You're Allowed To Disappear (The New Rules Of Friendship)

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Whimsy World

Elle Beecher and Cameron Hogan

46 episodes

3 days ago

Welcome to Whimsy World: a playground for curiosity, deep conversations, and being human. If you’re looking for conversations that make you feel, think, laugh, and grow… you’re in the right place. Hosted by love birds Elle Beecher and Cameron Hogan, this is where we explore the big questions and small moments that shape who we are across a range of topics: love, business, consciousness, and everything in between. Join us to feel ALIVE, ask questions, and remember your magic. ✨

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You're Allowed To Disappear (The New Rules Of Friendship)

Whimsy World

25 minutes 2 seconds

3 days ago

You're Allowed To Disappear (The New Rules Of Friendship)

"If you wouldn't let them through your front door, they're not getting in the community."

In the final part of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, we completely redefine what friendship means in 2025, and why the old rules are making everyone miserable.

Elle and Cam break down why feeling obligated to respond to every text, show up to every event, or maintain weekly check-ins is actually preventing real connection. They share why the best friendships operate on spontaneity and flow rather than rigid expectations.

What we explore:

• Why "I haven't posted since 2011" people don't understand the attention differential

• The evolution of friendship from obligation-based to flow-based connection

• Why real friends can disappear for 6 months and pick up where they left off

• How we're building a community where healthy attachment is the default

• The passive-aggressive friendship texts that signal unhealthy attachment ("Did you fall off the Earth?")

• Why you don't owe anyone your time, energy, or immediate response

• How redefining "friend" makes room for actual depth and presence

This isn't about being a bad friend. It's about building friendships that don't drain you, where you show up because you genuinely want to, not because you're obligated to.

If you've ever felt exhausted by friendship expectations, guilty for not texting back, or suffocated by people who need constant validation... this conversation will set you free.

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About Your Hosts:

Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.

Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.