Welcome back to You Seem Great! In this episode, we're getting into something every couple faces eventually — conflict. But not all fights are created equal. We explore the most common fighting styles, how they show up in relationships, and why the way you argue might matter more than the argument itself.
From blowups and shutdowns to logic-vs-emotion showdowns, Becca and Talia unpack the patterns that shape our arguments and offer real, compassionate tools for fighting in a way that actually brings you closer. Because fighting doesn’t mean you’re wrong for each other — it might just mean you need new strategies for how to disagree with care.
Expect honest stories, expert insights, and a matchmaking lens that values growth over perfection.
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You know that feeling when everything looks good on paper — the vibe, the values, even the banter — but something just isn’t clicking? In this episode, we explore the invisible roadblocks that show up in dating: emotional unavailability, timing mismatches, or that subtle disconnect you can’t quite name.
We talk about the difference between compatibility and connection, why chemistry can’t be forced, and how to recognize when you’re both simply on different paths — and that’s okay.
Because sometimes what feels like a roadblock is really a redirection — one that clears the way for something more aligned.
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In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, Becca and Talia are joined by Lisa Elson to dive into the positive signs in relationships — the green flags that show when things are really going well. Together, they explore how to recognize behaviors and patterns that signal a healthy, thriving partnership, why focusing on green flags can help you build trust and joy, and how tuning into these can change your dating game for the better. Whether you’re starting a new relationship or deepening an existing one, these insights and tips are not to be missed!
Key Takeaways:
Spotting the Green Flags: Learn about the subtle but powerful signs that your relationship has a strong foundation worth nurturing.
Building Trust and Connection: Discover why paying attention to green flags helps create resilience and emotional safety with your partner.
Practical Tips for Dating and Relationships: Get expert advice on how to celebrate what’s working and grow together with intention.
A Positive Mindset Shift: Understand how focusing on green flags can boost your confidence and improve your overall relationship experience.
Join Becca, Talia, and Lisa for an uplifting and insightful conversation that celebrates the good stuff in love and dating.
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Welcome back to You Seem Great! We're kicking off Season 2 with a fresh focus and a deeper look at what matchmaking really means — not just finding the “right” person, but figuring out what right feels like for you.
Expect more honest conversations, more nuance, and a matchmaking lens that goes beyond checklists. Because maybe you're not doing it wrong — maybe you're just doing it differently now.
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Welcome back to You Seem Great! This week, we’re diving into the universal truths of dating — the patterns and lessons that hold up no matter who you are, how old you are, or how many dating apps you’ve deleted and re-downloaded. In this episode, we reflect on why your person might show up in a different package than you expected, how timelines quietly make or break connections, and why playfulness and travel styles matter more than you think.
We also get honest about the myths we used to believe, what dating industry experience has taught us, and why the longer you stay single, the easier it can be to stay single. If you’ve ever questioned if you’re doing it wrong — you’re not. You’re just learning what’s always been true.
Expect more behind-the-scenes matchmaking insight, stories we probably shouldn’t tell, and dating advice that won’t expire.
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In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into cuffing season and how to make the most of this cozy time of year! We’ll share why this season offers so much for singles as the colder months approach and how to embrace this time of year with intention. Plus, we share a podcast update as we take a brief pause after season 1 and give you all the details on how to catch us on Instagram Live during the break. And don’t worry—season 2 is on the way! Stay tuned!
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In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into the post-breakup dating world! Whether you’re feeling unsure about getting back out there or simply looking for guidance, we’ve got you covered. We’ll discuss how to heal from a breakup, rebuild your confidence, and approach dating with a fresh mindset. From having conversations about your past relationship to handling those first few post-breakup dates, this episode offers practical advice to help you move forward and find meaningful connections.
Key Takeaways:
Join us for an insightful conversation on healing, self-discovery, and finding new connections after a breakup. Don’t miss it!
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the art of flirting! Whether flirting feels like a challenge or you're just looking for fresh ideas, we've got you covered. We'll break down everything you need to know, from mastering the slow burn flirt to acing a first date flirt, and even perfecting that quick, one-time meet flirt to ignite a romantic spark. No matter the situation, these practical tips will help you elevate your flirting game and feel confident in any scenario. Don’t miss this episode—it’s all about building chemistry and connection!
Key Takeaways:
Join us for a fun and insightful conversation on how to boost your flirting skills and create meaningful connections with confidence!
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, a dynamic duo specializing in coaching autistic and neurodivergent individuals on dating. Together, we explore practical strategies to help neurodivergent daters navigate the complexities of relationships and find meaningful connections. This empowering conversation sheds light on the unique strengths that neurodivergent individuals bring to the dating world and how they can embrace those qualities to their advantage.
Key Takeaways:
Join us for an insightful conversation on how neurodivergent daters can thrive in the dating world with authenticity and confidence!
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive into the topic of dating anxiety and offer practical solutions to help ease your nerves in the search for love. Whether you're struggling with the fear of rejection, past relationship trauma, or feeling the pressure of societal expectations, this episode is packed with strategies to help you feel more confident and at ease in dating.
Key Takeaways:
Join us for an insightful discussion on managing dating anxiety and stepping into your love life with more confidence and clarity!
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're joined by Maryann Roberts, a matchmaker with Three Day Rule, to discuss the ins and outs of dating over 60. We'll explore the pros and cons of finding love later in life, how to approach relationships at this stage, and the role of technology and texting for baby boomers. Whether you're over 60 and single or tuning in for advice for a parent, these expert tips are not to be missed!
Key Takeaways:
Join us for a thoughtful and insightful discussion on the unique aspects of dating later in life, with expert advice from matchmaker Maryann Roberts.
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the world of long-distance dating. With more singles open to dating beyond their city since the pandemic, we're here to show you how to make it work! We’ll explore everything from where to search for a long-distance partner to how to build a strong connection and avoid common pitfalls.
Key Takeaways:
Tune in for practical advice and insights on how to take your long-distance relationship the distance, whether you’re just starting out or already committed.
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with "The Prenup Guy" Raymond Hekmat to discuss the often misunderstood topic of prenuptial agreements and their role in fostering stronger relationships. Raymond sheds light on how prenups aren't just for marriage but can be a tool for assessing financial compatibility at any stage of a relationship.
Key Takeaways:
Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that challenges traditional notions of prenups, offering practical advice for anyone looking to create a strong, financially healthy relationship. Whether you're single, dating, or already committed, this episode has valuable insights for you.
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're continuing our city series with special guest, matchmaker Elisa Del Castillo. Join us as we dive into the vibrant Miami dating scene and explore how Latin culture plays a significant role in shaping relationships. Elisa shares insider tips on the best spots to meet singles in Miami and offers guidance on navigating the city's booming dating landscape. Tune in for an exciting and culturally rich discussion on finding love in the Magic City!
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In this week's episode of the You Seem Great Podcast, Talia and Becca dive into your most pressing questions! This special Q&A session covers essential topics like how to manage burnout, navigating the path to exclusivity in relationships, and overcoming the challenges of dating as a parent. Whether you're struggling with stress, wondering when to define your relationship, or looking for advice on balancing dating and parenting, we've got you covered. Have a question you'd like answered? DM us @youseemgreatpodcast on Instagram. Tune in for expert insights and actionable advice tailored just for you!
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we discuss dating with VIP Matchmaker Simone Grossman. Simone brings her expertise in helping high-achieving individuals navigate the complexities of finding a stable partner.
Key Takeaways:
Tune in for a thoughtful discussion that offers practical advice on finding love and balance amidst career success. Whether you're single, dating, or looking to understand the dynamics of relationships at a high level, this episode has something for you.
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we delve into the intersection of money and love with Dr. Jenny Olson, Assistant Professor of Marketing at Indiana University's Kelley School of Business. Dr. Olson's expertise lies in consumer behavior, particularly within interpersonal contexts.
Key Takeaways:
Tune in for an enlightening conversation that offers practical tips to achieve financial harmony in your relationships. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this episode provides valuable insights to help you and your partner navigate the complex world of finances together.
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we welcome Liesel Sharabi, Associate Professor at Arizona State University. Liesel, an expert in communication technologies, explores how these tools shape the ways we start, sustain, and end relationships.
Key Takeaways:
Join us for a thought-provoking and engaging discussion on the intersection of tech and love!
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, join us for an enlightening conversation with Sunny Lie Owens, Associate Professor of Communication at CalPoly Pomona. Sunny, an expert in culture and communication, delves into the intricate relationship between religious communication and ethnic identity.
Sunny's research-driven advice offers invaluable guidance for singles seeking meaningful connections. Tune in to this insightful and inspiring episode for expert advice on navigating the complexities of modern dating.
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In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive deep into the world of dating post-divorce with expert matchmaker Melissa Rogers. Melissa offers her professional insights on knowing when you're ready to start dating again, navigating those crucial first dates, and building confidence after a divorce. Whether you're newly divorced or have been dating for a while, this episode is full of valuable advice and encouragement.
Key Takeaways:
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