Ever feel exhausted from constantly "showing up" no matter how you actually feel?
Elle and Cam get vulnerable about the hidden cost of extreme consistency and why our productivity-obsessed culture is burning everyone out.
After hosting 156 weekly walks with less than 10 missed sessions, Elle discovers through human design that her true gift isn't consistency—it's teaching people to follow their natural rhythms. 🌙
They dive into the difference between feminine "being" energy and masculine "doing" energy. From showering in silence to breathing from your belly instead of your chest, they share real ways to reconnect with your intuition.
Plus, they announce their radical 14-day tech detox where they're literally putting all devices in a closet. 📱
Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is absolutely nothing.
If you're tired of feeling like a human doing instead of a human being, this episode will give you permission to finally rest!
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Who are these people? 👀
Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning.
Elle Beecher helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks.
💌 CHAPTERS
0:00 Balancing The Feminine And Masculine Energies
4:55 Why We Need To Balance Doing And Being
13:49 Why And How To Reconnect With Your Feminine Energy
22:44 What Elle's Exploration Of Human Design Revealed About Her Gifts
29:43 Elle's Consistency Docket (And What She Realized About Burnout)
38:23 Permission To Rest (Yes, Really—It's Okay)
43:03 Moving Cyclically Between Rest And Action Cycles For Greatest Impact
45:03 Our 14 Day Technology Detox Experiment (And Why We Decided To Do It)
