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Why Will No One Date These Guys?
DateTheseGuys
152 episodes
5 months ago
It's been a long run but the podcasting police finally caught up to us for our many crimes and are forcing us on hiatus. This may not be the end of the podcast formally, but we are putting this on the backburner for the near future as Joel moves into a new career and Naomi...does more surfing or something. All credit to Disney for use of part of the Avengers Endgame Portals theme. Hey, this is crazy and completely unintentional, but Joel discovered that his favorite track from Lilo and Stit...
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It's been a long run but the podcasting police finally caught up to us for our many crimes and are forcing us on hiatus. This may not be the end of the podcast formally, but we are putting this on the backburner for the near future as Joel moves into a new career and Naomi...does more surfing or something. All credit to Disney for use of part of the Avengers Endgame Portals theme. Hey, this is crazy and completely unintentional, but Joel discovered that his favorite track from Lilo and Stit...
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Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 179: The Guy Siblings go on Hiatus
It's been a long run but the podcasting police finally caught up to us for our many crimes and are forcing us on hiatus. This may not be the end of the podcast formally, but we are putting this on the backburner for the near future as Joel moves into a new career and Naomi...does more surfing or something. All credit to Disney for use of part of the Avengers Endgame Portals theme. Hey, this is crazy and completely unintentional, but Joel discovered that his favorite track from Lilo and Stitch...
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1 year ago
38 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 178: Book Club - Intimate Matters: A History of Sexuality in America pt3
Joel and Naomi wrap up Intimate Matters by talking about same-sex relationships in the 19th and 20th century (including the Wild West!), Margaret Sanger and the contraceptive revolution, and the impact the Kinsey report had on both law and media before, during, and after its release. If it sounds like Joel was choking back his words for 90% of the episode...that's because he was coming down from a cold and stopping every 2 minutes to cough. Clever editing cut most of that out...but his ...
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1 year ago
1 hour 1 minute

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 177: Book Club - Intimate Matters: A History of Sexuality in America pt2
Joel and Naomi get back together to continue discussing Intimate Matters. In this section we talk more about community regulation of vice, how "queer" behavior was punished but also strangely tolerated by early settlers, the "duty" of sex in relationhips, how 17th century Enlightenment ideas radically changed people's perspectives on individual happiness, and how prostitution filled a social vacuum left by wars and new settlement patterns during the same period. Joel also goes on a tear about...
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1 year ago
1 hour 10 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 176: Book Club - Intimate Matters: A History of Sexuality in America pt1
Joel and Naomi get together to discuss a unassuming book no one has ever heard of. Yes, we continue to make smart choices that expand our audience and move us closer to careers of full-time podcasting. Go us!We discuss Intimate Matters, a 1988 book that does an incredible job breaking down the social, political, religious, and economic factors that heavily influenced relationships, family patterns, and sexual behavior throughout American history. In part 1 we go way back to early English colo...
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1 year ago
1 hour 6 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 175: Catchup and Guys 5
It's been 10 months since we last dropped intimate deals of our lives and lessons we've learned about the world so we felt entitled to share some stuff. Well, actually we had another episode planned but Naomi shared a completely whackadoodle travel story that derailed Joel and Naomi chat about NYC travel to see the Pickle Guys, Joel's new and amazing podcast ideas, Naomi's recent move, and Joel's intimate thoughts about weddings and why no one should ever hold one. Unrelated, but he's getting...
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1 year ago
1 hour 6 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 174: Intro to Kink pt2
Naomi and Joel get together to discuss more kink specifics including some of the kink created by different cultural periods, the kinkiest presidents, and how kink is talked about in media. DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and have now started doing the same for Palestine support. Send proof to our email that you made a donation to fight any kind of genocide and we'll send you some stuff in ...
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1 year ago
1 hour 7 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 173: Intro to Kink pt1
Naomi and Joel get together to discuss the basics of kink, everything ranging from BDSM to findom to the principles surrounding consent. We also come up with some good movie ideas. The AI companies are crashing and burning and hopefully Hollywood will come crawling back to us eventually. Phoot credit to Anna Shevts on Pexels.com DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and have now started doing th...
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1 year ago
1 hour 2 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 172: Book Club - The Straight State pt3
In part 3 we wrap-up our discussion of the Straight State by discussing how military regulations of homosexual behavior in the early 20th century helped shaped queer culture for decades to come. Find a copy of the book here.DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and have now started doing the same for Palestine support. Send proof to our email that you made a donation to fight any kind of g...
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1 year ago
1 hour 14 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 171: Book Club - The Straight State pt2
In part 2 of the Straight State we discuss the links between queerness and tramp lifestyles in the 1930's, how federal work programs like the FTP and the CCC helped shape public perception of queerness, and how backlash to and support of different forms of social assistance during this era was likely due to concerns about a lack of jobs making people gay. No, seriously. Find a copy of the book here.DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still maki...
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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 170: Book Club - The Straight State
Joel and Naomi get together to discuss more queer history with this book, a guide to how US government policy in the 19th and 20th century helped shape and reinforce ideas about queerness across America. In this part we discuss Joel's half-remembered recollection of Foucault's History of Sexuality and author Margot Canaday's in-depth discussion of queer immigration policy. Find a copy of the book here. DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still ...
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1 year ago
1 hour 11 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 168: No, Arizona is Probably Not the 49th Worst State for Dating (and other Spokeo lies)
You may have seen some news making the rounds about a new study that claims to have objectively ranked all the US States according to how friendly they are for singles. We were skeptical of this claim and dug into the data – believe it or not, there are issues. Join us to discussing the importance of accurate variable weighing, checking the sources of one’s data, and covering up your classism a bit better. We also talk a little bit about what the uncritical coverage of this dreadful material ...
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1 year ago
1 hour 18 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 167 - How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex pt3
Joel and Naomi wrap up our discussion of this book by talking about the rise of dating apps, Joel's hot takes on Bridgerton, how queer culture was encouraged (and discouraged) by different groups, and the weird history/development of early internet-enabled sex toys. Joel also finds a way to squeeze in a rant about worker's rights. Go figure. DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and ...
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1 year ago
1 hour 10 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 166 - How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex pt2
In part 2 we continue to discuss Samantha Cole's amazing internet history. We dig into the emergence of images and some of the initial ethical issues involved in image sharing, how early virtual smut was shared prior to images, the sectioning-off of the early tech industry, major technological innovations pushed by the early adult industry, and how early adult websites sometimes found success and how that shaped the lives of the operators. Find a copy of the book here at writer Samantha Cole'...
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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 165 - How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex pt1
Joel and Naomi get together to discuss an amazing collection of essays exploring early internet history and how that shaped, reinforced, and sometimes changed the sexuality and love lives of the earliest users. We dig into the early "SEX" Operating Systems, talk about how early forums and chat rooms changed the lives of millions, dig into the earliest attempts at internal regulation of internet content, and wrap up with a abbreviated history of how government attempts at censorship yielded a ...
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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 164: Book Club - More pt2
Jojo and NaO finish up the second part of More, digging into the juicy tidbits of the author's polyamorous relationships. Joel provides a bunch of feedback about how uncomfortable this makes him and how this whole thing seems like a weird combination of cashgrab/fetish thing/recontextualization of events/confession. One big problem with the podcast format is how poorly our quiet looks of confusion and awkward cringing translate to the audio - trust us, there was a lot of that this time. DTG d...
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1 year ago
58 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 163: The Guy Family 3rd Anniversary Episode Spectacular!
Joel and Naomi touch base for a third year in a row to pull our hair out, gloat about podcast successes around the world, talk about future plans, and catch up with Giselle, Rj, and Tazmin. If your favorite scene in Wizard of OZ was the one where they see the man behind the curtain, this is the episode for you. All credit to Judy Collins for use of the "Send in the Clowns" backup music. DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making mont...
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1 year ago
1 hour 13 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 162: Book Club - More pt1
Joel and Naomi get together to discuss the general culture around polyamory and More: A Memoir of Open Marriage by Molly Roden Winter. DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and have now started doing the same for Palestine support. Send proof to our email that you made a donation to fight any kind of genocide and we'll send you some stuff in appreciation. Consider some of the following:UN ...
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1 year ago
1 hour

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 161: What's New in the World of Dating Apps
Joel and Naomi catchup on how we're using our "twenty twenty door" mantra then get into a discussion about the wacky new stuff in the world of dating. We discuss TruBluu, a dating app for progressives, Volar, a dating app where AIs go on dates for you, the philosopher Zizek's musings on sex toys, the ever-rising cost of dating apps, the rise of dating app coaches, the return of in-person meetups, and the possibility that online dating can be just as effective randomly pairing people tog...
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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 159: Some Stuff About Body Image
Naomi and Joel talk about the rising tide of body image issues and some stuff that may or may not make people feel better about themselves.Here's a gallery of what people of different body sizes look like. DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and have now started doing the same for Palestine support. Send proof to our email that you made a donation to fight any kind of genocide and we'll...
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1 year ago
1 hour 6 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
Episode 158: Actually Good (mostly) Romantic Media pt3
In this one we discuss the medical drama series The Resident, the trauma-bonding science fiction film Upstream Color, the polyamory memoir "More," the lesbian romance drama manga How Do We Relationship, the gangster/rich person drama The Gentlemen, the immigrant relationship drama Past Lives, the Meryl Streep romcom It's Complicated, the Spiderman fanfiction comic "Spider-Sense and Sensibility," the "Things We Never Got Over" series, the existential philosophy/multiverse theory fi...
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1 year ago
1 hour 6 minutes

Why Will No One Date These Guys?
It's been a long run but the podcasting police finally caught up to us for our many crimes and are forcing us on hiatus. This may not be the end of the podcast formally, but we are putting this on the backburner for the near future as Joel moves into a new career and Naomi...does more surfing or something. All credit to Disney for use of part of the Avengers Endgame Portals theme. Hey, this is crazy and completely unintentional, but Joel discovered that his favorite track from Lilo and Stit...