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What Would Love Do?
Jonathon Aslay
300 episodes
1 day ago
The focus of one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.

After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.

He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.

www.JonathonAslay.com

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The focus of one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.

After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.

He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.

www.JonathonAslay.com

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What Would Love Do?
Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love

Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love
I’m pleased to have my friend, author and life coach Marni Battista, on this episode today and we’re here to share a secret…
There are good men to date all around you.
There’s no secret island where they’re all kept. They are not in fear of extinction.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how dating is so much more than strategies and which dating apps are the best.
Let’s talk about…Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 day ago

What Would Love Do?
Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring

Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring
Insecure love often feels like a roller coaster, with plenty of highs and lows. Healthy love is steady and safe, like floating on a still pond.
Without drama and emotional turmoil, healthy love might feel boring, especially if you have bought into the idea that intense chemistry equals a strong relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how healthy love allows you to find peace and grow emotionally while feeling safe and secure.
Let’s talk about…Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 week ago

What Would Love Do?
9 Keys To An Intentional Approach To Love

9 Keys to an Intentional Approach to Love
How many times in the past have you experienced taking your partner for granted? Or maybe it was reversed, where you thought your partner was just along for a ride instead of really deepening your relationship.
Being intentional is how you will find the partner and relationship that you desire.
It’s not about going through the motions of dating; it’s about knowing in your soul what you want in life and learning how to express that to the men you meet in the dating scene.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about setting intentions about the type of relationship we want and knowing how to uphold that high standard.
Let’s talk about…9 Keys To An Intentional Approach To Love
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 week ago

What Would Love Do?
5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns A Man On

5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On
Think back to your childhood. I bet you were raised with the traditional gender roles of the men are hunters and the women are nurturers. Also included in that narrative was the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions or they would be labeled a ‘sissy’.
When you throw in socialization, cultural and religious differences, it’s no wonder so many of us grew up not knowing what a healthy relationship looked like!
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how our old scripts from growing up combined with our external environment plus parental expectations shape our beliefs about relationships.
Let’s talk about…5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 weeks ago

What Would Love Do?
If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment

If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment
Dating is about possibility and exploring a relationship is about potential.
So many people focus on the level of attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical attraction while dating instead of thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with this person.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to change your focus about dating if you really want a long term relationship.
Let’s talk about…If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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3 weeks ago

What Would Love Do?
What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You

What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You
Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant, and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship.
For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing but will eventually fizzle out.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to understand behaviors based on intense chemistry versus real feelings of trust and love.
Let’s talk about…What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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3 weeks ago

What Would Love Do?
Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why

Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why
How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself?
Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life.
My friend Barry Selby is here to explore this concept of emotional intelligence and why some men run away.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why women don’t trust men who run away emotionally and how to stop that run away impulse.
Let’s talk about…Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 month ago

What Would Love Do?
How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips

How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips
Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share.
It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era!
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why people are afraid to speak their truth or fear that their communication style is dysfunctional.
Let’s talk about…How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 month ago

What Would Love Do?
Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS

Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS
Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention.
Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a partner leave the relationship but that simply means they were not right for you.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how you know your guy is a keeper, especially when life throws its curveballs.
Let’s talk about…Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 month ago

What Would Love Do?
Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women

Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women
Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert.
There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always the ones who cheat or do more women cheat than we realize?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what leads up to someone cheating and the ripple effects an affair has on family members.
Let’s talk about…Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 month ago

What Would Love Do?
7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love

7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love
Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true.
Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection happens, that’s what pushes the simple act of sex into lovemaking.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about transforming sex into a sacred act that bonds a couple together.
Let’s talk about…7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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1 month ago

What Would Love Do?
High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth

High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth
Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity.
But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something sticks?
That sounds like wishful thinking instead of having an understanding of what they want in a relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why emotionally available men need a long term dating strategy instead of a short term strategy.
Let’s talk about…High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman

What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman
Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days.
In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal.
But what happens when you decide you want a long-term commitment?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the different stages of commitment and why arranged marriages have a higher success rate than traditional marriages.
Let’s talk about…What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not

Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not
Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for.
Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex?
Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health issues, and a slew of other baggage that is part of our persona.
But all is NOT lost! Love IS possible in midlife so let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to discern if a guy wants a companion or a life partner and how that choice fits into your life.
Let’s talk about…Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships

Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships
Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family.
The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the purpose of a midlife relationship is often very unclear. Do you want someone for companionship or do you want a long term “til death do us part” relationship? And amid those broad terms, what do those types of relationships look like to you?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine what kind of relationship you want and how to express that to current suitors.
Let’s talk about…Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You

Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You
Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right.
But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and chemistry CAN grow over time.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why instant chemistry and attraction doesn’t mean anything without a foundation of friendship.
Let’s talk about…Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women

Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women
Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure.  Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection.
Those who are seeking a life partner instead of just a physical connection show up differently. These are the men who are willing to ask deeper questions than the standard, “How was your day?” They are the ones who hear you when you describe your values and life dreams. They are the ones who reflect on how they can improve life with you instead of shirking responsibilities.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to shift out of short-term mating strategies and embrace getting to know someone on a deeper level.
Let’s talk about…Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common

Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common
Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic.
Let me remind you that no one can do this healing work for you. Ultimately you have to love yourself first, enough to find therapies that help you heal before opening yourself up to another person. Two broken people don’t heal each other; they pull each other under because they don’t know any better.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to shift from transactional relationships to emotionally mature relationships where values and lifestyles blend easily.
Let’s talk about…Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS

Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS
Isn’t it so easy to focus on the negative things in life? I realize that many of my videos sound pessimistic about finding love or how to avoid the wrong person but I really am a hopeful romantic!
In fact, I find great inspiration from real life friends who have found love and I want to spread some of that hope to you today.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how falling in love is a risk worth taking because it only takes one aligned connection to change your life.
Let’s talk about…Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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2 months ago

What Would Love Do?
Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up

Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up
In my experience, it seems as though the most successful couples start off as friends first. So often we’re stuck asking, “Is there chemistry between us?” when we really should just focus on getting to know one another.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to break through that superficial level of attraction and learn if that guy is worthy of being a friend before being a lover.
Let’s talk about…Do THIS To Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
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3 months ago

What Would Love Do?
The focus of one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.

After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.

He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.

www.JonathonAslay.com