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Actors love to call something a “slow season.”...we think that term might be the problem. We talk about how the industry has changed in both LA and Atlanta, how our auditions have evolved, and why we’re not sitting around waiting to be handed opportunities anymore.
We cover:
What’s actually filming right now and why it feels so quiet
Why your audition log might be more helpful than you think
The identity crisis of being an actor without auditions
When “series regular” became the holy grail and if it even still makes sense
How we each handle long stretches without bookings
We also share the behind-the-scenes of Sam being put on hold for a recurring role while at a Canadian lesbian wedding and the chaos that followed. And we break down why being a “local hire” is so much more than a line on a resume.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right and still not seeing results, we made this one for you. We also talk about our $5 three-day actor challenge and why we built it to help you stop spiraling and start taking your next right step.
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should we buy land in new mexico?
Sam and Gabrielle are tired. Like, commercial bootcamp, actor quiz building, free Zoom session hosting tired. But the chaos doesn’t stop there. In this episode, they spiral productively about acting markets, money mindset, dog adoption, and whether two working actors (plus their husbands) should co-buy property in New Mexico.
You’ll hear:
Why Sam almost moved to Atlanta in 2020—and why she doesn’t need to now
Gabrielle’s pitch to buy land and tiny-home it with podcast studio vibes
The real fear Sam has around “adult” things like owning property
What actor income really looks like—and why it’s not as limiting as you think
Big thoughts on doing the thing… and having nothing change
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Shape-shifting with our own demons… that’s the part of the acting process nobody teaches you.
Sam and Gabrielle crack open a deeply honest convo about the invisible pressure actors feel to always be “put together”...on tape, online, in class, and even in friendships. What starts with a rant about method acting backlash turns into a vulnerable deep-dive on self-worth, preparation, and the stories we tell ourselves behind the scenes.
in this episode we talk about:
why social media clips are never the full story. and why that triggers people
the difference between feeling “behind” vs actually being behind
Gab’s upcoming acting workshop and her fear of being perceived as unprepared
Sam’s inner narrative of needing to be more “interesting”
the old actor mindsets we default to… and how to gently fight them
what “doing the work” actually looks like between auditions
creating safety in community instead of pressure to perform
redefining our standards of readiness and showing up with grace
next week:
We’re talking what we’re watching...and why we’re scouting real estate in New Mexico 👀
we are BACK, this time recording from opposite coasts — sam in oregon, gab in florida — and proving that actor brain never takes a vacation.
in this episode we talk about christmas movie auditions on the beach and the awkward reality of watching the person who booked “your” role. plus: road trip meltdowns, sorority house confessions, why method acting feels outdated, and what we’re watching right now (weapons, hostage, untamed, f1 to name a FEW)
what you’ll hear in this episode:
christmas movie self tapes and the great camera movement debate
using clue cards, photos, and props for auditions
the question every actor hates: “what’s your method?”
why method acting feels out of touch with today’s industry
movie and tv recs we're dabbling in
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sam and gabrielle kick off the very first episode of working actor life by pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be working actors. about viral audition tapes (yes, the bathroom floor one), when to break the so-called rules, and the mental gymnastics of watching someone else book “your” role.
plus: why sam felt ready to part ways with the name one broke actress, why gab is obsessed with camera pans, and the shocking reason we’re both kind of in love with an ai voice.
what you’ll hear in this episode:
starting this podcast on a whim (very on brand)
breaking self tape “rules” and the bathroom floor debate
audition heartbreak, comparison, and who else was “almost” cast
the great pan vs button showdown
what we’re watching right now (hunting wives, weapons, companion, ballard)
fake “insta friends” and why we all do it
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