Ever ask: “Can heartbreak be holy?”  In this soul-stretching episode, I pull back the curtain on heartbreak💔—not just the romantic kind, but the quiet griefs we carry from shattered dreams, life pivots, and unmet expectations.  This is the raw and spiritually deep transformative journey from pain to purpose.  I want you to know that grief, when expressed rather than suppressed, becomes a sacred doorway to healing, wholeness, and resilience. And yes, there's space for emotional health, mental clarity, and divine comfort too.  Remember friend: healing is a choice... and God is near the brokenhearted. Feeling seen yet? Share this episode with someone whose heartbreak needs holy hope. And if you’re walking through grief right now, lean into community and let the healing begin. You can start by tagging me on socials @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Takeaways Heartbreak isn’t limited to relationships—it’s the loss of any dream or reality. Suppressing grief delays healing; expression is powerful and necessary. Integrated wholeness includes emotional, psychological, and spiritual health. Pain becomes purposeful when we use it to support others. Community is a catalyst for healing. Healing is not passive—it’s a brave and faith-filled choice. God cares deeply for your pain, and eternity brings perspective to heartbreak. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/FgUg0xRRPWY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're on a treadmill that won’t quit—always running, always chasing, never arriving? If you're a first-gen firestarter like me, raised with the “work hard or go hungry” grind etched into your bones, this episode is for you. Today, we’re going there. Into the conversation hustle culture doesn’t want us to have. The one about rest. Not the performative kind, but the radical, biblical kind. The kind that reminds us: God never asked us to earn our worth. He called us to Sabbath. This isn’t about ancient rules—it’s about sacred rhythms. Think putting your feet up after a soul-draining week. That’s kind of essential. We’re talking biblical rest, generational exhaustion, and the truth about our identity being tied to production. Spoiler alert: it’s not. In this episode I cover: Why hustle culture has us twisted on productivity and worth What Sabbath teaches us about trust, provision, and identity The 7-year vineyard principle: how rest restores fruitfulness Why saying “no” to nonstop doing is a bold act of faith My personal story of disconnecting from grind culture and embracing rest Let’s unhook our calendars from chaos. Because real rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a declaration. I trust the One who provides. Let me know how you are making rest an essential part of your life by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Books: A. J. Swoboda - Subversive Sabbath: The Surprising Power of Rest in a Nonstop World   John Mark Comer - The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to stay emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world  Wayne Muller - A Life of Being, Having, and Doing Enough  Takeaways Sabbath is a critical part of my life. Our identity is often tied to our productivity. Rest is essential for emotional and spiritual health. The modern work culture is leading to exhaustion. Sabbath is a commandment that brings blessings. We need to shift from a factory mindset to a field mindset. Overworking leads to decreased efficiency and increased anxiety. Finding rest is a way to honor God and ourselves. Our worth is not defined by our achievements. Sabbath is about loving God and enjoying life. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, Home Chef is offering my listeners FIFTY PERCENT OFF and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple  Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/SaqQpsbslbA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder why some leaders inspire while others intimidate? It might just come down to communication style!  In this bonus episode, my sister Jasmine Star breaks down the Communication Animal Wheel, a brilliant framework by Evy Pompouras that helps us understand how different communication styles impact leadership and team dynamics. Whether you roar like a lion or approach with the quiet wisdom of a mouse, knowing your natural style can make all the difference in how you lead, support, and inspire others. Jasmine shares valuable insights on conflict resolution between leadership styles and why clear communication is the backbone of any thriving organization.  She explores: ✨ Healthy vs. unhealthy leadership—recognize the signs and shift toward positive dynamics ✨ Empowering volunteers—turning passion into action and ensuring everyone feels valued ✨ Effective change management—leading with clarity and confidence during transitions Friend, I invite you to reflect on your own communication style and how articulating your needs can strengthen both leadership and relationships. Whether you’re guiding a team, mentoring others, or simply looking to improve everyday interactions, this conversation is full of gems you won’t want to miss. Let Jasmine and I know what your communication animal is by tagging @jasminestar and @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jasmine Star https://jasminestar.com/  Takeaways Leaders often embody multiple communication styles. Empowering volunteers increases engagement and retention. Conflict between leadership styles can be managed through clarity. Mirroring communication styles can improve interactions. Living within organizational means is crucial for sustainability. Building a supportive community strengthens organizational culture. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/HMrFmr5PRj0  ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do leadership decisions today shape the future of a church community? My twin sister Jasmine Star is in the house today! She explores the tension between running a church like an organization while honoring its deeper spiritual purpose by diving deep into church leadership.  Jasmine breaks down what works, what doesn’t, and how leadership accountability shapes a thriving community. We’ll explore: The balance between structure and faith in church leadership Why following well is just as important as leading Essential leadership principles: glorifying God, empowering the team, speaking truth, and holding the line Key Takeaways ✨ Accountability and celebration fuel leadership growth ✨ Strategic structural changes will shape the future of the church ✨ Recognizing your zone of genius can redefine your impact Leadership isn’t just about making tough decisions—it’s about building something lasting. Show Jasmine what you are building by tagging @jasminestar and me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jasmine Star https://jasminestar.com/  Takeaways Emotional intelligence is a critical component of leadership. Honesty and transparency are essential in times of crisis. The focus should be on developing individuals, not just growing the church. Effective leadership requires structural support. Understanding the dynamics of leadership is crucial for community growth. Leaders should operate within their zone of genius. Support structures are vital for sustaining church growth. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/a6JekVQ3wl8 ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ever feel like you're surrounded by a million "likes" and "followers" but still feel completely... invisible? Like, are we just screaming into the void of the internet, or is somebody actually seeing us? And speaking of being seen, has God really noticed all the hard work you're putting in? It's a lot, I know!  In this episode I aim to convey that: You are SEEN by God, especially when you feel invisible. Don't look to people for validation. Go to El-Roi! Even in the desert moments, God is there. Your cry to be seen? God hears it. The next time you feel unseen, turn to God and say, "El-Roi, you are the God who sees me." You are NOT alone, my friend. If this episode touched your heart like a good mariachi song, share it with your friends and leave a review! And don’t forget to tag me @biancajuarezofficial. We need to lift each other up. And remember, God sees you, even when you feel like nobody else does.  Until next time,  B RESOURCES/LINKS Takeaways Feeling alone in a crowd is a common experience. The desire for validation is deeply rooted in human psychology. Leadership can be a challenging journey filled with uncertainty. Hagar's story illustrates the struggle of feeling unseen. Being seen by God can provide profound comfort and validation. The need to be recognized is essential for emotional well-being. Isolation can lead to feelings of anxiety and depression. God's recognition is more important than human validation. The journey of faith often involves waiting and uncertainty. We are all seen by God, even in our darkest moments. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - We’re all better with help. Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇Youtube: https://youtu.be/yUkBYSYAu_Q Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to unlock a life of true blessing? What if I told you the key might surprise you?  In today’s episode, I'm getting real about something that's transformed my life: biblical generosity. I know, talking about money can feel awkward, but I truly believe this message is vital. I want to share with you a conversation I had with my twin sister, Jasmine, that changed my perspective on giving. I'll also dive into what scripture says about generosity and how it's not just about finances, but about a heart surrendered to God. I've seen firsthand how obedience in this area leads to incredible blessings, and I want to share that with you. In this episode, I'm exploring: What the Bible really says about tithing (10% giving) Understanding offerings and generosity that go beyond the tithe The concept of sowing seeds with faith and expectation Sacrificial giving—what it means to give "above and beyond" Why the heart behind your giving matters most How I've experienced blessings through obedience and generosity in my own life I hope this episode encourages you to live generously and to seek those real, deep blessings that come from God. Remember, you're loved, you're valued, and you're doing amazing! Now go make some tacos and be a blessing to someone today!  Have questions or want to share a photo of your tacos, tag me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS A Test To Change Your Life // How To Be Rich // Tithing // Bianca Juarez https://youtu.be/dcDBukciGH0?si=KVB1X2HnIfZI3koe In the Name of Love Ministries https://www.biancaolthoff.com/about/ Takeaways Living a blessed life involves obeying God. Generosity is a key principle in living a blessed life. Tithing is considered the baseline of generosity. Understanding the concept of sowing and reaping is crucial. Generosity should come from a willing heart. Above and beyond giving demonstrates deep commitment. It's important to give with the right intentions. Scripture encourages us to give generously. The act of giving reflects our relationship with God. Living generously can lead to spiritual and material blessings. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's my birthday! 🎉 And to make it special, I wanted to share what's actually been going on in my heart. It's been a journey of realizing, like, really realizing, some big things about my relationship with God.  Have you ever had a teaching moment completely flipped upside down? I’ve got a story for you! I was all set to teach on Luke 11, feeling pretty confident, and then BOOM! Lisa Harper drops a truth bomb that totally flipped my perspective. I.Got.Schooled. In the best possible way. I talk about this and so much more in this episode. I’m also sharing about: Turns Out, I Don't Know It All: The biggest surprise? Realizing how much I don't know. Age doesn't magically equal wisdom, y'all! What's This "Orphan Spirit" Thing?: Ever felt abandoned, alone, or like you're not good enough? That might be an "orphan spirit" talking. It's when we look for validation and provision everywhere but from God. Hello, Sonship/Daughtership!: Claiming my identity as God's child? Game changer. It's about knowing I belong, and you do too! Chatting with God, Like, For Real: I'm learning to be totally honest with God. The good, the bad, the ugly—all of it. The Perks of Being a Child of God: Freedom from fear? Confidence? Boldness? Yes, please! That's what comes with knowing who I am in Him. And Yes, There Will Be Sourdough: Click here for my sourdough recipe. Because, priorities!😉 I do have this one Birthday Wish: Would you guys pray for me as I write my new book on wholeness? I really want to walk in my identity as God’s chosen child and sometimes, well, it’s tough.  Let's keep the conversation going! What resonates with you? I'd love to hear your thoughts. You can tag me on social media @biancajuarezofficial. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Shameless Audacity // Luke 11 // Ask, Seek, Knock // Bianca Juarez Bianca’s Sourdough Recipe ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what truly drives your decisions and actions? What if understanding your core values could unlock a more fulfilling life? In today’s final episode of the Personal Growth Series, we delve into the transformative power of core values and how they can guide you towards purpose and self-discovery.  DeAnza Jarrett and I explore the journey of identifying, applying, and reevaluating your core values for personal growth and stronger relationships. Core values are the fundamental beliefs that shape who we are and how we live. Understanding your core values is crucial, not just for personal fulfillment, but also for building strong relationships and achieving professional success. Don’t forget: Understanding your core values is a lifelong journey of self-discovery Living in alignment with your values leads to greater authenticity and fulfillment Core values impact all areas of your life, from personal relationships to professional success Regularly re-evaluating your values is essential for growth and adaptation Your values can serve as a powerful compass for decision-making Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group. What are YOUR core values? Take some time this week to reflect on what truly matters to you. Share your insights by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Takeaways Core values are essential for guiding decisions and actions. Identifying core values can lead to greater self-awareness. Core values inform priorities, not the other way around. Having a clear vision for the future is crucial for personal growth. Core values can help establish necessary boundaries in relationships. It's important to honor and respect each other's core values. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ YouTube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you running on empty? Like you're giving so much but have nothing left for yourself? What if there was a way to truly refuel and find balance in life? Join my friend DeAnza Jarrett and I for Day 2 of the Personal Growth series as we discuss the essential concept of replenishment – what it is, why it matters, and how to make it a regular part of your life. What I want is for you to walk away understanding the vital concept of replenishment and its profound impact on our overall well-being. Guess what friend… replenishment is not a luxury, it is a necessity for thriving.  This episode is jam packed with actionable steps and practical handles to help you: Understand the replenishment cycle and its relevance to different life stages Identify and prioritize replenishment activities across all areas of well-being (physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual) Acquire Biblical insights on the importance of rest, restoration, and balance Gain strategies for integrating replenishment into daily routines and overcoming common obstacles Recognize the difference between superficial self-care and deep, meaningful replenishment Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group. Join the conversation! Share your own replenishment strategies and experiences by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial. What are your go-to activities for recharging your mind, body, and spirit? Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Free Harvard Courses https://pll.harvard.edu/catalog/free?page=5  Takeaways Identify where you're at before trying to fix it. Replenishment is not just about self-care; it's about refueling all areas of life. Disciplines are different from replenishment; both are necessary. Replenishment can take on different cadences: daily, weekly, quarterly, and annually. Integrate replenishment into your life, even in busy stages. Invite others into your replenishment activities when possible. Make replenishment a priority to avoid burnout. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7EE2jkNEz4NYAuBLViNnEf  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ YouTube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're wandering aimlessly, unsure of your next step? Feeling stuck in neutral, with no idea how to shift gears? Do you get that sense of being on a path, but not knowing where it leads? I invite you to tune in to this 3-day series on Personal Growth to help you navigate life's pivots and gain clarity through life planning.  I am joined by my friend DeAnza Jarrett from the Paterson Group to discuss the challenges faced during pivotal moments in life. Our conversation emphasizes the powerful concepts of personal restoration, rediscovering your identity, and the transformative potential of structured life planning. We explore how pivotal life moments can often leave us feeling lost and adrift, and how the right framework can provide the clarity and direction we crave.  One powerful tool that DeAnza shares with us is the Four Helpful Lists: What is Right What is Wrong What is Confused What is Missing Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group.  We hope this episode empowers you to take control of your journey and create a life filled with purpose and intention. What pivotal moment in your life has shaped who you are today? Share your thoughts by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.  Don’t forget to subscribe to We’re Going There podcast on your favorite platform for more insightful conversations on personal growth and development! Love you friends! B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Takeaways You don't have to navigate life's challenges alone. Restoration requires intentional planning and support. Understanding your identity is crucial during pivot points. Perspective is essential before making any plans. The four helpful lists can clarify your current situation. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7EE2jkNEz4NYAuBLViNnEf  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like your leadership journey was more about enduring pain than achieving success? In this sneak peek of a leadership development session held at Revere Church, I explore the challenges and pain often associated with leadership. It emphasizes that pain can be a catalyst for growth and the importance of developing healthy coping mechanisms. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like David, the session highlights finding strength in faith and building a supportive community. My focus is to encourage everyone to embrace their leadership journey, acknowledging pain, and seeking growth through faith and connection with others. Some key topics include: The role of community during crises Pursuing purpose amidst pain Addressing personal pain The value of trust Balancing discipleship with individual beliefs The impact of presence Finding God's guidance during difficult times can bring peace and help overcome the fear of pain and of having to prove yourself to others. Carefully consider the cost of discipleship, but also know that the rewards of faithfulness are always worth the challenges.  Share your challenges and also your victories by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Leadership Pain: The Classroom for Growth by Samuel Chand https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Pain-Classroom-Samuel-Chand/dp/0718031598  Leading Through Pain | Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast Quote Your vision must push you past your pain. Takeaways Leading through pain is possible and necessary. You are qualified to lead if you show up. Pain is an integral part of growth and leadership. Sacrifice is essential for effective leadership. Your threshold of pain determines your growth potential. Strengthening oneself in the Lord is crucial during tough times. Coping mechanisms can be healthy or unhealthy; identify yours. Building a supportive community is vital for leadership. Vision must be strong enough to push through pain. Change occurs when desire outweighs fear.   The people of God are essential during crises. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/RL0c1i1ZHwM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can silence be a source of healing? Are you ready to embrace the power of silence in your life? Friends, I’m excited to introduce the profound concept of a "theology of silence". I have discovered the transformative power of finding strength in the face of betrayal through stillness and silence. It is so important to learn to share our stories from a place of healing and wholeness, rather than from a position of woundedness. Using the life of King David as a powerful example, I discuss the vital lessons of: Integrity: Maintaining moral and ethical standards even amidst trials. Honor: Honor up, honor down, and honor all around. Surrender: The profound power of yielding to God's will, even in the face of betrayal and challenges. I want to encourage you to reflect on your own journey of healing and consider the role of silence in your lives.  Share your story of how you are overcoming challenges and finding healing and tag and me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Revere Church Honor Anyways // Cesar Delgado // Mark 6:1-6 Quote We honor up, we honor down, we honor all around. Takeaways Sharing stories from a healed place is crucial. Honor others regardless of their behavior. The Lord will fight for you; you only need to be still. Betrayal can come from both authority figures and peers. Integrity is essential in leadership. Silence can be a powerful response to injustice. Love covers a multitude of sins. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're switching things up in 2025 to dive deeper into conversations and more! What to Expect?  Monthly Episodes: Longer, more in-depth conversations on topics God is calling the host to address. Spiritual Growth: Honest conversations and practical handles for navigating life's challenges. My ask is that you pray for me and for the podcast mission. I believe that God is doing a powerful work of transformation through the conversations that are being downloaded.  Don’t forget to share and subscribe. For more information on Revere Church visit: reverechurch.com.  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever found yourself dreading a difficult conversation, unsure of how to approach it without causing more harm than good? This is our last episode of 2024, friends! Join Lauren and I as we dive deep into the art and science of conflict resolution. We explore why conflicts are inevitable and how we can handle them with confidence and grace. Key Highlights: Roots of Conflict Facing Fears Conflict Styles Gender Dynamics The BRAVE Framework Key Takeaways: The importance of understanding and affirming needs during conflicts. Practical tips for voicing your needs effectively without escalating the situation. Embracing discomfort as a part of the conflict resolution process. Ending conversations with clarity to ensure mutual understanding. Join us for an enlightening conversation packed with practical tools and insights that will help you navigate difficult conversations, foster healthier relationships, and promote personal growth. Show your appreciation to my co-host Lauren by tagging us @laurenbronsonpetrous and me @biancajuarezofficial. Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-Host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/about  Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast: Mastering Hard Conversations https://youtu.be/kpRd_NseuDM?si=65R2iNdwLUhMScnt Takeaways Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it makes all the difference. Understanding your values is crucial for effective conflict resolution. Many people avoid conflict due to fear of rejection or misunderstanding. Identifying whether you are a 'turtle' or 'porcupine' can help you understand your conflict style. Conflict is a healthy part of relationships and should be approached with intention. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here. https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/yQMa-g_HZCk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling lost or overwhelmed as the new year approaches? Discover how choosing a "Word for the Year" can provide clarity, direction, and intention for your life. Friends, I’m back with our annual word for the year episode. My heart is to guide you through the process so that you can discover your own word, which I believe will benefit your personal and spiritual growth.  The 5 Steps to discovering your word are: Evaluate: Reflect on the past year, identify areas for growth, and cultivate gratitude. Think: Connect with your feelings and emotions through meditation, prayer, or silence. Create a List: Write down 10 words, images, or feelings that resonate with your vision for the year. Refine: Highlight the words that stand out and evoke strong emotions. Decide: Commit to your chosen word and use it as an anchor throughout the year. I believe that if you invest time in this transformative exercise, your word will be a tool for setting intentions, finding direction, and aligning your life with your deepest values and aspirations.  This is a personal journey. Take the time to reflect, feel, and choose a word that will empower and inspire you in the coming year. And don’t forget to share your word with me on social media by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial. I’m grateful for you and wish you a blessed new year! B RESOURCES/LINKS FREE PDF: 5 Steps To Choosing Your Word https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/p2taw61kbogbo47bfst69/5-STEPS-TO-CHOOSING-YOUR-WORD.png?rlkey=grxejkcaf0sxnm5ibvdnp83g6&st=otajvsbo&dl=0 Quote If we don't reflect on where we've been, it'll be hard to determine where we're going. Takeaways Reflection on the past year is crucial for future planning. Evaluating feelings helps in identifying what truly matters. Creating a list of intentions can clarify goals for the year. Being committed to the process is essential for success. It's important to celebrate blessings from the past year. The word for the year can serve as an anchor during challenges. Engaging in this practice can foster a deeper connection with faith. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here. https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered what your favorite podcast host can't-live-without items are? Yes, I finally agreed to the episode that I’ve been dreading to do - the favorite things episode. In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, Lauren and I got to ditch the gatekeeping and spill the tea on our absolute favorite things. From morning rituals and must-have beauty products to go-to recipes and inspiring books, this episode is a peek into the life of your favorite podcast host and my co-host/BFF Lauren. Join the Conversation! We want to hear from you! Share your favorite things, morning rituals, or dream dinner guests on social media using the hashtag #FriendsDontGatekeep. Don’t forget to tag us @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous and you will be entered to win some of our favorite things! Details below.  Share the love and subscribe, rate, and review the podcast!  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Favorite Things List: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/dv5ds7sqwxf0wqvttksbj/WGT-Ep-177-Favorite-Things-List.pdf?rlkey=pewgctmobkmxvh0vz9mhf9scr&st=u9s3h5mu&dl=0  Giveaway rules: 1. Eligibility: Open to ​​everyone. Must be ​1​2 years or older. 2. How to Enter: Follow: Follow ​Bianca @biancaolthoff and Lauren @laurenbronsonpetrous on ​Instagram account. Like: Like the post associated with this episode. 3. Prize: ​5 lucky winners will receive:  1 Travel-size Grande Lash MD Lash Serum 1 Travel-size Caudalie Face Spray, and 1 "Grit Don't Quit" book. The prize is non-transferable and has no cash value. 4. Winner Selection: The winner will be selected at random. The winner will be notified via ​Instagram direct message. 5. Deadline: The giveaway​ starts on Monday, ​December 2nd​ at 1am PST through ​Monday, December ​9th ​at 1pm PST 6. Additional Terms: By entering the giveaway, you agree to ​I​TNOL's rules. ​I​TNOL reserves the right to modify or cancel the giveaway at any time. ​I​TNOL is not responsible for lost, late, or misdirected entries. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/ESrHfNI14ww Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the hustle and bustle of the holiday season? Let's take a moment to pause, reflect, and focus on the simple joys of life. Gratitude matters and it is more than just a fleeting feeling of thankfulness. It's a powerful practice that can transform your life. By cultivating gratitude, you can: Reduce stress and anxiety: Focusing on the positive aspects of your life can help ease stress and anxiety. Improve your physical health: Studies have shown that gratitude can boost your immune system, lower blood pressure, and improve sleep quality. Enhance your relationships: Expressing gratitude to loved ones can strengthen your bonds and deepen your connections. Increase your overall happiness: By focusing on what you have, rather than what you lack, you can cultivate a greater sense of happiness and fulfillment. Practical Tips to Practice Gratitude Keep a gratitude journal: Write down three things you're grateful for each day. Meditate on gratitude: Spend a few minutes each day focusing on the things you're grateful for. Express gratitude to others: Let people know how much you appreciate them. Volunteer your time: Giving back to your community can boost your sense of gratitude. Practice mindfulness: Pay attention to the present moment and appreciate the small things. I invite you to join us in a gratitude challenge. For the next week, commit to practicing gratitude daily. Share your experiences and reflections with us on social media using the hashtag #Gr8ful. Let's inspire each other to live a life of gratitude and joy. Don’t forget to tag me @biancaolthoff. Wishing you a blessed and grateful holiday season! B RESOURCES/LINKS Takeaways Thanksgiving is a time to embrace gratitude. Desiring more can lead to emptiness and dissatisfaction. Gratitude is a powerful tool for joy and fulfillment. Practicing gratitude can transform our lives. Contentment is not wanting more, but appreciating what we have. Complaining can destroy our sense of gratitude. Gratitude should be a daily practice, not just a holiday sentiment. We are responsible for cultivating our own gratitude. Sharing our gratitude with others enhances its impact. The holiday season is an opportunity to reflect on our blessings. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here. https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=1df497a2742c4ea9  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube: https://youtu.be/q94QT3u_KyE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship? Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages.  We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us.  Some key takeaways are: Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive. Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections. Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end. It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being. Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-Host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4 Resources Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202  Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies  Takeaways Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships. Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends. It's important to evaluate friendships regularly. Friendship requires risk and investment. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships. Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees. Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored. Adaptability is crucial in friendships. Friendship is a choice, not an obligation. Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships. Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=sgf1iKWzQg6QzjEMEvuW2A ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever faced a crisis that tested your resilience and self-awareness? Are you needing to find peace amidst the chaos of significant life changes? Joining me today again is my co-host and dear friend Lauren and together we explore the profound themes of mind shifts, grief, and new beginnings. This episode was very difficult to do, but I opened up about my personal journey through a major crisis following my divorce.  We talk about important topics like: Leadership in Crisis: Bianca shares the raw and real challenges she faced while leading her church through a turbulent period. The Role of Therapy: The conversation delves into the necessity of therapy and its transformative power in processing grief and loss. Resilience and Self-Care: Bianca's journey emphasizes the importance of taking time for self-care and seeking help when needed, providing inspiration for others navigating their own struggles. Identity and Community: The episode highlights the importance of maintaining one’s identity outside of the church and the power of community in fostering personal growth. Intentional Relationships: The dialogue underscores the significance of intentional relationships and leadership development. Finding Peace Amidst Chaos: Bianca discusses her journey of self-discovery, grieving, and finding excitement in new beginnings within her church community. Friend, I want to highlight the importance of community support, self-awareness, and resilience during challenging times.  Let us know if this episode has helped you find strength and hope through adversity by tagging and me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/ Watch the video on Youtube https://youtu.be/hg4QEoHYJyw Takeaways Community support is crucial during challenging times. Leadership requires integrity and self-awareness. Therapy can provide necessary tools for healing. Loss can transform you into a stronger individual. It's important to have accountability in leadership. Navigating crises requires both personal and professional strategies. It's essential to have guardrails around your identity. Grieving is a necessary process that should not be rushed. New beginnings can emerge from grief and loss. Peace can coexist with chaos and uncertainty. Being vulnerable about struggles can foster deeper connections. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option https://amzn.to/3MO74OC ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt lost or alone after a significant life change? Are you ready to find strength and resilience in the face of adversity? In this emotional conversation with my friend and co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous, I share how I’ve had to navigate a significant life change, my experience with divorce and the subsequent journey of self-discovery and healing.  I’ve experienced many challenges while making difficult decisions, but holding on to God's provision and support during tough times throughout the healing process has kept me going. Some of the topics that we will highlight are: Navigating significant life changes The journey of self-discovery and healing The role of faith and community in difficult times Lessons learned from aloneness and personal growth Distinguishing between secrecy and privacy Challenges and healing in the aftermath of divorce The importance of accountability and community support Experiencing God's provision and support Embracing wholeness after loss Friend, change is hard, especially when it is thrust upon you. I want to encourage you to embrace change and growth through life's toughest moments, using faith, community, and self-awareness as powerful tools for healing and personal development. If you are on a similar path to finding hope, let us know by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com Takeaways Faith plays a crucial role in accepting life's changes. It's important to distinguish between secrecy and privacy. You cannot force someone to change; it takes two for a healthy relationship. Healing requires accountability and community support. God can be a provider and protector in times of need. Being alone can reveal deeper truths about oneself. Embracing wholeness is essential after experiencing loss. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices