it quits.

Gabriel and I talk about our thoughts on ghosting and having open communication.

Book: Attachment Theory https://a.co/d/hsixcKK

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send us a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

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1 year ago
34 minutes 57 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Do's and Don'ts of first dates

Topics: Phone etiquette, drinking, and appropriate conversations. Gabriel and I discuss the dos & don'ts that have been helpful for us over the years for our first dates.


If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/


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1 year ago
38 minutes 55 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Season 2 Trailer
Season 2 details with my PERMANENT co-host Gabriel.
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1 year ago
46 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Unapologetically Autistic & Dating

A single guy shares his experience dating on the spectrum.

Topics: Dating with Autism/ADHD, catfishing, and dating apps.

If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

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1 year ago
58 minutes 34 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Once a cheater always a cheater?

A single lady shares her experience about what she went through being cheated on and what advice she has for others who have gone through a similar situation.

Topics: Cheaters, manipulators, and trusting your gut.

Book mentioned: "She's Still there" If you'd like to be a guest on my show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes 13 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
Relationships & Childhood Trauma

A guy shares his experience as a single dad and we also discuss relationships and childhood trauma.

Topics: Relationships, childhood trauma, narcissists, and co-parenting. Newdayservices.org

If you'd like to be a guest on my show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

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2 years ago
48 minutes 14 seconds

Your Mess or Mine?
” Your Mess or Mine?” is a podcast that dives into the full spectrum of relationships - family, friends, work, and romance. We've expanded beyond dating to explore every dynamic that shapes our lives. Through real stories, expert insight, and listener questions, we help you navigate the messiness of human connection with understanding and growth.