In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, we talk openly about what dads really go through during pregnancy and those early months of fatherhood. We shared our personal stories, highlighting the excitement, anxiety, and even feelings of being left out that often come with the territory.
We discussed how easy it is for men to ignore their own emotions while focusing on providing for their family—something that can lead to isolation or unhealthy coping if left unchecked. Both of us emphasized the importance of communicating, not only with your partner but also with other dads who’ve been there, and having a plan to take care of your own mental health.
Ultimately, we encouraged expectant fathers to stay engaged, reach out for support, and not to bottle up what they’re feeling during this huge transition. If you have questions or want to share your own experiences, we’d love to hear from you!
Timestamps00:00 Preparing for Fatherhood Discussion
05:58 Fathers' Financial Concerns and Childcare
06:56 Task-Oriented vs. Emotional Support
12:51 Coping Through Withdrawal and Focus
14:04 Vulnerability to Acting Out
17:10 Planning for Success in Challenging Times
20:41 Unaddressed Attraction Issues Ruin Marriage
23:35 New Fatherhood: The Need for Mentorship
28:34 "Importance of Relationship Building"
32:58 Expressing Men's Hidden Emotions
34:22 Scary Birth Experience Concerns
40:03 Bonding Essentials for New Parents
41:27 Navigating Parenting Routines
44:46 The Importance of Support Systems
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