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We're Dating the Same Guy
Madden Zappa
30 episodes
5 days ago
We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.
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We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.
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EP 23: From Avoidant to Secure: Decoding Men’s Emotional Availability
We're Dating the Same Guy
49 minutes 4 seconds
2 months ago
EP 23: From Avoidant to Secure: Decoding Men’s Emotional Availability

Are you tired of dating emotionally unavailable men? In this vulnerable conversation, sex and relationship therapist Joe Molinari breaks down why so many men struggle with emotional availability and what you can do about it.

Joe shares his personal journey from emotional avoidance to vulnerability, explaining how childhood conditioning creates patterns that pull men away from connection. We explore attachment styles, the dangerous appeal of "twin flame" relationships, and practical steps both men and women can take to create more secure relationships.

Whether you're trying to understand the men you're dating or working on your own emotional availability, this episode offers hope and practical tools for creating the secure love you deserve.


EPISODE TIMELINE:

  • 03:16 - Joe's background and path to therapy
  • 04:44 - What "home" really means in relationships
  • 08:24 - How attachment styles develop over time
  • 12:38 - Why men are taught not to connect
  • 16:24 - Tangible steps to become emotionally available
  • 24:43 - Inside Joe's men's therapy group
  • 29:59 - How attachment influences sexuality
  • 38:29 - The truth about secure people in dating
  • 44:43 - Twin flames: Spiritual connection or toxic pattern?


IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:

  • Why traditional masculinity teaches men to avoid connection
  • How attachment styles show up in dating and sexuality
  • The difference between thinking and feeling in relationships
  • Red flags in "twin flame" dynamics that keep you stuck
  • Practical steps to become more emotionally available
  • How men's therapy groups are changing emotional patterns


"The best thing you can do is learn more to be present to yourself. Learn to connect to yourself emotionally, connect to yourself in a very present embodied way. That is a path towards finding your own security within yourself. And that's the best first step for also meeting other people who are an authentic connection for you." - Joe Molinari


CONNECT WITH JOE:

Joe Molinari is a psychotherapist and coach specializing in sex, trauma, and relationships. Whether working with individuals, couples, or groups, Joe invites his clients to pursue a path toward more presence, authenticity, and a sense of aliveness. Joe brings a deep curiosity about how we connect, overcome, and grow. His approach is collaborative, sex-positive, and full of heart (and usually a bit of humor too). He’s passionate about helping people move from shame and stuckness to connection, pleasure, and a sense of freedom. Whether it’s talking about intimacy, healing old wounds, or finding more ease in everyday life, Joe creates space for the whole messy, beautiful human experience.


Joe's Instagram: @sextherapyjoe

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We're Dating the Same Guy
We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.