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Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Dr. Melissa Bedford
30 episodes
1 month ago
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Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
The Real 4 Letter “F” Word: Family
Pour yourself a fresh cup and settle in as the “What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z” crew dives headfirst into the hot topic of blended families—and why the very concept of “family” is way more complicated (and relatable!) than it used to be. Dr. Melissa stirs the pot as our wise Gen Xer, Amber brings real talk and heart from the Millennial angle, and Zion keeps it candid for Gen Z. From redefining family beyond bloodlines and pets-turned-siblings, to bonus parents and the sticky expectation soup that comes with change, no generational experience is left unsipped. Hear stories of love after loss, navigating new traditions, respecting boundaries, and the sometimes messy reality of forging connection—even when the “white picket fence” dream looks different than you planned. Expect honest vulnerability, a few laughs (yes, someone brings up Professor X), and real strategies for surviving—and thriving—in the ever-evolving definition of family. Whether you’re building new bonds, blending households, or making peace with loving people from a distance, this episode offers a cup full of common ground with a shot of unfiltered truth. Ready to bridge the gap and spill your own tea? Grab your mug and press play. Family isn’t one-size-fits-all, and that’s what makes this conversation so powerful.   Ready to stir the pot? Let’s sip the tea together. 🎙️🔥☕
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1 month ago
46 minutes

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
The Real 4 Letter “F” Word: Family
Pour yourself a fresh cup and settle in as the “What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z” crew dives headfirst into the hot topic of blended families—and why the very concept of “family” is way more complicated (and relatable!) than it used to be. Dr. Melissa stirs the pot as our wise Gen Xer, Amber brings real talk and heart from the Millennial angle, and Zion keeps it candid for Gen Z. From redefining family beyond bloodlines and pets-turned-siblings, to bonus parents and the sticky expectation soup that comes with change, no generational experience is left unsipped. Hear stories of love after loss, navigating new traditions, respecting boundaries, and the sometimes messy reality of forging connection—even when the “white picket fence” dream looks different than you planned. Expect honest vulnerability, a few laughs (yes, someone brings up Professor X), and real strategies for surviving—and thriving—in the ever-evolving definition of family. Whether you’re building new bonds, blending households, or making peace with loving people from a distance, this episode offers a cup full of common ground with a shot of unfiltered truth. Ready to bridge the gap and spill your own tea? Grab your mug and press play. Family isn’t one-size-fits-all, and that’s what makes this conversation so powerful.   Ready to stir the pot? Let’s sip the tea together. 🎙️🔥☕
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2 months ago
38 minutes

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
The Real Truth about “Cappin” (Lying)
Pour a cup and brace yourself—because this week’s episode of What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z is serving up serious realness! 🎙️☕ Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion are diving into the spicy world of honesty: Is it really always the best policy, or are there moments when keeping it real goes off the rails? From revealing hard truths about cheating partners and questionable outfits to navigating the “delicate” topic of stinky breath, nothing is off limits as our multi-generational hosts confess just how conditional their honesty really is. They spill on family drama, awkward friendship moments, and even the origins of Gen Z’s favorite slang (what is “cap,” anyway?). Expect hilarious debates, relatable stories, and a surprising amount of self-reflection as our trio wrestles with when to tell the truth, when to soften the blow—and when a little white lie might just save the day. Jump into the conversation that’s as thoughtful as it is entertaining. Are we all liars deep down? Tune in to find out, and share where you draw your line between truth and tact! Ready to stir the pot? Let’s sip the tea together. 🎙️🔥☕
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2 months ago
45 minutes 31 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Leaders, Loners, and Lost in the Middle: Birth Order Conversations
Ready for a hot cup of truth? Ever wondered how much of who you are comes down to when you arrived in the family lineup? Are the oldest really the “guinea pigs,” are middles forever overlooked, and do only children get that VIP suite for attention? Pour yourself a cup and pull up a chair, because on this episode of “What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z,” Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion are breaking down all the juiciest truths about birth order! From the high-stakes leadership of the eldest (and all that comes with being the “practice child”), to the unique frustrations and flexes of the middle, to the solo journeys (and quiet cravings for siblings) of only children, no stone—or stereotype—is left unturned. The hosts get real about their family roles, swapping hilarious stories about parental exhaustion, sibling “co-workers,” and even diving into the science and psychology behind it all. There’s talk of family dinner orders, parental energy, matching plaid shirts on TV, and, yes, somehow, fried chicken. Whether you’re an only, a classic middle, or the oldest with all the “prestige” (and pressure), you’ll find yourself nodding, laughing, and maybe even rethinking what your family position has meant for you. Plus, learn why you should check your knees to figure out birth order—no, really. Stirring up humor, honesty, and just enough healthy debate, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever wondered how their spot in the family shaped who they are today. Tune in, and join the conversation on finding connection and common ground—no matter where you land in the sibling lineup!🎙️🔥☕
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2 months ago
40 minutes 10 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Fired After 34 Years?! Empty Nesting, Messy Transitions, and Generational Real Talk
 🌟✨Ready for a hot cup of truth? In this season premiere of “What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z,” Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion take you on an emotional (and often hilarious) journey through what really happens when the kids grow up and leave the nest. Dr. Melissa gets personal about “getting fired” from her 34-year job as a full-time mom and stepping into the uncharted waters of empty nesting. The hosts spill the tea from every angle—parent, child, and everything in between. How do you redefine yourself when the kids are grown? Why do those family roles feel impossible to shake? What happens when boundaries, communication, and a healthy dose of love create… well, a bit of messy chaos? With lots of laughter, true vulnerability, and a few almost-tearful moments, this episode dives into generational perspectives on shifting parental roles. Whether you’re a parent, a “grown” child, or just gearing up for your own next big transition, you’ll find honest advice, practical wisdom, and comfort in knowing you’re not doing this alone. Pull up a chair (and maybe a tissue)—this tea is piping hot and refreshingly real. Tune in, and let's brew up a conversation that crosses age borders with love, understanding, and perhaps a little bit of critique—because when it comes to love and life, we're all figuring it out, one cup at a time.🎙️🔥☕
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3 months ago
29 minutes 16 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Why ‘I Forgive But Don’t Forget’ Might Be Holding You Back!
🌟✨In this thought-provoking episode of "What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z," join hosts Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion as they dive into the complexities of forgiveness—a topic as old as time yet ever so relevant across generations. This episode promises a rich blend of humor, deep insights, and perhaps a dash of healthy debate as they each bring their unique perspectives to the table. Dr. Melissa anchors the conversation with her profound insights into forgiveness as freedom and a gift you give yourself, while Amber shares her fresh journey into forgiving family and finding peace in the process. Zion brings a youthful lens, grappling with forgiving those who may not even seek forgiveness. Together, they demystify the sometimes elusive concept of letting go, reminding us all of its significant role in personal and interpersonal healing. Adding a splash of light-heartedness to the mix, they delve into the dynamics of honesty in friendships, with a humorous aside on navigating the perilous waters of birthday makeup critiques. Tune in for a session that not only explores the generational nuances of forgiveness but also challenges listeners to reflect on their own paths to letting go. So, fill your cup with your favorite brew and indulge in this generational dialogue that's both a balm for the soul and a call to action for hearts ready to forgive. Tune in, and let's brew up a conversation that crosses age borders with love, understanding, and perhaps a little bit of critique—because when it comes to love and life, we're all figuring it out, one cup at a time.🎙️🔥☕
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6 months ago
48 minutes 55 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Lying, Stealing, and Redemption: How Many Chances Do We Get?
 🌟✨Dive into a captivating discussion in Season 2 Episode 10 of "What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z" as Amber, Dr. Melissa, and Zion tackle the complex concept of redemption. This episode, aptly titled "evm," stirs the pot with an engaging debate about the defining power of temporary behaviors and societal labels. Are you forever defined by a single mistake, or is redemption on the table for everyone? With humor and insight, the hosts challenge the notion of whether a momentary slip-up brands us irrevocably or if genuine change can absolve us of past deeds. From lying and stealing to discussions of societal forgiveness and personal accountability, this episode navigates the tricky waters of judgment and redemption. Join the conversation as they bridge generational perspectives and explore how we can redefine and forgive ourselves—and others—while keeping a cup of truth brewing. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking exploration of redemption and its role in our lives!   Tune in, and let's brew up a conversation that crosses age borders with love, understanding, and perhaps a little bit of critique—because when it comes to love and life, we're all figuring it out, one cup at a time.🎙️🔥☕  🌟✨Dive into a captivating discussion in Season 2 Episode 10 of "What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z" as Amber, Dr. Melissa, and Zion tackle the complex concept of redemption. This episode, aptly titled "evm," stirs the pot with an engaging debate about the defining power of temporary behaviors and societal labels. Are you forever defined by a single mistake, or is redemption on the table for everyone? With humor and insight, the hosts challenge the notion of whether a momentary slip-up brands us irrevocably or if genuine change can absolve us of past deeds. From lying and stealing to discussions of societal forgiveness and personal accountability, this episode navigates the tricky waters of judgment and redemption. Join the conversation as they bridge generational perspectives and explore how we can redefine and forgive ourselves—and others—while keeping a cup of truth brewing. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking exploration of redemption and its role in our lives!   Tune in, and let's brew up a conversation that crosses age borders with love, understanding, and perhaps a little bit of critique—because when it comes to love and life, we're all figuring it out, one cup at a time.🎙️🔥☕
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7 months ago
37 minutes 17 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Help is on the Way: Laughs, Lessons, and Generational Insights
🌟✨In this episode of "What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z," we dive into the nuanced topic of enabling and its impact across generations. Join hosts Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion as they spill the tea on how enabling affects relationships and personal growth. From Dr. Melissa's relatable story of singing her wedding song amidst DJ mishaps to insights about the difference between genuine help and enabling, this episode promises laughter, reflection, and valuable life lessons. Discover how embracing imperfections and fostering self-awareness can transform the way we interact with others. Whether you're an enabler or the enabled, this conversation bridges the generation gap with humor and wisdom. So grab a cup, settle in, and get ready to sip on some truth! Tune in, and let's brew up a conversation that crosses age borders with love, understanding, and perhaps a little bit of critique—because when it comes to love and life, we're all figuring it out, one cup at a time.🎙️🔥☕
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7 months ago
41 minutes 1 second

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Collaborate or Conform: Navigating Gender Roles Across Generations
 🌟✨Join us for an electrifying episode of "What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z" as we stir the pot on gender roles across generations. Our hosts, Dr. Melissa, Zion, Amber, and special guest Cynthia, dive deep into the evolving dynamics of relationships and expectations in modern society. From idolized celebrity couples to the everyday intricacies of 50/50 partnerships, this conversation is both refreshingly honest and humorously insightful. Explore how social media influences our views and why being "the prize" isn't so black-and-white. Plus, hear firsthand accounts of navigating relationships with grace and genuine care, bridging the generational gap one story at a time. Whether you're sipping on tea, coffee, or just a refreshing cup of truth, this episode guarantees laughter, occasional debates, and a whole lot of perspective. Tune in, and let's brew up a conversation that crosses age borders with love, understanding, and perhaps a little bit of critique—because when it comes to love and life, we're all figuring it out, one cup at a time.🎙️🔥☕
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7 months ago
48 minutes 11 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
From Frank Sinatra to Kendrick Lamar: Bridging the Musical Divide
In this episode of "What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z," hosts Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion embark on a harmonious journey through the heartbeats of generational soundscapes. Dive into a lively debate as they explore the intricate tapestry of music's role across generations, from soul-stirring classics to modern beats. Discover the stories behind the melodies that defined their eras and the common ground where rhythm and lyrics meet. Join in as they traverse the significance of music as a reflection of life and societal narratives. Listen to Dr. Melissa recount the days of early rap poetry, Amber share how old-school beats soothe the soul, and Zion advocate for the empowering messages within today's tracks. With a dash of humor and a sprinkle of nostalgia, the hosts untangle the race and genre barriers that music has transcended over time. Catch the engaging discussion on artists pushing boundaries and the important question of whether music mirrors or molds our world. Will the generations find harmony or strike a discordant note? Press play to find out and stay tuned for a cross-generational dialogue with more beats, insights, and, of course, a sprinkle of Patsy Cline and Frank Sinatra. Get ready to sip the tea on "Bridging the Musical Divide," where every note tells a story, and every beat bridges divides, one cup at a time.
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8 months ago
40 minutes 57 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
From Soul Food to DoorDash: Changing Mealtime Traditions Across Generations
In this episode of "What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z", Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion serve up a flavorful discussion on the evolution of mealtime across generations. From the traditional dinner table gatherings that shaped Dr. Melissa's Gen X upbringing to the convenience of meal delivery apps embraced by Zion's Gen Z peers, the hosts explore how food culture and family connections have transformed over time. With humor and honesty, they brew up insights on everything from the nostalgic soul food that united families to the fast-paced, app-driven dining landscape of today. Are we sacrificing connections for convenience? How can we balance our cravings with health-conscious choices? Join the hosts as they navigate these questions, bridging generational gaps and redefining the ties that bind us – one meal at a time. Get ready to sip on some fresh perspectives and hearty debate, all while stirring up a pot of thought-provoking conversation.🎙️
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9 months ago
34 minutes 6 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
TikTok Turmoil: Is the Hype Worth the Hassle?
 In this electrifying episode of What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z, hosts Amber, Zion, and Dr. Melissa wade through the social media frenzy that is TikTok. 🌟 With a nail-biting dip into the ban and resurrection of the app, they dive deep into the heart of its impact on generations and the economy. Dr. Melissa keeps it real about her secret to a robust TikTok following and Zion and Amber hash out whether putting all your eggs in the TikTok basket is sound strategy or a risky business. 🤔💼 From the educational gems TikTok offers to the strategies needed for content creators to pivot if the platform vanishes, no stone is left unturned. Whether you are a die-hard TikTok fan or a skeptical Gen X-er, this episode promises a steaming pot of insights, debates, and laughter. 🎙️🔥 Join the conversation that’s bridging generational gaps, one cup of piping hot tea at a time. ☕ Tune in now and discover what’s brewing in the world of TikTok
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9 months ago
37 minutes 45 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Comfort Zones: The Silent Dream Killers
 Join us for a delightful brew of insights and laughter in this riveting episode of "What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z." Hosts Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion take you on an engaging journey as they explore the multifaceted world of opportunities through the unique perspectives of three different generations. 🌍👩‍🏫👱‍♀️👨‍🎤 What does it mean to seize the opportunity of a lifetime, and how do missed opportunities shape our paths? With humor and honesty, our hosts discuss everything from entrepreneurial dreams and societal pressures, to the impact of comfort zones and the real meaning behind being an 'opportunist' across various age groups. 💼💭✨ Dr. Melissa brings the seasoned wisdom of Gen X, challenging us to align opportunities with our core values and purpose. Amber, representing the millennials, delves into the challenges and growth from taking risks and balancing responsibilities. Zion, the voice of Gen Z, highlights the struggles with social anxiety and the evolving landscape of what opportunities mean in today's world. 🤔📈🕵️‍♀️🌱 This episode is a rich blend of storytelling, practical advice, and genuine moments that will make you rethink how you view opportunities in your own life. So, whether you're sipping on success or stirring your way through challenges, pour yourself a cup of truth and wisdom with this episode. Tune in and stir the pot with us as we bridge generational gaps, one cup at a time! 🫖☕💬 Take a seat, pour your favorite brew, and let’s unpack the world of opportunities together in this steaming hot episode. You won’t want to miss it! 🎧
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9 months ago
34 minutes 19 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Surviving the Storm: How We Turned Tragedy into Purpose! 🌟
Join Dr. Melissa, Amber, and Zion in this deeply moving episode of "What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, and Z," where they masterfully unravel the intricate dance between life's beauty and chaos. Together, they delve into the raw and authentic narratives of personal trauma and resilience, making this episode both heart-wrenching and incredibly hopeful. 💪 From Trauma to Triumph: Discover the transformative power of Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG) and hear firsthand how our panelists have turned their most painful experiences into a source of strength and purpose. Amber opens up about her profound loss, sharing the bittersweet journey of turning grief into a beacon for her children and others. Zion’s compelling anecdotes on resilience and growth through adversity will leave you inspired to view your own struggles in a new light. 🤝 Empathy and Community: With a heartfelt discussion on the Black community's cultural norms around suppression of emotions, the panel emphasizes the necessity of authentic healing and the importance of seeking support. Learn how perspective shapes our response to trauma and how we can harness it to aid others in similar situations. ⚓ Hope and Healing: Dr. Melissa’s wisdom shines through as she uses metaphors and personal experiences to guide us toward honoring our life's "dash" — the time between birth and death. Whether it’s about finding peace in broken pieces or the difference between being "planted" vs. "buried," this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone navigating life's stormy seas. Tune in for a thought-provoking blend of honest storytelling, humor, and actionable advice, and find out why sometimes the most unassuming corners of life hold the greatest significance. Don't miss the chance to bridge generations and gain wisdom that transcends time and space. 🌱✨ 🔈 Listen now to Episode 3: Surviving the Storm: How They Turned Tragedy into Purpose!" You’ll leave feeling more resilient, connected, and ready to take on whatever life throws your way.
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9 months ago
42 minutes 24 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Exploring Parenting Structures Across Generations
Join hosts Dr. Melissa (Gen X), Amber (Millennial), and Zion (Gen Z) as they explore the evolving landscape of family dynamics, from traditional two-parent households to single-parent homes and beyond. With their signature blend of humor, honesty, and generational insights, the trio tackles the stigmas, stereotypes, and surprising shifts in societal perceptions. 🤓😜   From personal anecdotes about navigating different family dynamics to insightful observations about societal shifts, this episode offers a refreshing and thought-provoking exploration of parenting in the modern world. Whether you're a parent, a child, or simply curious about the changing face of families, this episode is sure to spark conversation and foster understanding. Tune in and get ready to sip the tea on parenting structures – it's more than just labels; it's about love, commitment, and raising the next generation. 🧥✨   Tune in next week for another thought-provoking and entertaining conversation that bridges the generational gap one cup at a time.
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10 months ago
32 minutes 55 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Bridging Generations: Parenting Styles Uncovered
"Season 2 of 'What's the Tea with Gen X, Y, and Z' kicks off with a hot topic: parenting! ☕️ In this explosive first episode of season 2, we're diving headfirst into the ever-evolving world of parenting styles across generations exploring how these styles have evolved and their impact on family dynamics. Join hosts Zion, Amber, and Dr. Melissa as they discuss the key differences between authoritative, authoritarian, permissive, and uninvolved parenting approaches, sharing personal experiences and insights.   Open communication and a balanced approach to parenting are key, combining clear boundaries with fostering independence. Building trust and balancing authority with a supportive, friendly relationship are crucial.  
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10 months ago
34 minutes 24 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Dripping or Tripping: Perspectives on Professional Attire?
🎙️ Strap in and spruce up, because Episode 14 of "What’s the Tea with Gen X, Y, Z" is taking a deep dive into the transformative world of professional attire! 👠👔 Join hosts Zion, Amber, and Dr. Melissa as they unravel the threads of how dressing for success has evolved across the generations. From the rigid suits of the 70s to the sneaker-friendly ensembles of today, our trio covers it all with a blend of humor, honesty, and generational insight. 🤓😜 Amber reminisces about high school classes on resume writing and mock interviews, revealing how early education shapes our views on professionalism. Zion explores the shift in business attire norms, noting how today's bright, casual trends contrast sharply with the formal wear of past decades. Dr. Melissa dives deep into the balance between personal expression and workplace decorum, sharing her own experiences with bias and underlining the importance of setting inclusive yet professional standards. From generational perspectives on job interview outfits to the nuanced impact of attire on workplace atmosphere, this episode covers everything you need to know about dressing for success in a modern world. Whether you're a seasoned Gen X professional, a trend-setting Millennial, or a comfort-seeking Gen Z, this episode’s got the perfect fit for you. Tune in and dress up for success – it's more than just fabric; it's about making lasting impressions and setting the tone for the future! 🧥✨
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11 months ago
31 minutes 8 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Friendships or Friend-tanglements
The episode explores how generational differences in language and communication can lead to both connection and misunderstanding, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue and empathy.
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11 months ago
30 minutes 10 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
Navigating Civic Responsibilities :A Gen X,Y,Z Dialogue on Voting
The episode explores generational differences in voting attitudes, highlighting the importance of civic engagement and informed decision-making in a democratic society.
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11 months ago
29 minutes 2 seconds

Whats the Tea with Gen XYZ
The future of AI: Helpful Tool or Terrifying Threat?
The episode discusses the potential benefits and drawbacks of artificial intelligence, highlighting its impact on society and the importance of responsible AI development.
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11 months ago
30 minutes 49 seconds

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