This week, I discuss one of my greatest, most shameful struggles across my 20s -- comparison. This Best Of episode is one of my most downloaded for a reason: for us ambitious minds, it's almost impossible to not be aware of how and what everyone else is doing in our field. 

Today, we’re going to unpack the REAL reason why you may be comparing yourself, and how we can learn to compare from a place of peace instead of anxiety.

I will also talk about…

• The biggest comparison crisis of my 20s
• The ways comparison might actually be “serving” you (for better or worse)
• What my most anxious comparative thoughts have taught me
• Social comparison theory 
• The 4 steps that have helped me heal most around comparison

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In this Best Of episode (a revisit of the very first episode of You Found Her — one of my most popular episodes, and the one I personally needed to revisit this week), I discuss the career crisis that inspired me to create both my pod and my personal brand. Spoiler alert… it was a validation crisis.

We’ll get real about the fear behind validation-seeking and how to find comfort when anxiety pushes us to look outside ourselves for worth. I also share...

• How to find peace during a validation-seeking panic
• My journey as a writer in Hollywood
• How to move from scarcity mindset to abundance
• 5 strategies on how to self-generate the validation we need 
• Why the pod is called You Found Her
• Why you deserve to heal (even more than you deserve to be successful)

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E31: If you’ve ever been so lost, so uncertain, so out of control that you didn’t even know what to pray for — this one’s for you. Inspired by my own deeply uncomfortable week (hi, IG suspension), I’m sharing the 3 most potent, clarifying things to ask the universe when you’re at the end of your rope.

We will also discuss:

 ✨ Why asking for your process to be removed will actually block your miracle
✨ How to engage in “two-way prayer” and let Love itself do the heavy lifting
✨ The difference between your job and God’s job (and why mixing them up creates chaos)

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E30: Have you ever chased success or validation like a drug — only to feel the high vanish within days, leaving you in search of the next hit? This the cycle I found myself in (again) recently, and today I’m naming it for what it is: addiction to hustling for worth.

In this raw and deeply personal episode, I’ll unpack:

• The six clearest signs you may be caught in this addiction too
• Why the real question isn’t “why the hustle?” but “why the pain?”
• The core wound that drives so many ambitious minds to seek worth outside themselves
• My recent relapse story (and what it revealed about my own patterns)
• The 3 spiritual reframes that snapped me out of the spiral and re-anchored me in peace, trust, and abundance

Plus, in this week’s Found in the DMs, we’ll wrestle with a huge question: how do you define success on your own terms — not your parents’, not society’s, not anyone else’s?

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E29: Ever been through a season so heavy you couldn’t see a way forward? That hopeless, unraveling chapter is what mystics call a dark night of the soul—and if you’re human, you will face one.

In this episode, I’m re-introducing myself through the lens of my own dark night—the lowest point of my 20s, when every plan I built for my life collapsed. What I didn’t know then is that this breaking point would become the birthplace of You Found Her and the most aligned, soul-led chapter of my life.

✨ And if you’re ready to not just survive your season of struggle but actually transform it into your most aligned, abundant chapter yet—sign up for the waitlist for The Ambitious Soul’s Reset Kit HERE. You’ll get first access, best pricing, and five powerful audio pep talks designed to carry you through fear into clarity and peace.

We’ll also talk about:

• What a “dark night of the soul” really is—and why it happens
• Three potent spiritual reframes that carry you through despair into rebirth
• How to see pain as proof of your capacity, not a sign you’re broken
• The exact questions to ask yourself when you feel hopeless, lost, or ready to give up

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E28: Ever seen someone land the very thing you’ve been dreaming of — the job, the relationship, the opportunity — and instantly felt like you’ve failed? You’re happy for them and you’re spiraling inside… ashamed, behind, and wondering what’s wrong with you for even feeling that way.

You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re unpacking why comparison cuts so deep — from ancient survival wiring to modern scarcity culture — and how to break free from the belief that someone else’s gain means you’ve lost.

I’ll also discuss:

• The real reason your brain sees their success as a threat (and how to retrain it)
• Four powerful reframes that dissolve comparison at the root
• How to turn jealousy into a roadmap for your deepest desires
• A simple, soulful shift that makes you magnetic to your own wins

Plus, in this week’s Found in the DMs, we’ll tackle how to overcome inferiority complex and reclaim your worth from the inside out.

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E27: If you ever feel overwhelmed by the size of your dream,  this episode will remind you why you should feel both excited and incredibly grateful. Your dream chose you for a reason! 

Today, I’ll unpack the 4 biggest truths I’ve learned that can turn your yearning into fuel instead of fear.

I’ll also talk about…

• The spiritual reason you were chosen for your dream 
• Why yearning isn’t a curse — it’s loving information from your soul
• The quiet privilege of even knowing what you want
• The sacred partnership that forms when you stop chasing and start listening
• One Found Fam listener’s powerful question: “Do some dreams have to die for others to live?”

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E26: Ever feel like you’re pursuing your dream so intensely that it starts to feel more like chasing a high than following a calling? In this mini episode, we’ll unpack the subtle ways ambition can slip into anxiety and addiction—and how to shift into a calmer, magnetic energy that naturally draws your desires closer.

I’ll also talk about…

• What dopamine addiction has to do with your dream life
• The identity crisis I had at 29 around success and self-worth
• The difference between culture-driven goals and soul-led yearnings
• Why calm is a more powerful manifestor than control
• 3 potent mental shifts to stop hustling for your worth and start attracting from peace

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E25: This week, I’m sharing a very personal, very raw career disappointment that cracked me wide open… and the 3 spiritual and emotional shifts that are helping me move through it with grace, power, and peace.

If you’re navigating your own heartbreak—whether in career, relationships, or anything you deeply believed was meant for you—this one is for you.

I’ll also talk about…

• Why your soul actually wants the detours and disappointments
• The painful wakeup call I had in my screenwriting career
• What Kabbalah taught me about turning loss into light
• How to know when a dream is asking to be released
• 3 powerful mindset shifts to help you feel the pain and keep the faith

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E24: If you’ve ever felt pressure to make it — but secretly wondered what it’s all for — this deeply honest episode is for you.

I’m taking you inside the exact moment my personal dream crisis cracked me open, and how it led me to a truth I didn’t want to admit: maybe achievement and success weren’t my real values after all. 

We’ll also discuss:

• The difference between ego-driven desires and soul-aligned values
• A powerful values exercise that changed my life — and could change yours too
• 4 self-talk shifts to return to when you feel behind, not enough, or addicted to proving yourself
• Why your dream life doesn’t start “out there”… it starts here, with who you’re becoming

And if you’re interested in discovering your true values – the ones that actually lead to peace, joy, and real fulfillment – be sure to check out my Unlock Your True Values Workbook 🤗

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E23: But what if you’re not sure you have what it takes? Or you don’t have an exact plan yet? Or you’ve already tried (MANY times) and failed? 

Today we address the 5 biggest fear beliefs in response to my viral Instagram series: Never give up on something you think about every single day – all of which I’ve experienced on my own career path.

We’ll also discuss:

• What to do when your dream feels impossible, unclear, or “too late”
• Why your desire isn’t for a person, title, or outcome—it’s for a feeling
• How to keep going after rejection (and why The Alchemist changed everything for me)
• The fear thoughts that kill dreams—and how to interrupt them with power
• Why you already are the person capable of fulfilling this dream

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E22: Feeling self-doubt, anxiety, or fear? This might mean you’re actually doing something right. In today’s episode, we unpack the hidden growing pains that come with chasing your dreams—and the emotional traps no one warns you about (but I wish someone had warned me).

We will also get into: 

• Why achievement won’t fix your insecurities (and might make them worse)
• What to do when your dream starts evolving—and it feels like failure
• The addictive myth of visibility = value
• How to chase your vision from a healed place, not a hollow one
• Why your 20s aren’t just for building, but for remembering who you are

And if this hits home? Be sure to sign up for The Found Note, my free bi-weekly newsletter for soulful achievers like you :)

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E21: When I first heard Emily’s story, I was astonished. This woman is an inspiration – to anyone seeking strength and resilience in the face of an impossibly challenging life event. I’m honored to welcome her as the first guest on the podcast for a raw, healing, and eye-opening conversation. 

Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault and contains some graphic details about an act of violence. Please take care while listening, and feel free to skip this episode if it may be harmful or activating for you.

Also in the episode:

• Two life-altering moments in Emily’s adolescence led her to advocacy and truth-telling
• The often-overlooked tool that could save your life
• What Emily would say to anyone navigating the darkest chapter of their life
• Emily’s advice for those rebuilding after being broken open
• One of Lindsay’s favorite Would You Rather’s yet

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E20: Why do we center the opinion of others when they are not even people we respect or seek to emulate ourselves? 

This has been a confounding dilemma for me through the years, and I am just now learning tricks to diffuse this process in the moment, return home, and live peacefully in the discomfort of being misunderstood. 

Today, we embark on a jam-packed mini episode in which we discuss:

- the 3 transformative self-talk strategies I'm learning in therapy

- the deeper reason you may prioritize others' opinions over your own

- how to diffuse judgment, and reclaim your internal power with peace

- what do we do when there is a legitimate reason to feel insecure in an interpersonal situation?

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E19: Your girl is 30 Found Fam!!! And on this long and winding road, I’ve learned some hard but beautiful things. To anyone feeling growing pains in need of some comfort and peace, this one is for you. 

We will also discuss: 

• The power of the (often fictional) stories we tell ourselves 
• The 3 types of tests I believe we receive in life
• What I learned from my most recent friendship breakup 
• Is success a climbing upward, or a delving inward?
• My greatest struggle: leaving myself for the comfort of others

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E18: Welcome to the final episode of my Surviving Your 20s series! Today I bring you the episode I MOST wish I had going into my 20s. To all my overachievers, artists, and dreamers  – don't worry. Get excited. 

We will discuss: 

• The role of impatience and desire in my 20s
• Why you WANT your tests in your career
• The life-changing spiritual wisdom I’ve drawn from kabbalah 
• Why failure is makes any success story legitimate 
• The difference between inspired action and fear-driven action

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E17: Being an ambitious woman specifically can come with unique challenges in the dating department... Today we get into how to date in our 20s as a go-getter while also maintaining your peace, integrity, and sanity.

We will also discuss:

- Red flags and how to detect them early on

- The time my ambition was a dealbreaker

- The 3 hardest truths I learned as an ambitious woman dating in my 20s

- When is it okay to compromise your ambition in the name of romance? 

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E16: Welcome to Part II of my Surviving Your 20s series! Look, I know the 20s are hard. But here are the reasons to truly ENJOY the 20s, and why this decade is exactly the one you want to be in right now. 

Today, we will discuss: 

• The 5 biggest gifts you can enjoy in your 20s right now
• My most reckless (aka stupid) adventure of my 20s, and why I’m grateful for it
• Should we center interior gains over exterior gains in this decade?
• Why you want your intense emotions 
• The beauty of still being close to your inner child

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E15: Important announcement: the podcast will be shifting from weekly to bi-weekly episodes! Expect the same content you love with even more intentionality 🤍

Welcome to Part I of my Surviving Your 20s series! Get excited to dive into the greatest gems I’ve learned this past decade in a four part series leading up to your girl’s very own 30th birthday in Japan :’)

Today, we will discuss:

• Why the 20s might be the worst decade (and why this is the best news) 
• What I regret most about how I spent time in my 20s
• Why you DON’T want to press skip on your hardest chapters 
• Why heartbreak might be the greatest gift of this decade
• What I learned about Near Death Experiences that forever changed my perspective on comparison

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E14: The pressures we face as ambitious minds can convince us that we’re not where we’re supposed to be in life. If you want to learn how to trust the timing of your life with peace in your heart, this episode is for you. 

Also, important update! The show will be shifting from weekly to bi-weekly :) 

Today, we will discuss:

• The ACTUAL fear within the greater dilemma of “falling behind”
• The life-changing pep talk my brother gave me at my lowest
• Why there is no such thing as “being behind” in life
• 4 powerful self talk strategies to trust the timing of your life now

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