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You Had Me At Cheese
Venus & Eclipse
17 episodes
10 hours ago
After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.

Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese! 
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After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.

Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese! 
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Relationships
Society & Culture,
Health & Fitness,
Sexuality,
Mental Health
Episodes (17/17)
You Had Me At Cheese
Porn (The One With The BYO Porn)
From awkward first encounters to evolving preferences, we open up about our personal experiences with porn.

In this episode, we talk about how it was first introduced to us, what we enjoy (and what we don’t), and how our views have shifted over time. Honest, curious, and a little spicy.




















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10 hours ago
41 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Luna’s Journey with Boundaries (The One With The Slap on The Bottom)
What happens when you realise it is time to start saying no?

In this episode, Luna opens up about her personal journey with boundaries, and shares where she finds her inspiration to keep setting and honouring them. She talks about the place or absence of boundaries in her country of origin, what led her to recognise the need for them, and the challenges of putting them into practice.




















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2 weeks ago
1 hour 1 minute

You Had Me At Cheese
Hat Roulette - Foodie Questions (The One With The Deep Fried Brioche Buns)
From guilty pleasures to kitchen disasters, this Hat Roulette episode is all about food!

Join us as we pull foodie questions from the hat and chat about how our tastes have evolved, which cuisine we could live on forever, and the dishes that didn’t quite go as planned.

A little flavor, a little chaos, and a lot of laughter!
















































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4 weeks ago
52 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Privilege (The One With The Cleaning Ladies)
What does it really mean to be privileged?

In this episode, we unpack the nuances of privilege. How it shows up differently in our lives, the tension of being privileged in some areas while underprivileged in others, and our own experiences navigating the world through both lenses.




















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1 month ago
37 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Venus's Journey With Weed (The One With The Double-Edged Sword)
What happens when curiosity turns into a habit?

In this episode, Venus shares how she was first introduced to weed, what enticed her to keep using it, and the ways it has shaped her life over time. 




















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1 month ago
42 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Hat Roulette ENFJ Clichés (The One With The Whipped Cream)
What is it really like to live be an ENFJ? 

In this Hat Roulette episode, we dig into clichés about being “too emotional,” mind-reading, leadership, criticism, and always putting others first.

Together, we sort through which traits fit, which don’t, and how we actually experience life as two ENFJs.




















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2 months ago
39 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Acceptance - Part 2 (The One With The Circus Act)
Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse shift the conversation inward. 

Can we hold space for others while still voicing our own truth? What does self-acceptance really look like? And what comes first, being accepted by others or accepting ourselves? 

Let's explore the meaningful work of showing up with compassion, for ourselves and those around us.







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2 months ago
39 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Acceptance - Part 1 (The One With Pineapple on Pizza)
What does it mean to feel truly accepted?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse explore acceptance through the lens of being seen, heard, and validated. Share stories about times in which they felt invisible, and how differently things could have turned out had acceptance been present.

From wellbeing to relationships, let's unpack the deep impact of being welcomed as we are. 




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3 months ago
39 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Eclipse's Journey with Pain - Part 2 (The One With The Blankie)
Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse continue their raw conversation about Eclipse’s journey with chronic pain. 

This episode picks up as Eclipse moves to Neverland, and explores how things changed over the years. How the pain intensified, how unspoken pressures piled on, and how the weight of mental load and emotional labour brought everything to a halt. 

It is a raw look at what happens when your body keeps the score, and starts to shut down to make you listen.
 
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3 months ago
53 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Eclipse's Journey With Pain - Part 1 (The One With Tuesdays From Hell)
In this deeply personal episode, Eclipse shares her journey through the early days of her chronic pain. 

Throughout the episode, Venus and Eclipse talk about how it began, Eclipse’s first experiences with unexplained symptoms, her interactions with medical professionals around it, and how chronic pain slowly took hold and became a new norm. 

Through this vulnerable conversation, we unpack the ongoing struggles, the possible roots of the pain, and the complex link between physical symptoms and emotional distress.
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4 months ago
37 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Hat Roulette - Queer Clichés (The One With The Ick)
Are queer love stories always tragic? Do all queer people have a coming out moment? 

In this Hat Roulette episode, Venus and Eclipse pull clichés from a hat and share their thoughts on everything from labels and love, to struggles, activism, and whether being queer necessarily means being political. 

Nothing’s off the table!
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4 months ago
39 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Breaking the Isolation Spiral (The One With The Leap of Faith)
Loneliness can feel like a trap, but how do you break free?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse open up about their own moments of deep loveliness, the factors that fed into them, and the challenges they faced.

Most importantly, they share what helped them find their way back to connection.
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5 months ago
32 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Venus' Transition - Part 2 (The One With Tinder And The Colleague)
Coming out is one thing, doing it at work is a whole other ballgame. 

In this episode, we dive into the unexpected chaos of Tinder colliding with colleagues, the challenges of being openly trans at work, and what it is really like to interview as a trans woman.
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5 months ago
38 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Venus' Transition - Part 1 (The One With The Magical Toilet)
The journey to self-discovery isn’t always clear… until it is.

In this episode, we dive into what led Venus to transition, the telltale signs, and the pivotal egg-cracking moment that you simply cannot return from.

We also explore the struggles of isolation, the search for connection, and what it means to finally see yourself.
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6 months ago
37 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Hat Roulette - Immigrant Questions (The One With The Seashells)
What is it really like to leave everything behind and start over?

In this episode, Venus and Eclipse share their personal experiences with immigration, before diving into a game of Hat Roulette.  

From culture shock to identity, belonging, and whether we would ever return to our countries of origin - no question is off-limits!
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6 months ago
32 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Blood Tribe vs Chosen Tribe (The One With The Homemade Ice Cream)
Is the tribe we are born into more important than the one we choose?

In this episode, we explore how our upbringing shaped us, what chosen tribe means in our lives, and the qualities we seek in the people that surround us.

Does our blood tribe get a seat at the table, simply by being related to us, or do they need to earn their place?
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7 months ago
54 minutes

You Had Me At Cheese
Introducing Venus and Eclipse (Podcast Premieres Sunday, April 13th 2025)
Enjoy a preview of what's to come on You Had Me At Cheese!

After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.

Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it is celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese! 
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8 months ago
1 minute

You Had Me At Cheese
After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.

Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.

This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.

Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese!