Welcome to Y IS IT SO, I am your host Paul, today we will be looking at a Mental Health problem, that people would think they understand.                                               Unfortunately, Trauma is far more misunderstood, trauma isn’t dramatic events but often the subtle, experiences that overwhelm the nervous system, affect the body, and pass between generations.                                                                                                           Joining me today is Laura Giles, a seasoned trauma therapist and educator who has spent years helping people uncover and heal from the kind of Trauma they didn’t even know they had.                                                                                                                                                            If you’ve ever wondered why you react the way you do....or why certain patterns keep showing up in your life, this episode his going to open your eyes in ways you did not except.  

Who was Charlie Kirk Welcome to y is it so, this episode reflects on the life, activism, and assassination of a conservative leader Charlie Kirk, a polarising figure whose voice echoed far beyond his years, the founder of Turning Point USA, exploring his rise from a college dropout to a polarising national figure, his role in youth politics and the debates and tensions around free speech, transgender issues, and campus activism.                                                 Vince and I, discuss the circumstances of Kirk’s death, reactions from supporters and critics, and the potential impact on Turning Point USA and political discourse going forward.  Stay with us as we explore the legacy, the backlash, and the silence that followed."           Welcome to y is it so, this episode reflects on the life, activism, and assassination of a conservative leader Charlie Kirk, a polarising figure whose voice echoed far beyond his years, the founder of Turning Point USA, exploring his rise from a college dropout to a polarising national figure, his role in youth politics and the debates and tensions around free speech, transgender issues, and campus activism. Vince and I, discuss the circumstances of Kirk’s death, reactions from supporters and critics, and the potential impact on Turning Point USA and political discourse going forward.  

Gordon Phillips explains how technical analysis (using Japanese candlesticks) can reveal when markets are turning, and outlines practical steps to protect retirement savings—such as shifting from equity funds to bond/money‑market funds—and how to time re‑entry.He also covers using precious metals (especially rare collectible coins) to hedge inflation, storage and privacy considerations, and his academy’s courses on risk management and currency trading.

Every year at this time of the football season Vince & I attempt to preview the AFL finals, mixing sharp banter with match-by-match analysis and predictions for Adelaide vs Collingwood, Geelong vs Brisbane, GWS vs Hawthorn, and Fremantle vs Gold Coast. The episode covers key issues like Isaac Rankin’s suspension, home-ground advantage, veteran experience versus youth, and ends with bold grand-final predictions and light-hearted rivalry. Join us and try and predict not only who will win in this round but, which team will be holding up the Grand Final Cup. 

My guest today is Gordon Phillips and he has just released a 488 page book about life in general, which I found interesting because he speaks not only about the U.S. but the whole world situation, from his school days to his most recent project, the launching an on line school, The Gordon Phillips Academy.  In this episode I engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Gordon, a veteran currency trader and futurist. Phillips shares insights from his book, The Risky Reader, exploring global governmental failures and the role of individuals in shaping society. The discussion touches on his unconventional upbringing, the homeschooling of his children, and his perspectives on modern politics and media and his school, The Gordon Phillips Academy. Tune in to explore Gordon's vision of fostering change and resilience through understanding and education.

In this episode of Why Is It So?, I am joined with a very special guest, Angela Skartu, a renowned marriage and a certified sex therapist from the US, to discuss the complexities of sexual health and relationships.                                                                                     Angela hosts a weekly You Tube show where she tackles everything from intimacy to communication, during the week she attends face to face with her clients and on top of that she is also  a published author.                                                                               Common issues couples face—from communication barriers to infidelity and sexual dysfunction. She explains the significance of open dialogue and emotional intelligence in overcoming these challenges and emphasises the necessity of integrating both emotional and sexual intimacy in relationships.                                                             Whether addressing the fears surrounding therapy, the dynamics of infidelity, or the cultural stigmas attached to sexual health, Angela provides valuable advice and tangible skills to improve intimacy and satisfaction. 

In this episode of "Why Is It So?", I welcome special guest Kyle Levy, a conversationalist with unique insights into personal growth and emotional intelligence coaching. Kyle shares his journey from personal relationship challenges to becoming a professional who helps others understand and navigate their emotions. Kyle explains the distinction between a life coach and his role as an Insight and Emotional Intelligence Coach, aiming to bridge the gap between conventional psychology and talk therapy. With relatable anecdotes, he emphasises the importance of recognising suppressed emotions and building emotional intelligence to improve personal and professional relationships. The episode delves into Kyle's approach to coaching, his target demographics, and the importance of readiness for change. It highlights the common barriers men face in acknowledging mental health and self-care, as well as the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Through candid discussions, Kyle offers a glimpse into his methodologies and avenues for getting in touch with him for further support.

In this intriguing episode of "Why Is It So," host Paul welcomes Jack Moore, a retired college professor and expert on the JFK assassination. As the Warren Commission report becomes public, Jack delves into his findings accumulated over 40 years of research.Join Paul and Jack as they discuss the events of November 22, 1963, and explore various conspiracy theories surrounding the assassination of John F. Kennedy. With eyewitness accounts and a critical look at the evidence, Jack provides an in-depth analysis of who he believes truly killed JFK.Whether you're a history buff or new to the story, this episode promises a fascinating look into one of America's most debated assassinations.

In this gripping episode I delve into another remarkable story of Gary Pacelli. Once a skydiving enthusiast, Gary's life took a dramatic turn following a parachuting accident that left him paraplegic. But it wasn't the first time fate tested him; earlier in his career as a county police detective, Gary survived a life-threatening encounter during a drug bust. Join me as Gary Pacelli recounts the harrowing events he faced while on duty in Washington Heights. Listen as he describes the tense moments when he found himself in a life-or-death situation, gripping the edge of survival with nothing but sheer will and determination. Discover how this brave man defied the odds, recuperating from surgeries to regain control of his life. This episode promises to inspire, entertain, and remind listeners of the resilience of the human spirit, told through the eyes of a man who conquered adversity time and again.

When I first spoke to our guest about todays episode I fully intended to talk to her about the hundreds of interviews she had with some of the world best musicians and bands. But as it turned out her career was more like an episode of, This is your life. It is a story of determination from a person who wanted to succeed The lady I’m referring to is Sandy Kaye who is a freelance broadcaster, journalist, producer and podcaster who has spent more than 35 years on both sides of radio and television microphones. So our chat is about both her life and her love of music of the 60’s 70’s 80’s   

In this episode of "Why Is It So?”, I take a look into the alarming surge of youth crime still sweeping across Victoria. With crime rates among young offenders tripling, the government and judiciary's lackluster response comes under scrutiny. As incidents of home invasions, carjackings, and violent street attacks rise, the spotlight is on Premier Jacinta Allen's delayed response and the inadequacies of the current justice system. I’ll walk you through real-life examples of violent acts committed by teenagers who repeatedly receive bail, highlighting the flaws in the judiciary system that prioritizes rehabilitation over public safety. Together we'll explore successful crime reduction strategies from New York City, emphasizing the urgent need for a similar approach in Victoria. The episode paints a stark picture of Melbourne's broader decline, from increasing crime rates to deteriorating city conditions, urging action to prevent further degradation. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on the causes, consequences, and potential solutions for Victoria's pressing crime problem.

Join me and Vince in this heartfelt episode of 'Why Is It So?' as we probe into the significance of Anzac Day, a day that commemorates the spirit and sacrifices of the Australian and New Zealand Army Corps. Listen as we reflect on the historical landing at Gallipoli in 1915 and the enduring impact of the brave souls who served and perished in wars, conflicts, and peacekeeping missions. We discuss the shared sense of unity and respect this solemn day fosters among Australians and New Zealanders. From the emotional Anzac Day services to symbolic tributes like the Anzac Bridge and the poignant last post, experience the national pride and gratitude conveyed through these commemorations. Discover personal stories of valour like those of Albert Jacker and John Simpson Kirkpatrick, and how their bravery resonates today. The episode also touches on modern interpretations and the importance of keeping the Anzac legacy alive across generations. Above all, it’s a tribute to the courage of those who fought and an acknowledgment of the freedoms we cherish today.

In this episode, Vince and I take a journey into the evolving significance of Easter in a contemporary society. We discuss how Easter has shifted from its religious roots to a holiday often viewed merely as a long weekend. The conversation highlights the erosion of traditional practices, like the significance of Good Friday, and the rise of non-traditional activities, such as sporting events during this time. We also reflect on how the Easter holidays are perceived by the average Australian today and ponder the diminishing focus on religious aspects in favour of leisure and commercial interests. This episode is an introspective look at how societal values impact traditional religious celebrations, exploring themes of cultural change, modernity, and the importance of preserving traditional values in an ever-evolving world.

Meet Gary Pacelli, a man with an extraordinary life journey from law enforcement heroics to overcoming a near-fatal skydiving accident.                                                                  In this episode of "Why Is It So?", Gary recounts to us, his incredible experiences as a law enforcement officer and his courageous recovery from a skydiving accident that left him a paraplegic, when his parachute opened “hard” breaking his neck, a mile high in the sky, at the age of 53. With his indomitable spirit, Gary challenged all odds to skydive again, proving that resilience knows no bounds.  Tune in to hear Gary’s inspiring story of hope and determination, and learn how he defied the limitations of his injury to reclaim his passion for skydiving. Gary has written a book, NOT MY TIME, that is in pre-production to be brought to life on the Big Screen, and he has generously sent me a few books to give away to our listeners, but they are limited.  

Join me and Vince as we get into the excitement of the upcoming AFL season. We discuss the potential top contenders, key player moves, and the impact on various teams. With insights on teams like Brisbane Lions, GWS, Geelong, and more, we debate which teams have the best shot at the premiership and the challenges facing last year's champions. Whether you're a die-hard fan or new to the sport, this episode offers a comprehensive overview of what to expect this season in the AFL. Don't miss our predictions and engaging discussions!

Join Paul Zammit in the inaugural street talk segment of the podcast, featuring an engaging conversation with Alexandra, a first-time podcast guest. In this episode, Alexandra shares her personal insights and experiences on a wide range of topics including the current socio-economic climate in Victoria, the impact of COVID-19, and the pressing issues facing the younger generation today. Explore a candid discussion on the challenges of raising children in a world increasingly influenced by social media and commercialism, and hear Alexandra's thoughts on crime, education, and the critical state of the healthcare system. Plus, enjoy light-hearted moments as Alexandra delves into her previous work in the funeral industry, revealing the peculiar yet profound experiences that shaped her outlook on life. Tune in to understand the complexities of life in Victoria through the eyes of someone navigating its ups and downs first hand, as Paul facilitates this enlightening and genuine discussion.

Join Paul Zammit and Vince Loccisano in this engaging episode of "Why Is It So?" as they explore the changing dynamics of Valentine's Day and the concept of love across generations. They reflect on how traditional expressions of love, like newspaper ads and romantic dinners, have transformed in the age of social media. In a lively discussion, they delve into the significance of commemorating special days like Valentine's Day and the impact of modern societal norms on relationships. Vince and Paul also contemplate the pressures and expectations surrounding love, from the weight of historical religious influences to contemporary dating trends influenced by reality TV and online interactions. They discuss challenges faced by those without partners on Valentine's Day and emphasize the importance of cherishing memories of love and making it enjoyable for those in relationships. Tune in as they dissect generational differences in understanding love and marriage, offering insights that blend nostalgia with modern reflections, reminding us all to celebrate love in our own unique ways.

Welcome to Y is it So with Paul Zammit and co-host Vince Loccisano for the first episode of 2025! 🎉 In this episode, we dive into some exciting predictions and discussions on: Donald Trump and the 2025 inauguration: What’s the political climate in the U.S., and how does Trump fit into it? The state of Victoria: Key developments and challenges for the year ahead. The upcoming federal election: What’s shaping up in the political landscape, and who are the frontrunners? Justin Trudeau’s position: What’s next for the Canadian Prime Minister? The AFL: Predictions, controversies, and what fans can look forward to in the new season. The Los Angeles fires: Exploring the impact of devastating wildfires and their broader implications. Australia Day: The ongoing debate, reflections, and what it means in 2025.                                                                                                                  What would you like to dive into first?

Welcome to another engaging episode of "Why Is It So?" where your hosts, Paul Zammit and Vince Locisano, delve into the most defining moments of 2024. As we approach the end of the year, Paul and Vince discuss the profound impacts and lingering controversies surrounding Donald Trump's re-election and its global ramifications. Adding a cultural twist, Paul and Vince critique this year's Olympic Games, drawing attention to the controversies over inclusivity and fairness, which echoed globally. They also pay homage to some of the renowned figures we lost this year, celebrating their contributions and the void they leave behind. In a lighter vein, they wrap up the episode with a tribute to sports achievements, noting the success of the Brisbane Lions while sharing hopeful anticipations for next year's AFL season. With engaging discussions and thoughtful analysis, this episode is your gateway to understanding "The Year That Was 2024." Tune in to gain a balanced perspective on past events and a glimpse of what lies ahead in the new year.

In this compelling episode of "Why Is It So?", hosts Paul Zammett and Vince Locizzano delve into a heartbreaking incident involving methanol poisoning at a bar in Laos that claimed the lives of young travelers, including Australian teens Holly Bowles and Bianca Jones. This episode serves as both a tribute to these lost lives and a sobering reminder of the dangers lurking behind seemingly carefree travel experiences. The discussion underscores the sometimes perilous journey of young adults as they travel abroad, often unaware of the risks that differ from their home countries. Paul and Vince address the importance of vigilance, awareness, and safety precautions while traveling, drawing attention to the stark contrasts in laws and safety standards. Listeners are urged to take heed of the lessons from this tragedy, reinforcing the need for common sense and caution whether at home or traveling abroad. The sentiments are especially poignant as the holiday season approaches, with many venturing overseas for festive celebrations.