In this episode, Paul, Andrew, and Marchem Pfeiffer discuss the challenges of burnout and recovery for dads. Markham shares his personal journey from military service to becoming a leadership coach, emphasizing the importance of self-advocacy, healing, and accountability. They explore the impact of workplace PTSD, the overlap between leadership and parenting, and the necessity of building a supportive community. Marchem provides practical tools for navigating life's challenges and highlights the significance of coping mechanisms to avoid burnout. The conversation concludes with a focus on the importance of knowing oneself and prioritizing mental health.

In this episode of the Why Dad Podcast, hosts Paul and Andrew delve into the significance of crucial conversations in parenting and relationships. They explore the definition of crucial conversations, the importance of having tough discussions, and the consequences of avoiding them. The hosts provide strategies for successful conversations, introduce the HEAR framework for effective communication, and discuss the benefits of engaging in these conversations for personal growth and family dynamics. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to reflect on their own conversations and to embrace the challenge of having difficult discussions.

On this episode of Why Dad?, Paul and Andrew sit down with Cory Carlson — former corporate executive turned leadership coach, speaker, and author of Win at Home First and Rise and Go. Cory takes us through the pivotal moment that changed his definition of success: a dinner where status and material talk felt empty beside conversations about family. From there, he describes how he began rewriting his life around aligning priorities with purpose. Together, we dive into: The 5 P’s framework that helped Cory craft a purpose statement How identity can shift when we tie too much to achievement Practical habits to recalibrate when life derails you What it means to show up intentionally for your kids Why community, resilience, and faith matter in balancing work and home If you ever feel like you're doing “everything right” and still missing something, this episode is for you.

Paul and Andrew kick back for a lighthearted “tweenisode.” From paternity leave lessons to lemonade stand drama to a father-son car project 15 years in the making, the guys share laughs, stories, and a few solid dad nuggets about patience, presence, and building unique bonds with your kids.

Licensed play therapist and serial entrepreneur David Schatzkamer joins Why, Dad? to unpack why play isn’t just for kids—it’s the native language of connection. David shares real-world stories and professional insights to show how dads (and moms) can build deeper relationships with their children by learning to slow down, listen, and engage through play. From bedtime stalling to dragon hunting on a hike, the episode explores how everyday parenting challenges become moments of growth and bonding when approached with curiosity, presence, and a playful spirit.

Summary In this episode of the Why Dad podcast, hosts Paul and Andrew explore the concept of 'showing up' as a father, discussing the challenges and barriers that prevent parents from being present. They share personal experiences and practical strategies for overcoming these obstacles, emphasizing the importance of intentionality, self-care, and connection with children. The conversation highlights the significance of modeling behavior for kids and the power of apologies in strengthening relationships. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder that showing up is a continuous journey of progress rather than perfection.

In this thoughtful and grounded conversation, Noémi Beres joins us to talk about creativity, parenting, and the quiet work of reconnecting with yourself while raising a family. From navigating the realities of parenting a teenager to returning to art after years of burnout, Noémi shares what it means to show up with honesty, softness, and a little space to breathe.

In this episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew dive into the role grandparents and extended family play in our kids' lives—and how those relationships shape not only our children, but our parenting too. From navigating mismatched parenting styles to embracing the “village” of support, the conversation is rich with real stories, honest reflection, and a good dose of humor. Paul shares both the beauty and the challenge of raising kids near involved grandparents, and Andrew brings the perspective of an intentional uncle learning what it means to show up with love and respect.

In this episode of Why, Dad?, we sit down with entrepreneur and father of three grown kids, Matt Edmundson, to explore what it looks like to parent with long-term perspective. Matt shares lessons from raising his kids into adulthood—what worked, what didn’t, and the small things that mattered most. From “Fridge Rights” to scheduled dinner at 6:00, his approach is thoughtful, intentional, and packed with practical wisdom for dads in the trenches. If you're trying to lead your family without losing yourself in the chaos, this conversation is full of insight and encouragement.

In this episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew unpack one of the most misunderstood parenting ideas out there: Gentle Parenting. They break down what it is, what it isn’t, and why so many dads (especially those who grew up with stricter models) find themselves confused by it. This is not a conversation about letting your kids walk all over you. It’s about holding boundaries and connection at the same time. With real-life moments, honest disagreements, and practical reflections, this episode challenges the idea that “respectful” means “permissive.” Whether you’re deep in toddler tantrums or just trying not to lose it after work, there’s something here for you.

In this episode, Paul and Andrew down in person with their friend Nick Jensen to talk about one of the most overlooked aspects of parenting: what it means to still show up, even when you're exhausted, overwhelmed, or emotionally tapped out. Nick reflects on his own fatherhood journey — juggling long days at work with the desire to be fully present at home, even when he’s got nothing left in the tank. They talk about guilt, grace, and the hard-earned wisdom of learning that presence doesn’t require perfection. This is an honest, heartfelt episode for the dads (and parents) who know what it’s like to walk through the door and face one more mess, one more meltdown, or one more bedtime battle — and still show up.

In this episode, Paul and Baba get real about what it takes to stay healthy as a dad — not just physically, but emotionally too. From therapy and fatigue to donuts and discipline, this episode explores how taking care of yourself helps you show up better for the people who need you most.

In this episode, Paul and Andrew welcome their very first guest — parenting educator, counselor, and author Jon Fogel (aka @wholeparent). Jon unpacks the difference between punishment and consequences, challenges traditional ideas of discipline, and offers a completely reframed vision of what it means to raise emotionally healthy, curious, and confident kids. This episode explores why parenting shouldn’t be about control, how we often sabotage our long-term goals in the name of short-term obedience, and what it looks like to lead with intention, curiosity, and calm. Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned parent, or just trying to break old cycles, this conversation is full of “oh dang” moments.

In this episode, Paul and Andrew dig into one of the most powerful (and often under-discussed) parenting skills: teaching our kids how to think. From silly moments like mistaking cows for horses to deeper reflections on autonomy and identity, they explore how critical thinking shows up in everyday parenting—and how easy it is to accidentally shut it down. You’ll hear personal stories, lots of questions, and practical ways to help raise thoughtful, independent kids in a world full of easy answers.

Disclaimer: Please don't close your eyes as instructed if you are driving or doing anything else dangerous. In this episode of the Why, Dad? Podcast, we explore the transformative power of gratitude and how it shapes us as fathers. "Putting the Gratitude in Attitude: The Power of a Gratitude Mindset" dives into the essential role gratitude plays in our lives, from strengthening our parenting to improving our personal well-being. Join us as we discuss practical ways to embrace a gratitude mindset, the lessons we’re passing on to our children, and why this mindset isn’t just a feel-good word—it’s a life-changing habit. Whether you’re new to the podcast or a regular listener, you won’t want to miss this enriching conversation on living with intention, positivity, and thankfulness.

Disclaimer: expect some minor audio issues due to one of our hosts calling in from a remote location. In this episode, Paul and Andrew dive into a thought-provoking clip from a popular parenting influencer, where the idea that parents shouldn’t teach their kids "what" to learn, but instead create an environment where they can discover "what they want to learn," is explored. This leads to a deep discussion about the role of fathers in guiding their children. Should we just get out of the way and let kids figure it all out, or is there a balance between giving them autonomy and imparting essential life lessons? Join the guys as they reflect on the nuanced idea of parenthood — sharing their thoughts on humility, the power of learning through guidance, and how to cultivate curiosity while instilling values. Whether you're a father, aspiring dad, or simply contemplating what it means to raise children in today’s unpredictable world, this episode offers insightful perspectives on being the best version of yourself as a parent. Don't miss out on this candid conversation about growth, wisdom, and the fine art of letting go. Let us know how you approach teaching your kids and creating that balance in your own lives!

What does it mean to prepare for fatherhood before it even begins? In this episode, Paul and Andrew explore the journey of an aspiring dad—Andrew's personal reflections on his desire to become a father, the challenges of preparing for that role, and the intentional steps he's taking to become the best version of himself. From discussing the influence of their own fathers to the values and habits that shape a strong future dad, this conversation offers a unique perspective for both seasoned fathers and men contemplating fatherhood. How do you prepare for something so life-changing? When is the right time? And what qualities truly matter when searching for a life partner to build a family with? Join us for an honest, insightful, and sometimes humorous discussion on the hopes, fears, and growth that come with aspiring to be a dad. 💬 Share your thoughts, questions, and experiences with us—we’d love to hear from you! 📌 Follow, like, and subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, growth, and becoming the best version of yourself.

In this behind the scenes episode of 'Why, Dad?', Paul and Andrew dive into one of the biggest milestones in parenthood—welcoming a new child into the family. Paul opens up about the birth of his son, Liam, and reflects on the emotions, challenges, and joys of transitioning from a family of three to four. They discuss the mix of relief and excitement, the struggles of early parenthood, and how older siblings adapt to a new baby in the house. The conversation also touches on postpartum emotions for dads, the evolving bond between father and child, and the importance of staying on course through life's inevitable upheavals. Whether you're a new dad, expecting, or just curious about the raw realities of parenting, this episode is full of honest reflections, humor, and wisdom.

Habits shape who we are, whether we realize it or not. In this episode, Paul and Andrew break down the science of habits, why they matter, and how to leverage them to take control of your life. From battling the 'whack-a-mole' cycle of self-improvement to stacking small wins for big success, they share practical tips for building better habits and breaking bad ones.

What separates those who thrive from those who are stuck drifting aimlessly or in an unending loop of failed habits? One word: Grit. In this episode, Paul and Andrew peel back the onion of resilience—what it is, why it matters, and how we can develop it in ourselves and our kids. Learn practical ways to help push through challenges, embrace failure, and build grit.