We're diving deep into one of the most controversial topics in relationships: what to do when you're out of alignment with your partner.
I know what most relationship coaches tell you: "work through it," "compromise," "relationships take work." But here's our honest take: if you're truly out of alignment with someone, they're not your person. Period.
In this episode, Cam and Elle break down:
If you're tired of settling, tired of the "dating is hard" narrative, and ready to attract someone who's actually aligned with the highest version of yourself - this episode is for you.
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Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning.
Elle Beecher helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (151 so far), hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (220 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks.
CHAPTERS
0:00 Welcome Back & Some Toxic Relationship Advice
2:38 You Don't Need To Be Perfect To Find Love (But You Need To Be On The Path)
5:38 The Two Types Of Alignment That Actually Matter In Relationships
10:26 Why We're Being Bombarded With Negative Dating Stories (And It's Not An Accident)
12:54 The Voice Note Exercise That Will Expose All Your Limiting Beliefs
19:33 The "Good Men/Women Moments" Assignment
24:23 Why Extremely Attractive People Can Still Be Repulsive
30:38 How Choosing Differently Creates A Completely New Reality
35:38 The Secret: You Can't Misalign With Someone Who Shares Your Core Values
