This week, we’re sharing some naked truths about marriage. From pride that almost broke us, to the silent treatment years, to the lessons we wish we knew earlier—this one goes deep.
We also:
Laugh about iPhone drops and “scratchgate”
Share a wild clothing-optional beach story 😳
Answer your anonymous questions about love and marriage
Give our honest advice for newlyweds after 15+ years together
Real talk, hard lessons, and a few laughs along the way.Thanks for listening — we appreciate you.
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Chapters
00:00 – Welcome Back & Why Shane Looks Rough
05:22 – Listener Feedback & Reviews
12:08 – Wellness Check & Crying on the Internet
12:35 – iPhone 17 Pro Drops (No Case!)
14:35 – Sponsor: Aqara Smart Home
15:20 – Shane’s Best YouTube Video Ever?
18:20 – Post-It Note Challenge Question
21:55 – Naked Truths: Clothing-Optional Story
26:38 – Best Newlywed Advice After 15 Years
29:30 – Respect, Trust & Communication
34:00 – Marriage Fights & Pride Lessons
38:50 – Breaking the Silent Treatment Cycle
43:33 – Counseling & The Most Important Decision
46:35 – Date Nights & Pursuing Your Spouse
50:22 – Tech of the Week: Smart Locks + Lights
53:11 – Can Outdoor Lights Replace Christmas Lights?
58:07 – Wrap-Up & Anonymous Questions
This week Shane and Caroline get raw about emotional labor, family pressure, and the moment everything finally spilled out. We talk about carrying other people’s problems, sleep, boundaries, and the small things that actually matter — plus a little smart-home tech talk and a sweet homecoming story.
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In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane is back from Germany—and Caroline has a LOT to share about what went down while he was gone. From dog poop disasters and broken appliances, to cheer chaos and smart home fails, things got wild at home.
We also open up about the #1 rule that’s kept our marriage strong all these years. Why it matters, how we’ve built it into our relationship, and what happens when it’s missing.
Other highlights this week:
Shane’s IFA 2025 trip (and the weirdest robot he saw)
Parenting through sports, school, and late-night chaos
Shane's not-so-“wife approved” tech of the week
+ your listener questions
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In this episode, Caroline is sick… and not happy. 😅 We dive into what really happens when mom goes down and nobody steps up — from missed soup deliveries to sleeping on the couch, forgotten meals, and the great "who's more nurturing?" debate.
We also answer a listener question about how we met and share some wild early relationship stories (spoiler: MySpace, Hooters, lifeguard stand, and back porch cigars all make an appearance). Plus, Caroline breaks down her Bingo Loco girls' night and they both share their favorite "tech of the week" (new segment).📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you enjoy the laughs, rants, and real-life conversations, don’t forget to subscribe and turn on notifications.⁉️ Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here:https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Thanks to our sponsor Aqara for supporting this episode! Check out their affordable and reliable smart home products:• Doorbell Camera G410 https://amzn.to/3Jzu9py• Camera G100 Indoor/Outdoor https://amzn.to/47Ow0R7• LED Strip T1 https://amzn.to/4lP5Tx5• Ceiling Light T1M https://amzn.to/4oTKbKQ• Camera G5 Pro https://amzn.to/47Ox1Zr📝 Show NotesEve Flare Portable LED Light https://geni.us/EveFlareHomePod mini https://geni.us/HPminiNote: Affiliate links help support the channel at no additional cost to you. Thanks for your support!📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcast⏱️ Timestamps:00:00 – Intro01:06 – Nobody Takes Care of Mom17:20 – Caroline’s Bingo Loco Girls’ Night26:18 – Sponsor Shoutout - Aqara28:00 – Smart Home Displays30:54 – Submit YOUR Questions Anonymously! 32:35 – Our Real Origin Story (MySpace, Hooters & Lifeguarding)50:57 – Why Shane Started a YouTube Channel57:10 – Tech of the Week + Apple Rumors1:04:15 – S**t Sandwhich#marriedlife #newpodcast #wifeapproved #smarthometechnology
This week Shane and Caroline are all over the place — from neglected smart home automations that make Caroline’s eye twitch 😬, to DIY “repairs” that never quite get finished, Hobby Lobby plant hauls, and even foam party flashbacks (yes, really).We also answer your questions about:• The infamous “lockout” story with smart locks• Which automations Caroline actually hates (spoiler: most of them)•How the family really feels about constant tech changes in the house• Why Shane neglects the smart home while chasing new gadgets• Robot vacuums & mops that finally actually clean📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you enjoy the laughs, rants, and real-life conversations, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe.Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here:https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Thanks to our sponsor Aqara for supporting this episode! Check out their affordable and reliable smart home products:• Doorbell Camera G410 https://amzn.to/3Jzu9py• Camera G100 Indoor/Outdoor https://amzn.to/47Ow0R7• LED Strip T1 https://amzn.to/4lP5Tx5• Ceiling Light T1M https://amzn.to/4oTKbKQ• Camera G5 Pro https://amzn.to/47Ox1Zr📝 Show Notes:Narwal Flow Robot Vacuum Mophttps://tidd.ly/3HhUJT9Note: Affiliate links help support the channel at no additional cost to you. Thanks for your support!📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcast⏱️ Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction01:02 – Caroline’s Eye Twitch Returns04:20 – Chemo Support & Family Stress10:08 – Hobby Lobby Plants & Christmas Plans15:26 – Shane’s Mustache & Foam Party Flashback21:42 – Neglected Smart Home Automations28:54 – Sponsor Shoutout: Aqara32:10 – Smart Lock Lockout Story38:36 – How the Family Handles New Tech45:55 – Robot Vacuums & Tech of the Week53:12 – Listener Questions
This week Shane and Caroline are diving into everything from back-to-school chaos and smart home automations (that may or may not drive Caroline insane 😅), to hair-day rules, new iPhones, exploding heads of lettuce, and the infamous network rack disaster that left holes in the wall and one very traumatized dog.
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Tech Stress & Smart Home Fails (But Also Some Wins)“I can’t imagine tinkering with technology. That sounds like hell on earth!”If you feel the same way — you’re not alone.In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane and Caroline dive into the wild ride of building a smart home while juggling real life, marriage, and back-to-school chaos.Shane reveals his latest smart home projects (including a new bedroom lighting setup), while Caroline shares her honest thoughts on the not-so-wife-approved tech fails that drive her crazy. They also answer listener questions (new regular segment) about balancing hobbies with family time and navigating marriage when one of you is deep in the tech rabbit hole.Whether you’re a smart home enthusiast or someone who just wants the lights to work without yelling at Siri — this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and some actually useful tips.
Welcome to the Wife Approved Podcast! We're super excited to kick off this journey and share a behind-the-scenes look at our lives, marriage, and our adventures in building a smart home. In this first episode, we dive into our motivations for starting this podcast, the challenges we face, and the laughter that comes with it. We want to create a space where we can be real, share our experiences, and hopefully connect with you on a deeper level.
Whether you're a tech enthusiast or just someone looking for relatable conversations about family life, we’ve got something for you. Join us as we explore the ups and downs of marriage, parenting, and everything in between. We promise to keep it honest, fun, and maybe even a little chaotic. So grab your headphones, tune in, and let’s embark on this exciting journey together!
New Episodes every Tuesday!
Welcome to the Wife Approved Podcast — a behind-the-scenes look at marriage, parenting, tech, and real life from Shane and Caroline Whatley.
Shane’s a smart home YouTuber. Caroline’s the one who has to live with all the gadgets.
Together, they’re pulling back the curtain on what life is really like — the chaos, the laughs, and the tech that sometimes works (and sometimes doesn’t).
Hit follow and get ready for honest convos, relatable stories, and a whole lot of “Did you seriously automate that?”
New episodes drop every Tuesday.
