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Write Where It Hurts
Eva Des Lauriers
68 episodes
4 days ago
Join Eva and Katryn as they laugh (and sometimes cry) about writing, publishing, and the courage it takes to live your story. Tune in for a safe space in which two writers frankly discuss the mental health issues that can come up when navigating everything from querying, to submission, to publishing for the first time. Katryn and Eva offer laughs and real-talk inspiration for writers at each stage of their journey. Join in the conversation with Write Where it Hurts and remember: it’s not just you!
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Join Eva and Katryn as they laugh (and sometimes cry) about writing, publishing, and the courage it takes to live your story. Tune in for a safe space in which two writers frankly discuss the mental health issues that can come up when navigating everything from querying, to submission, to publishing for the first time. Katryn and Eva offer laughs and real-talk inspiration for writers at each stage of their journey. Join in the conversation with Write Where it Hurts and remember: it’s not just you!
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Write Where It Hurts
EP 68 How to Have a Meltdown

This week, Eva and Katryn get real about self-esteem crashes after publishing, from the forever wait for good news to drop into your inbox, to that feeling of having to beg people to read your book in self-promo. Katryn has a new Lord of the Rings-inspired verb for your consideration, and Eva turns into a wacky waving inflatable arm flailing tube man for reasons of EMOTION.

*On hiatus until late summer/early fall!*

Content/Spoiler Warnings: TW for discussion of body dysmorphia and disordered eating (non-graphic, brief)

Sources:

  • Eva discusses the exciting news that Penguin formed Berkeley XO, a new imprint dedicated to crossover audiences in YA and New Adult!

  • A new verb was born! Denethored is in our forever vocab.

  • Two of our listeners, JR Cathers and Maggie Rapier, have new books to celebrate! JR’s buzzy Romantasy, Child of Shivay, is coming out in October, and Maggie’s Soulgazer is out now and a USA Today bestseller!!

  • Also, please don’t hesitate to DM us if you have good news to celebrate!

  • Follow Eva and Katryn on Substack for more big publishing feels (especially Eva right now for REASONS!)
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2 months ago
55 minutes 58 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
Ep 67 To Me, They're So Dope

Eva and Katryn dive into character arcs this week, from craft inspirations to the similarities between building our characters and parenting them. Eva reveals her new book title (YAY!) and Katryn unveils a Lord of the Rings-inspired story cartography process for character arcs. Martin Short is also discussed, because why the hell not?

Content/Spoiler Warnings: CW for mention of JKR’s transphobia

Sources:

  • Katryn discusses a troubling trend she’s noticing in this episode and her substack.

  • Eva and Katryn both recommend Susan Dennard’s craft writing--check out Susan’s Substack!

  • Eva has recently learned about James Scott Bell’s Write Your Novel From the Middle

  • Katryn discusses her own reasons for not writing characters from outside her racial background, but please read author and co-founder of We Need Diverse Books, Dhonielle Clayton’s words on this, because it gets the point across without nearly as much ambient mumbling and word repetition.

  • When it comes to redemption arcs, PLEASE pick up Tae Keller’s Jennifer Chan is Not Alone

  • Read Becky Albertalli’s Amelia, If Only, Brynne Weaver’s Butcher and Blackbird, Geneva Rose’s The Perfect Marriage

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4 months ago
1 hour 14 minutes 23 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
Ep 66 The Power of Storytelling

This week, Eva and Katryn talk about social media pitfalls for authors, getting back to fangirling over craft, and BookCon’s return. Eva talks about her surprise spiritual connection to Love Island, and Katryn has conspiracy theories about Regina George and the algorithm.

Content/Spoiler Warnings: Kate discusses The Bear season 3 so if you haven't caught up before the next season, skip that portion. She also discusses mild tease spoilers about Hacks and Starstruck (HBO).

Sources:

  • Subscribe to Katryn’s multi part series about authors and social media
  • We talked about a lot of shows this week, here's where to find them- Love Island USA (Peacock), The Bear (Hulu), Hacks (HBO), Starstruck (HBO)
  • We discuss an older episode called Vulturing the Trunk, dedicated to reviving old shelved manuscripts. If you missed it, catch the episode HERE
  • BookCon is coming back next year!
  • Read Stephanie Lucianovic’s books!  
  • Newer studies point to evidence that shows kids are using debunked practices to learn to read.
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4 months ago
53 minutes 55 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
Ep 65 Just Pissed Off With the Whole Damn Thing!!

This week, Eva and Katryn discuss the ways in which we undervalue ourselves in publishing, and how getting feedback can cause tunnel vision for only the negative points. Eva revels in the second (or possibly fifth) chance romance she’s having with her upcoming book, and Katryn can only be healed by the Elon/Musk breakup - remember, that thing that happened two weeks ago, but now feels like two hundred years?

Sources:

  • We discussed that man who had to apologize to Oprah and his flourishing career (why)
  • If you’re a fan of fantasy, romance, and everything in between, follow Katryn’s sister, Maren Lane and her thriving book blog!
  • Yes, we made merch. Thanks, AJ Davage! 
  • Katryn discusses additional Pride fuckery in her article on Substack. Follow her there!
  • Also, follow Eva on Substack!
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4 months ago
56 minutes 10 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
Ep 64 Choose Your Own Adventure

This week Eva and Katryn tackle the myth of fairness in publishing, and the sisyphean task of wading through market changes at the querying stage. Eva rethings her stance on a much maligned character in Sex and the City and Katryn can’t move past her anger at many things–chief among them: Isaac Higgentooth: Colonial Vampire.

Sources:

  • Check out Eva’s German release for I Wish You Would (in Germany, titled “The Summer We Kissed”) and stay tuned to her account for a book announcement coming soon!

  • We discuss the internet’s inability to believe that Sarah Jessica Parker can read two books a day, although it’s less about SJP and more about being done with spending our time on these useless discourse asides.

  • Weep for the “unsung men” in publishing. Or don’t. We’re not.

  • Watch Roy Wood Jr. if you want to increase your serotonin levels. Start with Father Figure, on Netflix.

  • For inspiring middle grade feels, follow Lauren Magaziner (and check out her new queer fantasy MG book, The Incorruptibles!)

  • Listen to Ben’s favorite band, 4Town. 😜

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4 months ago
1 hour 15 minutes 59 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
Ep 63 We fell in the Pitt

This week, Eva and Katryn discuss recapturing their pre-publishing creativity, parasocial expectations in online spaces, a new troubling AI survey, and building a sub list with your agent. Eva makes her way back to elite athlete status, and Katryn dives headfirst into The Pitt.

Sources:

  • Did those of you who watched The Pitt happen to notice that McKay is played by Fiona Dourif and HER DAD IS PLAYED BY BRAD DOURIF? Learn Brad Dourif’s name!
  • Watch Eva’s IG reflection on one year after the release of I Wish You Would
  • Katryn had a blast at the Ukiah Book Fair with authors Michael Leali, Lisa Moore Ramee, Misa Sugiura, Nicole Chen, and Karen McCoy.
  • Bookbub’s new survey about AI has us wondering: if AI users don’t want to do the writing part of writing, why do they want to be writers at all? This is really troubling stuff and continues to erase creative artists across every art field.

CW/TW: We talk about AI in this episode, and recognize it’s an exhausting topic for many who have been tirelessly fighting the erasure of artists and the theft of our creative work. For those who have been diving in headfirst, we salute you!

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5 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes 48 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
EP 62 Tender Heart in a Blender

Eva and Katryn dive into a number of nuanced author struggles this week, from the dehumanization of authors as a product, to the myth of control when it comes to moving the needle, to the discourse surrounding pen names. Eva’s Ron Burgundy references start to reach Lord of the Rings levels, and Katryn can’t hear the title of the medical show “The Pitt” without singing “The Pit”*

*Content Notes/TWs: 

We briefly mention the author recently known as ‘Moldemort’ in a discussion about pen names. This is not an endorsement, JKR has used her massive platform and money to globally cause harm to trans kids, end of story.

Sources

  • This Time article details the massive Taylor Jenkins Reid deal that has massive implications in publishing, both (hopefully) good, and troubling
  • We share some comments from the author community (inc. MK Lobb) about the ‘moving the needle discourse.’
  • Check out Lady Whistlethreads (upgrade to paid for extras) on Substack

Eva and Katryn share their hellscape escapism picks:

  • Katryn: Bob’s Burgers, The Great North, Key & Peele, Bottoms, It’s Elementary

  • Anita De Monte Laughs Last, Temptation Island

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5 months ago
1 hour 5 minutes 58 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
EP 61 Reemerging Like Bigfoot

WE'RE BACK! This week, Eva and Katryn are back after a long break and catch up on their lives in and out of publishing. Talking about everything from battling a desire for type-A control in the submission process to the fear of losing momentum. Eva gets real about weighing feedback, and Katryn details finding the French version of I Wish You Would in Paris! 

Sources:

  • Subscribe to Eva’s new Substack-based newsletter to learn a little more about the goings-on in between our episodes.
  • Subscribe to Katryn’s Substack as she pivots from social media as a space to share opinions.
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5 months ago
1 hour 19 minutes 21 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 12 Crying Into Our Burritos

This week, Eva and Katryn talk book burnout, juggling projects, and the pitfalls of hyper-visibility. Katryn gets so dark that she doesn’t even bring up Lord of the Rings once, and Eva explains why she cried into a burrito.

Sources:

  • Watch this video of Eva at her Grandma’s organized event if you want to cry in your own burrito!
  • Don’t look at this breakdown if you haven’t seen “The Plight Before Christmas” in Bob’s Burgers’ thirteenth season. The single most heart-hitting moment of all time.
  • Want a Lady Dexter book about dismembering predators? Give This Girl’s a Killer a try!
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8 months ago
1 hour 10 minutes 19 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 11 The B From La Jolla

This week on Write Where it Hurts, Eva and Katryn talk about the importance of continuing to create art in times of crisis. Katryn reads an intriguing romance scene featuring our new favorite bulk distributor (emphasis on bulk, pun intended), and Eva convinces us all to embrace our inner Miss Piggy.

Sources:

  • If you need to know more about The Wonderful Ice Cream Suit (and you do)
  • Watch Girls 5Eva!  
  • Eva and Katryn talk the importance of art in times of crisis
  • Banned Books Don’t boost sales 
  • A few notes on Jim Crow Education in the 20th Century and the suppression of queer history along with it
  • LISTEN TO THIS INTERVIEW WITH RITA MORENO IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE
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8 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes 31 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 10 All Hail the Winter Ho

In the 2025 premiere of Write Where It Hurts, Eva and Katryn talk dueling revisions, and Sylvia Plath—especially the possibility of losing more authors to mental health issues and publishing trends in the coming years. Eva details crime boarding her revision and goes full Miranda Priestly about the hot, fashion-forward Witch-king of Angmar. Katryn refuses to let go of the hate in her heart over 1-star-review tagging and DRAGS every reindeer that isn’t Rudolph.

Sources

  • Katryn mistakenly described her newest draft as a retelling of “X-Files, season 6, episode 14, but it’s actually15 (Arcadia). She’s basically the worst, this is SimpsonGate all over again.

  • Eva in full revision mode mirrorsCharlie Day

  • Watch Katryn and her sister Marengo full rage room to kick 2024 to the curb.

  • Check outAngelique L’amour’s books!Subscribe to Eva’s newsletter to hear her talk about the highs and lows of 2024

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9 months ago
1 hour 4 minutes 32 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep9 Thirsty for Dick Van Dyke

In the 2024 finale (more coming in the new year!), Eva and Katryn discuss navigating motherhood and writing, the dangers of AI in publishing, and curated lists—as well as some big vulnerable end-of-year feels. Katryn is both slut positive and dread positive, and Eva prepares for her annual hot author winter.

Sources:

  • I Wish You Would made Barnes & Noble’s “Gifties for Swifties” list!
  • Apologies, the Publishers Weekly article we discussed about using AI author facsimiles is paywalled, but if you have a PW account, you can find it HERE
  • Katryn must eat crow and admit that James Patterson was a mensch for Christmas this year
  •  Please review Eva and Katryn’s books for the holidays this year!
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10 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes 11 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 8 Is Publishing Making us 'Pick Me' Girls?

This week, Eva and Katryn talk stalled careers and finding your beta match, but find time to pitch a Wicked themed pop-up Ozdust nightclub for the mature crowd. Eva revels at the righteous wrath of Swifties, and Katryn talks about the healing nature of satire. 

Sources:

  • Subscribe to Katryn’s Satire for the Soul substack!
  • Dive deep to find out why Billboard owed Taylor Swift an apology
  • Check out It’s Elementary by Elise Bryant!
    We talked about grifts in general but check out Victoria Aveyard’s bold suggestion in the wake of “pity marketing” being twisted for grifts and cons on social media
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10 months ago
1 hour 10 minutes 44 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 7 Fast & Furious Feedback: Tokyo Drift

This week’s special episode is from the time machine! Listen to Eva and Katryn talk about navigating feedback in this bottle episode (airing in place of our weekly season four episode in the new format) from June 2024. Katryn reveals all about the darkly comedic vaudevillian murder meet-cute she wrote in a college English class, and Eva gets real about insecurity in the weeks after releasing her debut novel. 

Sources:

  • Only watch Artax drown in the swamp of sadness if you like suffering
  • Buy Eva’s and Katryn’s books as holiday gifts!
  • Watch the CP live chat that started it all, from 3 years ago nearly to the week!
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11 months ago
55 minutes 23 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 6 Christopher Lee Can *Get* It

This week, Eva and Katryn get more real than ever before about the realities and pitfalls of debut year now that they can both reflect on the experience. Katryn explains the James Franco thing, and Eva sings "Stars" *as* Russell Crowe. Special guest stars include the ice in our cocktails and dueling Lord of the Rings and Hamilton metaphors! Plus: WICKED!

Sources

  • Katryn talks about the ultimate FAFO queen, Agatha Christie and her revenge on her first husband and second husband
  • Eva wants you to watch Arcane! 
  • Katryn graces us with her musical rendition of Space Olympics in the stinger this week
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11 months ago
1 hour 27 minutes 31 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 5 Muse Bomb-Cyclone

This week, Eva and Katryn deal in metaphors both nature and Monopoly as they discuss list season, the vanishing midlist, and the dread of not knowing what’s next. Eva discusses either feeling abandoned or bomb-cycloned by her muse, and Katryn thinks you need to learn Brad Dourif’s name.

Sources

  • This week, we discuss the recent sale of B&N’s Union Square books to Hachette
  • Subscribe to Eva’s newsletter for some big feels and future thoughts!
  • Katryn discusses a recent Fated Mates episode in which she finds out who has been listening to her book on repeat
  • Eva discusses the romance market in YA but there’s reason to be hopeful as the genre continues to show growth and more acquisitions might follow
  • Katryn’s third book is on shelves now!
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11 months ago
1 hour 17 minutes 33 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 4 We're Heading Towards F@scism But Eva Has Abs

This week, Eva and Katryn don’t hold back about the potential literary ramifications of the results of the 2024 election. Eva embraces the ancient philosophy of FAFO in discussing the attempted whitewashing of BookTok, and Katryn goes full salt bae on people who “hate identity politics.”

Sources

  • Watch the launch for We Are Not Alone if you missed it!This is the closest to Katryn’s perfected sweetened G&T recipejust add an extra squeeze of fresh lime juice with the wedge!
  • Katryn’s song obsession this week: Dead Men Don’t R@pe
  • Who said there isn’t great free education on this, the f#ck-aroundiest and find-outiest of times?
  • Read Ursula K. LeGuin’s full speech from the National Book Awards, just as true today as 10 years ago when she said it
  • Reframe masculinity with Aragorn!
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11 months ago
59 minutes 2 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep3 Oops, All Pumpkins! (50th episode!)

In their 50th episode, Eva and Katryn talk publishing highs and lows, from the pain of yearly royalty statements when you don’t earn out and “best of” list FOMO, to being your own cheerleader to get yourself into book cons. Come for Eva singing Bon Jovi and crafting her way to distraction, and stay for Katryn comparing her estrogen to Joe Goldberg.

Sources

  • Come to Katryn’s launch for We Are Not Alone and see Katryn and Eva in person!
  • The Worf “Milkshake” meme
  • Barney’s Get Psyched Mix 
  • Listen to Storybeast podcast!
  • Could Marshawn Lynch run for mayor of Oakland? Consider this our official endorsement if rumors are true!
  • Watch English Teacher! Also, revisit that traumatizing Marnie T. mug moment from Write Where it Hurts season 1Apparently what Katryn calls “Candy corn: oops, all pumpkins!” is actually mellowcreme pumpkins. No, thank you.
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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes 28 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 2 Tastes Like Forty

This week, Eva and Katryn talk about reframing their creativity and concept of success (and failure). Come for Eva’s “fuck it era” and stay for Katryn describing her impossible funerial demands in the post-credits stinger.

Sources:

  • RSVP for Katryn and Eva LIVE in person for the first time at the launch for WE ARE NOT ALONE at Books Inc Alameda (10/29)!
  • In this episode, Katryn does a live unboxing! Check out her amazing cover artist, Alisha Monnin - and wonderful blurb authors, Michael Leali, Jennifer Chambliss Bertman, A.J. Sass, and Ali Standish
  • Enter the Goodreads giveaway for WE ARE NOT ALONE - and please read it so Katryn knows this book is a thing 🥺
  • Watch our mentioned shows, The Summer I Turned Pretty, The Legend of Vox Machina, and High School Musical: The Musical: The Series
  • Buy Dungeons and Dragons stamps!
  • Look at the Lord of the Rings meme that acted as an extended release anti-depressant for Katryn’s publishing woes
  • Yes, Bay Area fog is named Karl
  • Katryn discussed ADHD “justice sensitivity” in this episode
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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes 14 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
S4 Ep 1 Pausecast

In a return from Season 3’s hiatus, Eva and Katryn discuss the hardest challenges they’ve faced as authors this year, along with the long-term market concerns many authors are fretting about. Eva talks live recording her husband’s reaction to the second Twilight movie, and Katryn reveals the reason for her new Swiftie status.

*Content warnings: Conversations about depression, self-doubt, and intrusive thoughts

  • SourcesCome to see Katryn and Eva LIVE at Books Inc. Alamedafor the launch of We Are Not Alone!
  • Subscribe to Eva’s newsletter
  • Watch Nobody Wants This!
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1 year ago
1 hour 24 minutes 54 seconds

Write Where It Hurts
Join Eva and Katryn as they laugh (and sometimes cry) about writing, publishing, and the courage it takes to live your story. Tune in for a safe space in which two writers frankly discuss the mental health issues that can come up when navigating everything from querying, to submission, to publishing for the first time. Katryn and Eva offer laughs and real-talk inspiration for writers at each stage of their journey. Join in the conversation with Write Where it Hurts and remember: it’s not just you!