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We're Dating the Same Guy
Madden Zappa
31 episodes
12 hours ago
We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.
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We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.
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EP 21: From the Pods to Real Life: David from Love Is Blind on Love, Vulnerability and Life Post Cameras
We're Dating the Same Guy
40 minutes 54 seconds
3 months ago
EP 21: From the Pods to Real Life: David from Love Is Blind on Love, Vulnerability and Life Post Cameras

Dave from Love is Blind Minneapolis gets real about what happens when the cameras stop rolling. In this raw conversation, we dive into vulnerability in dating, trusting your intuition, and how reality TV changed his approach to relationships forever. If you've ever wondered what it's like to fall in love on national television and then learn even more about yourself in the process, this episode gives you a window into all of it.


EPISODE TIMELINE:

  • 00:00 - Introduction: Reality TV obsession & Dave's controversial Love is Blind journey
  • 04:15 - What Dave wishes everyone knew about his Love is Blind experience
  • 09:30 - The bold pod question that went viral: "What's wrong with you?"
  • 14:20 - Most challenging parts of the Love is Blind experiment
  • 19:45 - Why vulnerability is easier when you can't see someone
  • 24:30 - Trusting your intuition vs. listening to family opinions
  • 29:15 - Dave's dating patterns: superficial attraction & dating in reverse
  • 34:45 - What being ready for love actually looks like now
  • 39:30 - Final advice: Know yourself to date differently


IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:

  • What really happened behind the scenes in Season 8 Love is Blind AFTER the cameras stopped recording
  • The dating backwards pattern that's keeping you single
  • Vulnerability depth in dating
  • Family opinions vs. trusting your own intuition in relationships
  • What being truly ready for love actually looks like (vs. societal pressure)

"You can't really be yourself if you don't know who you are. You shouldn't date anyone with the intention of getting married or having a long-term future if you don't fully know yourself well enough." - David Bettenburg


CONNECT WITH DAVE:

David Bettenburg is a 33-year-old Minneapolis native who appeared on Love is Blind Season 8. Originally working in medical device sales (specifically aesthetic procedures), he now works as an Account Executive for legal solutions. Dave's journey on Love is Blind became controversial due to family interference and outside gossip affecting his relationship with Lauren O'Brien. Post-show, he's focused on self-reflection, therapy, and understanding his dating patterns to build healthier relationships.


David's Instagram: @davidbettenburg


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We're Dating the Same Guy
We're Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns, we’re just dating the same guy… over and over again. It’s time to date differently.